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Solatium:
Who cares where you get your degrees from?
You only need to read and pass an exam then a certificate awarded for your efforts.
That is what certification is all about,deploying what you have learned is what I am after an SSCE holder who is logical in thinking is far more better than a Msc Holder.

i do not have a second degree but i will school you with your Toronto Msc or MA or MPhil.

GloriousGbola:
No records until 18 unless you are involved in major juvenile delinquency

1stGenAmerican:
I agree.

Solatium:
If you need citation from Google to validate your knowledge of things as little as this,then your degree certificates should come to questioning.
Those who studied Sociology, Criminology or Anthropology do not need to even read twice before they know you are talking balderdash.
You are one of the Major reason schools abroad don't count our degree towards academic credit, having degrees either first or second is not enough,but how have you been able to internalized knowledge and make same reflect on the quality of your argument while in fora like this is what matters.
Madam,no need to form Voltron,just keep quiet and learn

shantti:
Sorry, I read u wrong. But should I start mentioning Americans who had perpetrated atrocities

mrblessed:
See emotional blackmail 101. So any refutation of your shaky, error-infested claptrap is a portrayal of a nonexisting violence that occurs only in your head. I'm glad you have been unable to coercion people into agreeing with your erroneous view, even when knowing "violence" is a choice word you use with complete abandon.

shantti:
The lady I mentioned claimed that despite all the beatings Africa give their wards, Africa is still a shithole devoid of human empathy,peace and development while the whites who don't beat their kids have a society that is synonymous to human empathy, peace and develpment.
Now understand that in the context she used, there was nothing like the WEST, it was basically the WHITES against the African society.
so the people that I referenced, don't they qualify for the denotation, THE WHITES, or are u telling me that they were raised in Africa.

NairaMaster1:
I pity your parents. Your dad right now!!

Solatium:
Not all information on Google are valid,your common sense precede Google,if you have a very sound education and a discerning mind it won't take you a while to figure out somethings.
You need to know what a GDP is in relation to Economy, and what a domestic violence is in relation to a child discpline, until when you are able to understand those and apply your common sense you won't get an answer.

Solatium:
Unfortunately,the violence they are talking about are Riot's,Civil unrest and War.
Those that are capable of shutting down the space,not domestic violence between spouse.
Child discpline is not even violence as you want us to believe.
Aunty quit misinformation

shantti:
Maybe Hitler's case is different, but Putin being bullied doesn't attest to the fact that he was disciplined by his parents. Like I said before, what about the muderers, assasins, junkies and rapist in the developed countries where children aren't beaten if they do wrong

shantti:
The lady I mentioned did not project her view on the Westerners alone, it was basically DEVELOPED COUNTRIES against AFRICA

Solatium:
Violence in relation to GDP growth?
okonjo iweala must no see this

pdf90:
Because u have avenue to talk don't mean you should talk rubbish

cocolacec:
Did you find out if she was being bullied/abused at school or find out the reason for always running or rolling on the floor everyday at the school?
Canning only makes children internalize pains and sufferings,you are already breaking the bond between you and your child.Sometimes we overlook children’s reaction till the problem turns into a different dimension

You will wonder where the disciplined children of yesterday became cultists who dont have human feelings anymore.Pain and violence is part of the Nigerian discipline system.Violence only breeds contempt,Stockholm Syndrome and Narcissicism.

We are not on the slave plantation where white masters flog slaves.Our children are not slaves to be beaten/maimed but our precious mini me to be guided with love,attention and utmost care.

kingreign:
Who’s this unfortunate lying scum?

mmsen:
I know girls who were born and raised abroad, girls who aren't even Nigerian who are members of Christ's Embassy. They're doing much the same as your niece.

My point is, being 'abroad' does not mean all will be well. You have to put in a lot of work to raise children no matter where you are. Most people simply aren't interested in actively raising children, they want to cut corners and then blame the children when it goes wrong.

tekjansen2:
Western countries apart from the USA have very strict gun laws.

being:
Sounding woke & cool but absolutely no iota of wisdom.. she should channel d rejection to something gud.. Just imagjne

Nauttyprof:
It is in USA you hear of crazy crime conducted by teens in high school. Have you heard any Nigerian school where a teenager walks into the school and starts shooting at fellow students?

Nigerians are quick to appreciate whatever will see over there without also looking at the bad side of whatever they practice. Both systems are not perfect.

KanwuliaBaby:
YES!
But they will be sealed. They will show up AS FLAGS!
Some employers will not have time to CALL YOU to ask you what is in there. They will fling your application to the thrash bin and move to the next applicant.

Others that really care will ask you to explain. Very tricky.

What you say might even seal you doom with that employer. They may use it against you.✅

KanwuliaBaby:
You damn right! I don’t play with these little fools here o.

If you try to call the police, they will just fall on their knees and be begging. Dem don taya to see police ke!

You have to use the system to your advantage ke!

Every police complaint is RECORDED IN THEIR FILES.

When it gets to a stage, they police sends them in front is a judge for being public nuisances. That na another wahala entirely.

Na dem go get record, nor be me?✅

KanwuliaExtra:
I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters.
She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!

One day she wore this::
I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.

She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.

When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside.

OMO!


See SWAT TEAM for front of my house?

There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles.
They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused.
I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.

I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!

The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.

The useless white cops left!
Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS!

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend is because of my fear for God.

sageb:
Happy women's day to the Nairaland Amazons

ModestGal
Ishilove
Shokoloko
Humbledbyhisgrace
Pocohantas
Angelacruz
Chairwoman
Ahnie
et al

complexBoss12:
The most confusing subject, I have personally battled with in my head, for the greater part of my life, is whether God really exists or not??

If you observe closely, you would notice there is a strong supernatural force beyond your physical eyes. There are things that happen, that show you that a God should/must exist. Then, other things happen and you wonder why is God letting it happen??

But that's why they said you should have "faith" right?? Because you don't have to question, just believe. man's wisdom is foolishness before God. Then again, will God give you sense, and ask you not use it??