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LatestgistTv:
I don't know what to do bro. If I leave now, then all I've done for her in the past becomes useless.

Mr man, you're too emotionally and financially invested in that lady.

The only advice that will save you from this chronic state of oneitis you find yourself in is to leave that girl in other for you to have some fresh air to breathe.
It's so bad that you're justifying the pressure the relationship is putting you in.

Relationship isn't a pressure cooker,if you find it unproductive, uncomfortable or demanding, you move... there's no I'll manage in relationship.
"I'll manage" has a timeline attached to it

If you continue on this current path,not only will she break your heart, you will repeat that "after all I've done for her " ,that I guarantee you .

Use your sense small you're investing in a woman that isn't your wife,is it that you think she can't leave you or you think you've paid bride price already with all your investment

A girl that's financially stricken,do you think she'd want to ride it out with you,I laugh .
She's just using you to upgrade her game while she sorts for who will solve her family crisis.

Either you stop giving her money and see what unfolds or you just jejely leave that pressure cooker you call a relationship.


I know advising you will fall on deaf ears,then again some people will always learn the hard way.

ubunja:
been too distracted lately to commit to that Conspiracy thread. But things are happening.....

Link please

DieRich5:
one of my guy 30yrs sex a V- 13yrs old girl last week, I can't say shit but I'm sad for her future self


Having sex with children like 13 to 15yrs, good or bad?

I rather buy for sex Dan sex a kiddo

You need to stop moving around with pedophiles my man

Martinez39s:
I read your yesterday's posts and all I can say is you were not exhorting redpillers to wife up used okirika products. However, you are right that virgins are rare... but no one here ever thought virgins were in abundance. The fact that we usually write about virgins doesn't mean we think —or intend to give the impression— that virgins abound.

Men have fallen off in their standards for women and have lamentably shortchanged themselves, whereas women have remained rigid in their standards. Pro-marriage redpillers have chosen not to be among these men, no matter what.

Finally, the problem you stated to pro-marriage redpillers are as follows (I added some to buttress your point):

[1] (a) where will they go to find a virgin if they are looking for one? If anyone knows, help point others in the right direction.

(b) what are the chances that there will be enough virgins to go around for all the ones that are looking that are looking?

[2] are they willing to wife up "used products" or remain single if they never find a virgins?

[3] do they have it in mind that having hymen doesn't mean a female is sexually pure? There are girls with hymen regularly giving blowjobs, letting bad guys do "unholy" stuffs to them without penetration, receiving anal sex, etc. What preparation do they have against this possibility?

@Smartb0y, anything you want to add? *coughs* *coughs* #StayChosen.

^{NB: I didn't give my personal opinion here. Instead I am simply rehashing Smartb0y's point in a summary and hoping to start a discussion with pro-marriage redpillers. The discussion, if it happens, will be potentially helpful.}

Lol , you finished work

heartofcity12:
That’s another angle. Nigerian women are just too toxic tbh

Hardship breeds toxicity my brother.
Their default state is literally on war mode.

JESHAL:
Are you now implying we should settle down with sexually experienced women who give us greenlight as a result of scarcity, what do you mean, we should be the retirement plan for post wall hoes who start becoming religiously conservative and decent after they had their fun in their prime years and slave the remainder of our lives trying to please them because society deems us as the head of the household and provider instincts is in us by default, they come with emotional baggages, past traumas, aging and wrinkled face/ body, sagging breast, used pussy, some might still be attractive but can never be as attractive as young 20somethings.

Oh gawd no, I'm in no way implying that we should settle for garbage my man.

This is the redpill and it talks about nothing but the truth and the reality of things.

But when we talk about virgins, it's like they're everywhere lol but that's not the case.

If a headcount is done on how many women loose their virginity daily ,I'm sure most will lose hope in marriage lol.

My statement earlier was based on must you force yourself to marry if you don't see a virgin.

It's an open discussion I'm very inclined to hear what guys have to say. I wasn't being judgy or anything.

Cheers

Lol,this virginity of a thing is not something we've extensively discussed.
We just say it or see it as we want to see it.
The rabbit whole is really deeper in this context

I would appreciate others perspective and contribution on this aspect.

Cheers.

JESHAL:
Stop it now
Please we still have hope

At this rate no hope o

MJBOLT:

the chances of finding a virgin today is as low as Arsenal winning the UCL,a lot of guys who want to get married will end up with leftovers.

Arsenal
It really begs the question bro

Are we not deluding ourselves if we think there will be one virgin waiting for us if our mode of thinking women should stay pure changes?

When there was restriction back then, a good percentage of women married while they were still virgins and why was that the case?, it was because of the said restriction,the belief that was held back then. Of course, there were always outliers but the few didn't make the rule.

Virgins were much back then, you'd even be the ones choosing which has the best attitude and admirable trait

Is that the case nowadays, I laugh
Before you'll see an virgin, talkless of an available one , talkless of one with a good attitude,talkless of one with admirable traits,I could go on , you'll sweat

Lol,girls maybe turning 18 yearly but are they still virgins, that's the big troubling mind ghasting question we ought to be asking ourselves if we choose the marriage route, so we don't end up wailing at the end lol.

Will you settle for an arrogant virgin if that's all you can find?

These are questions we really need to ask ourselves

Ps: You won't find them in Religion,those girls are codedly bad

Karlifate:
Here's the thing:

Complaining about lots of today's women being whores accomplishes nothing. Exploit the situation to your advantage. Use the whores for fun, and marry a proper woman (preferably virgin) when you're ready for marriage. Don't marry the whores and you'll do fine.

You're contradicting yourself my brother. Why would you accept it's ok for women to whóre around.
Where will you find a virgin if it's acceptable for women to be slut.

All this Virgin talk lol,we forget that from age 12,all these small small girls are already having sex.

Everything in life must maintain a balance in other to ensure continuity.

Accepting women to whóre around is akin to you saying you will likely end up with a retired whóre or not getting married at all.

Without restriction, everything falls outta balance.

Virgins are endangered species and it's because society has accepted that it's ok for women to whóre around.

Karlifate:
Dating a woman with an onlyfans is called being a customer.

Let's go to the origin.

Once they're social media freaks forget it, you're just a customer.

ProphetJeroboam:
“My ego booster has found love and I hate that” , reminder that if she’s not into you in 1-2 days then you’re likely getting pulled into orbiter ego booster zone. If you’ve been around women a lot then you’d know there is nothing unusually spectacular about them, they live boring lives that are made bearable by the guys who are attracted to them. Why would you as a man be an orbiter?

This works everytime .
If a girl plays hard to get, just go and date someone close to her.

It's safe to assume that jealousy is one of women's greatest flaws. Their mode of judgement is greatly flawed, literally everything they feel at that point is inversely proportional to its prior state.

At that point, you can easily bait the supposed hard to get fish

machote:
I neva even agree for the girl matter, u don dey conclude lol.

Well you totally missed the whole point of my post.

You were talking about green light, while he was saying that the green light was not actually a green light but a means to an end on her part.

What you should do or rather should have done was play hard to get since she was the one doing the chasing.

All in all, don't let her use you.

If she mentions anything about birthday nonsense,block her asap.

Don't fall sway to pussy power, oneitis is real and contagious for a reason.

Stay sharp my man.

MJBOLT:
......

Effect of oneitis.
It never gets old.

CaveAdullam:
I will always keep you updated.

"Sha the costs na 1 house for Banana Island o".

Thank you. I appreciate.

this guy ,
You no go kill person with laugh

Martinez39s:
As I dey now, once I spot any woman power/feminist nonsense or LGBTQ+ yamayama, I just log out. I have nothing against gays, but it is clear that some people, somewhere, are tirelessly pushing rubbish agenda down our throats. I do not like the agenda.

Bro, it's so bad that before your kids watch any cartoon , you must vet it because they push alot of homosexual shit on there.
Groom them while they're young so it seems like a norm afterwards.....very demonic way for any human to think.

Humanity has lost its shed, what we have sprinkled everywhere are just heartless zombies. So sad

Lol, you have nothing against gays, they're humans, I concur but the act is not acceptable.

God did not create Adam and Steve lol

heartofcity12:
TRP

Your own wife is capable of messing you up good talkless of a stranger.

ubunja:
"Whóríng Enterprise". Lol.

But for real, Some married women will even give you a baby. That's how deep, cold and dark the game is. They'll literally get pregnant for you.

If you speak to a lot of married women get in the habit of jokingly saying,"I wish your next baby was mine!".
If they act shocked say you're just joking. But I assure you, say it to enough of them one day one of them will take you up on it. And you'll lose all your faith in humanity.
The reproductive game is the most cruel of all the games.

This genuine desire shit is no joke . What these married women give out,theirs is more than green light lol

MJBOLT:

from the friend zone to the bro zone,our friend is getting ahead.

If a woman you're interested in starts calling "bro", just go and do baptism again

Tonnyray:
Cold approach works flawlessly and effortlessly for good looking guys who are bold, spontaneous, carry that confident air about them and don't suffer from approach inertia.

Here we go again

heartofcity12:
That’s why cold approach most times don’t work. It most times leads to nowhere.. These days, I barely approach any random broad if I don’t see greenlight or choosing signal. Modern women don’t deserve any of those stress anymore. Let them also put in the work.. ain’t nobody fueling these girls egos anymore.

This is my son in whom I am well pleased

ProphetJeroboam:
There’s this ongoing discussion about Nigerian women and their obsession with food dates. Personally I’ve observed the same thing with African American women.

Nigerian girls just want to go on food dates and post monthly photo dumps. It’s a hustle, the main guys fvcking them don’t take them to Radisson Blu to eat Chicken Pasta bolognese. It’s you who wants to impress them that shoulders the responsibility of feeding the less privileged. Your reward will be a side hug while she posts photos of herself with you obviously missing from said photos. A girl that truly loves you will not ask or hint to you that she wants an exotic food date.

This brings me back to my old write-up about demographics and location affecting women’s choice in mates. In a financially unstable community, the women gravitate towards mates who can feed, clothe and take care of their financial needs. In a financially stable community, the young women fvck guys based on appearance, raw feelings , game etc

I have been in both situations and this is facts, not a theory. The white girls in my city will fvck you because they think you’re cute, funny or just straight up sweet and nice. I have never in my interactions with them spoken about food dates nor do they obsess about food dates, you will never hear bullshit like “my love language is food or see I am a foodie“ boldly written on their social pages, you’re dealing with hungry girls in Nigeria and I am not shaming them, it’s the reality, they’re not used to eating good so food becomes luxury.

I quickly noticed that the Nigerian girls in clubs in my city go home with guys who spends the most on drinks in the club and the White girls go home with the guy who dances with her and gives her a good time inside the club.

I am not in anyway glorifying white girls, I am just pointing out some notable differences. I hope y’all get the chance to experience the best of both worlds. I have some friends who got white girls for serious relationships and in a month or two you’ll see the whites girls learning how to prepare Nigerian dishes and trying to communicate in pidgin English, all they care about is making you happy. I’ll mention, just don’t get caught cheating on them

Nigerian girls are just too low value, I mean in every ramification.
They're mostly masculine, hungry and very disloyal since the term "love" is foreign to them.

Imagine Nigerian women coming in second worldwide in terms of paternity fraud,they want to satisfy their hypergamy and lust.
It's all or nothing for them.
They'll never compromise

I'll present another case study....on dating sites, I'll use tinder.

A higher percentage of Nigerian women are on there for prostitution. You'll see them using terms like masseuse,I don't do hook ups and all that yada yada. Their bios are usually shit,not to mention the less than classy hustle mode pictures they always drop on there. From afar, you don't even need binoculars to know that they're oloshos

Now for their counterparts,which are the westerners,a higher percentage of their women are very refined, simple and classy.
By simple,I mean just being themselves.
They're bad asf, don't get me wrong but they tend to do it with dignity. Perhaps it's the feminism at play idk.

I'm in no way gravitating white women,they have their headaches too but the disparity as regards the mode of thinking is just too much to ignore.

It's way worse now because the few good ones are continually turning bad.
Yahoo Yahoo is now a culture in Nigeria, every girl secretly wants to date a Yahoo boy.
Lol, what future prospect does that hold for her once those bad guys have taken everything of value from her both physically and spiritually.

This is the trend that has taken root over the years and will only spiral downwards into oblivion.

Birthing females with no self worth whatsoever, it's saddening really.

You've said it all my man,the enonomic hardship over the years has transformed what's left of what a woman should be into something else.

It'll be difficult for many to understand what a relationship should entail just as you have clearly stated until they date outside of Africa in fact lol.

In mosdii voice......all Nigerian girls are all useless.

ubunja:
No No masculinity IS NOT muscles. Masculinity is the total combination of characteristics that embody what being Male is all about (culturally and biologically) i.e being logical, ambitious, driven, calm under pressure, self-sacrificing, etc.

Also consider the fact that BOTH men and women have masculine properties in them but in different degrees. Just as both men and women have feminine properties also in different degrees: men have far more masculinity than women have and women have far more femininity than men have. But both contain both.

Men's masculinity and Women's femininity are always changing in degrees in response to socio-economic factors and romantic situations. For example, western society is using the media, law and politics to weaken men by emasculating them. Are they taking away men's muscles? No. Rather it's the core of what makes men men that is being targeted. Eg men are being pressured to be more emotional and less logical - which is them being feminized even as they continue pumping iron and getting more 6packs and abs.

Romantic situations also affect masculinity and femininity,, eg when a woman dates a weak man who's indecisive, timid, dumb, isn't a real leader, she'll find herself being the one taking the lead, making the decisions and controlling the relationship which is really her being more masculine as a natural reaction to her man's femininity. This will exhaust her in no time and make her resent her man cause she's being forced to dig deep and use tools she only must use in cases of emergency not in constant day to day life.

Same way when a man deals with an overbearing, controlling woman he'll find his masculinity going down and himself getting emasculated as a direct response to his woman's overt masculinity. Maybe you've seen how some men are sometimes strong with one woman only to be weak with the next woman. It's all ever-changing depending.

Socio-economic factors also affect masculinity and femininity:
When a woman has no man in her life and is forced to rely on herself for survival (eg widow), or when a girl has no father and she's forced to navigate life without her daddy, she'll become very masculine to compensate. Meaning she'll become direct, combative, logical, put on a shell and be aggressive. This is a woman becoming more masculine. Now , Does that mean widows and girl orphans develop muscles? Nope. They develop traditionally male characteristics for survival and self-sufficiency.All these characteristics are good on a man cause they make him a good provider and protector. And they're what masculinity is. However on a woman they make her very manly and undesirable as far as romance and relationships go.
That's why independent women - women who are self-sufficient - are hard to date and usually make horrible romantic partners until they date dependent, broke men who (by being dependent and not self-sufficient)are operating in their own feminine, which then jells and fits with the independent women who are themselves in their masculine.
Finally remember, gays do have muscles and yet come across as feminine. So muscles have nothing to do with masculinity. Yet muscles truly enhance masculinity. But a man can be perfectly masculine without muscles. Just as he can be feminine with muscles.

Mind over matter indeed.

ubunja:
in a perfect world the man a woman loves will be the man she shows her freaky slutty side to. so that he can enjoy that part of her. but the way men are wired, this can't work. instead of enjoying it the man will be disgusted and call her names.

sorry Fefe it won't work....

I guess having a baby mama is the only way to balance this Madonna/whóre effect.

ubunja:
it's every girl. As long as a woman is in a committed relationship you can be assured she's living a lie as far as sex is concerned. Cause women will never be sexually free inside a relationship. This is because men use sex as a character test for women. Men will be disgusted by a woman who steals, lies and even kills. But if it turns out the woman is a virgin, everything will change and she won't appear as bad. Cause sex is really the mark of character as far as men are concerned. And women have noticed. So they are extremely careful to present as sexual prudes. Which gets men's trust. Which comes with men's resources. A woman's survival in marriage is really dependent on how she acts in the bedroom. A man will love a wife who cooks good and delicious meals. But let a woman give good and delicious sex and his alarm bells start ringing: Who taught her? How many men did she sleep with to be this good? This girl must have been a hoe before I met her!

So women have learnt to be mild and even boring in the bedroom: stick to 2 positions and tell the BF/Husband there's no secret fantasies. Cause to be honest will disgust him.

But because women want to realise their fantasy and do those bed-breaking positions they'll then find someone, preferably someone who's nonchalant about sex and who can screw without attachment, and spend time on his bed.
Women hate to do this, but they're forced to. They'd love for their BF to be same guy they bring their fantasy to, but men suffer from the Madonna/Whóré syndrome: Men love women they don't respect and respect women they don't love.
Basically, a man will risk his marriage to a respectable good woman by messing with a hoe he doesn't even respect. The wife has his respect but it's the hoe who ignites his lust.

If the wife tries to be act like the whóré her husband will be disgusted and even send her back to her parents house to learn to be a proper wife. But that same evening the husband will still go do that very thing he chased his wife away over, with his whóré. Freaky is only welcome from the Hoe that the man doesn't respect. From the wife that he respects it makes him vomit.

Women have realised this.

That's why they keep sex within relationships and marriages predictable and tame.

And really to make someone's GF/Wife cheat many times boils down to offering her a chance to be free to be what she wants in the bedroom. Cause definitely she's not free with her man.

Now, will every GF/Wife respond favourably to offers to be sexually free. Obviously not. It all depends on how morally strong a woman is and if she finds you atleast appetizing. But a great many GFs/Wives will eventually cave in, if you're persistent and you make it mouth-watering with as little emotional attachment as possible.

Lastly, remember Women dont date and marry for sex but for the finances. They know they can always get the sex elsewhere. It's all about becoming that "elsewhere" if you want to get these women.

Ubunja!!!!, you'll give married men hypertension.

ubunja:
this topic is one of my favourite topics. I always want to talk about it.
In women's world it's:
Bad sex for Boyfriend
Good sex for Strangers.

Lol, let's talk about how to spot these types.

[quote author=Diligentnigga post=116857023][/quote]And you think he'll listen to such advice. Lol

It's called oneitis for a reason, easily contagious.

Run or else

It's like aids taking over your immune system,in this case it's your mind playing tricks on you even if you know better, you'll still love to taste that bad apple.

Lol, he'll be alright when she gives his heart suplex

Martinez39s:
How typical. She knew she had no case, so she had to make your "defiance" look really bad than it is.

She is highly neurotic/damaged,she has no control over her emotions, be it in a working/professional environment or otherwise, she'll display


Toxic female 101.


Lol, never give them chance to manifest else OYO

Martinez39s:
He has severe onetitis. He was probably playing bad boy in relationship at the start only for him to soften up and undergo serious BETAfication. That's what I'm guessing, I might be wrong. Anyway, your friend will be alright.

He'll be alright after the girl shatters his heart,which will probably lead to him trying out some suicide techniques. If he's lucky enough to pass through that phase, he'll sort for reasons why the hell could he have simp so bad, which would then lead him to redpill 101.

I'm just rumbling here,I might be wrong too

Pukkalolo:
This is why one of my top strategy in dating is simply getting with the right women and avoiding the wrongs ones as much as possible.

Just like there are "good" and "bad' products. There are actually "right" and "wrong" women.

In the earliest stages of my interacting with a lady, I want quickly find out if she's the "right" lady for me Or if she's the "wrong" one who's gonna waste my time, give me headache and add more burden to my life.

My mentality of simply try to only get with the right women and avoiding the wrongs ones has save me lots of long term problems with women and help me attract only the women who are worth it.

My first tech job I got back then, it was a lady I was dating that time that connected me to it.

I've dated a lady who said she doesn't like how slim I was and that she said she would be bringing lunch for me every afternoon(bills was on her).

There was another one who was always passionate and enthusiastic about promoting my stuff on her social media page...

I have many more examples.... My point is, these ladies are all examples of the "RIGHT" women.

Here's the reality: Some women are just simply wrong for you; no amount of game, redpill or alpha moves can change her. You need to seriously avoid some ladies because they'll add no value to your life.

Every and anytime I hear the words "right women" , It gives me an itch .

You can say " manageable", that's allowed.

If they were truly "right" , you would have married one of them lol .

Awalt exist for a reason.

There's no woman on this earth that won't give you headache

So please no more using "right" woman

Cheers

ProphetJeroboam:
Istg bruh like we’re all adults here or at least old enough to value healthy associations with women, no nigga is here against his wish. If your personal interest is not threatened then why are you here forcibly trying to liberate niggas who ignore you constantly? We’re not your brother or father, what’s your obsession with us? I laugh every time I see the blackmail attempts. Let the redpill lead us astray and turn us into old lonely men who jerk off every minute.

No mentally sane person will act the same way that troll does.
The great depression has befallen on that foe my brother

ProphetJeroboam:
The troll method is trying to shame the guys here into thinking that the redpill is pointless unless you’re a good looking “Chad” , that is we’re all ugly people trying to manipulate women into sex with the redpill. I saw through it a long time ago. I really don’t get the hate against the redpill that’ll make some persons take it upon themselves to stop it.

The truth is harsh even for truth seekers, can't imagine what it's like for mindless jumbos