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sad that a mother would directly be setting up her daughters marriage for failure. i just believe that mothers should know when not to cross the line with their "advices". why wouldnt a married woman UnCloth in her husbands presence? whats she hiding?gosh this kind of "advices" and stupid mentality makes me vomit.

instead of your mother to be advising you on how to build your marriage and home, she is there advising you on how to destroy it

@ woman in question: your elder sister should be your role model in this. coz she has gone through with the disastrous advice of your mom and you see where she ended up? back where she started. sex is not and shouldnt be only for the purpose of procreation. your husband and you are still too young to deny each other sex. no matter how "good" your husband may seem you cant deny the fact that one day he will surely have enough of you and your moms indoctrination and then it will HIT you. another failed marriage. another statistics.

coolier:
How can she forget so soon she is originally female?

no mind am. she is and will always be a female. no matter how many double mastectomy, vaginastectomy, bodytectomy, hormonalstectomy she under gos. sorry she cant change that. its either you are [b]born [/b]a man or a woman. gosh this people makes me really sick and pissed.

@ post

the reason lies in the same mentality why many men who cheat in nigeria and africa think its their birth right to cheat on their wives without

apologies

[quote author=aloy-emeka link=topic=386215.msg5370768#msg5370768 date=1264227721]Why are pregnant women still dying in drones during Childbirth in Nigeria?[/quote]

[childbirth] does not require complex/dear medical equipments

Are our doctors not competent enough to manage crisis situations during child birth or what?.

What then is the problem?

interesting how you answered one of the reasons to your question

chei, you never found someone over 6-7months now

dont lose hope you hear

Fhemmmy:
Our society never accepted it, i think it is the people that just assume so.

if our society never accepted it, dont you think we will have laws against it, or at least some help for the victims? imagine a victim reporting to the "police is your friend" station, that her husband hit her, the next question is "na wetin you do to cause/invoke am"?

Fhemmmy:
The societal acceptance means:
The woman has been beating and everyone thinks there is nothing wrong with what happened
It means the woman can even easily show it off, cos it is no big deal.
However, there is a difference btw accepting it and the fear of speaking up.

am sure it wouldnt suprise you to know that there are many people in nigeria who thinks there is nothing wrong with a man hitting his wife. many with the disguise excuse of "sometimes they just to be touched", "they misbehave" blah etc. as if, their wives were still kids.

woye77:
Now, i know some women can be stubborn but is this a reason to get violence?

stubbornness shouldnt mean a woman should be hit. afterall, are men angels? arent they stubborn too? how many times do they get hit?

i believe when a person lives pass a certain age, there shouldnt be a mourning of the person but rather a celebration of the persons life.


@ OP

your mother is just another human being with human emotions. and there is nothing wrong with her crying especially when its her father.

although, he might have been very old, i bet that there is still that satisfaction your mom gets every morning knowing that hes still there and breathing and when that is gone, you can imagine she will have that empty space in her heart.

whats with all this bullcrap headlines of a man giving birth? since when did men start having a uterus


please enough with all this misleading, sick, disgusting and stomach turning headlines of a man having a baby.

i dont know since when did a [b]WOMAN [/b]with a uterus giving birth became a newflash.

when a real NATURAL born man with a real [i]p[/i]enis and no uterus gets pregnant and gives birth, then its news. till then, this just another woman

with a uterus giving birth. this sick people with their sickening ideas sef. gosh

you want to be a man but still wants to carry a pregnancy. you cant have it both ways.

and trying to conceive your fellow idiotic followers that you are a man with a uterus that can give birth for where? BS

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=382833.msg5386682#msg5386682 date=1264464781]Why is precious on the front cover of a magazine?
Are they now encouraging people to be overweight?[/quote]no theyre encouraging people to love WHO they are. and to make people aware of the many beauties a woman embodies, the different perceptive on beauty and the appreciation of it.

remember not every woman has the size zero genes. and being big doesnt mean, they show hide/live in a cage. as you might have guessed skinniness doesnt  equal healthy.

big girls needs love and the flashing lights of the camera too.

i cant get maself to pick a favorite "color". am not into all those color pickiness things

harakiri:
Too bad but why did you post this on here? Is this supposed to invoke a "man bashing" tirade?If that's the case, women do things like these ALL THE TIME to guys who struggle to get their "beloved" into Obodoyibo! So what gives?

you have pleaded guilty already before being charged of a crime lol.

while some parents may see it as a harmless act or just a thing of the moment for many children it does directly/indirectly affect their self esteem especially through the teenage years particularly when used repetitively.

usually, those who are very close to one of their parent either through good behaviors/closeness or through a special merit. like being the only girl or boy etc

retracted

deluxecad:
I just believe that everything is workable with patience.

even in severe cases of domestic violence and abuse?

so as long as the woman [i]patiently [/i]receives the abuses and violence with the hope and [i]patience [/i]that the man will one day stop its still workable?

E dey pain you

how about trying this pain relief method? i heard its good when done consecutively and on the same time everyday for complete 14days.

its also known as painful heart detoxification.

every morning when you wake-up, dont greet anyone, or brush you teeth, morning urination is also not recommended for best result.

just go straight to the nearest wall and start hitting your head hard on it repeating the words

"why women why, why women why" dont stop until you hit your head hard seven times on the wall.

repeat the practice for 14days, seven times a day. oh boy, the pain will completely subdue guaranteed

@ poster

do you also think its ok for a man to call his wife by her name

agathamari:
i would say ok, what would you like for dinner? why do people ge all up in arms about people being gay for anyway?

easier said than done

Snowqueen:
After menopause how and what does women feel about making love. To some that mark the end of love making, while to others the enjoyment continues.

are you asking a question or are you answering?

i honestly dont have a favorite color . weird, i know. i usually go with the flow.

@ post

i think the main reason behind the "wrongness" of for many lies ones religious beliefs. having a child out of wedlock goes against the whole idea of no premarital sex which the bible condemns and frowns on and that also ties in with cultural beliefs and societal expectations.

many cultures and society frowns on it for many reasons. for many its seen as being "wild"and  bad, because you have gone against the structure that a child is supposed to be born into ex. finding someone, getting married, and finally having children. so, when things dont usually follow that structure many view the person as being deviant. which many cultures and society doesnt particularly like.

secondly, the whole idea of out wedlock child, for many especially families particularly middle and upper class family brings shame, disappointment and ridicule etc. and also, for many having out of wedlock children hinders their career improvement and personal betterment which makes rearing the child very difficult.

i like Johnson

wishing her all the strengths and knowledge marriage entails

all those saying divorce is not the answer, yea we all sane people agree that no one genuinely marries with the intent to divorce later. however, there are situations in a marriage that warrants it. where its the only and last option and that is good for the woman, man and children.

and to those saying that its not good for the kids, yes, divorce is not good for anyone especially for the kids, but there are many cases

where its definitely better for the sanity of the children, if their parents were not together than being together and enduring the psychological and emotional torments every single day that manifest for many, into serious problems and damage later in life.

go ahead dear

Fhemmmy:
i will e-answer u in the e-morning . . . . .bed time already.

ok then, e-sleep well

@ Big Bruv

Fhemmy no wan e-tell me the meaning of e-marriage and how its e-done

abi, u e-understand the meaning

Big Bruv, your sis knows u'r jk


@ Fhemmy

i still dey wait for ma e-answer

Lol, i don am, still no e-answer

Fhemmmy:
google it and u wld be surprised . . . . .if i tell u,u will forget but when u research, u will remember 4 ever

OgidiBoy:
I met my gf on NL and we'll be getting married as soon as we done with school. So yes you can marry someone from NL. Not all the girls on NL are marriageable though alot of them are just %$*&