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doclek:
I.

doclek:
Sorry, I have been away for a while. The offer has been re-opened. Chat on WhatsApp, let's talk.@sofialuv, let's chat on whatsApp too

myyansh68:
Nothing.
They should just stop breathing. This one will make the World happy.
😒

HellVictorinho8:
I wish i cud do more

But av sent 1k


I hope u are still alive

Sunnyrado:
Does anyone knows any match making section on here.. I dey find wife.

HellVictorinho6:
How do we communicate effectively

I can't speak pidgin always.

doclek:
Sweetheart, don't worry I will gist you

Zonefree:
Beam your search outside Nairaland. There's no sane and marriageable girl here.

okoroemeka:
you have two painless options either you buy valium ,5 or diazepam and drink like 100 tablets,you will drift off to sleep and die peacefully in your sleep, or you can get tiger generator put 3 ltrs and start it inside your room,so it is left for you to choose the most economical option considering the current price of fuel

doclek:
Sweetheart, don't worry I will gist you

doclek:
Hopefully they will prove you wrong. I will gist you guyz.

Aaaaarghmed:
You no go see for here,99 percent are unintelligent

Britishcoins:
Pls my fellow Nairalander, I am confused on what to do, I am into business and God has really been so faithful to me, I have 2 shops selling boutiques. Recently I want to focus on one of the shop with boutique and turn the other one into mobile phone accessories
. The person who has been managing the second one is my younger brother plus a sales boy.
Now the first problem is that he has no knowledge abt the phone accessories, the solution for it is that I have already made arrangements to a shop where he will learn the business for a month or more.
I am not married yet, I love to marry oo but I have not find her.
Second problem is how will I be able to monitor the shop, because I will be investing abt 4m in the shop.
Should I go and marry before opening the business or should I continue with my younger brother plus atleast 2 sales girl..?
Pls give me ur advice..

NB; I am sure the phone accessories will sell very well because the shop is at a good location

Respect55:
Brother we didn't start today. It has bn rossy or so I thought for the time we have bn together. We were supposed to start marital rights by next month. Do u even know that the guy updated his whatsapp stories of pics and videos with her earlier this night at a club and I saved them. I would have posted them here but it's not necessary. I saved them for reference proposes

Respect55:
It's just unfortunate. I'm also happy because we were planning to meet the church board on 17th of December to be interviewed prior to marriage. Thank God we haven't met them. Ally efforts are gone just like that. I wonder what some girls actually want

tellwisdom:
This gurl could have stayed in my house eating and drinking without her working for years. Why does she have to kill her self because of a problem created by man??

If you don’t have work, come to my house and u will eat and drink without nobody bothering you.

RedMac:
Good evening nairalanders... This issue is one out of many bothering me in 2022...

Let me first of all apologize for all the evil things I have said about women being so cheap, hence the reason they fall into the hands of bad guys... cos am now guilty of a bad guy here

My previous relationship was just about crashing, in fact I was totally fed up with KATE, I vowed to end 2019 with her, and so it was... I never wanted to have any serious relationship with any lady until I have a sustainable financial source of income... I was doing fine without a girlfriend until this one wriggled her way into my life, thinking she have found love...

So me and this girl (in her late 20's) started dating deep into 2019 to 2020...

Truth is she was the one who toasted me, she would come to our house to charge phone's and the rest, from there things started happening... I felt whatever that's going on won't last long, but hell no, she just wanted true Love... Which I have been deceiving her with

By standard of wife material (she's a perfect example to the core), very caring and loving

her limitations is her status... Way too local and not up to my standard...

We started dating and the truth is that we both have different reasons for dating each other...

I decided to keep her because of the services I get from her as I must constantly oil my engine... I felt everything will die off naturally as my previous relationship has, now am hooked up...

I got to know her intention of marriage in 2020 during the lockdown, but since then i have been looking for ways to end everything with her, cos I have no intention of marrying her and I feel I have deceived her a lot, She sees me as who I am not... And my plain character have deceived her a lot...

She did no wrong loving me, her only offense was that she could not sense that am deceiving her... If she was up to my social status I would have married her but she is no where close to who I can present to my people as my wife...

I have been looking for ways to let her know am not ready to marry er... One taught am having is teaming up with a false prophet to tell er this guy (me) am not the guy for her... She really deserves the best in life, but I see myself as the wrong guy for her... She has never given me any reason to suspect she's dating another guy, all her attention is always on me

This year she's expecting our relationship to move to the next level... Like introduction and the rest

Experts in the house, how do I pull this off... I just don't want her to feel so bad towards me...

Help me!!!

MikeofKd:
Omo the matta no be small o , mhen I don tire for women matta mhen. Make u sef see

A very good friend of mine of recent shared his breakfast story with me and I felt his pains wallai , I felt it inside my bones. So theres this girl my friend had been dating for 3 years but it was a long distance relationship(LDR) , this girl he was dating was everything wife material , church girl , smart , career oriented ,beautiful. My guy thought he had hit the jackpot when she agreed to date him 3 years ago. Baba think say him don jam better wife lol.

How the breakfast happened.


So my friend and his now ex girl were having communication issues , the two of them werent talking to each other for a while , my guy was tired of this and decided to call d girl's Mum , na 4 there kasala burst o, her mum asked him how long his been dating her daughter , my guy said 3 years , d girls mum laughed cos she obviously thought he was joking , wen she realised he was serious she then opened up to him that her daughter has been married to another guy for two years now and she had a twin earlier this year.

My guy too thought it was joke until d girl's Mom sent pictures of the wedding and new born twins.
Omo na there my guy wan craze , he told me he was planning to marry her wen he came back dis year , the girl's response sef was that she couldnt wait ,that she has missed him so much. Now my guy is in severe pains cus for d past 3 years he never cheated on her even once. They were always talking almost everyday for d past 3 years.

After asking d girl if wat happened was true she said her family rushed her into the marriage bla bla bla ,dats he should move on its not her fault.
. He's been acting like he might commit suicide lately , I dont even know how to help him cus me sef I get tins wey dey bother me too , my friend doesnt drink or smoke if not I for don call my plug tay tay, make him smoke loud make him body calm down.

Now mans just down, ive given all the advice in this world but baba heart is beyond fixing I guess. Pls Nlanders how can I help him. Ive tried taking him to club too but him no wan go any where at all. A female bestie will calm him down

OZIOGU1:
Understand me, i am not blaming her, she has the money, just tell the Man you are ending the marriage and leave his house in peace, let me be frank with you so long as there is no official divorce documents between both, if she goes out bleeping over there she is cheating on the man, coz she has a valid marriage, abi you are encouraging what judy did to May?

eepeepook:
You dey find debate?

eepeepook:
Story. Whitemoney will carry that thing a second time. I hated the thought of him coming back because I believed he perfected a script during his season. Seeing him once again enamoured him to my side. All my votes belong to him. Ego ocha, billi billi. He will run the same magic this time despite Mercy’s presence.

Sonnobax15:
. A nagging wife is equivalent to a venomous snake

Sonnobax15:
. Yh I know,cuz I've been there once,up north......

But bro,on a more serious note,na you wear the shoe......So you're the one who knows where it's pinching you..........but have you tried talking to her one on one?

omooba969:
I still dey find a big ram for around #35k.

omooba969:
Ram don cost o...chai. 🤔

I go fit get big one for like #35k na. 😏

advanceDNA:
.on her way to come spend the weekend I say make she buy stuff, total of 4k ....during her visit her phone fell and screen broke when she was chatting and laffing hysterically with her friend ...she use style drop the phone under pillow on Monday when she dey go so that na me go fix am....no wahala...I help am fix her screen for 39k ...

.the werey came to my office, collect her phone on Thursday come wait till next day to ask me for the 4k ..... I just laugh send am the money.... close her file immediately.....
. Took a while for her to get the memo....she still get mind dey ask me when I go come see her aunt.... Aunt koor... Grandmother niii..

brain54:
I once dated this girl…

Less than 2 weeks into the relationship. (We were still getting to know each other) She called one day…

I was too busy so I couldn’t take her call. My intention was to call back when less busy but somehow I didn’t get to returning her call.

She called many times during the day and somehow I saw the call but it was always at an unsuitable time.

I finally was free later that evening… I can’t remember if she called again or I called but the first thing she said when she/I picked was “ THUNDER FIRE YOU !“ followed by ***##%%%^^* and then more explicives. For close to a minute i calmly listened to her go on. She insulted my full generation… no one left out.

I was shocked. I couldn’t say anything because I expected her to wait for an explanation. She didn’t even allow me say anything.

She dropped the call… I didn’t call back. The next day she called to apologize (I had already seen her real character) but I never called or saw her again and the relationship died a natural death.

I no want hot tempered woman when go Dey knock my head for house Abeg.

She sounded violent too… like if I was present physically she for press my neck.

I no fit shout!

mradjoy:
The previous thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7713767/udensi-ngozi-opemipo-missing-seen#123550647

I'd like to use this medium to appreciate everyone who empathize with us, those who prayed with us and those who called me from this forum without knowing who I am to offer some valuable advice which partly contributed to her returning back home yesterday on her own volition.

My sincere appreciation goes out to Seun Osewa who swiftly swung into action by moving the thread to the Frontpage immediately after I contacted him.

And to that wonderful journalist who contacted me from The Punch News, they offered to publish it and use their connection to contact the Lagos CP to expedite action on my niece's search.

Lastly to those set of people who's got warped mindset, always thinking every little girl we have in Nigeria are wayward, well, it's not really your fault because if you know how brilliant my niece is, you wouldn't doubt her purity at such tender age. I read so many unruly comments here, but decided to ignore majority of them because I believe it's almost impossible for a brilliant little girl like her, who had near perfect WAEC result at one sitting, and also scored over 300 in JAMB to be wayward at the same time. If you have her as your sister or daughter would you ever have the thought of waywardness towards her?

She had a quarrel with her aunt while her mom was at work, so she decided to punish everybody according to her by leaving the house for them.

She'd initially planned to seize the opportunity to visit her paternal grand parent in Imo state, but on getting to the park, she couldn't afford the fare, she had to go visit her friend somewhere in Ijegun, Lagos instead of heading back to Bariga. I believed her because the tracking result we got from the private tracking guy we employed showed exactly the same thing she'd earlier narrated.

Up until now I never knew there was a tracking system that gives precise location, the street name, the house number, even to the room you're, this tracking system is so effective and powerful to the point of tracking mobile number even when it's switched off.

Now, I was wondering why can't FG use same or better technology to combat insurgency in Nigeria?

So cutting the long story short, we decided to send her a text msg containing those information we gathered about her whereabout and she knew the game was up and decided to call her aunt, then her mom to inform them she was heading home already.

We're happy and glorify God for her safety. Thanks and God bless you all.

Zonefree:
Guy, love of a Nigerian girl is vain. It's only a foolish man that will give his delicate heart to a Nigerian girl. These demons were never created to love!


The love of a Nigerian girl taste as honey but last only for a while...Get this into your thick head if you truly want to go far in this life.

Wealthier:
Hi Nairalanders,

Permit me go straight to the point. So I've been praying to God earnestly, with tears since I was 25. Up till now that I'm clocking 30 years this month. It seems God doesn't want to answer my prayers to bless me with my husband.

I have fasted, prayed, cried, sowed seeds, join others to celebrate, sow seed in theirs and yet I'm still not taken seriously.

Honestly, I've begin to lose faith many times and already planning to be a baby mama as soon as I earn more money.

Before the age of 24, I wasn't thinking about marriage. I majorly wanted to be done with school and get a job because I do not want to be a liability to my husband. The whole thing though, there were no serious suitors , but I wasn't worried. I had a boyfriend then of 3 years but I knew we wouldn't end up together because he was too focused on being an Activist, his communication became poor. No matter how I complained about it.

I started to become afraid when I clocked 25 and saw that most of my friends were engaged. It dawned on me that no serious man is seeing me. I believe I am pretty , doesn't dress extravagantly and not materialistic. Infact the other guy I was hoping we would be serious together told me he doesn't have money for marriage, I told him money will come but he insisted he couldn't start a relationship with me. This was when I was 25. At 26 , 27 up till 28, the same reasons I heard.

What exactly is wrong with me?

Finally at 28, I met my current bf. He seemed very serious and into me until I started to dream about marriage and started to talk to him about it. Today we had serious quarrels, he broke up with me just because I wasn't happy with him that he didn't try to greet my mum on her birthday. I thought he was taking things serious after telling me at the beginning of this year that we would have our court wedding this year. He told me he's not ready for any marriage anytime soon, that he can link me with his friend if i still want to marry this year. We have resolved the issue , but I'm not sure I love him anymore. I'm just rolling with it.


I'm clocking 30 years this month and feeling so much like an evening newspaper.

I'm just here feeling bad and dejected. Why does it take so long for God to show me mercy?

I'm somehow regretting not joining my female friends in double dating and then go with who's more serious.

Not one, not two or 3 of my friends did this same thing and they are now all married.

Honestly, I feel so much like a loser. I guess I may eventually just try to get kids of my own once I earn more money.

I feel depressed whenever I see couples together. I've had to rub away from my sanitation group in church because of a particular young couple in my department that I'm beginning to get jealous of. Like , will this ever be me?

I've been attending couples seminar since 2021 and northing yet. Is this how another 5 more years will add to my life and everyone will officially be calling me evening newspaper.

I've told my family to not judge me when I find a way to have my own children cos I'm tired of crying to them and they shouldn't ask me where is my man.

If there's any prophet amongst you. I'd really appreciate a word of prayer. Seems God doesn't care of my feelings.

Please ignore my typo error. I typed from too much pain

Funnyson20:
I will drop, but before i do that,i wish to know if we can have a date together and where is your location?