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Our literature teacher was nicknamed Ezeulu after the lead character in the book Arrow of God. It was the only point we got from the book that he taught.
The other one tried to put us through the rudiments of Geography and we promtly nicknamed him Equinox. There was Capsule who was so named because he would never be found without his shirt well tucked in.
If I should continue this page go full.

Paternity fraud. No feelings left for anybody else.

I declare open the RUGA Games.
I need more popcorn.

Bros is about 50. He should have retired long ago.

Man is just another motivational speaker; nothing more.

The ancients from my place were wise, great thinkers. Let me paraphrase one of their wisdom nuggets: no bone from his child is required to dig a man's grave.
All love peddlers masquerading as wives should chew on this. The dysfunction they sow among families bothers only men who don't know their worth.

You dey make noise for here - no go ask your mama for your real father. O ma se o!

This kind of comment signals a red flag, if one is serious. It means, "when will you realize that you are being scammed." It invites the man to wake up from slumber.

How did they pick this man over Penaldo?
How is he going to fill CR7s shoes with those tiny boots he wears?

AreaFada2:
Far from the above. I just said firstborn is about 35% and all kids 25%. I only explained why firstborn is more.

If a woman is dating a guy that's smooth enough to lead to marriage soon, how can one justify dating other guys or having one stand stands during that relationship? There is no way any woman helpless in both circumstances. Unless it was rape and she could not bring herself to talk about it. A rape victim in modern times would urgently consider emergency contraceptive and PEP.

Okay, I get it! But I will rather say that the wickedness of paternity fraud is very common among the womenfolk - even those who appear to be happily married. God help ignorant men.

AreaFada2:
Please see this thread below on fake paternity & see firstborn kids aspect. I forgot to add the link earlier.

https://www.nairaland.com/4741447/paternity-fraud-nigeria-dna-test

I don't dispute any so-called firstborns failed DNA statistics. I am only saying that it de-emphasizes the deliberateness of the act. The women involved know what they are doing. They certainly do choose the order of preference for the fraud.
When you push the firstborns narrative, you are making it seem like women cannot help the situation; a hint at exoneration of the wicked act.
Well, my experience opened my eyes - that this menace enjoys something like cult following among women. While I was being fooled, you needed to see the number of women who knew. They chose to defraud me, not with my firstborn, but the second.

Belafonte:
Hmm, interesting. I can't think of anything crazier than passing of another man's child as someone else's, yet this seems to be the vogue amongst women.

I tell you, it is worse than murder. I am forever traumatized by the attempt to corrupt my bloodline. I can't imagine the torture of those who unknowingly raise another man's seed for any length of time - especially, when they find out very late. Kai! Woe unto man.

realtalk19:
Even if he forgives, can he forget the deeds?

That is why it is his prerogative to choose the way he reacts in the end.

@ Poster, I have gone through this stuff so I know how it feels. You are lucky she regrets the deed. You are lucky her mother is remorseful too. It is for these reasons I will implore you to forgive, just as your heavenly father does.
I walked away from mine because of real threats to my life and unrepentant attitude.
However, none can foist any decision on you. Be strong.

AreaFada2:
Just wait. They will come to say men play away too.

I have always said it here. Around 35% of firstborn kids belong to another man. All those pregnancies that lead to rush rush wedding. Around 25% of all kids belong to another man.

All those situations where people live in face-me-i-face-you. Hubby is long distance driver or works at night and yet the family struggles for money. Some married women will open their legs for neighbours for only 2k to make ends meet.

I've heard many say paternity fraud mostly involves the first child. From my experience, I can say that women keep refining their game to stay ahead of everyone.
My first son is my carbon copy it would be a waste of money to think of DNA test. With this confirmation seemingly assured, the mother thought to fool me with the second. But a series of events combined to expose her. Rather than face shame, she risked her life to abort the thing at 5months. She obviously wanted a child with a much beloved boyfriend but, surprisingly, wanted to keep the marriage. The shock of it all!
Abeg, stop trying to decode the female one.

I know say na them. Women from that axis, if dem nor fit emasculate a man, them no dey do again. See the result now.
Thank God I have achieved the mindset by which I am prepared to go through this life with or without kids. No time for liability in the guise of pikin.

kunleweb:
females are like that, watch them bury men alive but in their turn, they turn mute. visit this thread again and try to check the number of female monikers that commented you will find the truth evident in the thread.


Over 54,000 views not a single meaningful female commented, cheap whores

You're right. Very much so. But I will never entirely give up on them. Just don't become a monster yourself.

kunleweb:
Females and guilt No single female commentator on first page. Guess what, page two and three, with over 13,500 views and comments, no single female commented.

Women and cheer-leading lies and hypocrisy, silence is also a stand, we can't help but feel at some point every woman on this forum has cheated on their partners if we use this thread as a case study tools.


I wonder how they'll blame this one on men.
Let me help them, afterall she was cheating with a man

May you all find mercies for your lust souls

It is scary indeed. When my ex wife tried that shit with me, you won't believe the people who were in the know: her sisters, close friends, close business partners, even down to my landlady and co-tenants. This is what freaked me out instead of the adultery.
I nearly gave up on humanity, but I know better.

Man was never your father. Your mother turned him into a monster by scamming him with marriage. Whether you kids know this or not, you are to be pitied.

National interests Vs Individual Rights is different argument. The Rule of Law trumps all. Every entity named in law must prostrate before the Law.
The alternative is unimaginable - anarchy.

foolbuster:
Be strong brother that's life. Don't worry last last na you go smile. Just keep doing your best to see your boy.

Thanks for the encouraging words.
After being traumatized for two years, I worry no more. I think we should get the full story behind some pretend single moms before we slate absent father's.

They didn't belong to him if they failed to look for him.
Like what I am facing now, where they have refused me access to my boy for two years. They say my bill is piling up. I say: no access, no responsibility. You can't use pikin, wey come im own life, to manipulate me.
God bless the kids for pressurizing their mom to get this reunion.

How precious life is!

Nor go kee yasef, oga. This Argentina team nor good.

At this rate I see Hollywood beckoning soon.

When did sex become a chore? It is marriage, where no party should be allowed to manipulate the other with sex, lest you find yourself in an open marriage fiasco.
Always try to get your wife in the mood for it. If that fails, then it's time for crisis talks.

The so-called murder note and married man story may just be diversionary. Who does that?
Oh! I hear we're in Nigeria.

This is not fair.
When will women learn that you cannot trap a real man with either marriage or kids? If you succeeded in your entrapment, you've got a real deadbeat dad on your hands.
This kid will grow up to appreciate how daddy dodged a stinging bullet.

Man takes care of himself very well.
To think he is about the same age as the late great Ras Kimono.

ndy87:
How did you use your money to buy ifod into your house and life

Naivety.I guess I was too naive to notice that she came from such evil axis. I will never put down here everything I passed through. That would amount to glorifying the devil and his works. But I understand how some people become homicidal.
The One who revealed that I was in bondage has set me free.

ekanempatrick28:
unlike oda guys I like ur bluntness but wen whoever u wanna marry propose pls let him know DAT u won't stay wen he has struggles so he wud know wat he is getting into

This is how you spot the snakes - those who have made the marriage institution one big Ponzi. They won't reveal their real intentions from the beginning.
That's how my ex wife decided to bare her own fangs when she learnt that the company I worked with had been razed down by fire. The image I beheld was that of a tiger, like I never knew whom I married.This is someone whose pregnancy was five months gone. I saw reason to doubt paternity, and I voiced it out. Behold, she scampered to go get a D&C behind my back. Need I mention the attempted murder by poison when she was about to be exposed? Only God's mercy kept me, for I didn't know what I was going through at the time.
Nowadays, I just sit back and chuckle when I read these stories.

All I can see is a bloody schemer who met her match. No one should pity the lady, or vex with the antics of Baba. The real victims remain the husband and kids involved.
But society don corrupt finish sha. You'd be surprised at how many of the lady's friends, or even neighbours, were in on her death-inviting moves all along. Society is already messed up. *spits*