₦airaland Forum

Beuberry:
Man wey sabi. A faithful man ll gain the most loyal woman.
Sore loser Boyd on this forum won't be able to gain this type of love.
They must be in perpetual pains of no real love. One of them is crying here: https://www.nairaland.com/7932311/lack-commitment-women-killing-me/1

Jeon:
Wher unah dy see relationship self?


This is the real reason why you made an approach. If not, you would've been gone for a long time.

Cloggym:
Before her, I wasn’t sex starved. I didn’t start dating her cos of sex. We talked for a month and I felt some connection. I actually like her.

CoronaVirusPro:
Divorce!

Whalis:
I will raise hand for Sim if he maintains his moves and wins a second term. Izi Ali kele nu iwhurohna?

vanitybutiwanti:
you know nothing about Rivers state, did Odili produce a successor? Did Amaechi produce a successor? Watch and see how the game unfolds in the coming days and stop trying to lump Rivers with your underperforming Igbo states.

Whalis:
Bros fave your Igbo states. Rivers State is not an Igbo state. There is no indigenous Igbo in Rivers State. This is a political disagreement and can be settled within them.

vanitybutiwanti:
Which speaker, you guys are always on the losing side. Edison is on the run and wike still has 27 members out of 31 loyal to him. How would removal through the court benefit LP, you're very daaft, LP didn't even come third in Rivers governorship election.

Edison is not fighting wike, he's fighting the PDP bigwigs in Rivers, he'll lose woefully, he allegedly burnt the house, he will be arrested and heaven will not fall, watch and learn

Exceed15:
But a wife can ruin her husband and inherit everything for herself. Ur comment shows you are a toxic person. I pity whoever marry u

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

Goodlady:
To butress the op, Nigerian men lacked empathy. Empathy ll place them in the position of not questioning a lady that they are dating or married about finances, gifts, sex etc.
They don't realise that relationship is responsibility. They ll say what your father can't give you, you dey ask from me.
Why you come toast me (woo)?
As I come gree, am I not entitled to your resources?
They also lacked empathy of hurting their wives or female partners deliberately with cheating. They don't put themselves in women's shoe that how ll I feel if she's the one cheating?
Abeg make I no tok talk in order not to be misquoted. 😂 😂 😂😂😂😂😂💕💕😘😘😘😘😂
The violence is needed for cleansing of the minds of the reprobate dirty boys here that can't feed themselves but talk anyhow here against females.

decatalyst:
In most cases, it means more responsibilities and stress for the guy.

Let's not even talk about finances, he may not be ready to provide the needed leadership responsibilities for you and your siblings...it could be draining emotionally and financially.

It's a real man that looks beyond this and go for what he wants.

FarSide:
The fear shaa. I just can't stand it. For the past two weeks I've been trying to muster courage for this but no way.
I wanted to do it last week Wednesday but when I got close to the hospital, I lost every courage in me, I had to change direction, entered a cool joint, took some bottles of beer and headed home.
I just wish someone can drag me there but I can't confide in anyone Incase if it turns out positive

Jennyclay:
Oh no!! Not again .

Another animalistic behavior from these nonsense men! Her only crime was to fall in love with this animal

If anyone believes this cheap lies, then he/she needs to go for mental evaluation

I’m so sure the heartless boyfriend killed her for ritual reasons, i mean that’s the latest trend

now. ”killing of girlfriend”

Bunch of murderers!!
Bunch of rapist!!
Evil men!!
Heartless men!!
Wicked men!!

Honestly I don’t even know what to say again!!!
I hate men!!

Jennyclay:
Her only crime was to fall in Love .

Nigerian men are chronic liars, serial killers and rapist!! . Honestly I hate men!!

By now this animal should being sentenced to death ASAP but it’s like they are about to treat him like a celebrity .

I’m so pissed off!!

StOla:
Did he ever withhold his CSU certificate?

Is INEC not in copy of it?

Did Atiku not challenge it as forged, only to be disgraced in America?

EmperorCaesar:
Another fruitless chase

Atiku has failed more times than Thomas Edison and Abraham Lincoln already

StOla:
What is there to release when he has already presented what is required it to INEC?

Or is it not INEC other candidates submitted their documents to?

StOla:
Who ever said it was a requirement?

Was Tinubu supposed to meet the requirement of those he defeated or the requirement of INEC that he had met with the valid certificate for his highest qualification that he presented?

All Igbos are pained about losing to a Yoruba man, else, shouldn't this hypocrite be asking Peter Obi why he was ashamed of presenting his UNN Bachelor's certificate to INEC and the
mandatory NYSC certificate?

ganisucks:
CSU staff member: "It is a Nigerian thing to forge stamps of organizations”.

I don't want to believe someone actually said this. If true, Atiku's lawyer should have slapped him. How dare you say something derogatory and racist like that.

The deposition is currently ongoing, and things so scandalous are being leaked. God help us.

JASONjnr:
Say no to cultism....