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Politics › Re: Imo: IPOB Members Responsible For Attack On INEC Office – Police by Shokoloko(f): 2:56pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
Trapnews: We all know that. Thanks for the confirmation. Pitoobi should call his sponsors to order.
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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend And Her Careless Attitudes by Shokoloko(f): 7:03pm On Dec 10, 2022 |
Toks2008: This is a red flag.
Think well before you marry her. I had to go read his previous posts about this girl. They are not compatible - he has been complaining for a long while about her. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend And Her Careless Attitudes by Shokoloko(f): 7:01pm On Dec 10, 2022 |
LaSenior: Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later
I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.
To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right? You have been seeing red flags and complaining about this girl since October 2021. You want God to come down and tell you that something is not right here? |
Romance › Re: My Husband Is On Dating App In The UK And Has Consistently Lied To Me by Shokoloko(f): 4:41pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
Juoflife1: Simple matter. Pretend you didn't see it, show him more love. When you get there, dump him and find another man. I was looking for this comment  |
Politics › Re: More Crisis For Obi In Labour Party As Lasun Speaks On Why He Dumped The Party by Shokoloko(f): 1:30pm On Dec 09, 2022 |
asanausana91: go to crime section of nairaland. I viewed the crime section and did not find that news. May I have your source please, a link? Thank you |
Politics › Re: More Crisis For Obi In Labour Party As Lasun Speaks On Why He Dumped The Party by Shokoloko(f): 1:37am On Dec 09, 2022 |
asanausana91: What do you expect from a man that said Rivers state should not vote for gubernatorial candidate of labour party? He publicly said that they should vote for only him in Rivers state, but other positions is for PDP. The man is evil, satanic and self-centred. Obi is just after Biafra agenda, he told the whole world that ESN are not the killers in the east. Yesterday ipob terrorists killed more than 45 innocent northerners, OBI didn't condem that barbaric act. Interesting. May I please have the source of this news that IPOB terrorists killed 45 innocent northerners yesterday December 7th?I can't find anything about this on the internet. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 6:41am On Dec 07, 2022 |
Stereo99: Those men bleeped up by doing the dirty business themselves ,simps will keep learning the hard way .
USA is so big that you can put a bag on her head ,and all this gangsters go use her count as body Young man, it doesn't work that way. What you see in movies is so different from real life. Those African-American gangsters will not help an African murder their spouse. Why should they get into trouble because of him? How much will he pay them that their illegitimate business will not provide in one or two weeks for them? |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 6:37am On Dec 07, 2022 |
HarunaWest: A man takes a woman abroad and enrolls her in an expensive nursing school program and you are here talking about intuition et al? You digress, my dear one. Please read again |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 12:33am On Dec 07, 2022 |
Abdul05: Stop talking like this it is not good.
.what about those men who go abroad and forget their wives and children here in Nigeria. .
How would you address those ones?
I am a man too, l know what it takes for a man to bring a woman from trash into a pinnacle of glory...and later get betrayed by the same woman...
Those men in question are the real men. In response to the bolded, women typically know the kind of man they married. Its not difficult to know if a man will stick with you or abandon you. The problem is that women do not calm down and listen to their intuition. If your husband will abandon you - your spirit will tell you. A woman in that situation should start to put her house in order because he will leave. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 12:23am On Dec 07, 2022*. Modified: 12:44am On Dec 07, 2022 |
Abdul05: Stop talking like this it is not good.
.what about those men who go abroad and forget their wives and children here in Nigeria. .
How would you address those ones?
I am a man too, l know what it takes for a man to bring a woman from trash into a pinnacle of glory...and later get betrayed by the same woman...
Those men in question are the real men. If you read carefully you will see that I am neither in support of ungrateful men or women. Women get betrayed as much as men do. Nobody says do not bring your husband or wife over, but allow them stand on their feet by themselves. A similar thing happens here in Nigeria where a person will sponsor a fiance/ fiancee in school and then get dumped after the person graduates - I am against it. I personally will not want my son or grandson to sponsor someone over here and start to fund school fees of the person. Why? I once refused to matchmake girl with a young guy because I viewed her as someone who will be a chronic dependent, unwilling to do anything for herself. In the same vein, I have also discouraged a girl from bringing a man over here because terms of in income, mentality, education they are not matched. I am not in support of any of the parties. But the men should wise up and go to nursing schools themselves. At the root of this whole palaver is money. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 12:17am On Dec 07, 2022 |
youngsahito: do they tell you that those men are unemployed? It's better you help a beggar in the state rather than helping an ungrateful slut that will give your depression and death. There is unemployed and there is underemployment. I agree with you that is better to help an unknown beggar than an ungrateful man or woman who will give you depression and death. Its not worth it. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 12:15am On Dec 07, 2022*. Modified: 12:42am On Dec 07, 2022 |
holocron: Don't be silly. Isn't the answer to that question obvious? And yet you have been answered several times, yet you keep asking the same dumb question. Its my data, Its my computer. Its my question. You see when people sense they are losing a debate, they leave the message and start to attack the messenger. I refuse to be derailed; I refuse to stoop low. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 11:40pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
Franzinni: let me answer it ... You are up on your high horse becasue some weak men somewhere came to power and most likely watched thier father maltreat thier mother and hence the infiltration of the feminist movement. Now to answer your question OLD woman, haha "felt good" haha .. these men already have jobs before they brought these women from Africa with hope that they form a good family and grow together but alas... The women had to be women after tasting the fruit of feminism... And they paid the price ...
Listen to me, men have very simple minds but a man will never want to look weak in front of the world and that is the first point of attack by women, women attack the ego of a man and try to break him down like it's a game ... Forgetting that when you back a lion to the corner it will have no choice but to attack.
Not only Africans every race do this rubish where when the wife has finished them, the man will just snap and kill her then call the police and go to jail ... Think of it ... What will make a man prefer to me in a 6X4 cell for the rest of his life rather than be with a woman ... Just think of this. Still you digress young man. You did not answer the question; "why are the men funding education for the women when they can go for the educational program themselves?" please answer it. Why can't they become nurses themselves. The men have jobs - do the jobs pay as high as nursing jobs. Both of us can see that the issue here is money. Why doesn't he put himself in the position of making a higher income? That is the question. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 11:37pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
youngsahito: why are the women Bleep**g ungrateful to their husband, did she travel to USA on her own or na her papa do visa and paid for flight. Why can't those selfish and greedy women try and help the family with their income rather than turning their husband to househelp and reduce them to nothing. But women will surely be women. Crazy set of stupid and wicked ideas plenty for their head. sora fun obirin!!! There will always be ungrateful men and women so both spouses have to be wise. Go to school by yourself. help yourself before helping others. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 11:36pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
immortalcrown: So, it is wrong for a man to fully fund his wife's education to enable her concentrate on the education? My brother, its too risky for either spouse to fully fund the other in school. If the relationship fails the resentment will be great. Just give the person net to fish - you have done enough. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 11:29pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
immortalcrown: It is not a matter of what they can do. It is a matter of which option is easier. It is not always easy to accept the idea of getting a loan. Again, will the grant also pay rent and feed the family during the schooling? I didn't use a loan. I was paying part of the rent and home expenses. Find a job full time. Madam finds a job full time. Both partners school part-time. You do not need a loan if you live within your means. Any semester that there is no money, defer and continue next semester. I had to defer some semesters. So that by the time Oga is graduating, Madam is graduating as well. They are both earning about the same amount. I cannot advise either man or woman (in this present clime) to bring over a spouse and start to fund education, when there are options available; the person who does that is silly. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 11:21pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
Franzinni: here is the mind of a mordern woman ... The nursing you are yapping about... Everything women do as nurses the guidelines and protocols that women hold so dear was written and tested by men... Even the phone you used to type this rubbish was made by a man ... The roads you drive on by men the house you live in by men the internet you use to insult men ... Was invented and made available to you by men ... The softwares and apps by men even nairaland by men ... I wonder when women will finally get it .. you can't be a man even if you try why not be the best woman and help a man grow not compete with men becasue frankly men NOR SEND unah... When it gets to the point that men have had enough, they will result to war and at that point women will finally understand what a man is ... It's might be too late to turn back then becasue most men would have embraced the equality rubish that is being peddled by feminists.... Phew that said now let me go and read what the long story. You digress young man, The crux of the matter is not who made the most inventions. The problem is "why are the men funding education for the women when they can go for the educational program themselves?"Could you answer that. |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 11:18pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
immortalcrown: Would the wives take the men's jobs and pay the men's school fees? They send the wives because they work to feed the family and fund the school for the wives. If they themselves enroll in the school, who will fund them and who will be feeding the family until they graduate? This is North America, you are talking about. They can take an educational grant from the government and pay AFTER schooling. Its not like Nigeria where one person must fund the other person. I have a degree from Nigeria and another from Canada. I didn't have to be funded by my spouse. I worked full time and schooled fulltime (some semesters) and part-time (some semesters) Why are the women being funded? Why are the men not gaining this education for themselves? What is their challenge? |
Crime › Re: RELATIONSHIPS: NIGERIAN Men In USA Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria B by Shokoloko(f): 10:56pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
First off, these men are foolish. Why can't they go to nursing school themselves? Is there something that prevents them from being nurses and making the most money in the home? While i understand that couples should sacrifice for each other, do they need a brain to tell them that you must stand first before helping others to stand otherwise you and everyone else will slip - which is exactly what happened here. |
Politics › Re: APC Agberos And Thugs Beat Up Labour Party Supporters In Lekki by Shokoloko(f): 7:06pm On Dec 03, 2022 |
femisplash: Our zombidient propagandists have gone mad again. No pictures, nothing.. if Obi farts, they upload it, why not upload the faces of these liars. According to one of the victims of the attack, Solomon Badeh blamed the attack on some suspected political thugs allegedly sponsored by the All Progressives Congress, (APC) in the area. Another victim of the attack, Oluwadare Bamidele, claimed that the attacks were premeditated. “They may be the party in power now, but Nigerians are fed up and want change. We are not going to stop until we get change.” When contacted, the Chairman of the Labour Party in Lagos state, Kayode Salako condemned the attack and intimidation of the party’s supporters. Our correspondent reached out to the Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, SP Benjamin Hundeyin who confirmed the incident, he however promised to get back to our correspondent once he is briefed on the incident Its not propaganda. The incident was confirmed by the police. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Is Not Different From The Rest. See Why!! by Shokoloko(f): 11:14pm On Dec 02, 2022 |
I'll just put this up a second time
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Politics › Re: Peter Obi Is Not Different From The Rest. See Why!! by Shokoloko(f): 10:48pm On Dec 02, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Video: Tinubu Almost Bite Off His Tongue While Attempting To Pronunce Technology by Shokoloko(f): 12:57am On Dec 02, 2022 |
This is scary
Its not funny: its worrisome. |
Politics › Re: 2023: Anambra Youth Coalition Asks Obi To Step Down by Shokoloko(f): 4:36am On Nov 30, 2022 |
Ttalk: Obidients are beginning to have a rethink. The failure that awats Obi is becoming glaring even to the naivety of Obidunce who doesn't know right from left in political matter aside abuse, hatred and intimidation.
Las las, Obidients go chop breakfast If Obi does not win, at least they made some effort which is commendable. |
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Caught Lying About Tinubu's "Chicago University" Degree by Shokoloko(f): 9:57pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
I doubt that Person A can collect this type of confidential document on behalf on Person B
If this is done in Nigeria, It most likely cannot be done in North America. |
Nairaland General › Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Shokoloko(f): 9:28pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
ObalendeCMS: Nice one!
I see you are trying to help him reprogram his subconscious mind.
I believe it’s more than that.
He’s probably suffering from Pseudologia Fantastica. It’s a serious mental disorder.
I have an aunt suffering from this and it’s straining her relationship with everyone.
It’s as a result of a childhood trauma. Wow, Interesting. I never heard of Pseudologia Fantastica before now. I see that there are two things working for him right now. 1. He knows he has a challenge with lying 2. He doesn't like it - its not something he wants to continue. Reprogramming will definitely help him. I know someone who had the exact same problem, who would lie until she started to feel the effect of all the lies like a ball in her throat stopping her from breathing. She had to quit her job which was enabling her lie every single day, and start the brain reprogramming exercise. She is not there yet, but right now there is a 90% chance that she is telling the truth, if questioned. |
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Nairaland General › Re: I Tend To Lie Unnecessarily. Please Help by Shokoloko(f): 8:59pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jackanda1: Hello house. Is there any one that has this problem? It seems there is a part of my brain that is wired this way for years now.
While most people lie to escape punishment and blame etc, i tend to lie for no reason atall. Sometimes i need to lie further just to modify the initial lie.
Examples: 1. I went late to work because i had to take home some office files which i worked with all through the night. When asked, i lied to my boss that i had a compound dispute tha made me come late. Saying the truth would have earned me praises from my boss and saved me alot of stress.
2. I got injured at home. When my landlady asked how, i lied that i had a serious accident when going to work that morning. I told her a long story about the accident scene and all. She was sympatizing with me and almost wept.
These are just few examples i can type now, there is more. I can't help but lie most of the time i have conversation with people. Any advice?
nlfpmod, seun Every night(not morning) before you sleep, while you are in bed take a mirror and look at your face and say this: All is well. I am honest, I have no reason to lie so I speak the truth usually. Say it four times and sleep. The first three or four times you do this, your brain will tell you that you are lying and you are wrong. Your brain will try to fight the new programming (re-wiring). Continue to say it even if you do not believe itPlease do not say "I do not lie" . The word "not" will make your words ineffective. Just say All is well. I am honest, I have no reason to lie so I speak the truth usually. Whenever you find yourself lying during the day, don't berate yourself, train your mind not to go over the situation in which you lied. Say the words above over and over until you feel calm and whenever you remember the event. All is well. I am honest, I have no reason to lie so I speak the truth usually. It will take you between 60 - 254 days to reduce lying to the barest minimum if you stick to this routine. Should you miss saying the above words one or two nights, its not a problem, but try not to miss it more than two nights. You must first see yourself as truthful in your mind and you body has no choice than to utter only truth. Keep us posted and best of luck |
Politics › Re: ₦1k Challenge: Labour Party Seeks Monetary Donation From The Public (Photos) by Shokoloko(f): 2:27pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Good idea.
I have sent mine. |
Travel › Re: Lonely Part Of Canada No One Bothers To Tell by Shokoloko(f): 10:40pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Nezzjnr: You mean 13k Cad isn't enough for a Family of 4?? Lol, that person is joking. $1300 will paying rent for 6-8 months for a two bedroom apartment. Nobody spends 13k monthly |