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CrimeRe: Man Arrested For Killing Pregnant Stepmother And Her 8-Year-Old Daughter In Kano by Slapsticker: 12:11pm On Jan 09, 2023
She had her daughter at 17 ?
FamilyRe: Our Daughter Got Married Without Our knowledge by Slapsticker: 1:41pm On Dec 14, 2022
I fault your daughters parenting.
It takes a damaged child to do what she did.
If your daughter goes to see a therapist today. I bet she would realise most of her baggage is from you-her parents. So own it with your chest.


You brought a kid with a clean slate into this world, you don't get to absolve yourself from what she becomes. Never!

Only when you admit and take ownership of this situation can you productively map a way to getting her back. I recommend you and your husband seek therapy as well. Because it takes damaged people to make damaged people.

N.B: Please don't bring in the conversation that the other kids are not like that. The effect of damage pays out in us all differently.
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by Slapsticker: 3:36pm On Aug 27, 2022
SoloceeD2:
Yes
Can you share the link
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Slapsticker: 7:55am On Jul 15, 2022
Waterway:
Anyone on this forum have information on Victory Estate, Lekki FTZ. The developer is Kayode Obembe. Is this developer credible. I bought plots from this company in 2016 and yet until date, no allocations of plots. Now in 2019 , the company wants developmental fee ( more money ) which was not disclosed upfront. The company says allocation to be made after developmental fees paid. Is this company credible..??.
Did you find anything about kayode obembe? can his company be trusted?
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 7 by Slapsticker: 11:23pm On Jul 08, 2022
TheGeneralunum:
Hi,

Can you confirm if Globus bank is okay for PoF?

I have heard some tales about the bank being blacklisted lately by UKVI?

How true is this? Help needed, Make money no enter bush ooo
Please share these tales with me
RomanceRe: Why Do Most Brides Invite Their Exes To Their Weddings? by Slapsticker: 1:33pm On Jun 27, 2022
franchasofficia:
Because of their stupidity.



I am sorry to say this, most young ladies act foolishly to be honest.



Why invite your useless ex to your wedding?


If your so called ex thought you are worth it, why didn't he marry you? Someone used you and dumped your ass for another lady he believed is better than you yet your foolish self can't delete him in your life? Are you ladies okay at all?



This is why I don't blame guys that insist on marrying only pure virgins honestly angry




Your ex is your vomit, don't go back to eat what you vomitted, its foolishness and very disgusting, only dogs eat their vomit!



Once he dumps you or you guys break up and you find someone else please delete him and move on. Stop giving these silly boys reasons to mock you ladies angry
Not everyone was used and dumped
Not everyone broke up on a toxic note
Many keep a cordial relationship with their ex.
If you don't it's also fine
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by Slapsticker: 4:16am On Jun 27, 2022
Apiness111:
Hey fam. I just moved to Cananda and unable to download Presto app on play store. Please any help on what to do. Thanks all.
Change phone location and apple or google accounts to Canada
TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 21 by Slapsticker: 1:56pm On Apr 01, 2022
OlaqR:
Hello family,

How do I successfully order a Student GIC ?

I need clarification on the above.

A friend in Canada went to CIBC but was told that Student GIC cannot be done for Nigerians.

Please assist.

Thank you.
https://www.cibc.com/en/special-offers/international-student-gic.html
TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 21 by Slapsticker:
Vee2021:
Who am I that you are mindful of me? God has done it.. PPR IS here. After waiting for so long. I prophesied that this week was my week and God did it.

I am a silent reader here and I joined after I submitted my application, although I avoided this place for a while because of anxiety. After several emails, mp sent mails as well, I have started classes online for Fall 2021 at lambton college, currently doing the winter term, just last week Thursday I was asked to send my updated letter of acceptance but I sent enrollment letter instead , then I received PPR this afternoon. This is my timeline.

Submitted- May 11th 2021
Biometrics- May 24th 2021
Upfront medical - April 28th 2021
I don’t know when eligibility started.
Updated letter of acceptance request - Feb 3rd 2022
Passport request- February 7th 2022
Yes 9months!

See ehn I was so scared, I trusted God but I’m human right? But God said his ways are not my ways.
I submitted all the necessary documents even sent my fall transcript, please whatever you do just keep trusting God.

Please who’s going to Lambton College (Sarnia campus) or is already a student there? Hit me up. Thank you.
I pray everyone excepting good news will receive it soon. Amen.
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TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 18 by Slapsticker: 4:38pm On Apr 13, 2021
Any update on you application?

Tosbolkem:
The statement 'Do not submit to CIC for study permit' is there because you have not paid. After payment, they will send another letter of acceptance which will not have that statement again.
I am going to Lambton College - Business Management, May 2021 stream. I am at the medicals stage. I have submitted my medicals and presently awaiting their response.
TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 18 by Slapsticker: 1:01am On Mar 27, 2021
Please do well to keep us posted.

Thanks a bunch

Tosbolkem:
The statement 'Do not submit to CIC for study permit' is there because you have not paid. After payment, they will send another letter of acceptance which will not have that statement again.
I am going to Lambton College - Business Management, May 2021 stream. I am at the medicals stage. I have submitted my medicals and presently awaiting their response.
PoliticsRe: Aisha Buhari Slams APC After They Affirmed Buhari As Its Flag-bearer by Slapsticker: 9:37am On Oct 07, 2018
AccessME:
My own Prayers now na make Kwankwaso defeat Atiku, Saraki, Tambuwa for that primary cos by so achieved Buhari will b challenged consequently it will b difficult and tedious for APC to confidently rig the election particularly in North hence the vote shared almost equally!

How many of u are with me in this?
Finally I meet someone that understands the politics of numbers.

If PDP wants to challenge Buhari, then Kwankwaso is the guy.

Any other candidate is gonna bee a smooth ride for APC.
RomanceRe: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Slapsticker: 11:22pm On Sep 19, 2018
When she becomes financially independent enough to start a family.
RomanceRe: Is Something Wrong With Me? by Slapsticker: 12:59am On Sep 17, 2018
You got nothing wrong with you dear.

Your mind has been focused on more important things to you. Romance prolly isn't on that list.

My advice, remain open, hangout more often. Get back to doing things you did in your early twenties when you have some time;

Maybe clubbing, partying, drinking, smoking whatever fits. My point is socialize!

Join a support group, hit the gym, join a sports/dance/fitness club. Do anything asides staying in that shell you recoiled into after your divorce.

Being a single mother is not being HIV positive. Life happens to us all! you didn't get married with divorce in mind. You took the oath hoping that "death do you part", and life happened.


Find life again girl, be strong! you can be an accomplished mother, a succesful academician/entrepreneur/career woman with a steaming romatic life. Yes! you can have it all!
FamilyRe: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Slapsticker: 10:48pm On Aug 30, 2018
Supreme01:
Fear of not marring on time brought u into this mess.

there is hope for you believe in.
sorry.
I strongly support your point.

Dear OP, Kindly proceed to have a legal divorce if you are financially independent. I know you don't want that for your son, however, brace up for some years of single parenting ahead.

Life is a pot of beans!

N.B:

Leave God out of these ma! We make our choice as adults and live with the consequences. It's only unfortunate you made yours in ignorance.

My personal advice; be more liberal! Religion hasn't helped you thus far, it prolly won't any further.
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Slapsticker: 2:46pm On Jul 18, 2018
PrecisionFx:
I agree with ur entire post.

Except this part -

"" A MAN THAT IS NOT IN CONTROL OF HIS EMOTIONS IS SICK AND ISN'T BETTER THAN AN ANIMAL. HE SHOULD GET CHECKED FOR BPD""

It's wack.
lol, ikr grin
RomanceRe: My Fiancee Sent Her Nude To A Married Father Of 2 In US by Slapsticker: 10:27am On Jul 15, 2018
The first red flag is that you had to change a girls phone number. Is she such a low life? Are so domineering? Are so insecure?

My take, you both are losers, you deserve each other. If a lady would come back to beg you after getting three hot slaps, then she has no worth.

And I have found out low lives are a perfect fit for domineering men.

And please spare me the " I was mad/angry mantra" - A MAN THAT IS NOT IN CONTROL OF HIS EMOTIONS IS SICK AND ISN'T BETTER THAN AN ANIMAL. HE SHOULD GET CHECKED FOR BPD.
FamilyRe: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Slapsticker: 11:40pm On Jul 14, 2018
HEseesall:
I had to open this account for anonymity
I'm in a dilemma, let me start like this, when i and my husband first got married we did a joint business that fetched us a huge amount of money, the aim was to build a house, when we got the money, he decided to use his' for his parents (i had no problem with that) then mine for what we wanted to use it for

Two weeks ago we had a major misunderstanding, it was soo intense to the extent that he told me to park out of the house, in the heat of things i told him that cannot be possible that the house is in my name, he was shocked, saying it is impossible we built it together that it's in his name, i had to remind him what happened then, he was furious saying it was wrong of me to use my name, that he cant believe he has been staying in a house that does not belong to him, he told his family what i did claming victim, then he packed out saying he wont come home till i change the name to his full name, i begged him to no avail, i dont even know how to tell my people, imagine if it was in his name, i and the kids would have been out of the house by now, he has requested for transfer from his office to another state cos of this, who does that?? He cant expect me to change it to his name.

Pls i need other advise to go about this, he is a good man but he feels his ego has been bruised, i need other options.


MODIFIED For those viewing this, i have made some clarifications down to page (1),
If I man can under any circumstance threaten to send you and your kids packing, then I think it would be stupid of you to change it to his name if indeed it was your money that was used to build it.

He is playing the victim card. He built a house for his parent with his money, you could have also done same for yours.

If the man has a problem staying in that house with you simply because it's not in his name, then he has something up his sleeves.

If you are going to change that name, kindly change to your maiden name as yeye dey smell for this una matter.
SportsRe: 5 Most Anticipated World Cup Round 3 Matches by Slapsticker: 2:52pm On Jun 25, 2018
Okay!
SportsRe: Argentina V Nigeria: Drogba Warns Super Eagles by Slapsticker: 1:54pm On Jun 25, 2018
Hmmm, well said
CelebritiesRe: John Cena Opens Up About His Split From Fiancee, Nikki Bella by Slapsticker: 6:38pm On Apr 26, 2018
SAD!!
FamilyRe: Advise Needed Urgently by Slapsticker:
Hey girl! Beebee18

You are three months preggy, i don't know if it is safe to do that abortion now or not, so find out.

If it is safe, plese and please I beg you take it out. Yes! a lot of pro life religionist and moralist are gonna come for you. Buh remeber they are not gonna live that life with two kids. Life is hard enough being a single mother with a kid, please don't make it two.

Take responsibility for your life this once and stand by the consequences. Like you said, your parents ain't billonaires. you still have to either get a job or hustle you way to independence. So it is just common sense that you have a better chance to suceed with one child than two.

I don't wanna tell you stories and experiences of mine and others cos that's relative.

In summary,

1. Consult with pro-choice specialists. and take that feotus out.
2. Take ownership of your life, determine to be a success by yourself and for yourself as a single mother for now.
3. If you an Aquarius, It may be harder buh please, please and please don't fvcking return to that house or forgive that man. Lock his hate in your heart and let it propel you to success, when you suceed, then you can easily forgive.

Buh then, what do I know?

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