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why sag the pant? why not just wear pant or the boxer as in real pant(not trouser) and be walking around?


dress how you want to be addressed

where is everyone 



the power of a mother's touch


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scoopylife:
@sissy  you expect the world to believe its real just because you say it is real,  Proofs that,s what I need

you dey fear? use your self as an experiment, it will be the perfect way to convince you. very effective, highly effective. gave it  a try you wouldnt be disappointed

disgusting to you, valuable to them

thought they said it was the igbo-ora ppl?

it is real as in REAL.  still not convinced? you can always volunteer to be the human guinea pig experiment

19 is still quite young but then again everyone matures differently and want different things

since she seems adamant about it, i'd say allow her chance or lost at it. though, marriage isnt just one of those situations in life that allows you to just quickly walk-out when the fantasy is over.

as for the promise of furthering her education after marriage, she shouldnt be too naive to swallow up the promise.when you are married, the normally next step is having kids and the whole family life sets in, you feel overwhelmed, you focus changes and then school becomes less of a priority. going to school after marriage/kids isn't easy as it sounds, many have tried and not as many walked the walk on the graduation day.

it would have been much easier if she finished up before marriage, at least she will have something to fall back on just in case instead of relying on going after marriage.

and who really WANTS the marriage, her or the man?

^^^

from the look of it, it seems like she was trying to 'please' the aunty, sort of like showing/proving to her " aunty, you see im not that kind of girl you think i am" kind of it, giving that the aunty never liked her from the beginning.

nice arms

he did the right thing by sending them both out the house and setting the boundary. they both just need to get adjusted to the venom that will coming their way, causing from the sound of it, that auntie of his is not going to let go easily.

@nonnyp

thats more than great! you shouldnt be worried about the months/1year difference. it means nothing, i have known people with only 11months to 1year differences. and there is nothing 'weird' or 'wired' about them. dont be concerned about peoples opinion too, remember people will always talk regardless.

no baby is a mistake no matter the circumstances surrounding the conception and birth, because God makes no mistake. it is a gift and im happy you have openly accepted it. Goodluck to you and yours

so you are keeping the baby

stillwater:
Your fore-fathers had some hairstyles too and felt handsome with it. Why don't we see more of you with these?

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. you take style wicked sha. you no know whether na the mans face you go admire or his head and hair

thanks odumchi

this is sooo annoying to watch. how dare she allow that boy to cross that boundary?. this is so embarrassing

are you trying to abort soley because your other baby is barely 1yr old?

and thats the number of only people who know their status. imagine the number of the unknown

pls, how do you say " you are a bad person" in igbo thxs

i pity that girl. she is an emotional wreck and 45yrs from now she will still be messed up from this. cant understand why his father would intentionally take advantage of his daughter like this. kai some people sef.

he is even cheating on her. imagine, telling your gfs that your bf/father is cheating on you. wahala dey.

he doesnt want to have kids with her because thats a line he wouldnt cross. yeah right. you already have/is having sexual relationship with your own bloody daughter what line is left to be crossed?


dont even know whats more irritating and disgusting, the fact that they are both in a sick deluded sexual relationship or the fact that they both have the sick gut to come on a show, kiss and show the world their nasty doings.

God have mercy on the girl and triple mercy on his even sicker father

i guess it is time for an implementation of a license to have babies.

how stupid. giving an 8yr child a botox, when she is 55 what will she be given? and what hair is she even waxing sef?

zayhal:
Nice manners!

I believe more in practicing those things before my kids than always telling them 'do'! 'don't!. Practicals really work well with kids as they tend to imitate adults around them especially their parents and teachers.

Let me also add that it's better to always use the positive and leave out the negative when instructing kids. For example, instead of saying


[center][b]Don't leave the door open.

Don't eat with your left hand.
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rather say:

[centerAlways shut the door.

You should eat with your right hand.[/center]

definitely agree!

scopusng:
Because with God anything is possible. Get it u devil.

if you dont have anything better to say please just move on. thank you

is it something that she suddenly started having like recently? or something that she use to experience before

We do. just that some hardly know what it is called/know its symptoms or will simply not admit that they do have it

i want to ask a question to all the God mentioning people here.


Why does he have to turn to God now that he is HIV positive? it seems like whenever somebody on this NL mentions that they are positive it is always turn to God, repent this and that but thats hardly the case in other instances when another disease is mentioned. why God all of a sudden? just curious.

what is a technical college? is it like a vocational school?

OP

the deed is done. however, you might want to get a second opinion on the test just to reassure you that it is indeed positive.

the next step is not how to tell anybody but how to take good care for yourself now and arm yourself with all the necessary reliable and accurate informations you lay your hand on regarding this disease and how to manage it.

i'd encourage you to visit/see a doctor and see when you can start treatment. the earlier, the better.

next is to change your lifestyle( diet, attitude towards everything, life and the disease inclusive because it can and will get discouraging at times) to accommodate your management of this disease.

telling your family will be hard because some people still see/think hiv as a death sentence, not everyone know that it is not transmitted by hand shake, sharing plate etc so do brace yourself for the stigma your might face/ if any) from your own family and others you might tell. there is no easy way per se to tell them you have HIV.

if i may ask how close/supportive is your family? because you will definitely need their support.

[quote author=prince_onx link=topic=664363.msg8296424#msg8296424 date=1305084877]Not sure why my first reply didn't post here but guy ^{I don't know why I don't believe your story} I don't understand how you went for HIV/AIDS test yesterday, got the result this morning and buummm here you are on NL telling us tory! ^{don't know how many people that will think of their computer or even remember how to type only hours after collecting a HIV P result?} [/quote]everybody deals with situations very differently. he is dealing with his by sharing it and seeking more info on it.

to the doubters


any 'normal' person playing with hiv disease  is obviously sicker than the hiv disease itself. i dont think that is the case here


even if the story is 'abnormal' Im sure many folks on NL and guest readers alike who are in similar position or knows someone who is would most definitely gain from whatever that is said here.

brb

any objections? or any more manners to add?


sadly, we expect kids to know and do all this things while some/many adults do nada and are worst offenders of this manners