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he must be really feeling like a real dimpka(sp)/real man now after dealing with his uruly child wife

poor kids

oh ok. there is actually a thread on here for med lab.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-261398.0.html

welcome

whats the need to cover it up and create the illusion of 'slim and slender me' and when its removed its back 'fat stomach/fat me' reality 101?


inasmuch its very convenient and effective for a time being and losing weight is hard, i'd personally prefer to sweat it out and own it

hard and very tough choice. taking a life to save a life?


what is the guarantee that the new kidney will stick?

what is the guarantee that she wouldnt die during the surgery? or that the boy wouldnt die during the surgery too?

doctors have no definite expiration date on life. its not theres to stamp, so what will happen if the boy dont die in 10yrs or less?

netotse:
i'm fine o. . .[size=5pt]i know you're fine cos i've been monitoring you and FL[/size]

LOL . u no serious

k. . .i've prolly watched one too many single dad comedies, i tend to see such things from the point of bonding experiences, as in, it'll never happen again the important thing to do is be there for someone you love during a confusing time, it's not really about knowing the correct thing to do/say.Hopefully, much later in life both of them'll be able to laugh about it.

yea, it could open that channel for bonding and open even more ample opportunity to have the open mind to discuss the "sex talk" and boys.

zayhal:
Not all dads feel embarrased about these things. Mine was a very blunt dad. My mum travelled when I first saw my menses. Dad was home. I was feeling so embarrassed telling him but he made the situation so light. He asked if I'd read a book he bought for me few months ago, can't remember the title now but it's about growing into puberty and stuff. Funny thing, I never opened the book for once and I told him so. He said, ok, no problem. we must have been taught something like this in my biology classes at school, he was right but I still denied that we weren't taught, don't know why I did that.

He then went out and came back with a sanitary towel and handed it to me, asked if I could use it and I said yes.
Later that day, he sat me down and had a long talk with me about all the stuff. How a girl can become pregnant, relating with the opposite gender etc etc. We became much closer since then.

some dads would be less embarrassed about it, if at least there has always been that father-daughter good relationship before. even though it would sort of awkward at first i.e describing the whole anatomy of what is happening etc, it wouldnt necessarily cause a huge embarrassment. for example, you can imagine  a very authoritarian dad u didnt really always have that one-one relationship with all of a sudden start discussing those kind of things with you. but the dude i described was pretty very embarrassed

anyways, its nice yours turned-out  good and helped established a long term result and that very special and important father-daughter bonding.

nice work

sigh.

u dont understand. do u

how u dey


i wouldnt want to be his experimental -professor -student -lesson . embarrassing for some mothers sef to talk about, talk-less of a dad. i guess he wasn't expecting it so sudden and at so unexpected place. at least, if he had known early maybe, -she is of a certain age so it might start anytime soon- kind of thing, he would have probably asked one of his sisters/aunts/mother or female friends to do the lecture. which is what most men do.

now he has to sit her down, explain,buy pads/drugs etc


a girl was discussing how when first started hers, she was living with her dad(divorced) when she first saw it, she immediately told her dad that she started her period and he should go and buy her pads. he told the dad not to tell anyone or families out of embarrassment.

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i was listening to a program one day,and this man called and was so choked up(with lack of words/embarrassment/emotions) the school just called him and told him that his daughter(his is divorced and have custody) have started her period and is very hysterical(poor girl) so he needs to come to the school. the dude was so embarrassed, he didnt know what to say to his little- now growing into a woman- princess. what will he say,how would he explain the whole process of menstruation to her without creating an awkward environment for himself and his girl etc. i felt so bad for him because this is the sort things better handled at least well by mothers and females, now the poor dude has to be a substitute professor for "the what is happening to your body" 101

knotty:
It is 2 years down the lane.

the boy has finally woken up from his slumber.

the tide has changed. he is the gentle bully now. i am so proud of his leadership skills around his peers.

so the oppressed have become the oppressor?

so he only wants u to wear skirts and dresses?

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg6853677#msg6853677 date=1285901392]SMH. . . . Let someone tell me not to respond. . . . SMH

BTW, did you watch BABIES!? Up till today, I still havent watche dit [/quote]u know sometimes the problem is that some men feel that their wives deviate attention from them and focuses too much on the baby that in some cases results not in jealousy but in 'competition of attention'


nah, didnt watch it. but i think its out on dvd now.

http://www.nbcuniversalstore.com/detail.php?p=270291

and also on itunes

http://www.apple.com/itunes/charts/movies/babies/

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg6853625#msg6853625 date=1285899281]Some men are just disgusting. . . rats full of utter rubbish. I hope she's making his azz pay child support. Useless man.
If you dont want a child, abstain from se x or use a freaking condom. sheesh.

You know, I really dont care if they dont know what to do with babies, they can learn like the first mothers. Can you imagine a man telling you that he cant help you take care of his 23-chromosomes? [/quote]LOL if only they think like that we wouldnt have negligent/irresponsible fathers i swear. sadly, some mens job as a "father" ends when the egg receives the sperm.

u know like how moms tend to be emotionally bonded to their newborns and tend to respond always when they cry, some nutty men even tell them to leave him/her to cry. u can imagine

I wish God can just show us women a sign before we do the deed

he does. but the problem is will you recognize it and will u heed to it.

modath:
@General house,
Where is everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

they're busy exercising

sms4health:
Don't just tell someone to stop something without explaining. They almost never obey.

he doesnt really need to explain nada to her sef. its her private and intimate business and no one else. if she wasnt a neat lady generally, then his 'poknosing' would have been more bearable and be on the line of "how do i get my gf to be more hygienic with her self/surrounding".


some females prefer pads,tampons, reusable cups etc it doesnt make them more 'hygienic' in terms of how the OP is viewing it

oga o. who fit eat dat one? pure diharra be dat

hes is a papa o. he said when they had a baby, he just left the wife to take care of the baby and wasnt really into the baby that much. i pitied the wife and the baby. he prefers them a little older. he can play with them,they can talk back, etc


i wasnt really that surprise because i know that some men usually have problem with babies/infants cause i always hear" i dont know what do when he/she start crying" i dont know what he/she need, i cant stand their crying,diapers etc

you know some people including some mothers sef dont/cant recognize the types/ its meaning babies make

ifyalways:
Haahahaha.
E sumora jare abi oshe ekpe fun e
You missed the[b] big phat ladies ,backing a baby and holding 2 toddlers all for One seat[/b]

ewo!

manmustwank

[quote author=Missy ★ B link=topic=521741.msg6852509#msg6852509 date=1285877539]https://img296.imageshack.us/img296/207/barbecue4ob.jpg[/quote]what 'heck is that 'thing' on left side of the grill

berra not be what am poor mind is thinking

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg6852515#msg6852515 date=1285877629]Thanks for bringing me back t my maternal side

Some of these pictures are obvious tho. Why would you put a TV by a baby's bed? Apart from safety, too much radiation can afftect their sight[/quote]you'd be suprise some people dont know 'heck about babies and wouldnt look twice doing any of the above

when i was in sch, the prof asked what stage/group of children are u most comfy with and why. some said babies/infants,tweens/teenages etc and one man said older younger kids because he can communicate with them,play with them etc and he HATES babies/toddlers stage because he doesnt know what the heck to do with them. doesnt like changing diapers, the crying fuzziness and he cant communicate with them.  

welcome back iice


" I've never had a bald head sha. . .that one pass my power"



me too. even when i was in sec school when it was mandatory to cut hair, i never went that "low". dat one pass me jare. i may get the liver to cut my hair right now but to go dat low will require both of my kidneys,  heart and liver combined

it was unisex before nah. who no wish their pikin "Goodluck"?

awww my poor Emeka has been farting too much eh kwa



its normal to be gasing nah. you changed your diet including some veggies---beans, cauliflower,Cabbage, broccoli,russels sprouts, onions, tuna,apples,peaches whole grain products/Dairy products and fresh fruits etc can cause am. change also your drink. i no say u no dey drink beer but ermm if u happen to be taking a sip stop am. cut down on soda too. also swallowing air--which can occur when food/drink is rushed dey am. chew your food well well b4 u swallow. u hear? your have been dissolved of your farting. go now and fart no more my poor Emeka

you might want to try Beano

the thought of using someone else's 'discharge' and putting/rubbing it on your face with its bad smell and 'cloths' is more than disgustingly disgusting

OP

from your story, it seems that you both have a child now. my question in regards to the child is, did your wife breastfed,did she deliver vaginally and if she did the above, did she tell you whether she was given any medication to prevent the transmission of the virus to the child?

maybe they are afraid that the 'free money' will stop coming once you come home and it also mean competition business-wise.

^^^^

lucky you. only 5hrs

tpiah:
as long as whatever is being used is kept clean, no biggie.

[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=520397.msg6838604#msg6838604 date=1285696379]you mind him, let him and his likes continue to pretend. african women and maybe women around the world in the past use old clothings for their period.[/quote]https://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b45/sbreik/animated%20images/smileys/mgyes.gif



whatever she prefers to use on her cycle should be her business as long as everything is clean at the end of the day. maybe thats what she is used to way before you met her and prefers it. leave her and cycle alone jor

i was going to ask that but knowing how daring some people are willing to go as regards to certain 'cures' you'd be surprise they wouldnt mind "paying" young girls for their blood or even going through the trash to pick used pads