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Jenams: [size=30pt]And una say OBJ nor try abi?[/size]

Mamaflex: I can do without it. Though it hurt.

Tripodmode: Dat 1 na gobe o cos am madly inlove wid my present gf...I fink ill just commit suicide dan go back 2my former...well, if it apens, ill just rule it out as fate but I don't pray it apens o.. Love my present gf like kilode

Tripodmode: Well, if u asked me dis ques 4years ago, I wuld say I biliv in destiny cos I dated a girl den 4 almost 6years but we later broke up...even after d break up, I stil use 2biliv no mater wat apens, I ll still end up wid er. Well dats because I ddnt go out and search...now, am madly in love wid anoder girl n we' bin datin 4 almst 3years now..d girl am datin now is d love of my life n deres nofin(I mean nofin), I can't sacrifice 4er or do jus 2b wid er. So back 2ur ques, I DON'T BELIEVE IN DESTINY...GBAM

Solowande: What abt d long quoting crew.dis crew will quote everything u post or comment

crackhaus: Destiny and love should not be used in the same sentence...my opinion!

Love is too dynamic to be tied to a person's destiny...why? Because it is an emotion.
Emotions are derived from feelings... Feelings are controlled by human impulses.
Destiny on the other hand is independent of human emotion and/or impulse. It is the super-natural force which guides or controls events.

The point here being, fate/destiny has no control over a human emotion such as love which is fleeting and can't be tamed.

My GF of 5 years out of the blue one day broke up with me. It was truly a shock, I didn't even see it coming. It turns out, there is someone else. From my own research, this person has not been in her life very long. I don't know how or when they met, but suddenly I am out of the picture. Our relationship has been through so much. My year long deployment, the death of her mother, and us taking care of her disabled sister. I just don't understand how this came to be. And now she's gone away with this other person for the weekend. It's been a month now and I'm still hurting as if it was the day of the break up. I have this knowing inside of me that she is my soulmate, my one and only. I waited my whole life for her. I always had a feeling since I was younger that I was only meant to be with one person. I dated but never felt anything for anybody. Not until her. I WAS 26 THEN! I waited for the love of my life, my first and last for 26 years and all of a sudden it's gone. Our relationship had it's share of struggles, and I by no means would have won gf of the year. I know it might sound corny, but everything inside of me is still telling me that we are meant to be together. I had to let her go so we could both grow and experiance things and that life will eventually lead us on the same path again.

maureen5: thanks , i just hope i didn't do bad.

ayabdul: my brother u hit d hammer on d nail

Elantracey: tanks dear here is it LOL

fabulousdame: dis is d first one..

safarigirl: Merry Xmas Mr. President. As you settle down with the Shepopotamus to eat #30 million Xmas food, remember the poor and hungry, those who settle for jollof rice with dry fish cuz they couldn't afford chicken. Remember those who are spending xmas in hospitals, and pay NMA their dues so that those people don't die for lack of health care before the end of the year. Merry Christmas Nigeria

tayour917i: Don't mind d wife jare..... Pride is one of those things with SOME women, what she meant actually is dat u shud be trying to call her "mummy" ...... But dats only possible when u start to "daddy" ur pastor.......... just bone her side and continue your good relationship with God through ur "Pastor abcd"

Abeniboy: The OP might be right wit her action, but the truth is @op, you r not yet broken, I mean you have not started the Christian race. If you are, you wouldnt be posting this kind of things of social media to allow people that have made up their minds that they wouldnt make heaven or people the prince of this world has blinds their eyes and sealed their hearts from the truth to be making comments against the Church of God. I will suggest next tym you keep such to urself. Thank you