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Chii59:
You broke up with a girl you dated 4 years, two months later, you're taking someone else to momma. See your problem? You never had time to heal. I'll tell you why. Your ex's infidelity broke you (not that you're a saint anyway). It broke you and the next thing was to break up.
But instead of you to calm down and heal up emotionally before entering another relationship (to avoid emotional backlog like what you're going through at the moment), you wanted to pepper your ex. To show her, she's easily replaceable and that you've moved on.
See where it got you?
Your memories haunt you. You will most likely end up cheating on your present, maybe not with your ex, but with someone else.
Your refusal to heal will continue to be a problem in this relationship and even the next - if any.

Too many immature people on this forum.

Not that he's saint o. Lmao, I like that part. He was probably sleeping with other girls, but that particular sex the ex gave him, was extraordinary. Oga can't stop reminiscing

Lol

The only thing i'll tell you is don't hurt that innocent girl you're currently dating. If you are not yet over your ex, don't enter a new relationship. Una no dey hear word.

I'm not surprised though. Men are sex addicts. Even if you give them the most virtuous woman on earth, they'll abandon her and go get someone that will be banging them all day and night.

Just go and beg that ex and continue enjoying your sex life.

ayusco85:
And probably suffer from an STD. Just end it simple

You people that suffer from STD, seems y'all haven't heard of condom.

bizme:
Let's not go down that particular rabbit hole. It is only people without a good knowledge of history that tries to idolize the past and paint the present in grimmer hue. In the past there were utility values for polygamy that were peculiar to that time. First, most of the households were farmers with hundreds and thousands of acres to till. The fact that there was no organized labour as it were (sometimes community arrangements existed), each man literally had to produce his own workforce in-house. In other words, there was a specific need for having several children.
Secondly, diseases like malaria, sickle disease, polio, and many communicable diseases that were not understood, were killing children in particular in droves. And surviving to adulthood literally became a game of numbers. You might start out with 10 children under the age of 5 and only 1 or 2 survived to adulthood. It is not uncommon for most grandmothers 90 years and above to tell stories of how many children they gave birth to and how many actually survived. This in particular, together with the first point, necessitated the polygamous arrangement.

Lastly, mortality rate for men was much terrible at the time, many dying from communal clashes and wars or getting raided by slave-traders. More women, much fewer men.

Polygamy served specific societal purposes and it wasn't because of sex or waning desire for sex. Most wives were circumcised, and it was generally frowned upon for a wife to enjoy sex any way.

I am setting the record straight here because that guy was incorrectly trying to paint a lofty picture of the past.

Wow. A comment like this is what I always crave for anytime I open any thread on this forum. Very educative and factual.

Bodydiialect57:
Someone thinks he's smart, smh. Your eyes go clear if you tread that path.

Yes, I'm smart enough to use protection during intercourse.

opportunities12:
Have you heard of STD (Sexually Transmitted Demons) ?

Gullible fellows

Men

Bodydiialect57:
...and you two with have myriads of diseases to deal with. Smh.

You can only contract a disease if you want to.

If you cheat on me, no problem. But just know that we have entered an open relationship/marriage.

We'll both have as many partners as we want.

Yeye dey smell

demmymoney:
There's no research about women marrying more than one man even in first world countries they don't do it even though they have femcentric family laws

Dating multiple men is different from marrying multiple men

Dating multiple men just shows ur hypergamy nature and it depends on the age bracket of the woman. Hypergamy works best for women wen they are between 18-25yrs. Women are not naturally polygamous that's a FACT!

Women can never marry many men, they cant even deal with one man talkless of many men na their pussy go suffer pass

By 30yrs plus women are sexually useless for marriage and they start losing sexual market value

I don't think I have the strength for this baseless argument. Go and do your research.

As men get rich just to frolic around, so do women.

A rich man gathers as many wives as he pleases, so do women.

It is not a gender thing. Women hide certain fantasies because of what society will call them. And the ones that have damned naysayers go ahead and do whatever they please.

I want you to understand that this world doesn't revolve around me like y'all think it does.

Chii59:
They're both good. You can't have it all na some no get anyone.

So true sha

demmymoney:
How come women don't marry more than one man uhn??

It's not stale

Women are sexual objects and men are success objects

By 30yrs plus women are sexually useless for marriage

Women do marry more than one wife, go do your research.

Most women shy away from having more than one wife because of what society will think of them. Apart from that, you'd see every woman openly and boastfully dating and marrying multiple women.

That's better than big breast and small yansh

demmymoney:
Men are polygamous by nature

Lmfao this excuse is stale. Go look for another excuse.

BTW, women are polygamous in nature too.

Why do women go about getting pregnant out of wedlock unnecessarily?

Why open leg waaa and just get pregnant for every idiot? No dignity, no plans, nothing at all.

E K gwuru o.

kalu61:
I'm sexual pure till date.

Like l said. l don't like you not because you share your view but the bile and hatred you vomit.

Happy Sunday and bye

Oh, I'm so sad, some unknown user on naira land says he doesn't like me.

kalu61:
I never said it something to be proud of but it's not something you can separate from me.

Having said that, please don't quote me again. I'm not your fan or anything you believe in.

Not being able to stop yourself from being promiscuous, is irresponsibility on your part.

I'll quote you because this is a public forum, you can deactivate your account if you don't wanna be quoted.

Being proud to be indisciplined. How pathetic.

kalu61:
You can agree with me that Promiscuity is partly men's nature

And that is a good thing? Do you guys ever sit down and listen to some of the things you say? Do y'all ever reason what you say at all? Odiegwu oo.

Promiscuity is in a man's nature, so that's something to be proud of. I just tire.

CuteMike01:
Oh dear, don't worry about my dick. It's just fine. Your brain needs more attention now. Work on it. Thanks

From my dad to sense then to the brain. Lol. I hardly look for trouble on here, the one I did, I was banned for eternity.

I'll let all these slide, I ignored your mention on the other thread, here you are again pushing me to the wall. God knows I won't stoop low to your level.

Have a lovely Sunday bruh.

CuteMike01:
I'm not a masturbator... I just have a violent reaction to stupid people

Keep masturbating. Don't let your dick shrink tho

CuteMike01:
Every? You mean your dad also chases young and old women alike? Shame

Hmm. Masturbators are here again.

Why do every married men go after young and old women?

josh123:
its so because they have made men to think they don't like it, that men do enjoy it more and thats a lie. women enjoy sex times two more than men. t

Men blaming women for their shortcomings since the days of Adam.

You pay because you can't go home and fvck yourself.

You pay because you can't do without sex.

You pay because you believe that's the only way you can get sex.

You pay because you're always hórny.

You pay because you don't have a choice.


Leave women out of your predicament, whether they love sex of not, is none of your gaddamn business.

A woman can go a whole two weeks without sex, but a man can't go a day or two without patronizing an olosho.

It really sucks to not have control over your third leg.

Magnoliaa:
Attention seekers are calling others attention seeking...




[color=deeppink]You now have three "y's" in your name. Chai. The God that did yours and turn your double "yy's" into three wee do mine and turn my double "aa's" into three too oh.[/color]

Lmfao

Lol. It's some sort of a scare. When you tell someone if you swallow an orange seed it will grow on your belly.

Some women rush into marriage because they're constantly reminded that menopause is knocking, and at some certain age no one will look their way anymore. It's their strategy to deceive gullible women.

Bad move indeed

Morray:
when you say business, you mean excort business? Because that's what y'all now do but mask it with your mini whatsapp trading.

Every business now has gone online. Stay in your village and don't get exposed.

She's insecure. You just gotta let her know that you don't care about her disabilities. That way she'll become free with you.

The most confused gender in the world is the male gender.

They won't marry an Instagram babe but go ahead and cheat on their wives with an Instagram babe. Odiegwu o

If only women will understand that marriage isn't a do or die affair, men won't have to give them foolish conditions just to marry them.


A woman that her business is mostly on social media, will drop her business just because she wants to answer "Mrs" What a waawu!

Nonsense and Buhari

Lol.

Everyone should know their spec and go for it. And also what you want.

If you want to live the easy life, where you get pampered and get disrespected as well, go live it.

If you want to live the boss lady life, go on.

Just know what you want.

Women always feel like you're hating on them when you tell the truth. So, I can't stress myself.