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WHENEVER YOU SEE ASSOCIATION HAILING THE GOVERMENT, THE CITIZEN WILL CRY FOR THE SAME PURPOSE.

MikeofKd:
Good day Nlanders, pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders. I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women, ive been this way since I left uni, and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years.

I meet a woman today , we vibe, connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. I'm scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married.

Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. I'm currently working, fair pay, got my own place, I'm doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women, but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up, women are too complicated naturally to cope with.

This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.

I form hard guy, but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship, I'm just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her.

Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.

I UNDERSTAND YOUR FEAR AND REASONS BEHIND IT, IN FACT I RECENTLY PITY GUYS GOING INTO MARRIAGE INSTEAD OF HAPPY FOR THEM, I HAVE BEEN INTO MARRIAGE FOR OVER 8 YEARS NOW AND I CAN TELL YOU FOR FREE THAT I SOMETIMES WISH I DONT MAKE THAT DECISION YET BUT COME TO THINK OF IT, GREATER UNHAPINESS AWAITS IN FUTURE IF YOU DONT MAKE UP YOUR MIND NOW, MARRIAGE MAY BE A DIFFICULT THING BUT BELIEVE ME, YOU WILL VALUE IT MORE AS YOU GET OLDER. BE STRONG AND COMMIT.

Sirheny007:
By the time Tinubu and Apc finish dealing with Nigerians, even agbadorians would wish for a military coup.

I tell you this for free, you will soon clap for that man call Tinubu. If what God showed me in my dream will come to pass. Tinubu name will be remember for life in Nigeria for positive reasons.

Mrfixiit:
African matters tire me

Are you well? You think they did the right thing by detaining him just to get attention? Without any harm to them?

Plan your life as if you are married, but dont marry untill you are established in business and not office job alone.

FreshCalamcus:
Hmmm ....Am I smelling war?

and you shall get it.

SWEET JUDGEMENT.

Prospertochu:
My x wife and I share 3 children together ( 4 years old triplets 2 boys 1 girl). I live in another state due to the nature of my job.

The girl lives with her in Lagos and the boys are with my mother and sister in the village. I rented another apartment for them far away because I don't want my x or her family to come and kidnapped my boys the same way she kidnapped the girl .

My x wife and daughter are going to the village for xmas she want me to give her my mum adress so she can see the boys she said she bought plenty gifts for them .

I refused because the last time she visited she took all 3 children to her parents house only for her to kidnapped the girl leaving behind the boys.

I don't want her to kidnapped my boys and she has threatened to take me to court for custody she said the judge will grant her custody because the children are tender .

I told her to go ahead and report me anywhere she wants. I am scared to loose my boys. I love them so much they are my everything I won't bear to lose them.

My boys are only 4 years old is it true that the judge will grant her custody because they are tender ?


Edited 1 : https://www.nairaland.com/7112098/x-wife-demanding-me-more#112551530



Edited 2: https://www.nairaland.com/7436944/ex-wife-kidnapped-daughter#118450454

YES THEY WILL GRANT HER THE KIDS MAINLY BECAUSE THEY ARE BELOW 6 YEARS OLD AND IF YOU ARE THE ONE THAT ASKED FOR THE DIVORCE. BUT IF YOU ARE YET TO REMARRY, YOU HAVE A GRATE CHANCE TO KEEP THEM ONLY AFTER THEY ARE 6 OR ABOVE.

FOOTSOLDIER2:
All indicators shows that Tinubu does not know anything about leadership and was never prepared to be president.

Just yesterday you wasted tax payers money to sponsor your Lagos big boys to Dubai, together with their side chicks and prostitutes.

Now today you are doing eye service about putting up aircraft for sale. Shame on you and all APC supporters

WE ENJOY YOUR TEARS. CRY A BOWL THIS WEEK

NONSENSE ATTACK, DOES IT MATTER THE LOCATION OF WHERE THEY SIGNED IT?

Nwamazi8:
By Rinu Oduala


Rinu Oduala

Nobody will talk about this one o! see even innocent children that were roasted like goats because their only crime is that they are Nigerians.

SO,RESIGNATION OR SACKING OF THE ARMY CHEIF THAT IS SOMEWHERE FAR AWAY WHEN THE INCIDENCE HAPPENED IS THE SOLUTION AND NOT EVEN THE IDIOTS THAT MAKE THE STUPID MISTAKE? HATRED HAS BLIND YOU TO THE CORE.

I FEEL LIKE RELOCATING TO ISREAL RIGHT NOW. I LOVE THIS COUNTRY LIKE ..... HOW WILL YOU ALLOW SOME STUPID TERRORIST KILL YOUR PEOPLE AND SHOUT ALLAH AKBAR IN THE NAME OF RELIGION. AND BECAUSE OF POLITICS, YOU LET IT SLIDE. KILL ALL OF THEM. ISLAM IS MY SOURCE AND YES, I HATE IT NOW LIKE SHIT.

CoronaVirusPro:



Fvck Israel!

FVCK YOU AND YOUR SICK MENTALITY

obianoooo:
You're too foolish, when was OBI a President.

Secondly praising the second person to allocate more in those sector while dishing the very person of who laid the ground work or the
person who he copied the ideology from is plain stupidity

MY PROBLEM IS NOT IN HOW MUCH ONE GOVERMENT ALLOCATED OR THE OTHER ALLOCATED, MY ANNOYANCE WITH OBI AND HIS SUPPORTERS IS THAT, THEY EASILY FORGOT HOW ANAMBRANS PRAY THAT OBI TENURE SHOULD END FAST AS GOVERMENT LITRARILY TURNED UPSIDE DOWN UNDER HIM, HEALTH SECTOR TOTALLY SHUT DOWN UNDER HIM IN THE STATE WHEN DR WENT TO 14 MONTHS STRIKE, HE DID NOT CONCUCT ANY LOCAL GOVT ELECTION AND PUT THE STATE UNDER DICTATORSHIP FOR 8 YEARS NOT ALLOWING THEM TO ELECT THEIR LEADERS AT LOCAL GOVT LEVEL, USING STATE MONEY FOR A PRIVATE BUSINESS, THESE AND MANY MORE IS WHO OBI REALLY IS AND NOT THE SAINST HE CLAIM TO BE.

WHO IS LISTENING TO THIS SHAMELESS MAN AGAIN?

I HAVE SAID IT SEVERAL TIMES, OBI SUPPORTERS ARE EITHER TOO YOUNG TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HAPPENED UNDER OBI AS GOVERNOR OR THEY ARE JUST BEEN WICKED AND WISH NIGERIA DEAD. I WILL RATHER VOTE ABACHA INSTEAD OF OBI THE FRAUD.

money121:
so is a crime to tell your customer to download whatsapp status viewrr ode omo

That is not a crime. You have not done any crime but you have only fought your business yourself. Drop you senseless ego and learn from correction, nobody knows everything but on this one, you acted foolishly.

Nightwolf1:
Na so you go they mumu untill your father house go come under demolition then you understand.

If my father house no follow the housing law of the state let it demolished.

money121:
We must learn a lesson in hard way

E pain Am

YOU ARE A FOOL. BIG FOOL O. You talk to customer like that because he has not patronise you yet? I REPEAT, YOU ARE NOT WISE.

HAMAS INTENTION IS NOT TO DESTROY ISREAL, BUT TO DESTROY GAZA, PALESTINE ARE JUST TOO STUPID TO REALISED IT BECAUSE WHOEVER KILL IN THE NAME OF ALLAH IS THERE BROTHER. Let me hear from my Muslim shallow thinkers what they have to say. How do you slap someone stronger than you and expect not to be beaten? and after the other guy slap back you run to cry victim. I now hate been a Muslim, It appears we are just practicing a religion from a total illiterate.

Nightwolf1:
They are stylistically using damage control to change the narrative.

Yoruba people are destroying houses belonging to the Igbos. We have taken note already.

So take the note to bank and withdraw money to fight back Oponu

Muyiwabiggy:
U have it on good authority! Imagine! Are u God! Or our Lord Jesus! Ur hypocrisy and ignorance knows no bounds! So u mean to say all other churches are from God!? It's people like u that knows the truth after death! What does Matthew 7 vs 1 say?. Self righteous fool!

You dont have to be God before you know what is right or wrong, what is a sin and what is acceptable by your father (GOD), If Bible is the standard, C.C.C is not practicing the God's standard. Period.......

verybadmouth:
Nigeria comes to my mind after reading this news. Ours is worse than recession 🤔

NO DONT UNDERSTAND A THING ABOUT THE SUBJECT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.

IamAtikulate:
USA debt is held publicly and intergovernmental holding. Nigeria debt is external.

U.S.A debt is like you owing yourself, while Nigeria is like a person owing another person

Yes, you are correct but that does not remove the fact that those money where borrowed and owned, in fact another thing you forgot to mention is that the currency that you are borrowing matters, US has advantage because they are owning in their own currency, which means they can as well print the currency if they have to pay back unlike Nigeria. The initial fact I want to buttress is that, The fact that the the value That figure of high or low debt profile is not the koko but the performance of the loan.

THIS WORLD EMBARRASING CORRUPTION HAPPENED UNDER JONATHAN, SHARING MONEY MEANT FOR SECURITY AND FIGHT AGAINST INSURGENCY FOR POLITICS. AND SOME IDIOTS STILL PRAISE THE BIGGEST PROBLEM TO NIGERIA ECONOMY AND SECURITY. I KEEP SAYING IT, JONATHAN AND HIS WIFE SUPPOSED TO BE IN PRISON IN A SANE COUNTRY, SAME IS BUHARI AND EMEFIELE.

victorclean:
Agbadorians will soon attack the author

Why will they attack the author, you may need to know that US has more debt that Nigeria, the problem is not how mush you are owning but what can be seen that you have used the debt for.

Over the past 100 years, the U.S. federal debt has increased from $404 B in 1923 to $33.17 T in 2023. Comparing a country's debt to its gross domestic product (GDP) reveals the country's ability to pay down its debt.

Understanding the National Debt | U.S. Treasury Fiscal Data

Treasury Department (.gov)
https://fiscaldata.treasury.gov › americas-finance-guide.

Nigeria debt is is less that 44Billion dollars. compare to 33.17 trillion dollars of US.

I KEEP TELLING PEOPLE, OUR GROWTH RATE IN POPUPULATION IS OUR BIGGEST PROBLEM IN NIGERIA, POVERTY AND CORRUPTION ARE JUST SECONDARY.

I AM A CHRISTAIN AND I CAN TELL YOU FOR FREE, CELESTIAL IS NOT GOD'S CHURCH. IT IS JUST A WORLDLY SOCIETY WITH ROOTED BACKGROUNG IN OCCULTIC PRACTICES. You will be shock to know that they may not even inviting those musicians, but a plan to deceive people to attend. That is the headquarters of pastors marrying multitude wives and also headquarters of single mothers and ladies at the same time.

People listening to this man message or preaching are not wise at all. I have not seen a man without substance pretending to be seer like this man. I rather listen to a mad man than him. very disgusting speeches always.

One of my way of identifying unserious people is by asking if they follow the stupid show.

JASONjnr:
Don't play

Else, you're gonna learnnnnn........



Joke with Wike and his judges will stand up for him.


Wike and Tinubu have pocketed the entire judiciary system..

Let your cry never end. They pocket it because of the building is a personal gift for the judges. You are not smart at all

kingthreat:
Sorry but what has she done to deserve the reputation of a SAN.
We know what likes of Ozekhome and Gani did to elevated to the SAN level but now being married to a top lawyer gives one the access to become a SAN
Femi Falana keeps deceiving the world that he is a human rights activist. He is one of the problems of the Nigerian system.

I don't know how to describe your level of thinking but i know for sure that you are not well.