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all through the two years you dated her,you didnt know you don't love her.
you make a choice.you either head into a loveless marriage with her or take your baby and forget about integrity or whatever.you don enter already.

freecocoa:
In as much as I'd like to admit that its wrong and often seen as a sign of disrespect,I'd also love to ask you [b]what did you say/do to make her drop the call on you?[/b]especially since it just came into play,meaning she hasn't always been like that.

errm op,you gats answer the bolded first before i can tell what it really is.a woman wont just drop the call on you for no reason.

why ask for advice when you already know what she is.she doesnt have your time. berra go find yourself another girl and stop crying in here.mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

are you a NOLLYWOOD script-writer?just asking!

Idowuogbo:
Dirty minded woman na normal nun love na, shey u want or not I b hotcake o am sure Slimyam desperately wants 1 from moi

I’m sorry, I’m a little busy. Can i ignore you later?thanks!

everyone has a secret dairy independent of you being male or female.

kevoh:
! Pregnancy, 50 fights all these in four months! At least for a year you guys are supposed to be in a situation where you can't do without each other. As in the love go dey shack una too wella. 4 months is too short na.Except you never loved her and she never did too. Or you probably dove in for the sex alone.
Bros ask yourself this question : If you are tired after only four months of dating what will happen after 20 to 30 years when you eventually marry each other? Suicide?

Since she is pregnant for you I won't advice to you to quit, No relationship has a smooth sail you just need to work it out by yourselves. This issue is best resolved by both of you. Go back to the start from when you were toasting each other, find a level ground and start building from there. Meanwhile postpone the introduction till further notice.

these ones cant work anything out.if in four months, of dating,he's already skeptical about their being together.then he should forgerrit.
op,let her have the baby,take a DNA test to make sure the baby is yours.if it is,take responsibility for it and go find your lives.it will save you lots of future heartaches,frustrations and depression.

[quote author=James-dman link=topic=694355.msg9691414#msg9691414 date=1323013871]Slimyem dear, Toba is Toba n I'm me!!. . . . I cn't be like Toba n Toba cn't be like mii. *besides Mrs. Chima isn't the type of lady u mediate for*[/quote]i know,buh you sounded like you were enjoying the movie and i assumed you don't encourage stuff like this.

lailaiwala:
you are hands down the stupidest poster on this site. followed closely by your "sister" rokiatu? you write like your primary school education was cut short by a stint on the street. you sure dress like a streetwalker.

trust me, a little education would do you a world of good. no one else will tell you these truths. you are consummate fools.

guy,wetin??
una dey fight before?take am easy abeg.

Cuddlemii:
That's not the point.

I advise you take goldie, slimyem and especially Mrbrownjay's comment because he diffused it all for your consumption. I was going to write something similar. For heaven sake, that guy is 3 years younger than you so obviously his thinking and exposure might be different. He might not be matured at heart. You can't tie a young guy down, he probably still experimenting or finding his bearing in life. I even think your friend has a better control of her emotions & can play the game better than you because she understands that its an understanding(u scratch my back, i scratch urs).

But u r bringing love into the mix, when u get into the room for intimacy with someone who has not professed his love for you, committed to you or told you he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, you have to leave your heart behind, psyche urself its just a di-ck and move on. Never ever go into fwb or something slightly above with someone you care about so much cos u wld get hurt. I think you are too lady like for this arrangement, just let go. I don't blame the boy cos everyone has their own style.

now that's supposed to be the deal@bolded

Amya:
nah, i doubt that. What i do know for sure is that she used me to get close to him as she clearly knows that she can't have an independent friendship with him, he would never agree to that. So she got close to me to get close to him. If i visit her, she makes me call him to come over to her apartment where the 3 of us would chat and all that. She antagonizes me then and showers him with praise and always like to talk about that time they were still friends and the crazy things they did e.t.c

this  is still my point.they are both using you to get what they want.she wants the guy and the guy want what you give.like i said earlier.WALK! and save yourself aches.

mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

babe,something tells me the two are just playing you.you are probably a bet experiment.
Stop this play-play r/ship and let both of them go else you'll keep hurting yourself.all the best!

all you just said of yourself doesnt sount loud to me.you sound okay.
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Excelboi:
Shupiiid and sense(less) thread!!

yeah,the truth is bitter and sense-less sometimes.

lucas111:
I read Nairaland a lot, yes I have just 11 post, Check out when I joined you will get the picture. I don't post a lot doesn't mean I am not an active member.

that you don't post means you are not active.simple!!

maybe you should tell him how you feel now  but remember you might complicate his present relationship if you do.
you did what you were supposed to do at 19.schooling,dating and fun not marriage.if he's meant to be yours,you'd get him back.if not,another Mr.right will come along  pretty soon.

mangbrown:
Pls my girlfriend has started lying to me what do I do
?

start lying to her too.mtcheeeeeeeeeew

small time now,she go break your heart and you go come dey cry for hia.smh!

Chad Michael Murray and Brad Pitt.
you can guess my reasons already.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=814772.msg9688883#msg9688883 date=1322979021]Maybe they thought they were voting for the Dumbest and hungriest Mr. Romance. [/quote]most probably!!

jbx:
Slim u know whether na two of 'em i dey yansh for dream.

okay o.all the best with your wet dreams.

instead of you to concentrate on your problem of havins ssex in the dream,you are here fantasizing over some faceless person on a forum.smh!

sauer:
And when some guy really grows some testicle and uses you to act like a real man, you'd probably be the first one crying!

its okay to cry when shite happens buh it also makes sense to know how to control your emotions especially when you CLAIM to be a man.

^^honestly,i just can't help being angry when i read shite lyk ds.

apart from the fact that everthing you put up there sounds like blah blah, no girl on Nl cares if you give up or give down.save it and suck it up!

seriously,it's starting to get annoying.if its not *she hurt me*,its *i'm losing her* or *she's farting in my face* or *she's has stopped kissing me* or *she didnt follow me to the toilet*
Why are girls not crying as much since they are by default very emotional?
Can anyone pls explain what's going on here?
Han-han!this crying should stop already puhleees.
You guys should stop being p.u.ssies,grow some testicl.es and start acting like real men.for reals!

priest,you are just too confused and childish.for reals!

you can meet anyone anywhere and where you do doesnt really matter so long you understand the +ves and -ves of what you are getting into.

Yorisb:
Oh and I was even advised to be wary of the emboldened line(s). . .seems like u use them often

I won’t insult your intelligence by suggesting that you really believe what you just said.