₦airaland Forum

Obasanjo is not a Yoruba man, the earlier you realise it, the better. He definitely understand nothing about the culture and value of the people he claimed he came from. first he work against their candidate during election, now he rubbished all the kings together.

Nonny95:
Ara what?

Ara Bambi?

OP you didn't add pictures of the Ara Bambi

Funny names full this Waste side o

You want his picture so you can strategize dragging and killing as usual?

Akfrenzy:
it'll never take away the facts that YORUBAS DON'T LOVE THEMSELVES
Look at what Naira Marley did to MOHBAD.


Had it been it's Igbo vs Igbo 😆😆 they'll start telling us how IGBO'S don't love themselves #Nzogbu nzogbu

The level of tribalism in your head is devilish and childish at the same time. You are there when Naira MARLEY was killing the guy now.

PrinceOfLagos:
They torment this guy in life still wicked him In death

Are you saying that those that killed him are still the one that buried him?

pansophist:
100k is too small na. It's your wife we are talking about here, not some employee.

But divorce is too far, don't do that. You have kids, and lack of sex is not a good reason to break up your home.

If you're a traditionalist, I for advice you to behave like the Ugandans. But you're most likely not.

Don't play down the pain of others that you are not experiencing. men are built differently.

ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...

I BEG YOU, DONT DIVORCE HER, LIFE IS MORE THAN SEX. SEX IS A BIG DEAL O BUT YOU CAN REALLY COPE WITH LITTLE OR NON OF IT. I AM MARRIED FOR CLOSE TO 10 YEARS LIKE YOU AND I BET I SUFFER THIS SAME ISSUE. IN FACT, ITS AS IF YOU ARE TELLING MY OWN STORY. THE KIDS ARE THE MAIN REASON I AM BEGGING YOU. MY ADVICE IS JUST 1. HAVE A BOLD MEETING WITH EITHER OF HER PARENT, PREFERABLU THE ONE SHE RESPECT MOST, DONT SEE THE TOPIC OF SEX AS SHY TOPIC THIS TIME. LET THE PARENT KNOW IN A PLAN WORDS THAT YOU ARE FED UP AND MIGHT CONSIDER DIVOURCE IN IF THE ISSUE CONTINUE. I WANT TO BELIEVE SHE WILL SEE THE ISSUE SERIOUSLY THIS TIME. GOD BLESS YOUR HOME SIR.

Israel5:
I have just been informed by neighbours from my house in my home town that my tenant was burnt to death by people in the environment. They almost burnt my house too but for some interventions. They ransacked the entire house, burn any item they could find, cutting down trees and pulling down doors.

He was accused of stealing and selling children. Four children have been reported missing. He confirmed it, only that they can not be recovered. That was before they meted jungle justice on him. He was survived by a wife and four children. The family are in police custody now. All his properties brought out and set on fire.
As I write, I am in shock right now. I can't travel there. All the while this devil told me he deals with Rice and other food items. He usually comes to Abuja to sell his items, asking to visit my house but for some reason I refused to let him. I have never him physically though. I thought he was a good man, how that he helped secure the property. It was after his death yesterday, I got to find out that he rented other rooms to some students and was collecting rent. Unfortunately, the properties of these students were burnt too. Not my problem.

I have contacted a property lawyer, and sent him there. He confirmed the incident, but asked me to sell the entire property.

Is that the right call? Seeing that the people see the house as bad omen now.
Please what do I do? Am I going to be implicated? I don't know the devil.

You are unlikely going to be implicated but you may need to spend some money with police case if you are afraid of court threat by Nigeria police. let them charge you to court if they come up with the idea, but be sure that they have no case against you.

HugeElephant:
Where were these Pastors when TINUBUANDSHETIMA arranged fake bishop and pastors lol

He has not been reading his Bible anyway

what has he been reading?

iwaeda:
You trust APC's Tinubu who said, widening the tax net.Oyedele must be new to governance, Oluomo has increased loading fees, Sanwo-Olu. MOT and so on.

Yes we trust the goverment and not APC.

Odin13:
Apc na major scam

God bless Nigerians
God bless Nigeria 🇳🇬

Dangote now Apc chairman?

Onpoint1010:
Thanks sir. I've left the organization already. Working with another company here in Lag.

NICE

frankmoney:
The minimum of contesting a post should be a BSc...

The people that made the stupid constitution dont have the certificate.

Onpoint1010:
I posted a thread earlier on about how the manager of the place I work made securities god over staffs.
Like I pointed out in that thread, I'm not totally against the securities coming into the store however, I'm against them having too much access to it; they iron cloths, charge devices both their own and that of their friends, they open fridges and dip their hands even when am not there and to make matters worst, they do not assist me in carrying goods when it arrive.
Well, some events took place last month.

1. 15 Whole chicken got lost in the store and I was asked to replace.

2. The manager was given work on hold letter and a new manager was brought.
a. Security guys now wear their uniform and also stuck in as opposed to flying their uniform when the other manager was around.
b. No more ironing in my office
c. The security guys and I are now in talking terms.
d. Restriction of staffs to the store now enforced although I still let them in for brief rest.

In all, I observe few things in the branch

1. You won't be respected without muscle and if you are not from the area. This especially on the manager and I.

2. Gang up among the staffs against the manager. Manager cannot say this is my with ness for wrong done by any staff, they'll deny.

3. Manager wasn't in good terms with people at the head office. I believe that led to his sack.

4. Sometimes, hitting is better than romancing as you'll more be feared.

5. Been myself. At a point, I observed that I was gossipped so much that almost everyone deserted me but i never minded them.


Las las, be in good working relation with all staffs.

Do your things right or join the clique.

The guy in the chicken department told me not to worry that he will cover it for me. He said he has stolen and sold one part of chicken before and has stopped after that one time.

I just told him not to bother.


Thanks for your encouragement.

LEARN TO TALK LESS ON NAIRALAND. YOU WILL BE SHOCKED TO KNOW THAT MORE THAN HALF OF THE PEOPLE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT ARE HERE

Isokotolopia:
Eye service, Tinubu can never fight corruption

He really don't need to fight but reduce the propensity of the evil.

Men will definitely get wiser and stay away from this life destroyer. Women will struggle to get men attention

successmatters:
Why is Atiku tormenting the druggie, does reno have a hand in this oppression of a sitting president?

This is so unfair

Atiku and Obi need to be busy doing something now, Tinubu can't be ruling while the both fold hands selling pufpuf.

HenryWilliams:
Wait 5 years. The FG mentality will reduce it to a pigsty

This is Lagos and not Anambra.

MercyStan:
Stupid comments like this really piss me off.

What is your business with how anyone chooses to derive entertainment?

Don't you follow European football with the current state of the country? What makes you any different? At least BBNaija ends in two weeks time but you will follow the football tournament of a developed country till next year and beyond, while you country is in shambles

I have noticed that it's actually financially bouyant people that have the time and means to watch BBNaija. And it's the broke idiots that can't even afford Dstv that come on Nairaland to criticize. After all, na who don find food chop go get time to siddon watch BBNaija

Get the fuq out of the thread and put you life in order and stop criticizing people better off than you.

Financial boyant people? No, DANGOTE, Otedola, young company CEO and good tech guys that earn good cash can't have time for the meaningless show. The sign to know that you are a shallow thinker and a baby in the heart is to even find that show interesting in the first place.

She has to defend her failure and deceit.

They are laughing and attacking southwest when they make moves to institute regional police Amotekun, now they crying after attacking and killing police themselves with ipob attacks

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
watch APC claim it as an achievement...shameless party

Using your whole energy to attach ordinary party as if your life depend on the party is a total waste of time. Use your energy for more productive thing. The party is even getting stronger than others despite your attacks

SmartPolician:
Soludo don become asslicker. Dude will decamp to APC after 8 years as governor.

Someone actually needs to teach him that ministerial slots are constitutional requirements!

I expected shallow thinkers and ungrateful elements like you to still attack Soludo, anything that glorifies Tinubu is back and should be attack.

PrinceOfLagos:
Soludo is pressing Tinubu mumu button as usual

remove Lagos from you name, you can't be Mumu and be a prince of Lagos. I am sure your papa is not lagosian

turmacs:
This country is doomed.

What you pray for is what you get in your family alone. Nigeria is blessed in Jesus name. Tinubu is our choice for now.

YET YOUR PEOPLE DISPLAY HATRED TO ANYTHING THAT IS NOT FROM THEM. NOW YOU ARE WAKING UP AFTER ELECTION?

richidinho:
93% of Edo people supports labour party

We are all obidients

Grab the ticket and win the governorship election in the state

LP will not see second in Edo governorship. Take it to the bank.

Ofunaofu:
For consistently bashing Peter Obi and the Obidients and also retuning to Nigeria from his self imposed exile, I believe that Reno Omokri really deserved to be compensated and rewarded with a ministerial post... maybe a Minister for youth will do.

Reno Omokri is jobless. Tinubu should get him a job,

THE MAN THAT MAKES YOU BLOW THIS LONG EXPLANATION IS NOT JOBLESS AT LIST HE SUCCEDED IN MAKING YOU UNCONFORTABLE TO THE EXTENT THAT YOU FORGOT TO DEFEND OR ATTACK THE ACTUAL TOPIC HE WAS DISCUSSING.

This is the tradition we are throwing away for foreign religion.

JaredH:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/8/man-machetes-his-father-to-death-over-n70000-in-ogun-2.html

THAT IS DEFINATELY Obidient

BEGGING, THIS NEWS MUST BE A LIE. THIS PEOPLE ARE BIG, PROUD AND BEG NOBODY. THEY CAN EVEN BECOME PRESIDENT WITHOUT THE SUPPORT OF OTHER REGION. THEY NEVER BEG AND WILL NOT BE FOR THE MURDERER IN THE CELL

IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?

HER MUM IS WISER THAN YOU AND YOUR FRIEND COMBINE