Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye Vs Anita Okoye. See What Somebody Shared On Facebook. How True Is Thi by silibaba: 4:26am On Aug 25, 2021 |
those wey never marry dey cry, while those wey don marry dey cry too. is better to live with the devil than a woman.
in all, marriage nah scam. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Learn How To Cartoon Using Your Phone � by silibaba: 9:27pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Horpeyemme: Teach me abeg Just download painnt app on your android phone. If you want a better finishing you have to go for the paid version. But the free is still good. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Learn How To Cartoon Using Your Phone � by silibaba: 8:57pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Horpeyemme: Teach me abeg I don't know ooo Am waiting for co-learners to join in. |
Family › Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days?? by silibaba: 7:14pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
[quote author=frozen70 post=105050812]In as much as I don't support such, definitely there must be a reason for that
Probably they are not sexualy satisfied in their marriage
To me, money is not the only reason women flirts love making remains the major problem
If you are not giving it to her rightly, she will get it elsewhere
If it's money, she can work and Make the money herself [b]but if it's sexual needs she can't help herself [[/b]vibrator nko?/quote] |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brothel Naija Bbnija by silibaba: 6:58pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
You try jare  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Learn How To Cartoon Using Your Phone � by silibaba: 6:11pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Let me wait for other to come first  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Khalil Haqqani: Wanted Al Qaeda Terrorist With $5m Bounty Reappears In Kabul by silibaba: 5:58pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by silibaba: 5:49pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
HeavenlyCherub: If you’re caught cheating. Should you be set ablaze? Who has not fallen short of God’s glory? yeah. Moreover, am not even sex freak. The only language I understand is money and business.  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by silibaba: 4:32pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
am sorry I sound like that, it wasn't intentional. for a married woman cheating? mehn, is so disgusting to me. I hate indecent dressing in women/girls talk more extra-marital affair. am not taking side in men, but I abhor seeing married women doing nonsense. if I get married and find my wife in the act, I will set her ablaze, I wont bother about the law that will hang me later HeavenlyCherub: Just by reading your comment I can tell sometimes people can read/listen but fail to comprehend. |
Autos › Re: 2010 Toyota Camry 2.9M (6mnths Naija Used) //SOLD by silibaba: 1:15pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
2.2million
buying on monday morning |
Romance › Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by silibaba: 12:02pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
HeavenlyCherub: Why do married men cheat. Women are tired of double standards. One good turn deserves another, treat others how you want to be treated. Better for you be transparent and inform someone you can’t do monogamy than deceive them. if you are married, please come make i fvck your punana pls nah. dont mind that your stupid boy you keep at home as a husband. i will do you fine sha  |
Education › Re: Lady To Pay Every Dime Spent To Sponsor Her Education After She Refused Marriage by silibaba: 11:58am On Aug 22, 2021 |
JovialJune: She owes him nothing, there was no written agreement whatsoever to prove it just words of mouth, nobody put a gun to his head to fund her education. 
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Business › Re: Elon Musk Is Now The Richest Man In The World As Tesla Stocks Soar To New Height by silibaba: 7:09am On Aug 18, 2021 |
Righteousness2: Congrats Elon, that is some Great massive Wealth there. But do you know being rich with all the wealth money can buy without being rich in JESUS Christ is a waste? Do you know not even a dollar will be taken with us to Eternity? Do you Know the Salvation of our Soul in Jesus Christ is what Really Matters? In all you acquire on earth, ensure your life is fully connected to JESUS. This is what Really Counts. Happy Sunday! |
Nairaland General › Re: BREAKING: Multi-billion Naira Fraud Rocks Top Nigerian Bank by silibaba: 9:25pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
i wont click, rara |
Politics › Re: CBN To Arrest Anyone Who Sprays, Steps On Naira Notes by silibaba: 8:07pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
my own for that matter
if i like, i go burn my money with fuel and matches, is none of his business. |
Education › Re: Meet One Of The Tallest Students In Ghana - Picture by silibaba: 10:01pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
KingAbdulazeez: This guy shorts will be like trousers for me. you must be as short as aki and pawpaw, from the way you compared yourself the the boy  |
Education › Re: Meet One Of The Tallest Students In Ghana - Picture by silibaba: 9:56pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
The boy knee dey for the man waist  |
Travel › Re: Policemen Caused Serious Accident in Delta While Trying To Arrest A Car Owner by silibaba: 8:50pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
our Nigerian police eh |
Sports › Re: My First Time Sky Diving by silibaba: 8:45pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
make me self show my first time sky diving  see pics below 
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Family › Re: Why Getting Married When You Are Struggling Financially Is A Bad Decision! by silibaba: 6:42pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
udoji2021: I just come across a thread about this topic and felt like contributing on it.
https://www.nairaland.com/6703059/struggling-hard-money-hasnt-come
Guys, I will not beat around the bush, getting married when you are not financially bouyant is the greatest mistake that can NEVER be corrected, infact, it's a sin and against natural laws to bring someone's daughter to your house when you are struggling to take care of yourself and consequently starts laying foundation of poverty that will last for generations if not forever.
WHY?
Experience is the best teacher, I'm a victim of such circumstances and I know what I face in that type of marriage and is still facing. When you make such mistake, you will start sleeping abnormally which is the first sign of things to come, it will then lead to over thinking and depression. Forget about family members, no one will be there to help you when you needed their help. Begging to feed or meet your financial obligations is even worst cos first, the insults you will receive can make you commit suicide, and if you start this begging, people will always give you fake promises, the time that you would have used in doing productive something will be on moving from one place to another or staying online to reply people. Forget about all this motivational speakers cos you will only see another motivational quote from them when the sh*t hits the fan.
Secondly, the saying that someone obtain favor from Whatever God when you are Married is also false to some extent, God don't pour manna from heaven this days as was reported in the Bible (don't know if this is even true), get married and sit at home waiting for favor from the Lord and see if you didn't die of hunger within days.
Most painful part is that, you may end up suffering for another person children ignorantly, HOW?
Let me give an example, I went to one politician for help and this man told me to back later, he later sent someone to call my wife and start telling her to sleep with him (heavy pregnant woman o) before he can help. I was lucky that my wife told me about it with proof of what the man was doing, that was the day I stopped calling him. Now, what if she agreed without telling me and continued after she birth?
Guys, hustle and settle down first marriage and thank me later.
Lastly, all this girls will keep telling you that I will manage, I will manage, but if they finally come and stay with you, they will not manage again. Infact, that is how some women have finally taken over their houses and start maltreating the husbands for been weak.
In a nutshell, I'm of the opinion that a guy should hustle and have money, hustle hard again and have more money before he can start thinking of marriage. good write-up and also good advice form you sir. but is it by force to get married? |
TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: Princess Evicted From The Big Brother House by silibaba: 8:10pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Candidlady: Haba
You guys will just open your mouth POROPOTOPOROPOTO she is an Oloso and she is Back to street hustling
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TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija: Princess Evicted From The Big Brother House by silibaba: 7:59pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
lalasticlala: Princess has been evicted from the BBNaija house.
Just before leaving, she revealed to the housemates that she has a crush on Cross and not White Money. her cross her business her life her headache her rotten toto |
Family › Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by silibaba: 4:00pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
saphiere: Facts.
I know some men who did not amount to anything but as soon as they got married they are now doing well. Two of them are landlords and all of them are car owners.
Indeed women are blessings. not those oloshos, except a virgin and her name must be Virginia |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Do You Feel When You Don't Have Offering To Give In Church? by silibaba: 2:30pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
CharisEleos: Nope but they use it here on earth for the propagation of the gospel.
The sound system needs maintainance, it naira they use.
The church organizes programs and print fliers. It is naira they use.
The church pays light bills, it's this same naira they use.
You get it now? then, there should just be a secret and voluntary contributions. not the one the pastor will compel you to dip your hand into the deepest part of your pocket and bring out your offering and raise it up for the whole world to see the amount you are about putting in the offering box. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Do You Feel When You Don't Have Offering To Give In Church? by silibaba: 10:32am On Aug 15, 2021 |
CharisEleos: If you have, give. If you don't have, God understands. There's no need to feel somehow and it shouldn't discourage you from going to church. Go and give your dance and clap offering to God.
Shalom. God understand what? Do they use naira money in heaven? |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Do You Feel When You Don't Have Offering To Give In Church? by silibaba: 10:31am On Aug 15, 2021 |
specie103: Praise God... As I no get offering today, choir can you please play me DORIME. Man shall not live by offering alone God bless you |
Christianity Etc › Re: How Do You Feel When You Don't Have Offering To Give In Church? by silibaba: 10:26am On Aug 15, 2021 |
seyi360: It has never been an easy feeling the times I had none to give Awkward and odd was the feeling ,to say the least. It should always be a thing of joy to be able to give cheerfully to the God who gave us all things. I love to always give to the Lord. I don't get it.how do you give to someone who gave you? And he is still in the business of giving. Go and give to the poor, that is the instruction in the bible. Ask Nicodemus and the rest. God don't need your naira biko. Just live a righteous life, that s all his asking you. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Refused Me See Her Breast by silibaba: 10:11am On Aug 15, 2021 |
seun should enforce age declaration while registering with nairaland, so that we go know who we go dey reply for this forum. too many kids here  should breasst be your problem? tomorrow you will come here and say you have many rich uncles and cousins but refused to help you. instead of you to channel you energy making money, your problem is just breasst. even if you already have money, keep on making the money. No amount of money can be enough for you if you dont know. Dangote self still dey find money. peaceout |
Romance › Re: What's The Best Way End A Relationship Without Hurting Your Partner? by silibaba: 6:54am On Aug 15, 2021 |
BadRadio: Is there a perfect approach to end a relationship without hurting a partner?
Maybe the relationship gets too boring often or perhaps u both are not compatible in anyway or perhaps u both want desame thing but in different ways and style.
Maybe u care about this person but u dont want to hurt their feeling and you know it is best that u both parted ways.
How do u go about it? make eba, warm soup for her before breaking up finally with her.  |
Phones › Re: SOLD!!!! Used Infinix Note 5 For Sale (pics) by silibaba: 11:56pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
infinite hot 10 come be how much. u funny die i swear  |
Travel › Re: Fully Loaded Bus Plunged Into Ebonyi River (Photos) by silibaba: 11:54pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
don't make a joke out of things like this. is unhealthy.  SLAP44: Fulani herdsmen again.
The bus might be dodging a herd of cows driven by one illiterate fellow. |
Phones › Re: Samsung Galaxy S10 Plus. Brand New But Just Cracked Screen by silibaba: 11:39pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
Father4all: Oga get away from my sight. I don't deal with nuisance like you. Do you know what it takes to buy a phone for 200,000? For your information Samsung is not for riff raff like you. The person that will buy it is the person that knows value of Samsung galaxy phones. "by the way" Samsung isn't for poor people. Rubbish dear scumbag, i don't use over hype phones like Samsung. i use Oppo Find X3 Pro. Get that into your skull rich fool.  |