₦airaland Forum

TayehJiboluwa:
Homosexuality is confusion, caused by the spirit of witchcraft. You should pray against the spirit and seed of confusion. That your friend may need prayer, don't tell him anything. He is not gay BTW.

Thank you very much

Although this friend of mine is planning to get married this December.

Hello,

Hows everything?

I had a dream, in the dream, I was with a friend. He was planning to propose to another man to get married. Although the man had tried to propose earlier but didn't, my friend later went to propose to the man and the man refused to marry him, please what does it mean.

delzbaba:
You need help, is dat why your pic is a naked porn star? With your bullshit stories

You no get joy... Chisos!!!���

Mrkumareze:
That's how most of them operate.. hungry thieves parading themselves ...

When they don't get clients. They blame village people.

The are created by God and as the Bible said, they are created that way for the glory of God.

https://www.bbc.com/news/av/world-africa-49851991 this is a story of a Nigerian intersex person who later converted to male.

SmartPolician:
You see, there are few people who use credit cards in Nigeria because the issuers know they are credit-worthy.

Try to make friends with someone who works with those online companies that lend Nigerians money, the person will tell you how useless Nigerians are.

The rate of default is extremely high and some shameless Nigerians will even threaten or insult you for asking them to repay the money they borrowed.

Besides, those countries that use credit cards have what they call credit score and track your spendings and earnings. If you default, the government will clear it, but you are finished because you will hardly get something on credit again unless you consult experts to help you build it again.

Na Buhari wey never loot our money finish dey come clear your bad credit history?

Na for this country Person way dey give loan to people carry people money run abroad.

Integrity is rare in this country.

Bola146:
I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.


It's a real jazz, 85 old man can't have that power, the woman is just collecting his money. Your father need a serious prayer

Abegi

It's not jazz.

Or11:
Nothing wrong getting money and citizenship of another country from marriage love exists in the union.

Yes self sufficiency is important before thinking of getting married.

More importantly, talking trash about people is not right like the person I initially quoted did. People don't grow by trying to pull others down.

How will you feel if you find out that the reason your spouse married you is. For passport or Money but they claim to love you.

Or11:
I was only countering the words he used against the girl. Money matters in marriage, it matters in life. Having a citizenship other than naija matters too because of the current situation in Nigeria. Poor people get divorced, rich people get divorced.

Money I important but why not Strive to achieve those things like passport and money with getting it from marriage.

I think being self sufficient of the things you need is the 1st step before marriage.

MaXiK:
Good day Nairalanders!!

Please I need your advice. My current girlfriend has all the good characters that perfectly defines a wife material plus she's a scholar and also a virgin (not particularly concerned about this anyway but to evince how disciplined she is) but sometimes she will look attractive to me and other times she will appear unattractive and I won't feel attracted to her at all. To clarify things, this changes has nothing to do with her dress sense neither my beholding senses but real changes in her facial appearance and allurement.

To be frank and sincere, she is just greatly above average in attractiveness but she's not stable in her look, she falls far below average occasionally. Also we're both dark in complexion and I will prefer my children to be lighter than I am, if not fair.

I have been trying to look beyond her look by focusing on other quality attributes she possess but the issue about her irregular look keep on fluctuating my feelings for her.

The crux of it is that I'm in my early thirties I need serious relationship; someone to build future with and finally get married to but here I am with someone that meet up with more than seventy percent of my requirements in my ideal wife but with unstable look that is threatening my feelings for her.

I am concerned about this because of some issues we consider trivial are still crashing marriages these days....

My questions:

How important is look in marriage?
Is it me that is making issue out of trivial matters because this lady is receiving a lot of relationship advances from people far better than I am and she's turning them down to maintain her commitment to our relationship?
Is there any possibility of stability in her look in the future considering that she's still in school?

Your genuine, mature and constructive advice is highly needed.

I will appreciate ones from those who have experienced what I'm currently going through.

After 5years maximum in marriage, looks don't matter anymore as it's what the person offers you that matters.

But also consider the looks of your children. You won't want them insulting them in school.

Or11:
What is special about being fat or Nigerian background or not having a pretty face? You are the one talking anyhow. How much do you earn yearly. Do you own a house? How many countries have you visited? What does your future look like? You need to speak positive things daily to attract positive things my friend.

So the person's financial situation or number of foreign trips is a criteria to marry someone?

No wonder marriages dontlast anymore.


What should matter is if you are genuinely care about the person and vice versa. Not what the person has in account.

Remember that money is conditional and passport is obtainable.

With Canada pr, UK start up visa, person can get those passports and more easily.


Look beyond.

athaboi:
Nigeria lacks visionary leaders! She parades thieves as leaders! No vision, no direction... lackluster and half baked individuals who can't think. The economy is in shambles and there's no critical solution in sight! All you hear is capital projects which they borrowed heavily to finance.... How do SMEs come in to salvage the economy and the unfortunate naira, how about foreign direct investment, how do the government help individual citizens who can work and earn dollar while working here in the country! I'm tired

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The only focus on capital projects cos it's a way they can steal. They don't talk about policies to encourage SME or fDI.
Rather than PPP for capital projects. They want to handle everything to steal.

TayehJiboluwa:
1. Obey instructions, obey directives, do what you're told, no questions asked. Don't go beyond what you're told or do more than you're asked or instructed.

2. Acting will put you in the spotlight, same way becoming the main actor means you have a lead role in the drama. The dream can be translated to mean a role or opportunity that will put you in the spotlight or give you a headstart, a leadership role, position or opportunity. A system, event or program that will put you in the forefront or frontrow of a cause, change or opportunity. The British setting there means something that will give you international exposure or platform

Thank you very much

Ngige is an enemy of Igbos

ThinkSmarter:
Universities with no common tooth pick factory.
I am yet to hear any of our lawmakers sponsoring a bill to reduce the birth rate to like maximum of three children per woman.

The graph below is the population growth between Britain and Nigeria from 1900s to 2021.
The population as at 1911 was about 44million
While that of Nigeria then was about 16million
100years down the line, Britain is about 60million
While Nigeria is over 200million.
Imagine the gap of 140million?
And you are expecting the government to perform magic.
And you are expecting things to get better very soon.
I'm not trying to justify corruption and maladministration in the government.
But, this is a simple Economics.
Most countries with higher standards of living, higher per capital income among their citizens have lower population.
We need to put all hands on deck and stabilise the over bloating population.
We can't continue to be giving birth like rat and expect things to get better in the future.
The resources are scarce.
The poverty rate is alarming.
People are just pretending and packaging.
Help yourself.
Help your family
Help this country
Help your government.
Save our planet.

Religion will never make them talk about birth rate. That outta the question in Nigeria.

Who will find them? You are broke and you are still opening Universities. The ones already in Ekiti & Nasarawa. nko?

Esseite:
You complain of rising unemployment but you have championed an embargo on government recruitment for years now.

There are drastic measures to take in springing up capitalized micro and SME businesses fully funded by the private sector. The retirement age needs to be reduced across board to force out a certain age and above into the market to create jobs while they still have the energy and capital. Which leaves room for mass recruitment of a younger lack of capital population.

Nigeria has already created a generation gap of unemployed citizens, there is no way that gap would be closed without drastic measures.

I believe government should not be the highest employer of labour.
They need to create policies that SME and stop all this nonsense tax from from omonile.

Let states be creative

TayehJiboluwa:
There is someone you are supposed to promote or that you are supposed to facilitate his promotion or secure his promotion. This person is in dire need and he's been neglected, abandoned and at risk. You have to fight for this person and defend his right. You need to help/protect him and "rescue" him. Then and only then will God open doors for your promotion. This is something God wants you to do and I am sure you know the person. It has to be you because God has appointed you, you may feel it is not your business nor is it your call or your responsibility (just like you are wondering in the dream) but do what God has sent you to do because you are someone that loves God (I can't think of any other reason why God will want to use you for this person). This fellow's success and promotion will open doors for yours too. The person must be someone that has a great potential and a great destiny (white people) but he/she is in a vulnerable state now. If you don't know the person, tell God to show you who he or she is. In fact, help as many people as you can in life, that's how to fulfill your destiny and become successful.

Good morning sir

I had a dream, my mom gave earrings to give a lady( my ex gf). She told me to drop it with her. Then I decided not to give the lady the earrings cos I know she doesn't wear earrings. But later I sent a small girl to give her the earrings and the she rejected it as the girl returned them back to me. But I decided that I was to drop it with her not send it to her as ordered.


In a dream, I was acting in a British program. Then the lead actor who was British was leaving the show. He gave me his staff but I gave it to the new main actor. After we went out, someone took the staff from the main actor and gave it back to me.( I am not an actor & no interest in acting)

Please what does this mean?

NGpatriot:
Nna, Nigeria is the number 1 TECH country in the whole of Africa and Facebook is about to open 2nd office in Nigeria.

You can not substitute hatred and bitterness with progress and development.

Fyi those investment are in fintech.

Which other industry do you hear about FDI.

Mindset like this that no matter how bad Nigeria is. People must invest

Lemme burst you. The FDI you claim to be invested in Nigeria are to companies registered in the US. Plus they repatriate the profit back to the US or other countries

Also, with this rubbish mindset. Shell, chevron are leaving Nigeria.

Fix your country and people will come.

FreeStuffsNG:
They will come and register with CAC, get NCC licence , have a physical office in Nigeria, hire our teeming youths who are ready to work and pay tax to Nigeria las las.

The era of where they repatriate 100% of their ad revenue in Nigeria as forex back to their country and pass on the tax bill to Nigerian businesses to pay FG is over.

Nigerian Corporates that pay millions of USD for ads like our banks etc don't do VPN. So no ad revenue for them until the suspension is lifted.

Their 'lose' (pun intended) is the gain of other social media platforms including platforms like Nairaland.

"All the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las. They always lose. God bless Nigeria "
FreeStuffsNG

If you are foreign company will you open shop in Nigeria with the poor infrastructure, poor government policy,high Insecurity. Corruption etc


Let's face it. You don't force people to come to your country. You attract them with juicy deals.
Even a local Nigerian company ran to Ghana to operate cos of the rubbish policies done by FG, flutter and the like are registered in US. Hence repatriate their funds.


Fix your house and you will get visitors.

ESANMEA:
I work in a hospital and from my observations, these two HMOs get same quality treatment as private patients unlike others HMOs.. They are accepted in many hospitals but I really don't know their rates..

Are you a doctor or nurse

Midi1:
So because it's Lagos they are now begging abi...

To your tent ooh South and North

Do you want to clone your wife's, gf's , employee or Ward's WhatsApp and be able to get their chats delivered directly into your own phone??

Pls hit is up with DM and we shall have it done in 30mins..

You like break up sha.

You wan make Naija breakup and you still want people relationship to break up

etokhana:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/musa-has-98-caps-not-100-fifa/%3famp

Oyinbo go sha correct us.

iwaeda:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/09/08/let%E2%80%99s-be-our-brothers-keeper-%E2%80%93-gombe-government-begs-southern-states-reconsider-stance

They don't drink alcohol but want tax from alcohol. Ole.

Lazy people. Develop your state's and you will get Vat.

Nice.

socialmediaman:
Nigeria is decaying gradually, and it will get worse because our leaders are confused and unprepared. Read the analysis here:

https://www.nairaland.com/6550634/why-should-worried-nigeria-make

They are not confused.

They are stock in their ways and their ways is leading to death and destruction.

Bola146:
And people are just relaxed marrying these killers They killed innocent and glorious children of someone else and they want to see their children doing good? God forbid!!!!! These killers are already cursed!!!! All their wives should go into serious prayers because karma is a bitch!!!! The woman they killed her child can't pray for them, never!! Useless people in uniforms

Have you seen police child that has head?

WibusJaga:

I just knew it. It just has to be our folks from Southern Nigeria.

What were you expecting before.

Those from the north are learning about their religion.

Always someone to blame.

Ademola47:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/god-osun-people-will-decide-my-fate-in-2022-oyetola/

When they rule without fear of God. They will call God when it comes to election or reelection

MANDIPUTIN:
•Meet Yoruba leaders on way forward



https://tribuneonlineng.com/buharis-men-move-to-pacify-south-west/

Truth is clear.

They don't care about south east and south south. Give them contract and they will sell their people.

Asari and co( Clark etc) are sell outs to Niger Delta.

UndauntedYOCA:
She's so beautiful sha and blessed to have a beautiful family. Wishing her all the good that's life's got to offer.

As ladies, a lot of us are guilty of having masculine energy which sometimes can be repelling. This is caused by several factors and can sometimes hinder us from getting some things out of life. Pretty privilege is on the rise and what other way can one become better and make life more fun and easier than to become feminine. Trust me ladies, the journey to feminine elegance isn't an easy one but is certainly worth it.
Here are 5 easy ways to help you become soft, elegant and better.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gf0AMkYQvyQ

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