₦airaland Forum

Even if they can’t find most of them,they should make sure they get that dismissed police officer
A uniformed police officer with an AK47 is a menace to ordinary citizens not to talk of a dismissed one,so much bile and bitter are engraved in his heart that when he wants to commit atrocities he does them ferociously,A dismissed officer is the worst thing that can ever hit a society

femmyapson:
Let God be his Judge not you. So just shut the Bleep up

Hypocrite,i won’t mind you,he’s the one judging people,not me
Guess you are new to Nairaland or you don’t exist on the forum biatch !!!!

MajorOvakporaye:
shut up!!!

Eya...it’s getting serious,sorry u hear

MajorOvakporaye:
sharaaaaap!!!

Never knew you were sick in the head,sorry o

Little statements like “God is with you” “We are in this together” “Everything will be okay” can go a long way in helping people overcome their depression,everyone is not as strong as you,everyone is not as financially okay as you are,not everyone is spiritually fit as you are..you just have to say nice words,I wonder if it costs anything
People post for advice on forums and you see nasty comments,some even call it fake stories,if you don’t have any advice for the person,it won’t hurt to keep quiet,no one is perfect,but there is power in what we say more than what we do,words to me speak louder than action because there is huge power in the tongue
By the way,I just came back from a week long ban from Nairaland,congratulate me with a like each
And to the mod that banned me,I am sorry,I don learn my lesson,but there are two sides to a story o

Righteousness89:
If only Cynthia will see this as an opportunity to turn to JESUS CHRIST and Make Peace with Him..

Some events that happen in your lives is GOD'S hand to pull you out of the Way of Destruction.

But Alas some persons try to use their hands to plug themselves back to Destruction..

I bet if someone opens your cupboards,your dirty linen will push the door out,everyone to you is a sinner and has not met Jesus
Why do you judge everyone?
Am not a strong Christian,but I believe most of us here are better than you with your holier than thou attitude

Volkswagen90:
call him, guy don't come o am not around simple, see people like me i can tolerate betray from opposite sex but from a guy,no no I can't,if not for ur stranger helper u could have dead on the street of that country (where u know no one), i carry ur matter for head like Gala,e dey pain me.

Lol,I Dey feel you brother
Thanks for feeling my pain bro,you be real niga ,then you know wetin I pass through,how guyman go looseguard guy man

Xtabellah:
Nah you don't have to, bye gone is bye gone, u can allow him come over but for 24 hrs max, m sure he is shocked that u made it and he is coming to confirm it, friends like that could do irrational things outta jealousy.. Still be on hi hi terms with him, if he asks something n its within ur power, you could assist, am sure if he didn't make you go tru all this, maybe u would still be eating from his table, so consider his actions as a push to ur success.. Remember life is too short to be creating enemies.. Be cool with him even if u guys can't be close. And watch what you say around him.... Take care

Thanks for this

bluefilm:
Sorry Mr. Slyfox35 for asking this question.

You see, to be frank with you, I am really in any way at all interested in the love affair between you and your friend.

Neither am I interested in trying to tell you how to handle him when he comes back to your lovepad.

My nigga, I am only interested in knowing what type of business you did that enabled you make quite a pile of dough.

Can you throw more light on this, please?

Thanks.

Lol...Funny Nigga,you na business man o,you just run straight to the money matter.

Roon9:
How you no go make am bro!
Your sense of maturity alone is 1000%
Kudos! As for your friend please don't let him close abeg.

lol,thanks bro,I take your advice

Origin:
There is something in all human beings jare.

We can take care of the wealthy even when they don't need it, than we can take care of the poor even when they need it more.

It is the same reason an orphan will be misused as a maid. But come and see people begging a rich man's pikin to manage their best meal.

I'm also sure that friend has done some good things too. The mind is just myopic and forgetful.

You have friends I guess,no matter the good any of them has done for you,will you forgive the one that threw you out in the street of nowhere,take a minute and put yourself in my shoes,there is no amount of Good he ever did that justifies this act against humanity

OgeFather:
Be nice and let him in and then after 5days send his black @ss away (1-1, correct score )

Ps if he came home with some cash, collect and flex him with it just to make sure he's broke when you're sending his @ss away

Thank me later

Lol,you funny gan,that na savage revenge o

Should have just said toy gun,that word “squirt” the kind bad things e don Dey associated with ehn

Xone3:
Very Easy. Bros, no vex o. No be only me they stay and I no go like inconvenience the other person. I fit run hotel bills for 3 days for you sha as you be my person. Also, stop flaunting your wealth on social media.

Thanks for the tip,and I never flaunted my wealth,I guess when you are living better than before,your photos tend to upgrade,more flesh on you,better clothes nice background,all these because you’ve upgraded,I never showed a car or a big building or wads of cash,just normal photos,the way I uploaded when I had nothing

lekki1444:
so you have thhis type of venom in you but you are acting like a pussy to an idiot who clearly is not your friend ? what is it about this your friend that makes you so soft hearted for him ? does he have more swagger than you ? is he extremely hanndsome and you like having him around ? do you consider it a privillege to have a friend like him seeing as he is more handsome or more swaggalicious ? what exactly is it about him cuz i know there is some attraction to him most sane people would have thrown his number in the bin

Lol,you are funny but right,the venom in me was aimed at that guy because he does not know the pain I passed through and he spilled rubbish about it,truth is nothing about him is drawn to me,I mean we were once friends but not anymore to me,maybe my weak point is apologies and too much of conscience on my part...but that’s why I came for advice,and I think I will go with majority here
And PS,I am perfectly sane

tranxo:
In as much as you no tell us d Kain business we Una dey do, all I can say is CUT HIM OFF.

But the style of the cutting off depends on d kain business wey una dey do. E fit backfire if not handled with tact

If I cut him off,it will not affect my work bro,am totally independent now,so I get where you are coming from

yettymuse:
Severe all ties between you both! Block him on your Facebook so he doesn’t see your progress! This one na enemy! Who best friend epp!?

life is business stop allowing your emotions take the lead! .

Now your emotions is leading you, making you feel like a bad person....Him reason you when he was wicked to you

Lol,your Military approach to the matter take me by surprise,thanks dear,I got your advice

NOETHNICITY:
Honestly bro, for me I only gat myself

The people I called friends were never ever really there when I needed them

Nice orientation bro,and believe me,you will get far in life without them

Make dem free the soldier Joor,Nigeria as a country is filled with unhappiness,your neighbors will make you unhappy,your girlfriend will make you unhappy,economy will make you unhappy,government will make you unhappy,Abeg dance even for detention my brother,Happiness is free

cucumbae:
Where him play the ball go?

My brother,na side o

MOGPRAISE:
Are for real that yakubu didn't score the goal?

My brother,he did not score o,it seems like magic abi

Extending the Gradual ease of lockdown by two weeks.Do they mean after the two weeks,we will be placed on total lockdown? I yam not understanding,who bathes with clean water just to go and play in mud.
You want to lockdown,you lockdown,you want to lift it?you lift it,Confused Government,stop putting Nigerians in a state of limbo,there is hunger in the land.
The total lockdown did not decrease the covid 19 pandemic neither did the gradual lockdown,just uplift this thing already,Nigeria and Nigerians are starting to doubt the authenticity of the so called cobid 1-9 birus
By the way,how do I explain to my children that yakubu did not score this goal.

bestabigaelever:
I don't like soft people like you, man up and tell him he can't stay with u
If you can afford it, tell him u will give him money for 2days in hotel lodge

Lol,I guess you get me there,I am soft but not stupid,I get your advice

Benzboys:
Since my own best friend handed me to the police last year and lied against me,I no do again.
Jealousy can make a lot of people do crazy,extraordinary things.

I tell you Bro,How far How far from afar is the best form of friendship now

Humanoid01:
How would stating the country be of any use in the story? Do you want to go there and carry out a research to verify the story? The main subject here is his ordeal with his friend, and not the country or the details of his business. There's nothing about this piece that makes it difficult to believe, you're just raising unnecessary points.

Thank you so much for this reply,I never knew you have replied,then I would not have wasted my time on quoting someone with a very high degree of ignorance. Octopussy or whatever his name is.
Sensible people are not hard to spot,you are one humanoid.
Will stating the country reverse what I passed through in those streets or the mental pains I went through,telling the story is hard enough

Octopusssy:
Foreign country wey no get name

See you wey get name “Octopussy”
Must I specify everything in my writeup?
You understand abi you nor understand

Disgusting Animal should be thrown in cell,I hate what I don’t like

cococandy:
Please don’t let him stay in your house.
You have forgiven him but be wise.

He’s clearly jealous. He’s coming to your house to see things for himself. You can predict what he will do after that.

Thanks for this,my thoughts exactly, but I do not know how to tell him to back off,should I remind of him of what he did?

Lavisha:
your friend must be an igbo

He’s a human being like you and me,I don’t think ethnicity has anything to do with the heart of man

Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.

We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.

Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years.
Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).

My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.

Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!

His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.

On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.

I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)

I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.

This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.

What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”

Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?

I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?

See how colleagues are bashing colleagues,it just pains him that he is no more seeing roles especially in this new era of Nollywood where their video production is so smooth and clear and they tend to reach wider audience