Travel › Re: I'm Frustrated With My Life In America...please Don't Judge by sharpwriter(m): 4:59pm On Jan 29, 2025 |
12inchess: Thanks for all the advises so far. First let me clear some assumptions. I got married before I moved to the U.S and my wife came to join me a year after. Secondly, I didnt cut off all my friends in Nigeria. Most of us simply drifted apart. Many have also relocated to different countries abroad. Thirdly my major problem is just a feeling of emptiness and sadness which leads to depression. Fourthly I'm doing a fairly decent job in the U.S
Thanks! Advises? I have read about this abroad depression and loneliness from many places and forums but I guess we here in Nigeria can't understand perfectly unless witnessed first hand. I have read people said some ran mental due to abroad stress and that the depression eats at the brain. Well, you people understand better, and I sympathize with you. Personally, I'm not a fan of abroad childish excitements, however, you may consider what someone said up there by moving to somewhere like Texas where there's more sun and Nigerian communities. Maybe not as easy as I've put, well, you know better. But I sense you're at the edge of calling it quits with the foreign land and damning whatever consequence such decision may bring. Now, whatever you do, PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU SECURE A DECENT JOB HERE in Nigeria before calling it quits totally. |
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie Declares Himself A Hardcore Traditionalist!� Dumps Christianity by sharpwriter(m): 4:10pm On Jan 29, 2025 |
kokoA: Mid life crisis. Anytime I see this term, I dey laugh wella. No mind the guy, na clown. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Have You Dated Your Boss Before? by sharpwriter(m): 11:13am On Jan 29, 2025 |
Theta1: My experience is different, I was approached by my boss, I know she will sack me if I rejected her and needed the job to pay bills. On the other hand I know it is wrong to date my boss. I tried to apply to other places for up to a 2months and no luck, so I have to accept and date her. Though not that bad because it is only for sexual pleasure and not something serious What was her age range? Just asking for personal observation and research. |
Crime › Re: Breaking: Notorious Kingpin Bello Turji Arrested by sharpwriter(m): 8:07pm On Jan 28, 2025 |
Rotji: I'm still waiting for confirmations as they claimed it was Vigilantes that got him. Too good to be true, but fingers crossed Lol... Someone looking as if he's invincible. If this is true, it's corroborated once again that Fulani government na truly olórí burúkú government. |
Romance › Re: Wife Handles Husband Like A Child, Repeatedly Tells Him To Shut Up by sharpwriter(m): 7:50pm On Jan 26, 2025 |
AllBlack: And the people on social media HAILED HIM FOR SHOWING RESTRAINT LIKE A REAL MAN. 😂🤣 Because na abroad... I saw this video last year. |
Sports › Re: Photo Of Victor Osimhen Vs Four Konyaspor Players That Got Fans Talking (Photo) by sharpwriter(m): 4:28pm On Jan 26, 2025 |
Softmirror: Osimhen is one of the very few who have proved his under 17 glory. This comment is so much on point. |
Crime › Re: Anambra Government Demolishes Kidnappers’ Den Disguised As Hotel (Video) by sharpwriter(m): 11:35am On Jan 26, 2025 |
b0rn2fuck: somebody releasing 100 cows for burial ceremony and 1 billions for burial z you think na ordinary eyes, even otedola dey careful with lavishness and Dangote...and one small boy wey no reach 40 become billionaire without unknown source of income disturbing the town Who is the person? Hundred cows keh? |
Romance › Re: Does Viagra work? by sharpwriter(m): 6:22am On Jan 26, 2025 |
MrCork: Somebody told me to ask.....PLEASE ADVISE?  Best used on an empty stomach. After the effects have kicked in fully between 45 mins to one hour, you can eat. |
Romance › Re: My Helper Wan Fuvk Me – A Lady Decry (photo) by sharpwriter(m): 6:17am On Jan 26, 2025 |
flokii: The first comment tho.. Uche say make she off pant make helper fit see road  That Uche na werey  |
Romance › Re: My Helper Wan Fuvk Me – A Lady Decry (photo) by sharpwriter(m): 6:14am On Jan 26, 2025 |
Kobicove: So what does she want us to do about it?  To drag the helper  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mexico Blocks U.S Military Plane From Landing With Deportees (Photos) by sharpwriter(m): 5:13pm On Jan 25, 2025 |
Movie title: Showdown in Mexico: Clash of the forces.  |
Romance › Re: Court Fines Lady ₦150k For Failing To Visit Boyfriend After Receiving ₦3k TP by sharpwriter(m): 5:07pm On Jan 25, 2025 |
 Shall we call her a yahoo girl?🤔😁 Magistrate don see scapegoat... No longer business as usual 😄 |
Politics › Re: 5 Days Later & Bola Tinubu Of Nigeria Is Yet To Congratulate President Trump by sharpwriter(m): 2:44pm On Jan 25, 2025 |
Kafirbigot: If Tinubu talk to Trump...
Trump go remember him file..  You are in the spirit jare. As funny as it seems ... little little fears like this creeps into human minds  |
Politics › Re: Relocating Abroad Is A Mistake ! - Reno Omokri (video) by sharpwriter(m): 2:31pm On Jan 24, 2025 |
sirchim: Very nonsense man, with no single atom of integrity. Rhino OmOKRO Mai surutu, aka anywhere bele face, Mai feri gaimu. I no even know maybe na sapa or lack of attention fully bring am out. His former displays right from Buhari era till now shows that he's worse than Fani Kayode. Siblings in stomach infrastructure! Any where food dey, anyhow people  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Doesn't Need Canadian Energy Or Cars - Trump by sharpwriter(m): 7:27am On Jan 24, 2025 |
Codes151: if your network No work comot am. I messaged you since. On your number !
You get data to argue on nairaland but your business WhatsApp Dey off.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Police Raid God Deliverance Apostolic Church Port Harcourt, See Python, Coffin by sharpwriter(m): 4:28pm On Jan 23, 2025 |
Bwanasaraw: How they manage to shout " In Jesus Name" in those alters during prayers amazes me Exactly, this is my problem with people. Dem too get mind. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Police Raid God Deliverance Apostolic Church Port Harcourt, See Python, Coffin by sharpwriter(m): 4:05pm On Jan 23, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: What Does She Mean With This Phrase? by sharpwriter(m): 3:41pm On Jan 23, 2025 |
gasparpisciotta: She is comparing your “gbola” to that of her new catch hence the “anaconda” and the “worm” And to be hung like a field mouse is still comparing your “gbola” to that of a mouse.
My guy delete her number make she no give you hbp 🤝 Lol |
Sports › Re: Victor Boniface Breaks Up With Girlfriend After She Refused To Sign Prenup! by sharpwriter(m): 6:26am On Jan 23, 2025 |
Nice one! Olè ọmọ òyìnbó. Ó ń wá ẹni tó máa sọ di olórí burúkú. |
Crime › Re: Woman Kills Her Newborn Baby Due To Dislike For Her Husband by sharpwriter(m): 7:17pm On Jan 22, 2025 |
CapitalBank: You are stupidly attributing this to terrorism when you should learn something about the female nature. That is the danger of dating and marrying a woman that has no feelings for you. In some cases, it would be something different. When a woman does not have feelings for you and you force her, a lot of things can go wrong in your life as a man. It is like signing your own death warrant. And you are foolishly ranting based on the assumption that my comment only suggests such could happen only via terrorism issue. So you actually expect me to list in details various ways why such could happen, because you're my examiner abi? Dey get sense abeg, it would have been better tendering your opinion maturely, or better still, read and waka pass. |
Crime › Re: Woman Kills Her Newborn Baby Due To Dislike For Her Husband by sharpwriter(m): 1:24pm On Jan 22, 2025 |
 Maka why  Is the baby a product of terrorists  |
Romance › Re: For Guys: Is Life Better With Or Without A Girlfriend? by sharpwriter(m): 9:09am On Jan 22, 2025 |
koladata: To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy, one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness.
In summary either you have a girlfriend or not, you will suffer. Lol.... Your weed is strong  However, you're right! Good and evil, light and dark to create a balance. |
Events › Re: Man Dumps Enugu Bride On Wedding Day Because His In-Laws Scammed Him by sharpwriter(m): 10:14pm On Jan 20, 2025 |
Sharpsharp00123: the first one u explained there is greed n I can bet it's an Igbo wedding Lol... Nay, it happened in the centre of south west. I don't wanna mention the town. Note that I'm a southwesterner too. |
Events › Re: Man Dumps Enugu Bride On Wedding Day Because His In-Laws Scammed Him by sharpwriter(m): 9:17pm On Jan 20, 2025 |
 lol Most times people underrate the blessings of being able to do wedding smoothly without any or much drama (physical or spiritual). I have seen in laws adamant to handover daughter because e remain one goat to be given by the groom. Even the bride cry tire dat day. The Chief brides maid sef, na rain beat am comot the place  I have seen whirlwind scatter a wedding programme before it was brought to control by prayers  This one now na one person e happen to. If we hear am, e go dey be like lies. Makes it look like movie scene. Truths are indeed stranger than fiction  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Daniel Oghenerukevwe: Suspended Catholic Priest And His Bride In The US (Photos) by sharpwriter(m): 8:07pm On Jan 19, 2025 |
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Crime › Re: Yomi Adetula Murdered In Church By Assassins by sharpwriter(m): 6:22pm On Jan 19, 2025 |
Christ4ever: "They first shot him but the bullets did not penetrate him,” one resident told FIJ. “They then proceeded to inflict fatal wounds on him with their other weapons, which include hammer and machete. From the way they operated, it’s clear they were hired assassins.”
I laugh when all these small kids say there is nothing like jazz.
Well, there is jazz. There are demons, spirits, etc. There is Devil There is God. Know this and know peace. Are you insinuating that every fortification and protection like this always have demons /devil in charge of it? |
Politics › Re: Bello Turji on the run, son killed as Military strikes offensive in strongholds by sharpwriter(m): 12:36pm On Jan 19, 2025 |
Mrexcell: Whatever gains tinibu's govt makes in reducing the activities of these bloodthirsty terrorists will still be reversed once a core northerner becomes president so the circus continues until nigeria is either divided or restructured. Same thing I told someone few days ago. |
Politics › Re: Bello Turji on the run, son killed as Military strikes offensive in strongholds by sharpwriter(m): 12:34pm On Jan 19, 2025 |
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Food › Re: This Is Tuwo Shinkafa: One Of The Most Popular Swallow In Northern Nigeria by sharpwriter(m): 10:56pm On Jan 18, 2025 |
free2ryhme: To prepare: boil your rice with enough water till very soft, then mash or blend it smooth. Shape into balls, and it's ready to enjoy. It’s a go-to for both everyday meals and big celebrations. You can’t go wrong with Tuwon Shinkafa! To me that's waste of time and gas. Just take a bowl/mudu or more of uncooked rice to the mill. Grind it to powder, it becomes rice flour. Store it at home. Whenever you want to prepare it, do it like semo and prepare it, that's all. Very fast and looks better. Note: some people do add like 3 to 5 spoons of normal baking flour to it so that it can be a bit stretchy and firm. But it's not compulsory. |
Politics › Re: Yahoo Boys Open Fire On EFCC Operatives, Kill One, Injure Another by sharpwriter(m): 2:28pm On Jan 18, 2025 |
I foresaw this long ago so I'm not surprised. It could get messier. And when it happens, would be likened to NDLEA vs Drug Barons kinda fight. |
Travel › Re: Which Country Can One Migrate To With 7m. I Have A Bsc In Sociology. by sharpwriter(m): 8:42pm On Jan 16, 2025 |
IronCondemned: Bitter and envious soul. That's who you really are. Shut up! You no get sense.... I no know how person go dey envy another person on faceless forum. Person wey I no know him level, appearance, or steeze. Him no use money collect my gf or bully me and I go dey envy am? Social media being what it is, the story could even be false. Go and learn logic, you need sense.
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Travel › Re: Truck Crashes Into Building, Kills Family Of Nine In Benue by sharpwriter(m): 6:22pm On Jan 16, 2025 |
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