₦airaland Forum

Let love lead

I only posted this here for traffic, it has nothing to do with politics.

Good day everyone!!

Looking back at what happened on Sunday after the Euro 2020 final, it dawned on me to pen this down.

The abuse, racism, insults been directed at the black players who lost their penalty kick in the final would have been same or even worse if it were to be the Nigerian national team. It beats my imagination to how people stoop this low.

This note is just to point out our hypocrisy as we continue to lash out at the white folks for being racist. We need to look deep and realise we are worse, we do same and even more to our brothers.

Just imagine the reaction if it were three south easterners/ Northerners that lost their kicks.

If it were easterners, they would be picked on and insulted and if it were also Northerners it would have been same. Words like "Aboki go be Aboki" would have been all over nairaland.

I remember an age grade tournament (U-20) few years back, the team didn't perform up to expectations, the blame didn't go to the coaches neither were they directed to some players that performed below par. The anger and resentment was unleashed and was recited all over nairaland that it was cause the team was full of "Aboki".

Beyond politics, sports is one the that should be followed without resentment or tribal superiority. We all are guilty and no matter how we blame the northerners, it's still doesn't change the fact we do same or even worse if in their shoes.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
I disagree....


All she listed here can be classified as societal ills which is not alien to Nigeria.... go to USA there are gangsterism , we saw violent Trump supporters that invaded the Whitehouse, traffic offenders, go to Spain you can find Catalan people agitating for referendum....

All what she said is correct. Every country has the ability or tendency to be a Nigeria but they have a strong system stopping it. There are check and balances!! This shows majority (or lets say a very high percentage) knows the ills of such display. Those in government are a product of our society. You do not expect a lawless and corrupt society to produce a corrupt free government. Most Nigerians do not hate corruption, they just hate the fact they aren't benefiting from it. Once a Nigerian benefits from the corrupt system, he calls it "been smart", "grace", "luck".

Why do most Nigerians travel out of the country and still engage in all sort of crimes?

Sunnycliff:
There's no justification whatsoever to rape a girl. Even if she's walking nude on the highway. We are humans and not animals

It's high time we all realize not everyone is human. You just have to be very careful. I saw a sign post in a Hollywood movie which states "Drive like you're the only sane person on the highway". It's just the truth, we build our houses with fence for a reason, lock our doors at night, hide our money in a safe lock or a bank. The fact remains they are our personal property and no one has the right to intrude or take them forcefully, but we still put in measures to restrict or reduce the risk of that happening. That's also what dressing decently does, it doesn't stop rape outrightly, but you still have to put in some measures and notake yourself vulnerable.

Like I said before, not every one in human form is human, some are gone, some are into drugs, some have their minds polluted, some are demonic,vile, evil. Freedom of movement doesn't guarantee walking at odd hours or restricted places.

A woman's body is hers and hers alone.

PlayMaker14:
Bro, Penalty is a game of luck, but if there's anyone with bad luck in that team, it should be Harry Kane...

He always try to put in his best at any tournament but gets unlucky in every finals.

And painful thing is that the English FA gave him the captains armband when he clearly lacks the leadership qualities.

Don't know why an inspirational Jordan Henderson was stripped off the captaincy, maybe because of injuries.... But I would have preferred they give it to someone like John Stones or Raheem Sterling who knows how it feels to lift a trophy.

You were making sense till you mentioned "John stones" or "Raheem Sterling"

Amaechi2023:
belloti never looked composed oo.
from his looks, he was destined to miss that pk.

It was so obvious he was going to lose. He looked out of it and then the camera zoomed in to his face, then I knew he was definitely going to miss!! And he did

godlessmind:
It's so funny how africans claims to be christians more than the actual slave masters that brought it

The Bible and Qur'an is a nonsense books that supports all manner of wickedness and You have the audacity to talk about banning of football.....

I thought you were intelligent. Clearly looking at his statement and him starting with "even though I'm a Christian" didn't give him away to been a troll? Or definitely not what he says he is

I still go to church but I left the work force. Can't continue to worship with grudges. Everyone acting like a boss, ego and pride flying around, rules been broken for some people without punishment while others gets punished for same or lesser act. Preferential treatment to some people. Wo e plenty

Godada:
Keep your fingers crossed. We will see

One should be made a pundit just cause she risked her job to watch her game? not because of her on field experience or vast knowledge in football. No media house will do that. The best they can do is to invite her for an interview.

Godada:



I feel she should be given a job as a pundit on one of the numerous tv stations where she could do a job that she is passionate about.

Such patriotic gesture should not be swept under the carpet.

Her boss must have been livid and couldn't help but fire her ass. I have had to deal with such workers though. I didn't fire them on the spot but until I got a capable replacement

A job as a pundit just cause she risked her job to watch a game?

Madmohamed1:
don't mind the man. So because of one man he condemned all the igbos. What is business of Igbo and what kanu said five years ago. Omokori is just looking for attention if not why bring in wike Amaechi ad odiri into his this. Is like someone just gave him Brown envelope to write this nonsense agenst ndigbo and MNK. I don't trust that man fake pastor.

Show where he condemned igbos.

DWJOBScom:
I don't think the OP listened to her story.
An amateur lawyer will even do better.
First they have been seeing each other for 4 months - not a prostitute arrangement but a relationship.
Next she said NO and he raped her!
He locked the door and hid the key - why??
They was a physical fight when he pushed her against the wall before she ran to the kitchen out of fear.
Remember he is a former amateur boxer which makes the suspect vulnerable hence she had to defend herself.
After the second stab on the victim's neck , there was a struggle with the knife where she got cut on her hand and the final stab on his stomach. She acknowledged he was weak from stab to his neck that the knife slipped off his hand and dropped to the ground which gave her the strength to subdue him and stab him the third time.
She took out time to change her cloth , look for the key and left the apartment.

He shouldn't have locked the door!!

The documents found during her arrest is not relevant to the case since you don't have a proof she got the apartment using them.

Has Jesus loves you as signature and goes on to spit gibberish. Recounting every bit like you were there. Holding and believing a confessed murderers word for it against a dead man that can't speak for himself.

So her story is the truth and that's how it happened? Just cause chidimma said so?

Isn't it so obvious she's trying to use the rape and physical assault to gain public sympathy? Trying to have a soft landing.

Otar:
My pastor once told the story of how he was invited to preach at a white garment church, and when he got there with his immaculate suit and tie, he decided to remove his shoes before entering even without them mandating him, and he is coming from a new covenant Church. And he said something powerful: you never disrespect things that some people hold sacred regardless of whether you believe in it or not. For people will first gauge the level of respect you show them before accepting whatever you have to offer.

If you're planning an upcoming building project and don't have good designs yet or not satisfied with the ones you have, then contact me for professional and complete building designs and construction supervision at any location nationwide, all at decent costs. (I've handled building designs for over 100 projects plus construction) Chat/call 0816 1247 898 to begin today

You are � correct. As a photographer and videographer, I remember going to cele so many times and no one told me to go in bare foot. I was only bothered about my foot wear been stolen. Any time I was less busy and they were doing something significant like kneeling and facing all angles while shouting hallelujah, I had to join them to kneel but I wasn't saying whatever they were saying.

It felt awkward been the only one standing.

There were also some places people not putting on garment weren't allowed to step on and I was always careful and had to ask if or when I got confused.

I'm a profound photographer and videographer. Young and creative photo and video editor, also very vast in photo manipulation. I make photo frames and also photo book. I'm also very renowned in digital art, illustration and cartoon. contact- 08103249342

I'm a profound photographer and videographer. Young and creative photo and video editor, also very vast in photo manipulation. I make photo frames and also photo book. I'm also very renowned in digital art, illustration and cartoon. contact- 08103249342

I'm a profound photographer and videographer. Young and creative photo and video editor, also very vast in photo manipulation. I make photo frames and also photo book. I'm also very renowned in digital art, illustration and cartoon. contact- 08103249342

Ceteris paribus!! Que Sera Sera

Princess has every right to be furious. Only she and the girl knows where the shoe hurts!! The only issue I have is her using the young girl as a bait to garner evidence. The trauma the little girl had to go through just cause mama wants everyone to see.

But if she hadn't done that, how will anyone believe her?

It's a sick and crazy world and she needed proof. If not, our social media jury would have squashed it.

I pray and hope they both heal and Justice is served. May God protect us all.

Seniorwriter:
Reach out to it....just because it doesn't have a picture doesn't mean it's not functional.
Remember to state your moniker here in the message you'll send.
You'll be attending to appropriately.

@Seniorwriter

I had to ask cause your last post there was April 2020.

Seniorwriter:
Hello.
So unfortunate I got a ban because of your enquiries and even my comment was removed so i can't relate there anymore and sadly the aim of the earning campaign to see prospective NL members enjoy from E-Sport might have been truncated...reason i didn't want to say much @the first instance but you'll think I ignored..more reason i usually instruct to be reached via the facebook id on my profile.
Howbeit i noticed you are into sports betting, i hope you are earning with it but ill suggest you opt in for e-sport which is more convenient with investing.



All the best.

@Seniorwriter

The Facebook I'd I found doesn't seem active. Check the name well...and what hint can I use to know it's you?

.

Seniorwriter:
Hope he'll make a difference for the club....
It's obvious son many humans into sporting activities especially soccer are living in a different world vis a vis their financial freedom due to the humongous mouth watering cash earnings and other fringe benefits.
This is a situation so so pleasant whereby you get paid for doing what you enjoy ....Just Wow.
Reason I'm always happy about myself and for the brain behind the E-Sport invention for engaging and earning from E-Sports activities....@joshboo Happy New Month...I'll surely reach out this month , you'll be glad I did because there is so much to discuss as to mouth watering earnings in millions innovation I intend to engage with you on...kindly hang in there for me.
In another news if you have access to internet + browsing gadgets and love sporting events especially soccer and you ain't earning cool in any of the world's currency then you are unwise and missing out from financial freedom.

Well Information about E-Sport is littered all over the internet space...you can do a detailed enlightenment read there then if need be get back(quote me) with concrete and direct questions.


@Seniorwriter

I've done just that!! What service do you render regarding E-Sport?

.

Seniorwriter:
Hope he'll make a difference for the club....
It's obvious son many humans into sporting activities especially soccer are living in a different world vis a vis their financial freedom due to the humongous mouth watering cash earnings and other fringe benefits.
This is a situation so so pleasant whereby you get paid for doing what you enjoy ....Just Wow.
Reason I'm always happy about myself and for the brain behind the E-Sport invention for engaging and earning from E-Sports activities....@joshboo Happy New Month...I'll surely reach out this month , you'll be glad I did because there is so much to discuss as to mouth watering earnings in millions innovation I intend to engage with you on...kindly hang in there for me.
In another news if you have access to internet + browsing gadgets and love sporting events especially soccer and you ain't earning cool in any of the world's currency then you are unwise and missing out from financial freedom.


@Seniorwriter

Can you enlighten me more on the E-Sport!!

.

.

Frontail:

That isn't hypocrisy. Meeting someone of buhari's magnitude(president of a Nation) requires courtesy and diplomacy... Even PUTIN and BIDEN met with smiles.

ednut1:
Truth is gals become liars and users cos a guy has previously done same to them.

Fools like you give ladies liberty never to be accountable. Yes!! I called you a fool because that's what you are.

So only men should be accountable right? If girls become liars cause of boys, then who made boys liars?

Timoleon:
Don’t mind them. Until one of their distant relatives call to say their baby is missing before they know that our neighbors business can be our business too.

I do tell people "there is a limit to everything/every rule. You do not tell me to mind my business when there are unusual movements or occurrence in my neighborhood. Individuality and "mind your business" is one of the major reason this country is where it is. You hear things like "All man for himself". How do we then grow or develop as a society?

eedimo:
A Sorogate should have helped her.
Meanwhile you guys should learn to mind your business cos the woman's situation won't obstruct your success in life.

Rubbish!! It's not everything we mind our business. What if someones baby was stolen or swapped. What if it's from a baby factory. That's how they all go about commiting crime then turn back to say "mind your business".