₦airaland Forum

nosiebaba:
How hardened criminals find their way to the corridors of power still baffles me

Baffle no more. They were upcoming criminals before the government officials improve them to harden criminals.

Arsenal to win this match...

Fahdiga:
Nigeria is now officially the most dangerous place in the world. Imagine a major in Nigerian army getting abducted by bandits in a military barrack. Terrorist Gumi is already one of the richest people in the world all thanks to ransom payments

Forget

Person dey use bandit gather money for election 2023

[quote author= post=105130096]Peace is all we want in the World!!![/quote]Go heaven go find peace.

E no dey earth.

Only where you can find peace is in your heart

Chloraseptic:
She's a strong woman..

Most people would have seen no reason to live anymore and opted for suicide.

Suicide far..

Given up from shock

Kanixt:
Source: https://punchng.com/katsina-lawmakers-weep-at-plenary-over-worsening-insecurity/

Rubbish

TayehJiboluwa:
Your ex may have a new lady in his life who is jealous but he wants to be in touch with you. It may arouse suspicion in her and it may not augur well for you. Keep him at a distance if need be. Also do away with flirty guys and let nothing taint your relationship with God or your sanity.

Good morning sir

I had a dream I was walking with my dad and we were discussing how we will travel to US and take my niece along with us. So I asked him if her mother will let us take her.
I noticed that the right leg of my slippers cut and I was holding it while we were walking. (In real life, the right leg is about to cut and I have been Planning to fix it but procrastinating)

Please what does this mean?

Righteousness2:
The Bible says, a Man shall not put on a woman's Garment neither should a woman put on a man's garment. All that do such are Abomination to GOD.

Eternity is a very Serious Matter! It is a Personal Race so do not let anyone irrespective of title or Position make you miss your place in Eternity.

Nobody will answer or speak for you before GOD.

So Get the Word of GOD ( The Holy Bible) and stick to what it says not what Man thinks.

Heaven is Real
Hell is real
Don't play with your Eternity

The trousers that women wear, is it same with what men wear?

Use your brain.. no dey read Bible plainly

Abbey117:
There is this lady who recently joined our organization. She caught my attention but I wanted to take things slow. Later I got to know that my other colleague at work had already spoken to this lady and they had been having serious romance. I had to cut off every affections though the lady in question and I later became best friends.

Fast forward to the present day, they broke up and the babe had been trying to gather herself. I cunningly asked her if she could work things out with the guy but she bluntly said no.

The issue here now is that I've been developing serious affection for her again though during our chats before their breakup I had told her I developed feelings for her but my other colleague was faster than I in approaching her of which she said I should have told her about it.

This lady ticks every boxes I want in a woman.

Kindly advice me...

Let her emotions settle then ask her again about the colleague.

If she says no again. Well, fire down. No time.

Bornsinner7:
It is a pitiable dismal pismal

No such thing as genuine love.. in every relationship, two things are involved; money and sex..

When you talk about sex, the ladies will counter it with money.. when you talk about money, the guys will counter it with sex..

The world is obviously a market place but it is unfair for one party to want to always cheat but never want to be cheated..

There is genuine love.

Maybe you haven't found it

joyairemiya:
https://independent.ng/2023-who-fits-the-bill-of-nigerias-ideal-president/

This list is rubbish.

People that have showed complete lack of integrity and incompetence.

You see the problem, Nigerian are used to mediocre minds thats why they voted Buhari who struggled to prove he has WAEC.

TayehJiboluwa:
Both dreams means lust and seduction. Why did she have to hold you tight while you pray for her and even got distracted by another lady while you're praying for Kate. In the second scene both girls were practically fighting over you with one getting your attention. Avoid these type of temptations and flee fornication. Don't fall into temptation/fornication.

Thank you very much.

I will do that.

ISLAMBAD:
Idiots!!

Very soon we will see it in Nigeria.

They will have one local Imam that will start selling their teaching in Nigeria and sharing money.

madridguy:
The FG should reform the Nigeria police.

Reform what.

With the same people in leadership and with Nigerian structure.

Na same thing

Authority1o1:
Okay...


The girl in question is rather unwise to take such a case to court.

Sueing for suspension is dumb. The suspension was clearly incurred by her appearance in the school environment which the school's attorney-at-law wouldn't take much pain in tagging a moral threat and ethically unacceptable.

Caning—which the school can deny it ever happened—hasn't even become outlawed in Nigeria, which makes her a appear like a desperado who wants to put a round peg in a square hole.

With all due respect. You sad rubbish

GodsGabby:
There are more than 7 tho

Barbados, you will need UK transit visa.

TheRareGem1:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/08/bonny-warri-ibom-deep-seaports-to-commence-operations-soon-osinbajo/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

This man is a liar.

TayehJiboluwa:
It means diving purging, sanctification/purification. God may want to use you.

Good evening,
I was In a dream and Kate Henshaw (the actress) approached me that we should I should pray for us to go into partnership. Then she hugged me tight. While I was praying, I mentioned another ladies name( the lady was beside us but later corrected myself. I can remember the words of the prayer but feels like I prayed to be in partnership with her.

Also in a dream, I was in a room with lady friend. I was using her laptop and suddenly, her friend wanted her to take the laptop from me and this lady refused and instead I told her I will go with the laptop and she agreed. With the intention that she will come and meet me later to collect the laptop.

Please what does this mean.

Please what does this mean.

Other information, I am not a fan of Kate Henshaw neither do I follow her.

delzbaba:
Turai really spoilt all her children i remember when yar adua was in power, his 17yr old son was snapped posing with Ak 47 of the villa security.

Most of this elite children are spoilt. South and North.

BabbanBura:
These sentences ain't no deterrent enough jhor!

How much them thief?

The politicians that steal billions & ruin destinies, how many years do they get if convicted.


They no kill person joor, let them go & sin no more.

Rozcol:
Obviously nothing can save him,editing is a waste of time

Why did he post in the 1st place

bpalace:
For my friend, bisola
State government job MO at 260k plus Chua chua and other earning amounts to extra 20k/ month could get higher. But Progression may be poor or slow in years coming.
Or
Federal government MO at 186k ...normal civil service career progression with promotions... Could get upto 400k in 6,years time
Every doctor wants to save money and move... So...

Federal.
You are sure of a lot of things like salary. Pension etc

MejiLoyon:
Triangle formation. Best offensive

This no be triangle oh.

This Na scatter scatter

MrOposter:
It's a bit lengthy pls bear with me

I met a lady through 2go in 2014. I asked her out online and she accepted, weeks later, we met one weekend and had sex on the first day! The sex wasn't great, I stopped half way and went to shower. The following day I snooped and discovered that she already have a boyfriend and the guy is in the same school with her. I dissolved everything between us and left for my lodge (I was schooling too but in another school but same state)

She didn't call to apologise and I also locked up. Fast forward 6 month later, she messaged me on Facebook that she was 7 months pregnant. I did my calculations and Instantly knew something was wrong somewhere. I denied being the father, she went on my friend list and dug up my my uncle's profile and chatted him about the pregnancy. My uncle messaged me

Calm me down and request I go see the baby with my parent. We went to her parent house, saw the baby immediately started investigating about dna test. I was humbled by the price of the dna test (200k as at then) because there is no way I was going to raise that kind of money while in school.

Long story short, my parent and I have been taking care of the baby ever since then, I finished school around 2017, travelled out of the country almost immediately after graduation and assumed responsibility on my own.

I came back late 2019, I requested we do a dna test upon my arrival. I went straight up to a known diagnostic center and made enquiries of the price and what to bring before the dna test will be done..

I was told to bring any official means of identification for myself, the birth certificate of the baby and the mother will also have a means of identification too and she will also be present to sign the consent form.

I told her about the requirements and ask her if she had any means of identification herself. She said No! I went back to the diagnostic centre and told them if there is any substitute, they said she can present her NIN slip. I told her immediately to get the NIN slip, days later she told me there were too much people on the queue and that she can't continue to waste her time endlessly. We went back and forth about the NIN slip till the whole of 2020 ended.

The beginning of this year I told her that I'll stop giving her money for the baby's upkeep if she can't provide the NIN slip. With as low as 2500 she can get hers from the local shops.

She called and called for me to send her money for the first 3 months of this year. I didn't budge. I kept to my words. No dna test, no money. School fees time came, she called, I was forced to go back to the diagnostic center this April and pleaded if there is a way we could do the dna test without requesting any form of identification from the mother of the child. They called the head office in lag and told me that we can do the test without the mum's mode of identification. I was elated and called her to bring the baby with her on the 5th of April (Easter Monday) to the my shop, then from there we will go to the diagnostic center. She said OK.

I waited for her to bring the child over, she didn't. She called me 3 days after saying that she went for a church program. I was furious. I told her to show bring the baby the following day (Thursday) she said she will come. Again she refuse to show up. She called 5 days later to tell me that she's sorry. I ended the call and told her that she isn't serious.

She rang me days ago to tell me that the baby is not feeling too well and that she want to see me, she urge me to pls send her something to take the baby to the hospital for treatment.

I'm in a dilemma, I don't know how to go about this. It's obvious that she is deliberately not allowing me to go for the dna test and I don't want to be a deadbeat dad either.

How do I lure her to go for the test? I don't want my daughter to have a bad perception about me that I wasn't there through her childhood (if eventually she turn out to be mine).

Help!

All you need is hair from the baby and yours and DNA test is done.


No need to involve the mother.

My conclusion. The babe isn't sure you are the father.

MakotoShishio:
https://gazettengr.com/acute-hunger-looming-in-northern-nigeria-un-fao/

Not evil but I think they brought this on themselves when they chose religion over reason.

tesseract:
These guys have been trying really hard to rope in her mother in the crime. The mother is totally oblivious of what her daughter did if not they would have escaped from the scene.

So let me get some people straight...a child commits a misdemeanor and the next thing is to accuse the mother? What sort of "Nigerian Police" Mentality is this?

Some punk was even saying the girl should be killed...seriously

Emotions are running high... Yes. But let's be objective; if you have dealt with children before, you'll know that Satan can minister to them sometimes...I'm not in anyway absolving the girl, I'm just saying there is no crime by proxy in this matter...at least not yet, until the girl comes out to say my mummy told me to do it.

I still cant believe that the replies and comments I'm reading are coming from "smart" people. Anyway, a big supermarket like this must have insurance, and with a good lawyer they should be able to make full claims.

So what do you suggest is the next way forward.

MikeMicheal:
JUST KEEP YOUR LEGS OPEN FOR EVERYONE.

Woman wey dey find pikin, her toto must not rest.

Who do you like this?

Why you go talk that kind thing?

Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.

How are you sure it's your child?


They have no right to use police on you cos even your school is aware of the mutual intimacy.


Also, do you want to marry the girl?

holuwajobar:
Banks are no longer trustworthy nowadays. They don't fight for their customers.... Any small thing, them don freeze acct.... No be so them dey do things na

Suppose sanction that magistrate court for doing pass it's jurisdiction.

The judge no Sabi e place or what

KillMNKnow:
Namdi Kanu's son

You sha crave attention.

Weldone

Obijulius:
Inspite of all his shortcomings the man in Abuja is not the only problem.

This one na southerners de do themself.

The problem of southern Nigeria is its leadership not Hausa/Fulani.

He used it to fund the man in Abuja election

johnsonm2g:
my guy forget sane society and investigations, if the school say he needs to rewrite the exam there is no law preventing that. However, having him retake the exams, is like defending every grade he'd previously acquired. Moreover, the school authority owns the certificate they can issue or withdraw when they deem it necessary.

School has to prove beyond reasonable doubt why he has to rewrite the exam else na court case remain.