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lannre:
I see married women who are well to do and still [u]fornicate around,[/u]I see them doing it with impunity.  I ask my self rhetorically - [b]What do women really wants ?

by well to do you mean financial stability? status? can you explain what you mean by that

youngalex:
Bisexuality or lesbianism is a very demonic act,suprisingly from my research more than 60% of naija babes indulge in it.i lost my first love to lesbianism she claimed to be a christian and a virgin yet it took me 3 years to find out she's a lesbian since then 'LOVE' became a greek word to me,if i were u man take her for deliverance,if u still notice it pack her out(not divorce) she can visit frm time to time,i cal it technical seperation

research indeed

i guess i was late eh? that traffic was just horrible how can i miss egusi with lumps + amala on a sunny afternoon kai poor me

iice:
[color=#9900ff]That is just wrong[/color]

on so many levels . involving those poor kids is just despicable, no justification for it.

nothing wrong with it. it happens. maybe you're attracted to them because you sense their maturity and/or more experience etc consciously or not. some young folks tend to find those in their age bracket to be ""too premature/immature" therefore tend to be attracted to much older folks than them. your attraction to this kind of women, is just like older men falling for "chicks". the only objection in it is probably going to be from the likely negative reaction you will likely get from your family/friends/people seeing you go out such pole of women.

variety is definitely the spice of life

FL Gators:
Aunty Sissy Eko,
I dey o, just grasping life by its horn.
NL don dey dry since your type no dey come here often anymore.

i feel you jare! no worri mami e go beta [size=2pt]hopeful [/size]

happy Easter dear remember to fed-ex my own jollof rice with chicken tighs and a bottle of chill coke, if you no wan trouble

@ Tgirl

sistawoman have gone awol with so many others

happy easter to you too dear

tEsLim:
We all have the right to choose. I'm just trying to make more people aware that they're not obliged to get married because its popular or because every other person is getting married. A friend spent money he could have spent buying super fly coupe atleast a BMW Z3 on his wedding and now going through another expensive divorce.

No be by force. Live freely

you think people already dont know this?

kokoye:
Oh Ohhh, so gender equality does not apply in this situation??

Mr santa claus its only in things like this, you guys would want and remember "gender equality" but in others things it becomes a "mans world"
make una carry go jare, we no want your 'free'equality' bullet to the head gift we dash you guys

@ Deep Soul

Dear, i am in no way suggesting you leave your bf/finance, you know him and yourself better. you probably misunderstood my point, all i am saying is that you follow your heart and instincts and not have the mindset that 'he will probably change after marriage' most women have. that's all. so there is nothing like 'is easier say than done' in the point i was making, experience have taught me so. and like you said, its the person who wears the shoe that knows where it hurts most. goodluck to you dear.

^^^^^

they called the police and handed the video and she was rightly arrested

What do you feel about substance abusers i.e. drug-users, alcoholics etc?

i try hard not to be so judgmental of them because some of them are there because life circumstances pushed them into it and they probably think/thought its the only way out. however, many of them still scare the crap out of me and make me angry, especially those in relationships/marriage who are likely to descend on people when they're uselessly full.

How do you think they should be handled within society?

i dont think they should seen or treated as 'outcast'(in some cases/instances) but people who need serious help and rehabilitation. theres always that room for change/hope

How do you think they should be treated after committing a crime to feed their habits?

punished and rehabilitated

Do you believe in applying love? Tough love? Condemnation? Iron fist?

tough love first.

awwwwww . . . . . . .congratulation!!!!!!!!!!

very super happy for you!!! wishing you a very happy and peaceful home


@ Ebony

how u dey

awww. . . .very lovely

you have already made your pick. so no long thing but if only things were really as black and white like you just depicted . . . . .

your life, your choice.

which one do you want first, the one sentences blog linkers (those who open a thread just to advertise their blogs n cures) or the phone ## droppers or the scammist

you did think so but some ppl in desperate need of help and others who probably has no knowledge of a problem will be willing to fall prey to their scams just to solve their problems. pisses me triple off, when they prey on the vulnerability of people here. funny thing is, they always have a cure for every diseases on the face of the planet, name it, they got the 'cure' just makes this section less lively

Ebonyeyes:
Its so annoying People ask for problems and they flog their fake sites. I wonder what the mods are doing about it.

it'd probably be harder to chase this scams out 'cause they definitely outnumber her with their multiple ids and ever increasing number

but i simply cant understand the reasons why they flood this section with their gibberish

NVM

Sagamite:
Thank God, I did not watch it.

you should try and watch and just see the helplessness of that baby wondering how/where her little body/self has offended this woman so bad to deserve such maltreatment. just too maddening to see the woman prey on the vulnerability of that baby. she is a baby, what could she/he have done? this is the kind of people, i just want to put a sharp in the fire, leave in for 30mintues and use to slap her while they weep in pain.

one more reasons why having children needs planning especially when both parents are working, cause even the so called childcare centers aren't safe either

davidylan:
actually whether the kid is a boy or girl depends squarely on you.

A woman can only donate X chromosomes. If you donate a Y chromosome then you get a boy otherwise you're going to have a girl.

if only half of african men knew that, we would probably have more peaceful homes. at least it will be one thing off the list of the many problems that women "supposedly cause"

extremely hard to watch

mukina2:
Meehn una don kill me for this thread

_{sorry guys just had to  add this}

My neighbour's wife and him were having this argument, he said, ]your child came back by 11:30, the woman said no, she came half past 11 she didnt even realise what she was arguing for, and she was getting angry lol, insisting on the half past 11 . That night we laff sotay

LWKMD

Ebonyeyes:
So many spam-artists are at work in the health forum.

you came at time when they are LESS sef.

u shoulda come earlier, the more pissed off you were, the more they flooded

dont really buy all this the woman should be the one to decide how many kids the couples want. it should be both who decides. yes, its the woman who carries the load still doesnt mean the man should be left out of the decision.

Poster: give her time, but not pressure her

Fhemmmy where uve been?

very good for him!

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=421253.msg5792313#msg5792313 date=1269898198]He will marry a fourth one soon because his faith forbids CHEATING. [/quote]LOL

Do mothers have any business packing their daughters "load" out their husbands home for whatever reason and if so what are genuine reasons?

IMHO, yes in domestic violence cases

@ bawomolo

of course giving a second chance means agreeing to my conditions including counseling. am not just going to give a word of mouth " if you dare ever cheat again, am leaving"bs.

i would separate especially after giving him so many chance to redeem himself. personally, i dont think the woman is doing her any good by cheating back, i would bet that while she may seem/appear 'satisfied and happy' deep inside, she is definitely in a great pain because this sort of cheating back 'defense mechanism' in most cases doesnt work well for us women. we usually dont emotionally get away with it very easily.

chaircover:
I know I may sound like I am on the guys side, but I am just fed up of seeing women getting hurt and losing everything because they wrongly and grandiosely believe that they can change a bad man to a good one.

that the problem. i mean this sign of cheating was there before marriage, but somehow we magically believe that we can change a man after marriage

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=417201.msg5782246#msg5782246 date=1269759309]i dodge am! i still get skills  [/quote]dodge wetin after the getting the swollen black N blue eyes and cheek

no vex me again oo or . . . .