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richkal:
Waiting for the green light might not be a good advice for someone who wants to burst a lot of chics for fun only.

A lady who throw you green lights notices some qualities in you before doing so.

Due to the hypergamous nature of the women, she might see some of other qualities you lack in another high value man, and probably throw green lights to him as well.

When something like this happening, as we all know, the woman will take a flight and move on to the next higher value man.

How would you replace such a woman in no time when you don't have a lot of women in your pipeline?

Another question I want to ask is that, where does the abundance mentality comes from when someone have only one woman throwing you green light?

Someone should enlighten me I want a paradigm shift.

P.s: I am single and only married women throw green light at me.

First and foremost bro, green light is abundant. It's just a matter of you being able to identify them.

The only reason why you won't have harems of women galvanizing you is when your appearance is not encouraging.

I refrained from using "high value" because some persons might still be in the process of discovering their inner lion aka their peak.
You don't necessarily have to be high value before harems of women starts flocking in.

But don't be delusional, there's time for everything but of course some people don't wanna hear that.

She can give signals to other men ,it really doesn't change anything. The same probability applies to those men as well,so I don't see that as a reason to be discouraged.
When your game is tight bro,that should be the least of your worries because not just one woman will be giving you signals, several will.

Don't subscribe to oneitis because one shows interest, always do rotation,(spin plates).

You can't have just one woman throwing you greenlight when you're presentable , that's impossible .
Even when you're an introvert,chances are still slim that you'll get signals from just one woman haba.(scrape that one woman syndrome from ya mind lol)

I'm guessing you're familiar with preselection.
If one likes you,10 more are waiting in line for you to give them a shot.

So that's another aspects where abundance mentality can be extracted from.

The fun part is that while you're doing all this, you're not stressing yourself, possibly you won't even be getting unnecessary billings because you were chosen.

Only married women throw green lights at you because you put yourself in an environment where you relate more with married women.

You have to put yourself out there, don't sit one place and expect to find single ladies standing by.

fattprince:
Bro no big deal in cold approaching. Even if there's no other benefits the confidence it builds is okay too. And a girl staring at you and maybe showing interest greenlight but you still going to strike up a conversation with her is still cold approaching as long as she's a stranger.

See this where we get it all mixed up bro.
It is as a matter of fact a fat deal.

When you operate on the grounds of cold approaching, you're working on 20% to 80% rule.

Even if you're the softest guy in the whole world, that girl with no value can rubbish you anyhow she likes yet you talk about it raising your confidence.
I mean how does that even sound in your mouth

Confidence is gotten from within not without.if you're not confident talking to a girl,then something must be very wrong in your life.

Let's call a spade a spade.

Stop trying to fill a void by talking to multiple women, it's not going to change anything.

Work on yourself,is it money that's your problem.... hustle and get that bag,the confidence will come

Is it sexual (health wise), seek medical help, confidence will come


Always try to narrow down why you're having confidence issue.
It has nothing to do with that girl, the problem lies within your subconscious.
Until you stop deluding yourself, you'll think talking to girls is a problem.


When she gives you green light, your odds are greatly improved, we talking about a 60% to 40% rule here. 60% being yours, that's if you're not even all round sexy.

Let's stop deluding ourselves,the disparity between cold approaching and green light is enormous.

We come on here almost everyday talking about how we must rise above women and be better but we still keep using the tools that enables them to best us most of the time.

Come on man ,we can do better.

heartofcity12:
Is he a simp too?
We should be careful of the way we throw the word ‘simp’ around tho.. Both cold approach and hot approach work.

There's this Rollo tomassi post that talks about the push and pull effect.

It is not advisable to do cold approaching but if you have to, keep your self in check and retreat when you're not successful.

Imagine telling a man not to approach a woman he fancies when his testosterone is telling him otherwise.
Let's be frank,he won't listen to you, he'll readily give in to his lust.

If we're to make an observation from a broad spectrum without bias, one can easily see that cold approaching as clear as day is pedestalizing women.


It is a purple pill maneuver,no one wants to admit it but it's the truth.

It might have been okay in the past because back then,we still enjoyed certain privileges when it comes to intersexual dynamics.

But it's not the case anymore, why do the things of the past if it's no more beneficial to you as a man.

Testosterone is a beast, that's why we advocate for self control.
If self control seems unattainable, the last resort is the push and pull effect, which I must say is not that effective because the heart wants what the heart wants , you must have already simped your way to the position of director of simps before you realize you've fvcked up.

So in all,if truly a man does see himself as the prize,self control will be at his forefront guarding every decision he makes.

I don't think many people understand what it means to be "the prize".
Until they understand that, they'll continue justifying every simpy maneuver they conjure up.

You're cold approaching her to impress her ,is that not so? Aka pedestalizing her .

In the past cold approaching was the norm.
Now, green light is the norm.

She has to pedestalize you or no deal.

I rest my case.

Nasri100:
Tell ‘em. Lucky men are seeing these things for free.

Hidden knowledge - Red Pill.

When you don't give a shit,they tend to like you.

All those cold approachers always make me laugh when they try to justify their simpy ways.

Imagine saying you're the prize yet you chase after women trying to collect number.

Who are you deceiving exactly

Amperes:
And if she succeeds in getting you to be for her alone, her hypergamy switches on, she would start looking to replace you with someone better. Never make the mistake of terminating routines or relationships just to please a woman. you ll likely regret it.

Not "likely".

You'll "definitely" regret it

Jeremani:
If you love gyming there's no excuse that will stop you from hitting the gym,

Marriage shouldn't be among the list sef.

Except you don't love doing it,
I remember when I started gyming 2019, it was as if am wasting my time but as I began to notice changes, I fell in love with it,

I remember when my girlfriend visited me in the gym, through out that day she was frowning somehow.
when I asked her, she said I should stop gyming, that am doing it, so that girls will like me, that I should stop. There's was a time we were talking, she said she hate guyz with big tummy.
Imagine if had quit gyming, she wouldn't waste time to dump my sorry ass.

See this female don't actually know what they want. So you as guy compromising your activities bc of them is wrong.

First thing first bro, women know exactly what they want.

She told you to stop gyming so her manipulative tactics would work on you.

If you don't get distracted by other women being attracted to you, she'll have you licking her palms .

She wanted you to subscribe to oneitis, that's the only way they can fully manifest their manipulative tendencies.

It's all about power play for the female folks, don't ever give them room to manifest whatever they have in mind.

They'll always move on when they've conquered you be it physically or emotionally.

It's a fact.

Stay true to yourself and remember women know exactly what they want

When things don't go their way,we automatically assume they don't know what they want but that's a lie.

Don't get it twisted.

Winnerly:
I just signed up at a gym but clueless on what to even do as there are loads of equipments there. I can’t carry weight more than 10kg. Any advice on routine please?

You should have a trainer assigned to you since you're a noob in the field.

CAPSLOCKED:
50 PUSH UPS A DAY + CRUNCHES AND JUMPING JACKS WILL HELP ANYBODY MAINTAIN BODY STRUCTURE. SQUATS AND MORE PUSH UPS, EVERYTHING 30 MINUTES.

HE'S EXPECTED TO STOP WORKING OUT THEREBY BECOMING SHAPELESS AND UGLY. BUT SHE'S EXPECTED TO BE LEFT TO KEEP MAKING UP AND GLOWING MORE, BECOMING PRETTIER AND ATTRACTING OUTSIDE BIDS. Y'ALL GIVE WOMEN AND MARRIAGES TOO MUCH POWER, AND THIS DISCUSSION IS GIVING ME DEMENTIA.

UNLESS YOU'VE NEVER WORKED OUT IN YOUR LIFE, ANY MAN WHO'S IN LOVE WITH EXERCISING KNOWS HOW EASY AND ENJOYABLE AND IMPORTANT IT IS. WHERE I LIVE THERE ARE MARRIED MEN THAT PLAY FOOTBALL (GYM, HIKE, WRESTLE, BOX) EVERY WEEKEND AND WILL NOT DROP THAT LIFESTYLE FOR ANYTHING. SO WHAT'S YOUR EXCUSE EXACTLY?

Those are the exceptions. You're missing the point my brother .
I was addressing the pic that was posted

Martinez39s:
I see your point. Though it is a topic for another day.

It is indeed, although I think we've touched on the matter sometime ago.
But a discourse is always welcomed to refresh our memories

Martinez39s:
The guy is slacking. He should get back in top shape.

She has drained what made him him

He's now gyming on thinking and frustration

ProphetJeroboam:
You are right but from what I’m seeing, they are not juggling a large family so the burden of raising their family shouldn’t be too much. I’m not a gym freak, I’ve always had a natural slim athletic build and I always try to engage in physical activities so I’m not knowledgeable about gym routines but for the gym freaks here, I’m curious, do you need to maintain the same strenuous gym routine that gave you your ripped physique at same intensity throughout your life to maintain said ripped physique? Surely there must be a healthy looking kind of dad bod. I’m trying to learn guys.

One doesn't need to maintain same said routine but don't abandon it altogether.


There are other aspects one should take into consideration in order to look acceptable without much intensity.

1. Your food intake,of course that covers the classes of food.
Those you need on a regular basis and those you need to avoid in order to maintain an acceptable physique over a long period of time.

2. Light exercises
As simple as going for walks (strolling),jogs and of course doing some light drills every now and then.
All these are just to encourage healthy blood flow and burn excess anomalies (fats)

Well,these are two major healthy aspects a gymite should observe in order to stay fit on the long run without much intensity.

From my understanding bro, I think dad's issues with staying healthy (fit) is more psychological than physical.

There is always a burden, whether it's one child or twelve children.
It has to do with expectations and for some reason, it takes a toll on the dads way more than the moms.

Applying the redpill in modern marriages is no easy feat . You're treading on unknown territory.
Marriage is like kryptonite to TRP. It weakens it.

If you're up for a lifetime of shit testing, by all means, subscribe to marriage.

To sum it up, you're bound to lose your frame at some point.


Pic 2: as a case study shows how miserable a man becomes in marriage.

ubunja:
they'll learn. The more you develop yourself as a woman the more you cross over and become the man yourself which then turns the tables and attract men who want to use you,, men like me. These are the types of women whose bank accounts I'm coming for, and there's plenty of them over here in South Africa.
Good observation King.

She knows there's no hope for her that's why she's setting unrealistic goals.

Nyascobar1414:
When Buhari came Into power,Redpill was well enlightened to Internet users...

When a good president and a good economy resumes, probably in yrs to come, niggas will start simping... Cos resources are there to spare..

*copied.

See this man, where's the good president going to come from , you're very funny.

It's like you haven't noticed the downward trend over the years.

If anything,more will turn redpilled.

sgtponzihater1:
Just coming in now. I am married already with 2 children in a foreign country. My wife manipulates everyone, disrespects me, cooks once a week, but acts like an angel to neighbors and friends. How can redpill help me. What pages can I read from.

Thanks

I thought you were divorced?

Calibrator:
Martinez39s, have you seen this thread https://www.nairaland.com/7105598/girlfriend-ignored-me-party-she



Pay close attention to who the OP is.



It is one thing to form hard guy online, when it is time for actions to speak louder than words, we separate "men" from "MEN"

I come online these days to see lotta blue pilled comments masquerading as redpill,I just laugh.
Some are more delusional than the female folks.

CANDYDADDY :
If the said neighbour is a married woman or single mother your best bet is to run


if she's just a hornyy single girl that's being craving for your dlck, ugliness shouldn't be a hindrance not to succumb to her obvious sexual requests,at least u are not looking for a potential wife


Woo her she's already subconsciously invested, unless you want to be called a GAY

.

Woo a fat ugly girl, you must be out of your mind.

Ps: you can delete your lame quotes but we will edit it for you back

DieRich5:
self worth bro, not all girls ur going sex with, she's not his type so let him friend zone her

Like me if fat girls or ugly giving me mad greenlight, I'll just break the light ND tell her to move on

Word

Martinez39s:
A yahoo boy shouldn't be held responsible for his actions. It is the credulity of his victims and the corrupt politicians that are responsible for his criminality. If these weren't there, he wouldn't be a yahoo boy. That's how his argument sounds.

They reason like women indeed

Martinez39s:
As I heard, you are speaking with labadi.

Damn, I didn't know.

Some of these trolls just love feeling among

MisterRuk:
The masculine is action. The feminine is reaction.
Why am I saying this?
I've observed that some of the bad habits of women(reaction) were influenced by the weakness of some men (action). There won't be hoes on the streets if there weren't men patronizing them. Girls won't be flocking to sugar daddies if there weren't men unfaithful in their marriages. OnlyFans and Pornhub thots won't be raking so much money than tech startups if there weren't men pouring their time and money into them. Your girlfriend won't have a Love Machine in her handbag if you weren't masturbating to porn (she might still though). Single mom parenting that we criticise won't exist if we as men took responsibility and be careful with our choices. Women won't be manipulating men with their bodies when there are lots of men who value character and personality over "breast and yansh".
I'm not trying to justify the sexual amoral attitudes of women nowadays but I'm saying that as men we have to check ourselves first. Sometimes we say "women did this", " women are that " but what about us? Hating women or acting blackpilled would not solving anything especially if you're financially and morally infertile.
Men are meant to create order in the society but today a lot of we guys are morally, physically, spiritually, and financially weak. A lot of 4th wave feminists and gender crazies use some of these weaknesses to justify their actions. Rather than complaining about women we should learn to take responsibilities for our own actions too and carry our cross lest we feed the all consuming power of chaos.
We have to become superior men, uphold strong values and stand for the truth (our own truth especially). If you're a frequent patron to porn don't cry if you see your girlfriend featuring in one.
There would be a lot of hoes in the name of "female empowerment" and destroying destinies at the end but you will choose to be the better man and chose to follow straight road.

Your Statement is very very biased.

From time immemorial,majority of us men have made sacrifices,bore the burden of responsibility,hence why we have civilization today.

All I'm getting from your statement is that women should be left unaccountable.

Smh

Straight road doesn't apply anymore in this present times,I hope your naivety doesn't cost you.

Your eyes will eventually open one way or the other

Tranquility2345:
My guy, your nickname should be Joseph the dreamer

Continue to not give women attention while broke na and see if you won’t die of chronic agro.

Omo let’s not fool ourselves o. Women like money. A lot. Any man that has money can Bleep any woman in the world he wants. Infact a rich nigga need not spit game. Just offer money and panties will drop.

Why have a boatload of money in your account and be ignoring women in the name of not giving them attention when you can just name your price any day and nack until your balls hurt?

Guy, owo ni koko. Rich men are not stupid. Broke men will call them Simps because of envy and jealousy. But the smart rich brother knows that his money is a tool to get women to Bleep and he will use it to his advantage. Know this and know peace bro. Owo ni koko! You won’t understand sha if you are poor

Use money to attract women.
Don't use money to fvck women.

I hope you get the scope now

Someoneschild2:
The message in the first image is not what I'm bothered about but the comment in the second image.

I read,i laughed and I frowned because I wondered "just how dumb can a supposed homo sapien be?"

Lmfao @ " the men need to have their behaviours examined"

I'll bet that vaginarian that commented is just as fvcked up like the rest of them.
They'll throw accountability outta the window the first instance they get.

Imagine the delusional nonensity rationalizing the behavior of amber heard and Jada fucking pinkett despite all the evidence.

It's just crazy my brother.

Modern women are a lost cause.

Just use and dump if you want peace of mind and longetivity.

ubunja:
there's really nothing stopping men from adopting this mindset,, seems like men have placed on themselves the burden of carrying society that they place their own needs and happiness last. As long as men don't want to put self first, they'll keep getting the short end of the stick.

Lol this should solidify that argument you and cave had.

We should endeavour to put ourselves first.
Damn society

luminouz:
You have a point. What kind of 6 year old makes threats like that. I swear I never see such in my life. Whether possessed or not, no kid at that age innocuously suggests such. Something must have been done in her presence by the mum or female siblings to make her say such. Since OP said he didn't do shiit, where else will a 3 or 6 year old get such ideas from to the extent of making THREATS?

True bro, either they learned it from their friends or heard something similar from their parents.
That's why parents should be careful about what they say around their kids cuz they pick up the bad stuff pretty quickly.

Hotspotbro:
卐 Nazis..why the west is okay with Nazis, I don't really understand..

Go and watch hunters 2020... you'll have an idea

Nat404:
Nope. You know i'm not a wussy like many guys on here.

She's my girlfriend and we've had it.

I'm glad you got to the finish line

Nat404:
Cool. She travelled to the US with her parents last week and would return soon.

So nothing different has changed. You're still lingering?

Nat404:
Anything the matter?

What's the update on the politician's daughter

ProphetJeroboam:
Its not the comrade you mentioned, the guy is not a regular here. I’ve only seen him comment just that single day. Hopefully he sees this.

Nat404 is his name

Kids

heartofcity12:
Looking like that for some of them

Lol,the "wall" takes away their reality.