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GoodKay:
Thanks @ sixx. Will really like if we can fillow up on each others progress. Thanks. Been trying to post hre since last week but its been telling me error error bla bla bla

Ok Thnks dear. Currently in ov period now so ds cycle I did d lemon, lipton n egg therapy mommas gave me here 4 d vgay dryness from cd12 - cd18 n it was cul, I observed some wetness down there 4 lyk 4 days so it aint bad. U shud try it. I pray I get my bfp dis month o mmm cos am js really tired of everything. Keeping my fingers crossed in anticipation. Tke care dear.
Thnks mama @delor, n @loisemm 4 ur well wishes 4 me n my SIL, culdnt reply since cos my phone hs been fking me up. May God grant u bfps asap IJN.
@Praiseworks dearyn thanks too and God will strengthen u as u buy n read it with faith n D next will be ur bfp IJN.
Hi everyone.

Happy new month mamas.

God has done it again in my family. My broda just called last night to tell me dat his wife is pregnant! After 3 yrs of marriage, God has done it. God has finally brought back d captives to Zion. See me dancing in church 2day lyk sey na me get bfp, so happy. My bros n I are d two married ones in d family n both of us no children Nothing ppl hv not sed about my family dat I even feel 4 my younger ones 4 d stigma dey pass tru because of dis. My mum has endured a lot of insults n slander too, if not 4 God dat made her strong...it wud hv bin anoda story. Thank u Lord 4 taking away reproach from us, Jehovah Jireh may ur name be praised. God is good n he will do 4 us jst as he has done 4 my bro n his wife. Wat she did differently, she sed I shud get ds book, You Too Can Be Fruitful by mama Mary Abioye. Dey are not even LF members so I was shocked cos he is a staunch pastor sef in anoda church. I will get d book n mamas here can also look 4 it too in Xtian bookshops or Living Faith churches. One of my prayers has been answerd js waiting 4 mine now. Thnk u Jesus, bless every mama reading this with a miracle just like this in Jesus name. Amen

@Enatasha, thnk God 4 hitch free surgery, he knows y he allowed u go tru it. This is d end of ur ttc journey js rubbing my hands 4 ur bfp anouncement. Yey!

@Sanrima dnt be discouraged wateva d outcome, it will definitely end in praise. I lyk ur attitude already abt ds u can try anoda kinda check 2 knw if its a tubal pregnancy, dunno, mayb x-ray? Lol. Well js so dias no more delay. Etopic no be joke o.

@Adorablewifey, really sorry 4 ur loss can't say hw it feels bt I knw it cuts deeply. God will reward u double 4 ur trouble js neva loose hope in him. Wish u anoda speedy bfp in Jesus name.

@DonaTee where are you? 4 somtime now na mia tins u dey o wats popping? I miss ur funny posts o, used 2 read it on peeping mode.

GoodKay:
Hello all. Pls someone should help me out, my prolactin test result shows My value is 40 (3.8 - 25ng/ml). Is that considered really high to affect fertility? I believe i ovulate regularly because i always get positive opk & ovulation pains but no ewcm just creamy one. I jus did Tvs folliculography. The right ovary had 16 follicles with d dominant one measuring 27mm x 18mm so d doc dat did d scan told me il be ovulating soon. Endometrial thickness was 8.4. I dont feel ready to swallow several pills daily(especially bromergon). I Tried looking for dostinex (cabergoline) here in benin but didnt see in d few pharmacies i checked. I heard that one is taken 2wice a week which isnt so bad. I tried ewedu but couldnt swallow it. Almost threw up. Pls do u think d prolactin level is high enough to affect my fertility in any way? Been ttc almost a year after my miscarriage.

My sister, ur case is very similar to mine, my prolactin was 41, ov pains, positive opk bt no ewcm, scan shows dominant follicles bt I really dnt knw if dey pop, will go 4 follicular tracking nxt month culdnt mke it ds month,n I had an earl mc once at js 4 weeks last year May! Never evn knew until its too late. ah, I wud luv if we keep checkin up on eachodas progress...waddyu say?. Ur prolactin is high bt av seen worse of upto 300 so no course 4 alarm. Bromocriptine(parlodel) never did much 4 me so now am on vitex, metformin n vitamin e soon 2 start b6 n I never fail 2 buy cabbage every week since ewedu is out of my reach here. N if u are overweight strt working on it, am shedding dem fat now too. It is well sis, God's time is now n now will not pass us by. Nothing too hard 4 Jehovah Rapha to do, prolactin is under his feet. Oya receive ur bfp now IJN.

blessingmama:
Pls my dear 4realwoman add me for the prayer list.
I'm so tired the way things are going. One fallopian tube and still blocked how did i offend the mother nature blessing that my case is different. Lord pls arise and let ur blessing be on my household this 2016

Short but touching, culdnt jst pass. It is well sis. God is still on d throne. Mayb u can try guifei bao or cleanpoint tampon if u hvn't, some mamas here tried it n it worked to unblock dia tubes. The gud thing about some seemingly difficult situations like these is dat d solution cud jst be one little thing dt God has been trying to show us 4 a long time n we just refuse 2 see it because we are too busy focusing on how big d problem is n how gigantic d solution will be. Look closer n inward, listen to dt still small voice saying "dnt give up child, I knw d condition of ur tubes but it is not as complicated as u think, nothing is impossible 4 me to do". Don't knw y I deviated a little bt am js led 2 say this. Bfp to u my dear.

Ayauche:
Fruirtfulhome: Nne I know u can't say No to ur DH whenever he says let's go but then u have to sit him down and let him see reasons u can't be traveling to the village every month, What for? And if he doesn't want to understand, babe pls just look 4 a job, I knw its hard getting a job bt try schools around u even if its just 4 a little time pending when u will get ur desired job but in all u do dnt remain idle, get a job when u are busy, he will be going to the village by himself. Wetin una dey frequent villa for? That's my own thinking tho, mamas will give u theirs. Stay blessed dearie.

Nne ur advice di ok no need 4 more. Its just funny.

@Omowumigan let me look 4 her post again on preggy thread n let u know.

@4babiesfromGod welcome luv n sorry 4 ur loss dear. Stop blaming urslf, it was ur first n no one has a manual 4 hw dese tins work. Js be careful next time n God will comfort u wit anoda bfp IJN.

@Enatasha deary God luvs u greatly n he will keep u tru ds surgery, it will be smooth n by d nxt time u kpekus after dat, na bfp be dat o, to d shame of d kiingdom of darkness.

@Omowumigan congrats dear, u will surely carry ds one to term, bible sed none shall cast dia young, u hv d faithn keep saying it n hold on to it n u will carry ur baby in ur arms come 9months.
In addition, hv u checked ur immune system n ur thyroid? Women wt cronic hypothyroidsm tend 2 hv recurrent mc bt it is totally correctible, infact a mama on preggy thread battled dat bt got cured n is evn on her second or third baby journey now. Also if u hv PCOS, taking metformin reduces d risk of mcs for cysters n is safe truout pregnancy bt ask ur doc for advice first. We nt doctors bt one or two advices might go a long way. Hv a wonderful 9 months ahead sweet.

Welcome all newbies may ur stay be very short.

Abeg mamas how do I delete post in ds nairaland, can't seem 2 find a way.

Lol. My sisters @towerofgrace and @praiseworks, me i dey very good in dese type of make believe situations o, gud actress, just to drive my point home. God dey sha, we will all overcome. Wit all dis ur inlaw wahala sef how one wan take settle carry d belle sef. I hail you mamas who hv to deal with both at the same time lyk @fruitfulwoman and @delor, God will give u double 4ur trouble. I say amen to dat prayer mama Praiseworks remain blessed.

Thank u Fvine 4 always taking out time 2 respond 2 me. I hv pcos bt no fibroid. I used 2 luv soy drinks bt av made up my mind 2 stop it. Ystday was as it is..a mistake.

@Diamondn, thnks dear, I hv googled but all I get is info n soy iso not soy drinks n fertility.
Baby dust 2 u mamas, God bless u.

@Praiseworks. I totally agree wit @heroesoff8 and towerofgrace. Never regret ur marriage, it is God's own mandate 4 every woman to make her home no matter hw bad things are or hw scarce d resources, no marriage is a bed of roses, u are dere 4 a reason. I agree wit not throwing urself in d path of ur inlaws at any given chance because dey cud begin to analyse u as if they knw u evn if its not so. I still use a long spoon 4 her cos she has a bad mouth, Its disheartening 2 me bt I js try 2 manage a smile always so now she has reduced dat n d ministry is still moving.
Many are insensitive sometimes that makes me speak 4 myslf attimes. Talk 2 DH about it n let him js sit by somtimes n watch bt he can step in wen tins are getting too bad 4 u.
I knw u wud hv been more efficient in d village if not for d wound but talking of eyeservice tins lol, I wud hv first worn a big bandage on it.
Above all do not let all these get 2 u, enjoy ur DH he's a gud man. Ttc is stressful on its own do not add 2 dat. Alwys pray 4 dem n continue hving patience. Marriage is patience not love. All d women who adviced me b4 I got married sed d same thing "Js be a patient wife, js be patient in everytin u see" n its exactly like dat.
Am nt d best 2 advice u but, I can say at ds stage dt av seen it all.
U will carry ur own child soonest, nothing will stand in d way of dat.

Hv a bfp filled weekend everyone.

Pls mamas will taking soy drink influence my ovulation? because am going 4 tvs ds cycle 2 ascertain weda I hv started ovulating on my own. Neva used soy iso b4. I mistakenly took a glass of soy drink 2day does it matter? Dis is day 3 of my cycle.

Fvine:
Yes you can take all three together. I concur with @ Sabrina on the Progesterone insufficiency. Taking Vit B6 will correct it and lengthen your Luteal Phase.

I want to start ds vit B6 for progesterone issues bt I don't want my luteal phase lengthened (I no dey for dt false bfp hopes again o, e no gud 4 my bori). Pls any oda one I can use dt doesn't lengthen?

4realwoman:
Okay let me rewrite the exam again now.

My God will lead me,
He will lead me,
My God will lead me,
He is a miracle God.
He is a pillar of cloud by the day,
He is a pillar of fire by the night,
we can never understand him
He is a miracle God.

Thank you all sis for taking ur time to help me out with d correct lyrics of the song. The song has bn on my lips since yesterday night and I had to compose my own version, deep down I knw something wa missing.

My dear I was just looking up my watsapp contacts jst after reading ur post here and behold! One one of my besties who js got married last week used dis same sentence "U can never understand him" as her status! Lol. I culdnt js contain myself so I hd 2 post. Indeed, God is really saying something to us here, he is speaking to u sis. Keep the fire burning in faith cos his ways are never our ways n He will answer us speedily dis year. Baby dust 2 you.

sprinkos:
Ooh my God!! That scares me so much..sucking what? blood?

My dear! My Dr doesn't understand wat am trying 2 explain he feels it cud be gas in my gut bt I hv d feeling its more dan dat. I will try deworming sha if it doesn't work hv decided 2 attack it spiritually n wit agbo. Thnks a lot ma, baby dust 2 u.

fruitfulwoman:
I heard about this for the very first time when i went home for xmas and herbal treatment. Someone told my mother she had the same problem when she was TTC then. She said the worm cant be completely killed only weakened. Weakened to the point it cant harm the embryo again. She said the thing moved from her womb to her leg after her herbal treatment and is just there. She has seven children.

I didnt believe it at first until i started taking the herbal concotion at home. When af came the following month, it was God damn painful. The pain kept moving from my lower stomach to where i did appendix to my back. As if the worm was restless because of the herbs. Everyone my mother told said its because of the worm. Orthodox medicine cannot cure it. No matter how you deworm, its still there. I used to deworm almost every three months in the past. I was given one bitter herbal mixture strictly for the worm to be licked every three days. That thing bitter die! My body shakes anytime i take it and the after taste remains in my mouth till the following morning. So far menstrual pain has reduced considerably and God help to be consistent in taking the herbs because they are so bitter. No bfp yet but my hope is not on the herbs but in Jesus, the author and finisher of my faith.

If you feel you have it, look for these herbal people and explain to them how it is. Dont worry. It can be handled. I really dont know how such a wicked worm entered the body and i refused the explanation of it was sent from my people because in my place, a 100 year old man cannot die naturally. Na person kill am. You can ask the herbal people how the worm came about.

This is the little i know. I hope it helps. Stay away from sugary things though.

Fertility blessings.

Thanks mama, pls how did u feel urs was it after ovulation like mine? Sorry 4 my marathon questions I js want a solution.

praiseworks:
yes you are right they said it feeds on the foetus by sucking the blood which ultimately results to miscarriage unexplained.

Wow pls mama Praiseworks av bin looking 2 ask about ds worms bt don't knw how, no much info online. I usually experience some pinching, movements n rumbling tummy frm a day after ovulation to af. Infact dts now like an indicator 2 me dat no bfp. Culd ds be dt worms are eating my embryo evn b4 it has a chance 2 implant? Cud ds be d ori nwa thing? Scary...

Pls oda knowledgeable mamas, Iomoge, Olamite, I really need your contributions too. Dnt jump n pass pls

Congrats @twogreatnations, u shall carry 2 term in Jesus name.

@Janix2, av replied u oo, hv u seen d reply? N av found out d addresses incase u are still interested.

@Fvine, have a safe journey n ur next testimony will be a bfp announcement.

@CravingChic don't worry, oga dinma, all will be well wen u will announce ur bfp, it will be like a dream.

Welcome newbies n happy bumping2 all preggy mamas. We shall all testify bfps soon in Jesus name.

My sisters since last year, everyone around me js seems 2 be pregnant n I js happen 2 be in dia path...from my advanced sis-in-law to my next door neigbours, its been from one omugwo visit 2 another, sleeping in hospitals n being baptism mother lol... Js yestday my neigbour had 2 be rushed 2 hospital cos her preggy was disturbing her n guess who dey came 2 call?...me n DH of course, sometimes I js feel 4 him n how emotional it all is...huh am still a small gial io bt am happy 2 be doing all dt sha, cos I know God will not 4get me. N he will not 4get anyone on this thread because we hv gathered 2 help eachoda n 2 seek his face. Peace n baby dust 2 u all...rushing 2 go back 2 hospital, bye.

Janix2:
No one seems to be answering my question,i no go ask again,make I rest for the matter.
Every mallam to him kettle

Enugu - Mbanefo Fertility Hosp, Trans Ekulu dey are very good bt too many ppl.
Blessed Assurance hosp, Depot(Ologo) easy 2 locate, jst ask dey are excellent n tke gud care of dia patients bt u go hold plenty money. If u need dese addresses I wil send at ur request.

@Pweetymii God bless ur good heart wit a bfp. Pls include her accnt number as we wait 4 Buhari to return frm his journey.

sugah:
HSG would give you status of your tubes
TVS would give you a pictorial view of your uterus and also check for external bodies (fibroids, cysts)

Ok thanks @Sugah, was js wondering weda d ovaries can be seen witout going tru d tubes ... Jst my imagination... I do dat a lot. Hw is d preggy ministry going?

Happy birthday 4realwoman may this be ur last birthday on this thread as u will port 2 preggy thread b4 nxt year April.

Pls prayo include my name in the prayer list, I am new here, 2geda wit all oda newbies (waving 2 oda JJCs like me!). Una doh oo.

@99billiondollar how u dey?

Pls mamas I haff come agen oo, don't overlook my ignorance! Abeg, can I know if I have blocked tubes or fibroid via tvs follicular tracking?

April foool my e sisters, my phone's been mumuing since yestday plus no lite but I grab my bfp of twins ds month o jare. Wish everyone a bfpyy new month.

@Fruitfulwoman. She couldn't give herself a male child for her hubby, then she can never stop u from having one. It simply means she doesn't have d power to do shiit. Jst stand firm and have no fear, with prayer, nothing shall by any means harm u and DH.

Really grateful mamas n papa who responded 2 my post tru advice n encouragement
@wholesomegrace, @RipVanWink, Pweetymii, I luv u all.
@Fvine, thnks plenty, I will sure try some of those
@99billiondollar, I read u are married 2 another tribe n ttc can be even more challenging because of dat bt js take it easy n try mk urslf happy again, I cry too but for most of d day, am ok until I remember. My heart goes out 2 u, if u need anyone 2 talk to.

99billiondollar:
What about the high prolactin issue , it could cause you not to ovulate , why cant you give dostinex a try

Thnks mama, d proviron was for d prolactin bt it didn't do much so I swithed 2 vitex. I hv heard of dostinex, will try it if Vitex doesn't work.

Thanks mama @wholesomegrace, I hv since stoped clomid which was recommended by a doc frend of my DH, did it 4 only 2 cycles.
We hv been seeing a doc n hv done scan n hormonal assay on 24th day. Scan says everytin is normal bt HA says high prolactin, high LH excellent FSH n low progesterne n he placed me on antibiotics 10 days n parlodel dt was since Dec now am on Vitex n vitamins but am still wondering if it cud be an infection.
I did a test n js mild candida was seen av taken medication n am using cleanpoint 4 2 months now still dry. Does infection hv d ability 2 dry up cervical mucus jst lyk dat evn after treatment n problem persists?

Mamas I am new here but I have been an ardent reader on this threadand so I decided to join 2day.

I hv been ttc for about 13 months now n I will say its really hard on us n I cry everyday about it. My DH tries 2 console anytime he catches me crying, he feels bad for our ttc progress stalling because of finances.Bt I know God is listening 2 all our cries n will give us all bfps very soon.

Also I hv a problm, pls my sisters ever since I got married, my vgay has been dry at all times except bd time, av neva evn seen ewcm, pls help me out, wat is happening 2 my body? I tot it was d first clomid I took since July last year bt its still dry till now. Pls I need a permanent solution my mamas. Anyone wt similar problem n solution pls. Thanks n sorry 4 my long writeup.