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Tgirl4real:
Yea girl, I later saw the mail when I logged on.

Very soon I will send her to spend the weekend at your place so that I can rest.

But, I hope it's normal for her to still wake up to feed like that.


Guys,

Some days ago, I saw in the dailies and on TV that the Ist lady is holding a retreat. I wonder what they want to teach themselves. Is it how to cook or clean the house? Yeye people.

I think it's rather insensitive to publicise such an an event at this time. With people loosing lives and properties from Boko-haram to natural disaters to NLC strike.

hehehe abeg send her sharp sharp

they are probably going to discuss maybe issues that are affecting them esp as women

kingschuks

independent is quite important i agree

why permanently? are you going to be pregnant forever? since thats the reason for the stay

the post was caught by the spambot.


abeg jor, she wants and enjoys the night actions

there is nothing wrong in stating your own state. also there is nothing wrong in stating your own state and your husband i.e " i am from, B state but/and i am married in A state" or "i am from C state however, i am married to a D state man" etc. or " i am originally from E state but now married to. . . . ."

there shouldnt be any change, since there is/are so many ways of answering the question. 

it is generally nigerian culture that marrying a person, esp men, means marrying his whole village and their problems, so some women find it only but natural to state their husbands origin, since they are now a member of that state, tradition, and culture by martial naturalization.

it is the same as some naturalized american/uk/Canadian etc citizens. since, they are a naturalized citizen of that country, some now claim it as their own. i.e, asking an american naturalized Canadian where he is from, his new answer will likely be " i am an american" etc

meaning what exactly

.,

iice:
[color=#9900ff][b]Sorry being present is not the same as making impact.
It's like how people confuse talking for communicating.[/color]

I LIKE THIS

iice:
[color=#9900ff]And two branches.

Sup Sissy [/color]

Hehehehe


Im fine my dear. longest tyme. how are you doing

try the romance section. dem full there

Roland17:
parents have become tooo busy for their kids in today's modern world, kids are now trained by wat they see and hear, peer pressure is also another new mother they look up to, the girl certainly has a clear mind that is as open as a book, she obviously did not know wat she was doing, that was why she could confide in me, the case has been reported to the CPS(child protection services) and the investigations have commenced, the child would be taken away from the parents soon,

good thing the CPS is investigating. i hope it goes more further than the investigation.

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=712281.msg8707042#msg8707042 date=1310543079]Sup Sissy


Longest time m'lady.

Come why is it that everytime we jam, I am on the phone, I dey suspect you oh, which kain inframagnetikinetic wave dey commot ya body wey dey interfere with my lappie, lol.[/quote]I dey vex for you jare

na who you left all this place and just disappear eh ?

abeg dey show face for here, if you no wan me n u to enter leg for one trouser

i dey kampe my dear. how bodi

i think you can but with the light padded bras. not the big padded ones. you are already "blessed", so no need to over pour

tell your wife to start doing kegels exercise. very effective.

and you stop being a bush man. so, you would allow your wife to through a major surgery just for vain reasons? are you even considering the risk and complications associated with a major surgery?

you should have considered not having kids at all at the beginning at least that would have saved you the stress and indecision on where to settle for the surgery. yea, go ahead and do a vagionplasty and pray and hope, it will be like that forever.

WHY? because Y has a long leg

and where is the fathers in all of this? oh i forget, they are exempted from teaching their children moral values too and as well as bringing up their child/children. it is the mothers job after-all. so, if she doesn't do it, nobody else will. let the child/children be anuofia/s because since mom cant do it, no anybody else should care.



anyways, your story is quite a sad one. i applaud the girl for having the courage to say somethings thats not always the case in many instances. you did good by advising her to tell her somebody. though some would gone to the extent of calling the police/family and child services right-way because that right there is a clear case of child abuse. i would have most definitely called either the police or child services to investigate further because the chances of anybody in the family calling the police on this, is slim(unless she tell her school counselor or teacher). they would most likely try to cover it up or not believe her or just shun the cousin----which wouldnt most likely work because he will just invent new tactics to keep her shut.

"mother is never at home", as regards her own case here, it could be that her mother is a single mom, working 2 to 3 jobs to make ends meet. hence, has limited time to spend at home. why that's is sad (if working is the case here), i think it proves true the saying that "it takes a village to raise a child"

you are asking if its a sin not based on moral aspect of the r/ship but solely based on the age?

Outstrip:
What never ceases to amaze me is that nobody is talking about why the man is not locked up in jail right now. he is making phone calls to his children everyday after he did such a horrible thing. I wish her well and I hope that her children (especially) her son does not see this and think that it is okay to do it because there will be no consequences.

baffles me too

God help us. the heart of a man. . . . .

let me get this right, she HASNT seen her period for a WHOLE YEAR?

deasy

nice tips!.

however, i will have to differ with you on 28. but, if you are talking about monetary reward/incentive then you are right but if not, i will differ on that.

TGirl

oops. mea culpa. my dear i didnt see his question

thanks lot ezeagu!

pls, can someone help me with this english-igbo translation


' i am at my father's wife house"?

thanks!

punching a 7 year old child for at least 30 times? he is more than crazy if this is indeed true. really crazy. what kind of crime would a 7 year old commit to warrant him to beat like that. oga o

yay! make you keep your word oo, erhmm. . dont make the list to long too

@ ragdollz

nobody is castigating her, just the way she responds . . . .

which one be man-lover again? LOL

what are those hands doing under *there*

just asking

yep, things have changed quite a lot around here but the likes of you are not helping issue by disappearing nah. it gets worse so, abeg try to dey show your presence, i will bribe you if that will make you stick around . i dey fine my sista.

why then seek advice when you're going to defend him and still ask if there is a problem smh. with her type of defensiveness, even if she knows/founds he is smoking/drinking she might still be in denial of it. anyways good-luck to her sha.

Wow! na you be dis . longest tymeeeeee . you are mean o, see how you just disappear from this place like that

how bodi

*E-hug* 

missed your presence around here jare!

OP abeg calm down your attitude jor.

maybe it is high time you COMMUNICATE with your husband and get to the root of the missing brush/paste. from your post, it seems this might be a new development or something that has been going on for awhile without your knowledge. so, it is necessary you found out but be wise on how you go about asking about it because if he senses you are 'nagging' him, he might start leaving his own brush/paste at home and start buying it outside. tricking you into thinking problem is solved but . . . . . .


it is either he is drinking or smoking and concealing it by brushing his teeth

or

he is just a neat/germ freak that must brush his teeth after eating.

or he is doing some "things" that requires mouth cleaning

or he has poor oral hygiene and is self conscious about it

for all i care, it is abnormal in my book for one to be carrying paste/brush when you are not planning a sleepover, not a 'teeth be must be clean' freak kind of person and not drinker/smoker chronic or social.

only you can find out the reason.