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do you think the boy might be his (BIL) giving the timing?


your BIL looks like the type that wouldnt let this die, no matter your beggings. he is the type that would like to reclaim his son years later especially when he marries and is unable to have his own child.

start using creams/lotions with an least SPF 15 and up. proper skin exfoliation might help too with dead skin removal cause dead skin can make your skin appear dull and lifeless

what could be more scary to this baby than his mothers nose blowing?


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imagine the audacity " domestic accident" what kind of fuckery is 'domestic accident' with an acid bikonu? Lawd have double mercy.


thank God, the acid didnt completely disfigure her face.

I'd rather strive for balance. I prefer authoritative parenting to authoritarian parenting. With authoritative parenting, your chances of raising a well rounded and well balanced kids both socially and academically is high. unlike, authoritarian parenting. yes, with authoritarian you might get a well rounded academically sound child but at what cost to their social, and personal development?


While i do agree that there are equally important things we can learn from Amy's parenting skills, i feel that in some instances she did over do it. i do think however, that it is a bit early/premature to be over-glorifying yourself and your parenting skills when your kids are barely out of high school. they still have many years ahead of them to prove how [i]really [/i]good you raised them and certainly, things can change.


yes, her daughter sohpia got accepted into havard and yale which she might/will attribute to her "tough" parenting, however, there are many ivy league students/graduates who, while they didnt goof around, still enjoyed reasonable personal freedoms and still achieved big.

as the saying goes in parenting, do whatever works for you.

tampons are hard getting used it. requires a little effort and practice but are really comfy once used it. but the practice turns most people off

too much exposure to the sun without proper protection can tan you. were you light before? or just dark but now getting darker?

sadly, memory loss is an inevitable part of life cycle. how old is your dad? there are other factors as such as

Dementia can cause/affect memory loss. however, before we jump to any conclusions can you describe his type of memory loss? like his symptoms?

yea, start a new topic and we will take it from there

Been fine my dear. na life no wan make person rest. hope you're fine too

i tire for all this "post one sentence, thread then post you site" kind of threads

feed them eba with egusi soup stuffed with stockfish, goat meat, smoked fish etc and they will be asking you for the recipe after biting off their hands from the excessive sweetness.


like the fired plantain with sauce idea hauwa suggested. the akara suggestion is good too if you can make it without it sucking too much oil.

since you did jellof rice last time, you can always do the classic white rice w/stew. if the other come short. it is rice but still different variation of it.

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why the sad face

ifyalways:
@OP,Don't even make the mistake of leaving your house,not for your MIL or anyone.

How u handled the situation is def. not the best or ideal,it was more of acting on impulse still what your MIL did cannot be excused!

You should have just gone ahead to do the change over OR call out your wife seperately and ask her.

Besides,is it even remotely possible that they had no idea that PHCN had restored power?Is there any way for them to know?any giveaways?Remenber they are indoors?

Done is done,way to go is to be firm and take charge as the man of the house.Don't fall for your wife's silence or be as foolish as to stop talking to her.

Call and sit her down,apologise to her for your earlier outburst,then tell her that what her mum did is unacceptable and therefore MUST leave the house.That's it!!

She can go home and try slapping her OWN husband.

Agree. yes, they might not even know that NEPA has restored light given that they both inside watching movies.

harakiri:
First of all, marriage is totally out of my "things to do with my life" list. Second, i would have called off the relationship if i felt uncomfortable during the dating period.

Shikena!

Never say Never. remember LIFE is what HAPPENS when you are busy planning. when you NEVER expect/ed it.

Second, i would have called off the relationship if i felt uncomfortable during the dating period.

understandable, if there were any showing of it during courtship. still waiting for the OP to say if this was the case in hers

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wrong thread but what is your location

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Im sure you wouldnt be giving a side eye and taking a second look, and be as forgiving, if your future wife enages in this hugging,pecking whispering, and lying on same bed with his father

why dont you post your findings here?

Na you talk that one o

not surprising given your age/stage in life and location/environment. in fact,this kinds of feelings are almost always expected.

you feel that no one of them understands you, they are all to get you and probably hates you. dont give you the freedom/independence that you need and are very uptight.

jennykadry:
Did you not notice all of these during courtship? Because there is no way these two would have hidden their undying love for eachother. Or were you hoping to change things when you ''get married'' but now frustrated because it's not working as planned?

I want to know too. cause this kind of a thing dont just start overtime. or maybe she probably saw it and overlooked it



Op

yes it is very quite understandable that as the only kid, he might be very close to his mom, however, the lying on the same bed, whispering sweet nonsense to each other is somewhat uncomfortable reason being that he is a 27 going to be 30 year old man and married for that matter.  there are certainly other ways to show mother to son affection than this. this is a limit to everything biko.

you do want to be careful with the language/approach you use when discussing because if you talk too much, he will think/say you are being jealous, hateful etc towards his mother and you know how some MIL can be, she will accused you of trying to separate him and his son blah blah. he might not even realize that you are uncomfortable with the "acts" he and his mom engage in.

he is certainly, taking the phrase "mamas boy" to a whole new extra meaning.

it might be worth noting that maybe the mom is suffering from separation anxiety(though more evident in kids) given that your husband is his ONLY child, hence the reluctance to 'release him' so dont expect a quick fix

me i only saw reason two? wey the remaining 5 kwanu?

sex and money are the two most important ingredients in a marriage

hmmmm.

Lol

school phase don pass be dat

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg8158893#msg8158893 date=1303164130]LOL! Happy new year to you too.

After you left, everybody left too nau. netsose sef no dey show.[/quote] make una come back nah

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg8158893#msg8158893 date=1303164130]Tell me you got into the pediatrics school you were after.[/quote]that one na long stori!

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg8158840#msg8158840 date=1303163541]Iyawo wa, I saw you online and I thought I was hallucinating!!


Chiee!! How far? Hope you dey kampe.  [/quote]mami how body? na me you see oh.

missed you my dear

longest time

my people how una dey?

[size=2pt]_{[s]merry xmas[/s[/size]]}, happy new year to you my dearies


miss you guys [size=3pt]_{so tey i come dey see you guys for my dreams every morning and afternoons} [/size]

e be like say una do run comot this place eh kwa . oya make una come back sharp sharp

Tgirl BIG CONGRATULATIONS to you honey!

i know im late but accept my lateness

hope you both are super fine. thank God for safe delivery and less crying and more sleeping!

big warm welcome to the most rewarding,yet nerve racking, busiest 24/7 job,gosh  i cant do this anymore, no oh,  i can, world of motherhood.

tell her say, big aunty dey greet.

may she bring more joy, blessing, happiness to you and yours than you can ever imagine.

CONGRATS MY DEAR

I must be weird and very old fashioned cos I'dont see the odd/weird thing in this. 21 is not super old, she is just coming off her teen ages. So it's not as if she is 30 or 35. And coming from a large family such wide age diff. Is not uncommon

19yrs age difference is not unheard of. I know PLENTY of them. So No it's not weird. and it's very harsh of you to say you're not looking forward to seeing the pics of your little brother as if you had previous issue with him. Quite silly I might add. F what your friends bloody say/think or what people might say. Be happy if not for anything else that your mother had a safe delivery, and that your brother have now a brother he always wanted. You don't welcome a new life by being resentful no matter what.
21 is not even that old to have a lil sibling.

I bet if you were the daughter of that woman that have 19 kids and counting and now has a granchild from her oldest 20yr old daughter and is(mom) not done having kids sef, you probably call police on her and force tugal ligation on her.

Tell your freinds if you must, "Omg, my mother just gave birth to a little healthy baby boy!!!. I am so happy for my family ESP my lil bro, cause he always wanted a lil brother. I can't wait to see the pics of his little cheeks" etc whatever your friends after this
other than being happy for you is and should be their bloody business.

You can't change the fact that he's here now. And don't take out frustrations at your parents on him. He didn't ask to be born or be born to in your family where her older sis wouldn't be so cheerful on seeing him. He has nothing to do with your anger my dear.

Op did you willingly out of your choosing, and consent marry a man with three kids? Or is it one of those pushy-force marriages?

wonders have already finished