Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels Nwoko Hosts Lavish Party For Kids On Children’s Day by Slynation(m): 10:35pm On May 27, 2022 |
What's the lavish here...?? Everything is verbally abused in this Country |
Travel › Re: People Scoop Fuel As Truck, Four Vehicles Collide In Lagos by Slynation(m): 10:34pm On May 27, 2022 |
Nigerians never learn... |
Romance › Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Slynation(m): 10:32pm On May 27, 2022 |
The way girls are crying on this thread seems like this story is made up just for payback/counter to some kinda thread on NL... |
Romance › Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Slynation(m): 10:31pm On May 27, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Slynation(m): 10:30pm On May 27, 2022 |
mkpurumma090: And what's your business? It's Adam and Eve and not Ada and Eve...!! |
Romance › Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Slynation(m): 10:21pm On May 27, 2022 |
mkpurumma090: Guys are wicked... I was once a victim of this but not anymore cause my fellow girls/ ladies never fail me...
Whatapp me 07038481670 Let's be intimate and there will be funs No more heartbreak No more frustration No Abortion. No more disappointment and being shattered again.
No regret
Once a Queen always a Queen  This one just want to use this small opportunity and look for a lesbian partner...!! |
Romance › Re: After Suffering With Him, He Dumped Me...i'm Dying by Slynation(m): 10:19pm On May 27, 2022 |
Gracelander: I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.
I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.
But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.
The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.
The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.
I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.
How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly. since 2021 you didn't give up...you were still having hopeless hope, eya sorry... But welcome to life where nothing is absolutely guaranteed... |
Romance › Re: Young Guys In University Learn From This. by Slynation(m): 10:14am On May 27, 2022*. Modified: 11:30pm On May 29, 2022 |
I can wholeheartedly relate to this post as a one time Zonal Chairman of Simpson Association of Nigeria (South East branch)
A wise man once said "Spending on a lady is actually an investment of no return" then I thought he was bluffing until I learned the hard way...!!
Young guys should please listen to what OP is saying, I wished I stumbled upon posts like this 4 to 7years ago....
A wise man once told me "Young guys are going broke because they play the role of a husband material too early in a relationship" |
Romance › Re: Things Shame Will Not Allow U get yourselve. by Slynation(m): 9:52am On May 27, 2022 |
I buy whatever I need myself without shame... |
Romance › Re: I Saw My Girlfriend Washing Clothes In Her Bestie's House by Slynation(m): 9:47am On May 27, 2022 |
Eya...All I can say is sorry!! |
Romance › Re: Did Your Parents Assist You Financially To Start Up Life by Slynation(m): 9:32am On May 27, 2022 |
Well thank God I have always had the best parents so far, Both supportive in all ramifications...My only prayer now is wishing them long life so I can finalize my plans for them before the end of 2023...!! Ishallah...!! |
Romance › Re: Why She Run To God For A Husband. by Slynation(m): 9:17am On May 27, 2022 |
Interesting piece tho but may I never be that unfortunate man God will ever send to marry this kinda community project as a wife...After jumping from preeq to preeq you now want to use me as retirement benefits... |
Celebrities › Re: Patoranking Celebrates His 32nd Birthday Today by Slynation(m): 9:07am On May 27, 2022 |
There is this unusual freshness when there is money...  |
Politics › Re: 2023: I Don't Need To Be Strong Like Ronaldo To Lead Nigeria - Tinubu by Slynation(m): 9:04am On May 27, 2022 |
BigDick70inch: Even tho........I'm proudly a yoruban I do pray and hope tinubu never get to rule us as president.......
Not because he's bad.....but for his deteriorating health conditions.....Nigeria can't afford to have an unhealthy president once more.......
From UMARU YARADUA to BUHARI not with TINUBU again.......God forbid!!!
As for OSINBAJO(star boy)….....I have been standing in queue at inec office for the past 3weeks.......in order to get my PVC just to for vote him...... watch how they you tag you IPOB member... |
Politics › Re: 2023: I’ll start from where Buhari stops, Lawan says to delegates by Slynation(m): 8:55am On May 27, 2022 |
Unfortunately...Buhari didn't do anything, he only succeeded in taking Nigeria 8years backwards to the extent any President that can revert Nigeria back to how Buhari met it in 2015 will go down in history as the best president ever worthy of erecting a stature in all 36 states + FCT across the federation...!!
That's how bad it is... |
Romance › Re: Why Nice Guys Are Boring And They Finish Last by Slynation(m): 11:18pm On May 26, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Man Gifts His Girlfriend Half Of His Home And All His Properties While Proposing by Slynation(m): 11:10pm On May 26, 2022 |
Nigga must be high on kpekus juice...he will surely come back to his senses, but by then, it will be too late |
Romance › Re: I Need Help...i'm Losing Myself For A Girl by Slynation(m): 11:04pm On May 26, 2022 |
A foolish simp...!! You don't need any advise, you need make they wire you Oraimo cord for neck |
Politics › Re: Primaries: 300 People Claim They Voted For Me After I Got 2 Votes - Shehu Sani by Slynation(m): 10:36pm On May 26, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Demond George: Man With 33 Children Speaks (Video) by Slynation(m): 10:33pm On May 26, 2022 |
ukaface: If he no dey alright, his wife suppose dey alright.
I don't know how me as a woman will keep going for delivery every now and then up until 33 times, when I no dey craze. try dey read post well... |
Family › Re: Demond George: Man With 33 Children Speaks (Video) by Slynation(m): 10:33pm On May 26, 2022 |
Hehehehe... He's a real legend with legacies |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by Slynation(m): 6:07pm On May 26, 2022 |
phemmyfour: In your father's days , free quality education exist in public schools from primary to secondary.
In those days , University fees were less than minimum wage Non of us attended any free school neither did we attend any public school, infact we all attended one of the best sec school in Kaduna state, I mean a school that can compete against Danbo college, Zamani college etc, if you know this schools in KD, then you know what I'm talking about...so life is all about planning and sacrifice |
Family › Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by Slynation(m): 2:24pm On May 26, 2022 |
InsideLife2022: I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.
She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.
They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.
I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.
Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.
Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.
My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.
Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?
Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.
Cc: RoyalRoy
I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you! The thought of what people will say has definitely kept many bondage... Remember you owe nobody any explanations, your family especially your mum is your surest bet in taking care of the baby but here you are protecting the interest of the naysayers over the welfare of your child... The choice is yours... |
Politics › Re: Chukwuemeka Nwajiuba: Indirect Primaries In APC Will Turn Into Dollar Bazaar by Slynation(m): 1:19pm On May 26, 2022 |
blazhykowskyi: Yet it is igbos begging bihari for anointing. Why do you guys contradict yourself? point of correction, not Igbos but Orji Uzor kalu, Joe Igbokwe, Okorocha etc... Real Igbos are tired of Nigeria |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by Slynation(m): 1:15pm On May 26, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: What's there to unravel? It's either a yes or a no. It's a faceless forum and a yes or No means nothing...So I rather skip |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by Slynation(m): 1:12pm On May 26, 2022 |
greygoblings: That's not the bone of contention here. I think the OP wasn't talking about contentment but wealth. I am also okay with what I have but I won't consider that as being rich. Na you wan dey compete with other people...  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by Slynation(m): 1:08pm On May 26, 2022 |
Esales: Nigeria runs an import based economy, china imports but china is highly self sufficient as well. Any increase in dollar affects everything in Nigeria so the exchange rate is highly important. Offcourse there must be fluctuations in dollar rates, but that is left for the countries government to stabilize the economy with substantial policies...But my main point still remains looking at the condition of Nigeria, you will surely place tho earning 500K among the richer class...!! Then with an annual rate of #6m, such person ought to have the financial capabilities to diversify his income unless he lacks ideas... Lemme give you an idea, I already have plans to invest in human capital to sponsor atleast one person with footballing talents to the highest level, thoughts like this will create streams of indirect wealth without you breaking your bank, that's just one...#Keep it secret tho...  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by Slynation(m): 12:54pm On May 26, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Do you earn more than 500k? I will leave the question for you to unravel... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by Slynation(m): 12:53pm On May 26, 2022 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by Slynation(m): 12:51pm On May 26, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Your financial intelligence doesn't come close to mine. I am just speaking facts. You ain't speaking any fact because you don't know me but here you are bragging and comparing...with 500K and financial intelligence, one will surely amass millions!! So yes, 500K is considered Rich |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by Slynation(m): 12:48pm On May 26, 2022 |
Esales: Others are just being sentimental, 500k is $830 salary monthly. My sister earned $1,200 as a nanny for a special needs child with only waec back in the days in the USA and someone said 500k is rich. This just goes to show that people are living in squalor in this country.
500k is average. I earn 1m+ monthly and I don't see myself as rich at all, I still have a long way to go. Plot of land is in millions, good cars are expensive. I refuse to buy a car older than 7yrs, that's 2015, check the price. I had to upgrade my apartment after hoodlums broke into my former apartment cus I stopped "dropping something", I lost over 2m worth of property in that raid cus I wanted to live in an apartment below 1m, now my first priority is security and a sane neighborhood, rent is now well above 2m. Building a house? Plot of land in bariga is around 10m+/- 10% currently, I won't go to live with snakes and scorpions or subject myself to a life of 6hrs daily traffic cus I want to build my house on a land of 1-2m.
Rich starts from at least 2-3m. Anything lower is average. we don't spend dollar in Nigeria...what we have here is naira, so lets talk naira...!! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is A Nigerian Salary Earner Of 500k Per Month Considered Rich? by Slynation(m): 12:46pm On May 26, 2022 |
phemmyfour: When you get married and started buying cerelac/daipers or paying school fees every 3months, you LL know that what you have there is a peanut.
Your friend is only taking advantage of you, stop running errand for him with your money even though you can afford it. He's earning in dollars over there. At least, let him pay for service once in a while My father didn't earn that much but he comfortably sponsored me and my 3 siblings from kindergarten to university level without third party so what are you saying... The earlier you realize in life everything boils down to planning and sacrifice, the better for you...!! |