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freecocoa: Oh now you don't know me anymore?okay know this now,you can't possibly ever make me sweat and that's a FACT,having said that, OP's question isn't "online"it clearly stated "dating site" this is very different from NL.

Dating sites are strictly for hooking up,now saying its okay for your guy to be there as a joke makes you sound like you don't know what you want,i mean what kind of boyfriend would have time to go on a site meant for dating to advertise himself as single and what manner of partner will agree its harmless?mehn lepayemi reread your comment and modify your post instead of trying to justify your obviously stuppid comment.

justify?Hell No!
I dont owe anyone reasons to justify my comments.i only thought your brain rebooted and can now do deductions and separations.i guess wrong!
okay....there's no point making you understand anything.
Just bounce!

[quote author=~Killz~]Killz 5.0 is attainable with anybody. . . Let's say My "special" one (with whom the "music" we made together won the grammys ) leaves me. Is MBJ saying, she won't meet someone else to make special, and that Killz will NOT find another special lady? And that 2 of us would be miserable apart while it's obvious we are not compatible?

Bobo yi funny gan mehn. . .

I can live without her. . . She's special when we are together and the essence of my living while she is there. But when she's gone, she's GONE! She doesn't reduce nothing from me, just as i do not her. If it's not meant to be, NO bullshit music will keep us together. . . [/quote]

[quote author=~Killz~]Hold on first. . . Make she never break am yet. . . Make dem fast forward to the tearing cloth levels.

Wait o, na freecocoa be freeidiot? Pls confirm. . . I'm seeing stars

That's 4 - 2. . . Slimyem dey lead. [/quote]go and sit down jor!

freecocoa: Come don't get it twisted o,I'm sure you know me well enough to know you are the last person who can make me sweat on here, obviously don't know how to take a little chain yanking,i keep telling you to get over yourself cos you just don't get it.

i dont know you at all not to talk of well...so clear the wools off you eyes!
Lemme make it clear to you before you go bonkers over my one post....
Do you have online friends you play love with but you do not intend to take it ouside there?
If your boyfriend finds out about it,is it right to automatically suspect there's something going on?
Maybe these questions will make you see my point!

screaming *INCE-ST!!!*

freecocoa: Oh slimbone please get over yourself,people dey talk you sef follow dey talk,please let's not spoil wale's thread,oya carry your shyt and run along .

freeidiot,are you sweating already?
You already rolled in that shyt babe and it just all over you!
Anyways,run along and go get a bath and stop making this whole place stink!
Oloorun!

freecocoa: See your life,your statement means nothing other than what it spells,quit giving yourself some nasty attitude and admit that isn't an intelligent statement to make,nansense gal.

its means nothing to you because you brain processes s l o w l y.
Everybody CANNOT think the same way or see things the same way!
I stated my opinion and you stated yours.
You didnt buy mine and you jumbled it like the dunce that you are instead of constructively critisizing it!
Idiots like you can never hide what they are no matter how hard they try..anuofia!

freecocoa: Shattap there ode,whose on your back?as if you won't break into two if i as much as touch your back let alone stay on it,mscheew.

asides the fact that you have a problem that's a little bit of everything,you are a big FOOL!
Stop rolling in my shyt like some ugly on ape....else you are going to get really smelly and sticky!
Arindin oshi!

kelz88: Cocoa and slim, don't fight please.

i chose to ignore the first statement by playing dumb.
I'm not out to fight anyone.
tell her to get off my back!

freecocoa: If you are that slow that you couldn't grasp it the first time,what makes you think you will the 2nd time? Take a pass on this one.

you are the slow one cuz you definitely are in no way close to understanding my initial statement,why dont you just open your lips,swallow up your head and roll over!
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew

lalaosky: u got it ol wrong....if sum1 wants to go and am at fault y he/she wants to liv,i dont mynd doin d beggn cos i wronged d gurl/guy

why must anyone threaten to leave because i wronged him?
Why cant we talk it over like matured adults?
Why can he scold me and probably make me suffer by not talking to me for days or something? In this case,i wouldnt mind going on my knees to tell him how really sorry i am.
But if the next step he takes because i offend is is leave,the its GOODBYE from me too!
Peeps just dont get it.ahn!

what does anyone's height have to do with their actions or inaction?
Smh!

a name is a defining identity and nothing more!
If her husband allows her include her maiden name in her name,is it anyone's headache?
As long as it doesnt bring any conflict in the home,i dont see anything wrong with it!

smh!

freecocoa: If you believe that then you will believe anything,then again it depends on who you are dating and how jobless you both are.

u say what??

it doesnt have to be anything serious!
He might just be playing around just for the sake of it!

lefulefu: i can never live with slimyem yem
she go cut off my manhood wen i offguard

you don dey madt!

what a baboon!

Sugardiva: Kneeling is not a proof of sincerity. I had a bf who knelt to beg for my 4giveness at evry given opportunity whether in public or private but guess what? As soon as i 4gave him he went right back to do the same thing again!
I can sincerely apologise but not kneel.

i almost though i was the one who typed this post.
The dramas men act....

MBJ,you keep going round and round in circles.
It takes time to find a special someone or a perfect match in replacement,yes!
But its all in time!
And if what i had in the past cannot be compared with what i have now,so what?
Have i stopped living because of that?
Does it mean that i wont be enjoying this new experience because of a 'SPECIAL' past?
Bottomline-the'i can't live without you' phrase is bullshit!,a fallacy!,a delusion,a sham,a hoax,an aberration!
Lots more i can call it to make it sink in with you but you wont just get it!

sexlog: see the kin word wey dey come out from your mouth.

wetin?
The person wey i take am reply derserve am nooni!
File!

Idowuogbo: She's a pako gal forming Angelina Jolie, as she dey sef, trust me na "Buda mi Buda mi" she go tell call u if una eye to eye.

Nansense!! Who she dey form righteous 4?

Boneypako ka jun mbe mehnnnn, amo bo she lo, iwo bawo.

iwo ntie,o mo pe oo ni sense!
Oo de mo natin!
Ya segbe kan,koo maa fagbo e lo.ode!

[quote author=~Killz~]Are you really a yoruba girl or are you a "remixed" version of a yoruba girl? Yoruba girls know the koko, pls stop falling their hand. . .

What if he wants to stay? Would you beg him or not? Pls answer. . .[/quote]I'm a yoruba girl,a full blooded one at that and Yes,i kneel when i have to.
Infact,i kneel for peeps that are only a few years older than i am so much so they claim i embarrass them with it!
Again,why would i BEG (forget kneeling ) a man to stay when he CLEARLY doesnt want to?
For him to have formed words of leaving in the first place means he has made up his mind..and if he hasnt,why should he threaten me with that?Immaturity much?
I have cried at face-face break ups but that's the best i can do!
If my tears cant change your mind,what will my kneeling do?
Ogbeni,ikunle o ki'n se iwa-let someone help you interprete that!

if i created something special with you and you stop seeing the need to nurture that special thing with me,there's no beauty in it anymore!
As much as i agree anyone cannot live alone and needs someone one way or another,every someone can be replaced and every special moment can be re-created!

MRbrownJAY: ^^ unfortunately, such state of mind is very difficult to achieve. look at the OP, she would rather live a "miserable love life" and keep her heart safe, rather than love fully and passionately and possibly get hurt.
so it's either she got hurt in the past and dont want to go through it again, or she is so scared of deception that she'd rather live a simple life, happy with what she got and not wanting more.

its sad how you are not getting this!
Its not about keeping my heart safe or not wanting to go through any hurt again.
I'm just saying...no human will or can ever be the reason for my existence!
If i make them that,i'll simply stop living when they live... and i'm not willing to sacrifice that for anybody.
I'd live and enjoy every moment fully with anyone i choose but the moment that person decides that i'm not worth staying with,i put him and everything that came with him behind!
Why dwell on sweet/fond memories of a painful past when you can look to better events of the future?

talina: I couldnt get on my knees and beg a man not to leave. If something was so wrong between us and we couldnt even talk about it then its over. Me resorting to being a begger and him being ok with it is twisted. What kind of relationship would that be There has to be mutual respect or common sense to know when its over.

thank you sis!
Seriously,if i offend my guy (infidelity excluded) and the only thing he could do is threaten to leave,he would have shown me the depths of his immaturity and that would be one big reason to let him go!
These peeps just dont gerrit!

For all here crying foul and singing hypocrisy,i'll take it that you still dont get the crux of this matter which is-[size=30pt]WHY BEG sOMEONE WHO DOESNT WANT TO STAY?[/size]
ugh!

Pakavy: dats if he is living wit u unda ur roof shay

well,that statement is only literary!

gohome: suger mummy..............read all my comments you will see all the references

sugar daddy,there's no point!
I guess its just hard for peeps to accept that not everyone conforms to their ideas/opinions and not everyone lives by them!

gohome: I was referring to slimyem. This new n/d is confusing. I just went through the thread again. Sowie abeg. I am on my kneels rolling on the floor. But you get bad mouth oh... choi. Hope your man that isn't complaining doesn't know this...lol

referring to me for/on what?
I wont go down on my knees begging a man not to leave me ever!
Its as simple as it sounds!