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Calibrator:
CaveAdullam posts dey always gbemi debe

He is not human.

MeZee:
WHO BE THAT

I AM MY OWN INDIVIDUAL ABEG

Hmm ,if you say so

MeZee:
LIKE MY WIFE

REWARD GOOD BEHAVIOR

PUNISH BAD BEHAVIOR

HAVING REDPILL AWARENESS ALREADY GIVES YOU AN EDGE SO USE IT EFFECTIVELY AND EFFICIENTLY

HOW WUD U BE REDPILL AWARE AND STILL BE BEHAVING LIKE A PUSSY ASS NIGGA

UR COMMITMENT IS UR WEAPON
PUSSY DOESN'T DETERMINE UR VALUE AS A MAN PERIOD!!

You're that harddestnigga fella

Good to know

ubunja:
family first. siblings over strangers.

a person who doesn't know where their loyalties lie will let their own brother fall into an abyss while asking the internet what to do. smh.

The sisterhood is strong in that one.

For all those so called guys that like to think their girlfriends are a rare gem because she's not billing them,just know that someone somewhere is being billed by her.
She's using you for dick and validation while she uses other men for financial freedom.

Wake up

MeZee:
WITHOUT HER, I WAS SUCCESSFUL

HER BEING WITH ME IS JUST A PLUS AND IT DOESN'T REDUCE MY SUCCESS WHATSOEVER.

SURELY U WILL FEEL SOMETHING, WE ARE HUMANS NOT ROBOTS BUT AS MEN WE SUCK IT UP, LEARN AND MOVE

BEING A PUSSY ASS NIGGA DOESN'T DO SHIT FOR U AS A MAN

TREAT WOMEN LIKE EXPENDABLE COMMODITIES NOT LIKE RARE COMMODITIES

Then again it's always easy to say
How would you treat your wife,the mother of your kids?

porshnuel:
That even if i treat her like trash..that she will continue to endure that i am the one she is confortable with..so now i dnt know i should continue smashing the pussy til the real owner comes back and she finally frees me or i should continue witi the relationship..the reason why i still let her close to me is because..she no de stress me at all and dnt put me on billin pressure in anyway..not that am confuse but i brought it here because i feel other have gone through same faze in life..because i cnt deny, i can easily let her go..but she is nice as well..
And according to her..he puts her on monthly stipend of 10k

https://www.nairaland.com/7162746/one-reasons-never-get-married

The link I added,go and read it my man cuz that'll be you if you continue wasting your time on that girl, forget the "she doesn't stress me", don't try and rationalize her cheating on your ass. She's not billing you because she's billing another person

Do you think she would have mentioned it at any point in time if you hadn't caught and confronted her, I laugh at you

If you had proposed to her, she will marry you and still hold unto that Dubai guy as a hand bag(someone to fuel her neurotic mannerism)

She is not a honest person,if she really did feel that you're her ride or die,she would have come clean after a while because her conscience would have judge her.

But alas,she didn't... instead after being caught red handed, she's using meek words to deceive you .

Have you not learnt anything about women my son

It's either you continue using her to hold side without any feelings attached or you drop her.

When she finds another suitable mate, probably one in USA doing well, she'll start her rotation with you again.

Like I always say, the problem is that God gave man a brain and a penis but only enough blood to use one at a time.

Go through the link I posted, you'll see your future self there if you decide to stick with that girl.

MeZee:
WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW WON'T HURT OR KILL U

AS LONG AS SHE'S BEHAVING HERSELF AND RESPECTING U THEN WHO CARES...

I AM NOT IN THE BUSINESS OF OWNING BOX

You will know eventually and it might kill you.

Saying you won't feel a thing after all your investment is just you deceiving yourself

RikudoSennin:
https://www.nairaland.com/7162746/one-reasons-never-get-married

Men, kindly check out this thread. This thread is an eye opener on how solipsistic women are.

I re-iterate, the woman who will birth my kids will undergo CIA/FBI/KGB security clearance.

Stay Taliban.

Dude was coldy served

No one can navigate this life peacefully without understanding the "game", you'll get burnt by women even men.

Understanding the game turns you hardcore, ruthless and outright manipulative. Only a naive individual would think everything is black and white,news flash there's a grey in-between,that part no one sees except those who have been enlightened.

Learn game and protect yourself, your dignity, your sanity and the very essence that makes you "you"

Stay Taliban

ubunja:
it's not like she'll be doing it publicly. you won't even know.

It's only a guy that'll fvck and boast about it.
A woman will take hers to the grave.

They'll gladly gossip about another person's secret but theirs,no way

MeZee:
THE MAN'S JOB ISN'T TO KEEP HIS WOMAN IN THE FIRST PLACE

THE WOMAN'S JOB IS TO KEEP U AND GET UR COMMITMENT (SECURITY)

Women are naturally drawn to both sides i.e the fuckers and the buckers.

It's a hard Job trying to keep a woman to yourself, it's either you accept it for what it is i.e the possibility of her cheating on you or you learn game and try to balance out the equation of which there's no guarantee.

A woman can chase after your commitment and still be fucking outside.

AnonDude2004:
Glad I finally joined.

How do you guys deal with aches, though?

Your body will adjust naturally, just don't stop.

It's the same as not playing football or running for a long time, you will feel that instant pain then after a while your muscles (which are flexible) will create room for the changes your body is undergoing.

When you play football or run the next day or two,the pain will be lesser compared to the first and it goes on and on like that.
Your psyche and body would have adjusted to the pain,so you won't feel it as pain no more.

Just don't stop, your body is not complaining, your psyche is because it's not used to it.

Both(psyche and body) will blend in time.


Consistency is key here.

heartofcity12:
Women supporting women.

This is a very interesting group.

Lemme go and check out their page small

Again from the link.

Your post was good, but I disagree with you on the concept of Game. All men need to learn Game, more so to protect themselves than to bed women.

All women require “Game”, whether you bang them or not, whether they’re “pure” or immoral.
That’s the truth of female nature. A “pure” woman may not necessarily bang a hedonistic man, but instinctively she desires him because her biological makeup tells her that he’s “good” with women. This is what Game educates men about, which is much needed than the sissy blue pilled, female ass worshipping conditioning men are often taught about in modern societies.

Growing up in a conservative household with an elder sister who stayed a virgin till she got married (in the 90s), I remember my teen years when overhearing my sister and her college friends who were all gushing about the college jocks in those days, who had Game. The fact that my family was ultra conservative probably reined her in from committing fornication and saving herself for her marriage, but that didn’t change her from gushing over those men. And I saw this same analogy with multiple women later in my life when I entered into my 20s.

Women, on a basic instinctual and biological level, fear society and “the herd” more than God. Game exposes that. A society which is conservative will undoubtedly rein in female sin, but that’s usually because the herd mentality of conservativism predominates. When the herd turns towards sin, women inevitably follow. I’d rather give more credit to my parents than my own sister for reining in her till she got married. And I didn’t realize all this until much later when I discovered Game myself.

The failure of modern society today is that it over glorifies sex and promiscuity (both which hand over power to women and a small percentage of men who get access to most women). Women instinctively understand the power of sex, and how it can be used to control and mold (if not manipulate) men to do their own bidding, especially in an unregulated paradigm as we see in modern world. Game again teaches that. It doesn’t matter if she’s conservative or a slut – they all know that sex can be used to control men.

This is why its more common to see women “hating” on celibate or asexual “good” moral men than them (because they got no game or don’t play the game), than the Chads and Tyrones who play it well. Not that I’m advocating for men to become Chad or Tyrone. In the end, both the Chad and good guy will get “burned” by women, but Chad will still bang them and yet get some benefits out of them.

Chad and Tyrone may get hate from women, but usually only because of their reluctance to commit to them, or hand over their power to a single woman, or reluctance to have children, or reluctance to provide for the children they have with women – less than the fact that they are promiscuous.

On an instinctive level, a woman will still forgive a man for his wandering sexuality than his Godly asexuality – simply because women are more sensual and earthy (or earthly) creatures than men. A man who shuns sex for God, is often percieved as a man who has disconnected himself from earthly life – and women (with their biological programming to reproduce and raise her offspring) sees him either unfit or as a weak mate, even if he’s saving himself for marriage.

He’s percieved as Plan Z, the captain Save a Hoe waiting to rub balm on her worn out holes when the cock carousel ride is over, she “repents” and he’s gonna take her (and her kids) to his home and provide for her – simply because she knows his God and faith will tell him to play by the rules of human ethics and compassion, even when she doesn’t.

Especially in today’s times, when God is abhorred in modern societies, and basic human earthiness is unchained.

This is why you see a common pattern of dating among most women today – if they’re banging or getting knocked up by Chads and Tyrones in their youth, they still desire Chad and Tyrone as their next lovers, while they still keep the good guys on the back burner, till the cock carousel ride runs out of power. Because they know they’re gonna get saved by Captain Save a hoe later, who pays for her kids by Chad and does the noble thing of being loyal to her and providing for them – because God wants him to be compassionate.

Chad and Tyrone will always get BJs and to bang the good girl up her ass, while her good man will get sex on her terms and BJs/ anal as an occasional bait or “special” reward once he does her bidding first. The R selected lover this always scores over the K selected provider. Women, at the most instinctive level, desire R selected K providers. Meaning the Dan Bilzerians, Hugh Hefners, and so on – who are nose deep in wealth, female and female ass. “Alpha” providers.

The good guy with no game fails to understand this, and thus repels women for his overly idealism and lack of realism and understanding the earthly world, which women all crave and desire.

You take a good God fearing girl and put her with a Christian Grey for some time, and you can safely bet she’s gonna be invoking God loudly on bed when Christian Grey is impaling her butthole deeply, like it often happens in real life and in porn. Later, she may repent for it when she falls back on her good guy savior, but 5 minutes of Alpha Chad and is worth 50 years of beta.

And women know that, that’s why in the real world, Chad and Tyrone get banging rights first, both with the “fallen” and “good” girls, because they’re R selected. Many K selected good guy providers, in the recent past in their delusion, thought that getting Chad and Tyrone’s “repentant” leftovers somehow ennobled themselves in the eyes of society, and God. Not anymore, because many are waking up to the epiphany that there’s no honor in committing to a fallen woman, no matter how repentant or hot she may be. But this realization only comes through the red pill, and most importantly, Game.

If you don’t know Game, you won’t understand women. Plenty of pseudo Chads and Tyrones (who get plenty of poon solely because of looks or wealth, with no game) and good guys both come in that category.

Women understand game is often all about trolling them, but they also understand it’s more about asserting dominance (which they desire on an instinctual level, else hypergamy would be a lie). Women troll men more often than men would ever realize, so the man who knows game (even if he’s a good guy who eschews sin) gets more respect than the man who knows nothing about it.

bitex2:
GAME IS FOR FALLEN WOMEN

Is it worth it for the man of God to learn game if he only wants a devout Christian wife? No. There could be exceptions if you have an exceedingly awkward personality, a lack of basic masculinity, or diagnosed autism, but the right girl for you should not need you to apply game on her to remain devoted, and if you do need to run game on her, you will always need to run game on her, even after the divorce when you want to see your children on the weekend. You’ll need to be the permanent clown. If she doesn’t see you as a man given to her by God, my advice is to forget her. You want a girl who has rejected the players, and rewarded only the man who has Jesus Christ in his heart, and if this outcome is too rosy with you then good luck marrying a worldly woman who is in constant need of erotica and dopamine stimulation.
Conclusion
I spent over fifteen years mastering game to come to the conclusion that I don’t want to use it and that I don’t want a girl who is so easily susceptible to it. All that lost time is the price I must pay for going down the wrong road for so long, but I hope my example can prevent other men from wasting even 1% of the time I have.

It’s fine to take the red pill, build your physical strength, mature into an adult man, become capable in social situations, and learn the warning signs of a bad woman, but you don’t need to use Tinder or approach women in the bar or the coffee shop. You don’t need to know pickup lines and tricks, and you don’t need to go on dates with a multitude of fallen women

https://www.rooshv.com/game-is-for-fallen-women

From the link

Anything worthwhile in life is going to be hard. A quality woman. A great career. An useful higher education degree.

If it is easy to obtain, it is likely worthless.

Finding a quality Christian woman in our corrupt world today is going to be hard. That is what makes her worthwhile.

This means you will need a 3-pronged approach to your search: local churches; local Christian-focused charities; online. You will need to do some legwork here.

This is especially of you want/need one who is at least a 5 physically and not obese or seriously lacking in any physical beauty. Keep in mind, you can compromise that 5+ in the appearance requirement down somewhat, but remember that any relationship where the man and woman are more than 2 points apart in appearance is NOT stable and is at high risk for divorce, etc.

If you are a 7 man and you negotiate yourself down (“negotiated attraction” = danger!) to accept a 4 woman because she is a wonderful Christian person, I commend you. But you also need to know that there will be trouble, no matter what you do, especially as she ages after 30. Either other more attractive women will tempt you OR she will (eventually) become jealous of you around other women. Stay within 2 points of each other in appearance (this means both need stay fit, dress ok, hygiene, etc) and it will be stable. �

Oh yeah and take it from a man who was married in his early 20s well into his late 30s: she will age, and even the ones who age gracefully and stay in shape will lose their youthful beauty in time. That is human nature and it is Biblical concept. “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised”. Proverbs 31:30

Just to keep it in perspective, folks. We need to keep it real and go into marriage and the courtship of a quality Christian woman with realistic expectations and eyes wide open. That is the Red Pill lifestyle: you have to keep it real and keep it honest with yourself, have realistic expectations, and expect hard work to succeed.

#copied

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
DONT LET THEM SCAM YOU WITH

"AFFORDABLE GENERATOR FOR FOR SALE"


BUY A NEW GENERATOR

There's nothing I find more disgusting than a woman who smokes.

You can have tats or whatever,I might turn a blind eye but smoking never huh huh

Tonnyray:
Ditto: We men are capable of doing that, capable of doing anything.

This is what desperation and greed causes. it pushes those desperados pass their limit,to a point where they can't recognize themselves all in a bid to live fake lives SMH.

Rafiquie:
Gone mute?? Alright bro, my battery is low when you think of something else to say the floor is all yours, have a beautiful night let's talk tomorrow.

Oh sorry my man,i got distracted.

So you weren't talking about women and relationship initially.

That's what we discuss here but i like the diversion.

Still typing...

Rafiquie:
This is not a casual conversation, this is me asking a direct question, demanding a direct answer...which you clearly do not have...casual conversation starters anyone??

What's the end product of this said casual conversation starters?
I'm going to ask you some series of questions in order to assert some useful questions that'll be beneficial to you

Are you ready?

Rafiquie:
Research is literally what this whole thread is about, it's literally what the entire concept of the redpill is all about you seem like one of those fan boys, one of those people who are quick to attach the alpha male tag to their butts and strut the street with a false sense of pride. Do you or do you no have any casual open ended questions I could use to strike up a conversation??

We have been conversing,did you find it difficult?

Now do the same with those girls

Chidi2022:
Yes ....do you miss me??

I most certainly did

Rafiquie:
If you have any other open ended questions tho I'd appreciate them better Smartb0y

*Sighs* all this research just for women.
Too much work I'd say

Spontaneity is one of the perks of Igraining the redpill into your DNA.

You're welcome to join if you want unlimited questions, na skip that.. ...

You're welcome to join if you want to unlock what's between her legs

Rafiquie:
Lol, finally found someone to pick on?? I've already thanked you for your input haven't I? What more do you need?? A standing ovation??

*Sighs* *sighs*

You're not here to be saved so I'll let it rest.

Rafiquie:
You're probably the only person who really understands the whole point of my question, "use situations/things around me to create conversations" ...very fair point, I'll try this out within the week.

Smartb0y once said
You don't enable someone to fail.
You enable someone to overcome.

Tips won't save you.
Your current path is too SIMPle

Rafiquie:
Lol, you are in no position to tell me my ailments, I know what problems I have and I have clearly stated them. Thanks for your input tho, if you have any open ended questions I could break the ice with tho it'll be more appreciated.

You don't know your ailments my man,if you did you wouldn't be asking such question.

Rafiquie:
Hey guys, I need a little help here, I've been drowning in the REDTruth for a while now and getting introspective I've come to realize I have 'approach anxiety', here's where I need y'all, could you give me a few open ended questions i could use to begin a conversation in places like a mall, the street or even a taxi. Id really appreciate the help.

You don't have anxiety issues, you have lack of self worth issue.

You place too much value on a woman instead of yourself.she's just a human being like you.

Until you get to that stage when you don't see the opposite sex with a crown on their head, you have some serious unlearning to do.

No amount of advice or tips will help you overcome it, only you can help you.

Understand that you're the prize,so stop drooling over every pussy you find attractive.

There's nothing special about her, that's the first trick to talking to women.
Just have it at the back of your mind anytime you start drooling, you'll be surprised just how easy it is to talk to anyone,not just women.

JESHAL:
Men are naturally slaves to their sexual desires.

A man's greatest weakness is a woman. When a man sees an attractive woman he loses his sense of reasoning, which makes sense biologically speaking, since in order for the penis to harden, blood needs to leave the brain.

To control a man all you need to do is capitalize on his weakness for your body and use it to your advantage.

The problem is that God gave man a brain and a penis but only enough blood to use one at a time.

Martinez39s:
@Logicalhumour
I won't make any moral or ethical case against you on this thread since this is an amoral space. However, try to keep your "underage talk" out of here and to yourself so as not to derail this thread. Stick to the red pill and the aim of this thread.

@everyone
From my analysis, it is best to ignore Logicalhumour's "underage talks" from henceforth. If he keeps on with his "underage talk," ignore and report him. Report him because, in addition to derailing the thread, his posts can be twisted by any detractor to make it look like we advocate and indulge in paedophilia and make it seem logicalhumour is one of us, and this may cause the mods to erase this thread (that's unlikely, but we can’t risk it). You all know this is a very sensitive issue.

Let us all stick to the red pill and the purpose of this thread.

There's only one depressed troll that derails this tread and you know it

Guys please let's ignore that troll, it's the same depressed troll but with a different moniker everytime.

So please don't indulge them.


On another note, modern women

logicalhumour:
I love 'underaged' girls.

This is a new one for me