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Celebrities › Re: Gosh I Miss Nicki Minaj! by Shugavee(op): 11:58pm On Feb 24, 2018
aaronson:
It's only normal for you to miss her, But you could stalk her on any of her social media page to see the latest from her, atleast that's what I do to Mya because she's too pretty eventhough she off the spot light. Oh and the way she talks, so mild and gentle.
thats the thing she is no where to be found even on social media!!
Celebrities › Re: Gosh I Miss Nicki Minaj! by Shugavee(op): 9:59pm On Feb 24, 2018
aaronson:
She wouldn't remain in the spotlight forever, She has seen it all and outgrown that stardom frenziness, she had her fair share and now trying to focus on her personal life. While the space is empty, Cardi B happens to fill it up for the moment.

Fame is really dangerous, It's your life in the public eye, you easily get tired of it when you begin to realize your private life as well is the public eye. How do know? Ask Lady Gaga. She isn't buzzing like before and now what she keeps saying is, she regretted being Famous.
nooo i will so miss her!! cry
Celebrities › Gosh I Miss Nicki Minaj! by Shugavee(op): 9:32pm On Feb 24, 2018
I go to her page everyday!!! Wishing she posts something!! Whats really going on with her!! At first am like she just wanna chill cause of the cardi B comparism!!!(nicki is100%better to me tho even if love caardi too) But i think its way more than that!! Like she is facing depression or something, or is she pregnant?? Or is it her bro shit? But it been out 4 a while n she was still living life!! What went wronghuh What u all think
Christianity Etc › Re: Pentecostals Bash Catholics Yet They Celebrate Valentine The Most by Shugavee(f): 9:24pm On Feb 24, 2018
Themandator:
AV, Acts 1:8: "8 But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you: and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judaea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth."


What Jesus Christ promised above was fulfilled in Acts 2:1 down

AV, Acts 2:1-4: "1 And when [1] the day of Pentecost was fully come, [2] they were all with one accord in one place. 2 And suddenly there came a sound from heaven as of a rushing mighty wind, and [3] it filled all the house where they were sitting. 3 And there appeared unto them cloven tongues like as of fire, and it sat upon each of them. 4 And [5] they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began [4] to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance."


There was no Catholic Church but disciples and followers on the day of pentecost. Catholic Church is a fusion of Roman cultural practices and heritage and Christianity. In summary, it is a diluted culture of the Roman empire sold to the rest of the world through brute force and inquisition. It was born in the Roman empire.


Neither Jesus nor Peter entered Rome let alone set up church there.
makes sense!!!
Christianity Etc › Re: Pentecostals Bash Catholics Yet They Celebrate Valentine The Most by Shugavee(f): 8:44pm On Feb 24, 2018
Themandator:
The church was first Pentecostal As recorded in Acts 1:8.
reallyhuh Educate me
Christianity Etc › Re: Pentecostals Bash Catholics Yet They Celebrate Valentine The Most by Shugavee(f): 8:36pm On Feb 24, 2018
Ogashub:
A typical Nigerian non Catholic who is drained with his or her own church doctrine will wear red tomorrow and majestically walk into her or his lover's house to wish him happy valentines day.

But every other thing about the catholic doctrine is paganized by you and your church folks.

Y'all have suddenly forgotten that Valentine is a saint In the catholic world that is usually celebrated every 14th of February, just like other catholic saints.

But tomorrow you will come online and tell us how Catholics worship Mary, you get angry when she is being celebrated. But Tomorrow, you will be buying gifts in the name of valentine.

All the Pentecostal churches that bash the catholic doctrines and saints are the ones who will even celebrate the valentine the most.

But there you are, saying you know so much about Christianity.

Now, tell me that saint valentine is a saint in your own church, I am listening, how?
valentine is like Christmas!!! Christianity is one!!! So it shouldnt suprise u that the Pentecostal churches n catholic churches would hv things in common!! There will surely be similarities n differences!! Catholic church was the first church recorded in history!!! So most teaches startdd from there!! But innovation n more understanding sprung up the Pentecostal churches!!! Funny enough muslims celebrate Valentine too!!! So right now valentine has nothing to do with church or religion!!
Family › Re: 21-Year-Old Lady Discovers Her Dad Was Not Her Real Father In A Biology Class by Shugavee(f): 8:04pm On Feb 24, 2018
Belafonte:
Most of you firstborns are actually bastãrds.
thats a very stupid thing to say!!
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f):
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Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 9:30pm On Feb 22, 2018
youngreezy:
shh U R Making Noise Bitch...A Nigga Tryna Sleep.
i reject any temptation to call u a mad man this night !!! Naira land must be ur fathers house!!! Clap 4 urself
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 9:12pm On Feb 22, 2018
donstan18:
It will come on Nairaland grin grin grin

And please, when it comes, don't forget to call me, your friend..….So that we'll sing a welcoming anthem to it, eat and drink to welcome it happily and then fvck ourselves hardly and hot. tongue

Hope you'll call me when aunty feminism comes? wink
sure gonna invite u to her party n u will be the chairman of the occasion !! Front seat 4 u!! So u could u know tongue after that!!! kiss
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 9:08pm On Feb 22, 2018
ubunja:
be a lesbian and solve all your problems
then form your own Woman-only country.you have too many grieviences.
if you cant do either buckle up coz the partriarchy aint going anywhere. dont take my word for it...look around you.what have women achieved since feminism besides calling everything rape? america itself the world leader of feminism rejected a woman and voted for a misogynistic man!!! can there a bigger sign that feminism is a failure? i laugh at your determined stupidity. i laugh. C O N T I N U E....
What hv feminism achieved?? Please do research!!! I cant start writing epitles 4 u!!! Funny enough patriarchy is dying by the day!!! That why u men are so bitter abt it!!! I laugh!!! Kontinue decieving urself!!! Equality is coming whether u like it or not!!
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 8:59pm On Feb 22, 2018
donstan18:
Smh......I really laughed while reading all you wrote, but all the same, let me attempt to it



How do you mean ladies being victimized in a rape case? , haven't we being seeing, reading and hearing on the news how rapists are being arrested and penalized, where and when did you in any way see a lady blamed for being raped, where have you seen that?

I don't even get, which society did that happen?



Are being seen as weaker sex by who?

You ladies call and see yourselves as weaker sex.

Now let's take VIOLENCE as an example, when a lady harasses, slap or hit a man, what is expected of the man by ladies, he shouldn't retaliate and be a gentle man, right?,....But when a man hits a woman, what will these same ladies call it?, woman beater, right?

Now, with this my instance, do I need to tell you that women are the ones that sees and enjoy calling themselves weaker sex?, do i?



I didn't understand anything here, give a clear point, please



Labour force?, what is labour force? , you mean "Being privileged to do some works"..If yes.

Name the works or jobs that the society don't allow them do.

While naming them, remember to add bricklaying, carpentry, agbero, barrow pushing, gatewoman, welder, iron bending work,vigilante and other hard labour jobs. grin



Who should be the head of the family?

Do you even know what you are typing atall?

Can't stop laughing. grin grin



Important, how?

Explain biko!


Please stop sounding bitter, women prioritize marriage in their life, not society.

Women sees themselves as commodity by asking for money from men for sex, not the society.


Stop struggling and sounding bitter to make a simple and valid point, cheesy cheesy

Be free and brave cheesy
am sounding bitter how?? Mtchew!! Now i hv explained to u hw women are opressed n u letting sentiments blind ur thinkimg is non of my bussiness!!! I expect u to be defensive over the obvious truth!!! Whether u like it or not feminism is still going to stand!!! Equality!!!!!
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 7:06pm On Feb 22, 2018
donstan18:
What joke are you scribbling about?

I asked, are women being oppressed in the society?, if YES, how?

It's a simple question, or is it hard?

Why not clear me on this feminist ish, convince me ma'am.

How are women being oppressed?
1, victim blaming on rape cases 2. Women being seen as the weaker sex, 3. Domestic violence n stupid men still blaming the victim talking abt respect nonsense 4. Women aint given equal opportunities in the labour force " she is a woman she would get married but a man has responsibilities" even if she is more qualified than the man!! So less salary or no job at all!! 5. Calling a man the head of the home whether or not he is incharge of the finacial expenses!! 6. The fact that the birth of a male child seems more important than female child, 7. The fact marriage is the only area the society find women more relevant!! I can go on n on!!! Women are opressed!!! Piatriathy is the cause of it all!!! Reason feminism is coming soon!!! Lke it or not
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 6:12pm On Feb 22, 2018
donstan18:
Wow!, courageous?

Where are the courageous women?

Are women been oppressed in the society?, if YES, how?

Enlighten me ma'am cheesy
so this ur question is implying u dont see the way women are being opressed in the societyhuh See i am not doing this with you!!! If only u see it as a joke!!! Smh
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 6:08pm On Feb 22, 2018
2buffagain:
Well there you go.
I think this is what the blokes have been calling for ever since this 6 page thread started.
"Does a woman on NL actually understand that pros come with cons? and by fighting for more pros, do you know you should also be fighting for the right to take up the cons of said pros?"
Because if not, all you want are all the pros and none of the cons, meaning the other party becomes a slave.
Social order is about give and take, not take and take.

But unfortunately all the females on this thing just want to talk the usual BS cliche's, avoiding the meatier answers to the questions the men have been asking. Dodging questions is something politicians do because they have selfish/ulterior motives and they know that what they truly think about a thing is wrong and illogical. Acting like a snake and being dodgy is just a symptom of cognitive dissonance. Such is the sickness of many women on this topic....politicians.

So I appreciate you for adding a logical response to the conversation .

Here's the thing, I don't think men are against true feminism as a whole, as long as it is true.
What man also doesn't want the option to quit his job and follow his dreams while his woman finances him? Who no like good thing? grin
The issue is the dual-tongue/double-speak in the feminist circles because all of a sudden when you flip the script as something that could also be of a benefit to men, that is when you start hearing "He is not a real man, blah blah blah". Before you know it, the woman starts to throw shade and starts making him know how much of a useless man he is.

Meanwhile THESE are the things that should be fought for, if the goal is true feminism.
How do you get the PRO without being willing to rightfully take on the CON?

The more feminists address these things head on without wieving and dodging weightier discussions, the more support they'll get from the other party. As it stands, feminists only want to talk about WHAT FEMALES SHOULD GET and not what they should be willing to also give.
Sh!t don't work like that.

This video is the typical reaction of a typical feminist when she is met with the con of feminism (after enjoying the pros). It shows that FEMINIST WOMEN have a lot to work on IN THEMSELVES, before trying to claim the badge of "fighting for equality". Until they do, it's all just noise....and nobody respects noise.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yH4_ak_kuQc
well thats her opinion not mine n urs as well!!! I really hv no mb to watch that!!! Good day
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 10:42pm On Feb 21, 2018
donstan18:
You can't totally conclude that I know what feminism is all about, my definition of feminism might be different from yours, especially NL feminists, I see them as nothing bunch of frustrated ladies.

That's why I had to ask you what feminism is all about, maybe for a better explanation.

So I ask again ma'am, What's feminism and why are you a feminist? cheesy
there is only one definition of feminism n google will give u the answer!! U see them that way cause u hv a problem with strong n courageous women that refuse to agree with the opressive ideology of the society!!!
Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Sex A Lady While She’s Asleep/deep Asleep??? by Shugavee(f): 10:02pm On Feb 20, 2018
stupidity:
I had this argument with my gf, she said some girls can sleep and not know when they were made love to.

NOTE: I’m not talking about rape.

Just picture a scenario where you and bae are on bed, and she’s fast asleep, then you take of everything, you slide in your D, romp her for like 10 togh 30min, then you ejaculation of the sperm. And bae has zero idea what all happened!!!!


Is this possible? I don’t even want to believe you can off a ladys pant while she’s asleep and she wouldn't move an inch. Except she’s drunk and high as Fck.
very very possible!! She would find out in the morning 4 sure tho!! But its possible
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 8:32pm On Feb 20, 2018
donstan18:
I accommodate all sorts of replies, but not when you aren't ready to debate bravely with me. cheesy

You can't be a feminist and be sending me to google to do my findings.

As a feminist, explain it to me.
asking me the meaning of feminism makes no sense cause u know that already!!! I cant reapeat what icons n great women hv repeated again n again n i just indirectly did in my reply anyways!!! I do debates with people i want to debate with!!! I answered ur question as it pleased me!!!
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 8:15pm On Feb 20, 2018
donstan18:
Since you can't answer that, allow google to advocate feminisms for you to save yourself from more frustration and embarrassment.

Dullards everywhere grin grin
obviously u never deserved a reply
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 8:02pm On Feb 20, 2018
donstan18:
What is feminism and why are your a feminist?
i wont answer the meaning of feminism cause u hv google at ur disposal!!! But i am a feminist cause i believe men n women are equal n should hv same opportunities in the society!! Its that simple
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 7:58pm On Feb 20, 2018
donstan18:
Are you a feminists? cheesy
yes i am
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 7:54pm On Feb 20, 2018
donstan18:
The lady made a point, but made a mistake by calling them "Feminists", because I simply do not think these sets of ladies she's reffering to are feminists, they are just bunch of frustrated pained dumb and feminist wannabes cheesy
cheesy


Real feminists are beautiful, proud, confident, intelligent, smart, successful, wise and well established sets of women

They are not these set of confused lazy and frustrated women who depend on men and privately cry to get married cheesy , they are not these set of pained ladies who crave for the benefits of men, yet won't take care of the financial responsibilities of men in their families and society.

Real feminists are big turn on to some men, they don't rant online like these broke, ugly, confused, frustrated, dump,beggars and illiterates we see online cheesy , real feminists don't even have time to tell you that they are feminists, they won't even tell you what they are, you'll see it in them.


Nowadays, even ladies wee no sabi wash their pants de form feminists grin cheesy
futher more there is a differnce between a woman who respects feminism n a feminist herself!!! Its a movement!!! Which implys that if indeed ur a feminist u preach and advocate it!!! Beyonce Hilary Clinton,Michelle obama , obama, and chiamanda ngozi adichie advocate feminism in their platforms, n songs!!! So ur second to last paragraph was inaccurate
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 7:49pm On Feb 20, 2018
donstan18:
The lady made a point, but made a mistake by calling them "Feminists", because I simply do not think these sets of ladies she's reffering to are feminists, they are just bunch of frustrated pained dumb and feminist wannabes cheesy
cheesy


Real feminists are beautiful, proud, confident, intelligent, smart, successful, wise and well established sets of women

They are not these set of confused lazy and frustrated women who depend on men and privately cry to get married cheesy , they are not these set of pained ladies who crave for the benefits of men, yet won't take care of the financial responsibilities of men in their families and society.

Real feminists are big turn on to some men, they don't rant online like these broke, ugly, confused, frustrated, dump,beggars and illiterates we see online cheesy , real feminists don't even have time to tell you that they are feminists, they won't even tell you what they are, you'll see it in them.


Nowadays, even ladies wee no sabi wash their pants de form feminists grin cheesy
depending on ur definition of success!!! But if ur implying that u hv to be a millionaire to be feminist ur wrong!! Am well to do but i put it to u that a woman selling tomatoes in the market can be a feminist if she wants to!!! Feminism is an ideology first which has to do majorly with ur thinking b4 any other thing!! As far u hv something doing!! Or hv a dream to make something off ur life!! Ur already a feminist as far ur mind agrees with it
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 7:40pm On Feb 20, 2018
bobphrisel:
ure independent. Good for you, gender equity is what should be preached and gender marginalisation abolished, no matter how independent a woman is,gender can never be equal, rights are equal, perogatives are equal, a woman can attain any height she wishes to, no man dare to stop her, but saying that gender should be equal, that cannot be attainable
hmmm really? this was probably what someone said abt women voting, getting properties, getting an education, even getting any political position but look at us now!! Change is the most constant thing in life, patriarchy is only but a stumbling block limiting women from their great potentials!!! More feminist are coming up n whether u choose to accept it or not change is coming! Gender is equal!!! Male n female!! We just hv physical diferences n thats all!!
Romance › Re: "Feminists Want Benefits That Men Get But Don't Want The Problem" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 7:31pm On Feb 20, 2018
CastedAyo:
A pretty Nigerian lady and a Twitter user with the name They See Me Trollin' had taken to her TL to share her own thoughts about the other women who claim to be feminists.

According to Wikipedia, "Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes. This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to those for men." However, it's sad that almost all the so-called feminists in Nigeria had taken it to the wrong direction.

According to the lady based on the meaning Nigerians Feminists has given it, they want the benefits that men get, but they don't want to deal with the problem that comes along with it.

See her tweet below;

https://torimill.com/2018/02/feminists-wants-benefits-men-get-dont-want-deal-problem-lady.html
and she is absolutely right!!! She is not the only one that has a problem with that!! I do as well!!! As much a women seek 4 the benefits of equality!! We should know equality goes both ways!!! Men pressure in the society should be reduced, pressure to meet up to standard n all that!! Thats the individualism theory of feminism!! I want feminism even in areas it doesnt benefit me!! Proud socialist unapologetic feminist
Romance › Re: If Your Score Is Less Than 40 You Need To Start Living (pix) by Shugavee(f): 11:02pm On Feb 19, 2018
66 grin
Romance › Re: Why Loyal Women Get Dumped Just Like Any Side "Chic" by Shugavee(f): 8:46pm On Feb 19, 2018
gbenyi:
Every woman wants a stable relationship where all her needs are fulfilled. In fact women get jealous and heartbroken when they find their partner cheating or not being true to them. So it is normally expected that the more nice and faithful a woman is, the longer her relationship would last. In the real sense, this seems not to be the case. Good and loyal women also get cheated on, are abused, used and dumped just like any other side-chick.

Some guys are natural born ‘players’. Even a pretty, submissive and loyal woman may not change their game of getting in and moving to the next available target.
Also, loyal and faithful women often trust too easily. This makes them more vulnerable to fall for the wrong guys who end up using and dumping them.
With all these evidences, the very many different notions and assertions that faithful and loyal women are more likely to get used and dumped seems like a truism.
The question is WHY? Why do some guys tend to take nice and faithful women for granted? What are the attributes that loyal ladies possess that are unattractive to some men? Why are good faithful women not getting the relationships they deserve?

Here are some of the reasons

1. Loyal Women are too submissive.

2. Faithful women have a higher tendency to nag.

3. She is too needy of affection.

4. Loyal women appear more desperate.

WHY LOYAL WOMEN GET DUMPED JUST LIKE ANY SIDE "CHIC"
ur right!!
Romance › Re: Ladies!!!!! 7 Things You Must Perfect To Attract Successful Men by Shugavee(f): 9:59pm On Feb 09, 2018
Jamariwolff:
have you met any rich men in mama put?

Doing what biko.
Those ones are average or outright poor.

I have studied their movement vigorously and mama put ain't one of it.
lol i disagree!! Most of those rich men hv average friends right n they are introduced to such places by them!!! Met a very rich man that goes to one mama put everyday after work 4 quality owo or banga soup!!! Asin he is bloody rich!!! Where i stay everyone knows him!!! Everyone loves good food!! It goes beyond hving so much money!!!

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