₦airaland Forum

crackhouse:
This woman married ojukwu because of his money and status in the society and not because of love.. know this and know peace.

If you knew who Bianca's father is, u wouldn't talk like this... Same with late Stella Abebe that married Obj.

Iyana Yesi that is open almost like Lagos..

All these news from Ogun State?... Funny enough, Ogun State feels safer than Lagos and some other States( I no even know who dey mention Borno) especially Abeokuta.

Nigeria is NOT ready for its Medical personnels eg Nurses.

Nothing to attract then( whether trained in Naija or outside even if it is Observationship/ Volunteering )....

They can't even attract new Nurses with small stipends of N10000 and free small one room self contained houses so at least they serve them while they grow in experience.... But they cry Everytime on SM about Nurses leaving....

Too bad

womenareapezz:
even we men don't find our baboons attractive (naija women)

I keep wondering who the hell are dating those female animals

U must be VERY ugly as your mama is a confirmed ape.

If a man says a woman is an ape, what would a woman say of a man that a fellow man( Charles Darwin) said men are from ape origin?

Na like so one Naija guy in Cameroon say Naija girls no good, I come later see the babe there he impregnated who now bore a daughter for him.... The girl and her mama are almost like ikerebe..... In a bid to spite Naija girls, see wetin he carry...

What an insult to say a Southy man should date/ marry a Nigerian woman... Where will they meet sef? They are very unworthy to untie the shoes of a Nigerian woman...

Many African women are even jealous of Nigerian women and trying to bring them down just like u and the foolish Nairaland boys that could not measure up enough to date a Naija girl ( and thus still very bitter and frustrated).

Many of these African ladies wen Naija men love their bums, na nonsense most go fey cook for them wen dey marry unless they start watching YouTube to learn from Naija women..

Many of these African ladies are not even ad ambitious as our women and they too also like men with money that will spend on them... So, what is the difference?

Nigerian women date Nigerian men or higher NOT lesser especially in Sub sahara n Africa...We may consider North Africans or Cape Verde and the likes though if they are also hard working.

Peace

I hope what mum means by moving out is moving to SCHOOL where she can help with fees etc then u can hustle small too to help yourself?

If we have to use football to rate how lazy/ hardworking Nigerian men Vs Nigerian women are, we all know the answer!

Hush will spend 8 yrs and 3 months, so latest Early 2031 he will be out since 1 yr in prison is just 9 months.

Just the ex convict dent.

Godada:



Since she asked for a date.

It's important you state it clearly you are going dutch.

Having stated this, it's up to her to decline to come.

A date, like I get it, is supposed to be a time for conservation and getting to know each other, not stuffing the face.

While at it. It's expected that as the man, you pick up the the tab.

She is supposed to be moderate in her consumption.

In any case, you got it wrong.

Women, child and pets gets to be loved and pampered. Men get to earn their keep. What a man truly deserves, any man deserves is respect.

Men don't need love but respect.

In any case, this sad campaign against women is pointless.

It's just juvenile and myopic.

You aren't forced to do relationships.

Just stay in your lane.

I have seen women go through life transformation just to birth a life. I have seen the pains of pregnancy. A mother on her way to birth multiple kids, believe me, it ain't a freaking walk in the park.

I have seen pregnant women lose bone mass, blood, nutrients, get all lots of sicknesses at the time of gestation. How about the kicks from the babies.....

Women birth, nurture the world from the cradle to raising kids to preserving lives from the kitchen.

Men, I mean men 47 and above knows that the position of a mother should be respected.

These kids shooting their mouth about being alpha male and being a redpiller just need to grow up.

They need to take a breather

I'm short of words...U may just be a young man with the older generation of men's mindset...

THANK YOU

ObosiUkwalla:
Tilumbu and his coven people have swallowed their first victim.

Wizards will not be allowed to rule Nigeria again. By the way, who killed Funsho Williams?

The guy is mature...

Mere being in a crowded, noisy place can upset some people's body system.... That is y even teachers, their greatest threat is surviving stress/noise/heart attack and the likes.

It is well

culf:
if something is wrong is wrong, we should stop justifying what's wrong no matter the gender.

2years of mourning a spouse is okay

gasparpisciotta:
Men should take care of themselves and enjoy life to the fullest.... most women will move on if you kaput

Men started it now, carrying woman one week after wifey's death....Even when wifey is in labor...

So, don't blame women

Men create non virgins then, one d$nce of a guy Jerome and his likes will be fighting ladies over it....
Innocent girls get abused by men at young age and some turn against men or become addicts in future.

Boys get spoilt minds before innocent girls.

Apart from whatever they want to do, the next President should see industrialization revolution
as a movement in Naija.

Creating job opportunities via policies that encourage industries or even cottage industries should be a priority.... This should go should go by side with the StartUp policy recently launched and used to attract investors.

Getting the power sector and security right especially help will reposition Nigeria better.

Lorine Okotie and Chris Okotie are a
fantastic gospel Artistes... Still have one of Pastor Chris Okotie's music.... One time having one of the 1st 3 most beautiful churches

Panam Percy Paul is a legend with evergreen gospel music.

Our gospel music industry is the best in Africa now...... Gospel music industry is going higher by the day and the Artistes now are more rewarded now than previously.

Pst Kingsley Ike on my mind ... Started @ Bethel ministries a the Choir master.

OK ooo

If Kanye can do the sex fast for this number of days..... Hmmmm

Kamerunpride:
Do you mind elaborating on the social isolation aspect ?! As a Cameroonian , this is the first time for me to hear such a thing

You guys cut off yourselves from Nigerians( your nearest neighbor) apart from others/world, the physical rivers not helping at all.

The Anglophones had issues and didn't care to relate with Nigeria even when they knew that the issue could escalate to creating IDPs in Nigeria and Nigeria/ns being who we are will not turn out backs ( at least rendering some help)....U guys went on and in the end blamed us/ our government for not shielding your leaders.....Taking decisions on your own and expecting us to have solve your problems when u know we don't believe in cou tries breaking up( very difficult to achieve in reality).

Your Artistes( musicians, actors) who are supposed to team up with ours by reaching out to at least show they exist, keep to themselves.

If the Bakassi thing we're to favor Nigeria but we foresaw that it could lead to break in relationship with Cameroon, we wouldn't have minded a 50:50 formula but not the Cameroonians.

Your Customs don't see us as brothers enough and your government isn't doing anything about it though Cameroonians are very friendly and accommodating.

So many things are hidden whereby u only know when u live in Cameroon even if it is good( eg Educational system).

Still cut of from the world maybe because of the way they see life and take life unlike Nigerians.

At least, these are the few I can remember.

ppogba:
Emefiele banned them when he came initially but he reversed the decision later perhaps due to pressure.

Truth is the BDC guys are more powerful than you and I can envisage and Imagine.

BDC guys should be regulated eg if official rate is N300/ $1.... BDC can be N350/$1... Greed will then be discouraged. Also, Emefiele should make dollars readily available

Nigeria's government has tried ... But, seems like a waste as Nigerians can't use the bridge due to Amba wahala and Cameroon Customs charging 60000frs per any trip one makes( ie if Amba allows you ooo)

Nigerians will hold international passport, Covid card, yellow fever card( even resident permit) but still be charged that apart from transport cost and tips through other areas of Cameroon beyond Bamenda. Meanwhile, Cameroonians just hold their National ID Card ( not that of Nigeria oooo), won't bother having Naija's resident permit( even move freely in our country unlike us moving freely , as we must have Cameroon's resident permit or pay money to their Customs) and even if our Customs ask them for 1/6th of what their Customs ask us for Cameroonians to enter Naija, na too much for them.

Cameroonians seem to isolate themselves with their 'numerous' rivers/seas instead of building bridges despite the amount of oil and Bakassi oil they have/ acquired for a country with a population of Lagos. The isolation sef is even socially too( unlike Ghanaians- forget the mouth Ghanaians make..or Beninoises).

If u say u pass through water from Limbe- Idenau, u still pay their Customs 5000frs despite the not too cheap boat ride( low speed boat with engine) which costs minimum of 27000frs ( with life jacket ooo not the 'tube', included is 2000frs for Covid Abi na yellow fever card which u already have)....When, u think that u are approaching home( Naija), get ready for our Customs N5000
( They will clearly tell any lady who doesn't pay that, u will spend the night there with them....so disgusting).... When u arrive Ibaka( our own side of the border), instead of our Customs to tell u Akwaba( welcome in Ghanaian language), na to find fault with your documents ( lol).....Then, foolish thieves go dey find how to over charge u for carriage of luggage eg N3000(lol), u just have to shout at them and pay reasonably. Then, from Ibaka park ( not far from the 'seaport'), u get cars moving to Uyo.

That bridge is from taxpayer's money( VATS, levies etc) which still takes a toll on cost of living as government has to make up or pay back loan for it.... Something it's citizens won't use but risk their lives on water...... Our diaspora madam should be engaging our embassy there to ensure Nigerians can use what they directly/ indirectly pay for.... If not, na water or plane option.... Reason y our people will flock more to Cotonou, Togo, Ghana, Ivory Coast.

Hoping the parents are wiser now especially Chioma

Bobo was supposed to be with her family ooo even if nanny will be there too because, there is a way a mum will be out for long, her family will start calling her and she subconsciously will get used to always checking/ calling to know if all is okay with the child at home..... Even, if she is married, sometimes, dropping bobo with parents wouldn't be a bad idea unless she no get people.....Leaving your only son in the midst of careless, drinking, smoking, loud music adults with the senseless excuse that one nanny dey there is a NO NO for me.....Though Davido is a caring dad .....but we know even a man not married to a woman who didn't want the child initially and wants to look responsible before the world does not need closeness to that child as the human heart is dark....

Davido just be like say he set trap for his boy with that pool maybe unintentionally...

I can't imagine not calling out the name of a child I have not seen for 15 mins( e too long sef), knowing how mischievous children can be especially boys.

Chioma needs to be more sensitive spiritually....Bobo was 'marked' already but noting that prayers wouldn't do....No more kids ooo till marriage, let Davido really prove he loves her first....

Chioma's family will be angry/ sad at the same time...Na Chioma go still do work ooo as she is now on reverse gear 1,... Anyway, now is the time to prayerfully see if she has a future with Davido....

May God heal everyone involved including the Nanny who might also be having feelings of guilt....

chris51:
I agree with you completely. Respectable Kings normally go for innocent girls for marriage. Not these ones. Very distasteful choices

Innocent girls and class ( successful women)don't usually go together, u must pick one.

Same way xrays( including Indian ones) scanned the late Yoruba comic actor and saw hard substances but no physical evidence by virtue of his 'defecating' them. And those NDLEA bring bad guys left him like that for 1 month+ since he said he was innocent....

May desperation for money not push us into doing things that can harm our very own lives.

Bigchristo:
The Ifa priest Dey talk nonsense, that boy died out of negligence of the mother, Ifeanyi is too small to be left to Nannie’s to be taking care of him those Nani wey go dey press phone forget say person Dey exist, children are too smart most especially when you show them some certain areas of your house they will likely visit there when you are not around, couple of days back I saw Davido n his son in the same pool that boy must have like the taste of such trips and want to get a swim not knowing he will die. May his soul Rest In Peace

People may not agree but, I would have preferred Ify being with his mum's people even if there would still be nannies, at least no swimming pool will be there.

Even if u need to put swimming pool, I think the foldable, trampoline type which is filled with water when u need it is better, at least an adult will be around to do this and u can control the amount of water to fill

Na Chioma lose pass as na only she know wetin her eye see to carry Ify for 9 months and to birth him.

Reason y baby mamaism shouldn't be encouraged... too many rivals.... Apart from jealous persons.

Chioma needs to be more prayerful though she was trying to bring oga close to church.

Na so dem allow my small husband go like DAT. .. Too bad.

Insisting on this plus other Islamic friendly policies on a secular country like Naija almost rubbished Sanusi's good record.

Romanoff:
This.

If you know anyone with a toddler or two, just be hugging them when you see them.

Even with close supervision, these little angels will outsmart you, before you know it, they have strange things in their mouths, beads in their nose or ears, powder all over the floor, cream all over their body.

Some will even push their chair to the shelf where you keep medicines so they can steal multivitamin syrups.

Then those who have two under two or two under three, na God know how them dey do am.

It's so sad, the care givers failed him, the other occupants of the house failed him.

No one with a toddler should have a pool, open or closed.

And no parent can play the role of the Holy Spirit, with 24/7 watch over a child. More reasons to be very prayerful when u have kids and some are so adventurous.

Saturday 29th, I dreamt my premolar/ molar tooth 'plucked' out and I have been a bit restless and prayerful too. A dog too cried the night before.... Both are ominous signs

Why this mistake? If at all any swimming pool in the house, let it be the fillable type after opening the swimming 'trampoline'

RIP Ifeanyi.... Consolation to his parents

Ooni dey vex oooo

Now, he wouldn't have time for any woman complaining, he will just move to the next .... Besides, he can never be a widower.

I hope these women know that if anything happens, they cannot easily move on ?

Anyway, good luck to them.... Different people with different perspectives to life.

Any distress call number for fire emergencies?

Skyonebaba:
Changing of currency may not bring the solution to Nigeria's problem but it will help CBN alot , imagine what those that stacked billions of naira in their homes will do , just watch from next you will experience too much cash circulation and there will be scarcity of dollar

But CBN's boss created the problem( hoarding in dollars) in the first place when he got the Naira nose diving.

Let him solve the problem of devalued Naira because if after spending so much and the Naira is still at N300( N500 at parallel market), the same problem will be repeated

tuoyoojo:
I need to be schooled

It is extrapolated that by redesigning the currency , corrupt politicians , looters, kidnappers would be forced to bring out there share of 3 trillion not domiciled in banks

So what stops these people from changing their old naira notes to into dollars in bureau de change , wait for the new notes and change it back to the new notes


Someone school me pls

And they only need to go to the Black market( especially road side) to do that in bits....May even go to Cotonou to change some to cfa first to reduce suspicion.

darediamond:
May God Bless You For This Eye-opening Question Which I Will Reply To As : Borderless Currencies Arbitrage Or Exchange.

But it is not a Business but rather A WAR EVERY NIGERIAN YOUTH FROM THE S.W, S.E and S. S must start Rigth now.

What you will be doing is to Take Naira in whatever amount you can afford out of Nigeria to Neighboring African countries like Cameroon if you are from the East and South South and or Benin Republic if you are from Southwest. But you can use others as Buffer too. Now on getting to your prefered west African country, change the naira to local currency as in Naira to Cefa, then from Cefa to Dollars using Mobile Wallet or Traditional Bank.

United Bank Of Africa and Eco Bank Of Nigeria are nearly in all West African and East African Nations.

You can simply as well deposit Naira in your Nigeria domiciled bank account and use your Atm card to withdraw AT THE BORDER, in local currency thereby buying the foreign currency at BANK RATES.

For further clarifications 0seven060five seven 8569 is available to you.

Cameroon cfa to dollar is similar to our N750 for $1.

1000cfa=1015 or 1020 Naira

No matter if u were previously a genius, once u join APC government, one becomes a dunce.

What Nigerians need now( economically) are saving the Naira from devaluation, easy access to forex by cash and via all cards( Naira and Dollar card), easily able to use cards abroad, easy transfers outside Naija eg Western Union etc, curbing inflation....

Rather, CBN governor is busy speaking grammar, trying to redesign the Naira, preaching e- Naira that we are already into( the only thing is to make sure shop owners, petty traders have POS payment system to accept cards which transfers money into their accounts).

So far the worst CBN governor just because of greed and to please his bosses, he prefers this to a good name that will stay forever