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Nigerians are the greatest hypocrites in the world.
The same Nigerians that are complaining over racism are still the same tribal bigots here in Nigeria
Useless people

Hello Nairalanders,I have noticed for sometimes now that some male folks complain about the society favouring the male gender than the female one.
Now let's ask ourselves,Who is the Society?
Now let me tell you that the same men that complain about the the society favouring women more, are the ones still favouring this same women.
A man will see his fellow man in pain, only to abandon him and start going to the aid of a woman.This same men will come out tomorrow to say the society is not favouring men but they have forgotten that they are the real society itself.
The rules and regulations that rules,the law, are made by men.Same men pass judgement the most over certain issues, same men are the head of a home, same men are the most presidents we have in the world.
So why can't we love our fellow gender, only to make things harder for them.

Why do we men favour the women than our fellow gender?
Why can't we treat humanity equally?
Well I love to hear people opinion about this
Lalasticlala please help move to front page.Thank you

Leave Michael Jackson alone Abeg
Someone should help me wake my own Withney Houston for me abeg

Mercychen:
I always wonder what he sees in her with that her yeye dance that is always off beats.
A few times I watched her vlogs, the guy is more reserved and quiet. Just knew they may not be getting along well with such contrasting personalities.

Na that Janemena with her ugly twerking I dey pity next.

Some girls don't have sense and its always the not so beautiful ones that like to show off and misbehave on SM all the time. I don't know why.

You can't blame them too much.Most of them are public toilets.They belong to the street.
I only blame the foolish men that wife them in the first place

siofra:
Korra is a brand, she's a shining star. She's the one that made that man popular. Now he's typing rubbish on his Instagram. I don't deserve to be treated that way Nye Nye Nye. Mtchewww. If it's a prank then he's very stupid.

Nigerian men/white men==== SCUM!!

So because she is a brand he should start worshipping her or what
The man knows what he is talking about for him to come to social media to lament.
I know that Korra of a lady too well.She is from the street and she belongs to the street.l know her pvssy can never settle down for one man.
She is a public property
And for saying all men are scum, hope you know your father and possibly your brothers are men too

GooodHardDick:
A Nigerian lady made a video over her boyfriend’s habit of always apologising, saying she does not like how he behaves.

She said that no matter what she does wrong or if he offends her, he will be the one to tender apology for all.

According to her, she misses the toxic vibe that some other relationships have but her man says that he wants theirs to work hence his reason for not wanting them to quarrel. This is exactly how simps behave!

Guys, girls hate it when you are too available, giving her so much attention, apologizing unnecessarily, giving her money and always acting all nice and gentle, use your head my brother. Become a Redpiller today and earn respect and value from any girl/anyone.

Women hate weak men and not attention. I am talking from experience.
Women hate men that can't stand for themselves but always apologizing
They hate men that can't challenge them even when they know they are wrong.

Just be yourself and know your worth
You can never satisfy anybody

What a pathetic nonsense!

siofra:
Mtcheww.

Go through the rubbish you typed there again,and tell me if it makes any sense to you

siofra:
He should get out sef.

His loss. Korra is a brand. There is a looooonnngggg line of men she can chose from.

Sometimes I wonder why you switch on your data, only to switch off your sense

Iyaebe:
This is what you get when you marry for sex,imagine this after all she did and went through for him

What did she go through for him

She was dancing on Instagram some days ago shaking her milk factory up and down.
Dude Fvcked up by marrying her in the first place
She obviously belongs to the street.

Lamasta:
No worry let the fixture materialize first then we will analyse how you want to be beaten

Okay we shall see

Lamasta:
JUST GIVE ME CHELSEA

This is champions league and not premier league bro
If you come again I swear you go collect

This one too want to trend
They use every given opportunity to trend
Useless people

Propaganda as usual

Okay.May be I should try my luck

You try
But you didn't add the fact that man United actually equalized 1-1 before city started running riot

Because they seek love and companionship

Teettyllayho:
Please I need advise from people with grown up kids.

Honestly, parenting is not easy. I don't even know what to do anymore.

My first son is 7 but he is kind of slow. However, he's above average in learning and he's learning at his pace. I understand all of this and I'm always happy to guide him.

But I don't know if I'm too hard or too soft on him because I use to talk to him a lot. I only beat him when he does something serious (like going against my rules, or not doing his homework when he should).

These days, whenever I scold him, he would give me a sad look and he might even shout saying: "I've heard you!" Then, he will be alone in a corner for some time.

Sometimes, I'd go close to him and tell him why I had to scold him and he'd say "I don't like it when you shout at me" I'd apologize and hug him (I don't even know if I'm spoiling him by apologizing). .

I don't know how to scold without putting a bit of action at least. Shey I'll be whispering and scolding ni? Sometimes, I'll leave him and pretend as if I didn't see him when he brings up such attitude.

Last week, he mistakenly brought back someone else's lunch box home because they look very much alike. I told him it's okay that it happens and I promised to write his name in bold when he brings back his box the next day to prevent such from happening again.

Could you believe that he came back with the other person's lunch box again? When I asked him, he said he didn't see his lunch box and the boy that took his own. Then I asked: Did you tell your class teacher? Are you sure you know the boy?

His reply: I didn't tell my teacher because I know the boy and I went to his class but he wasn't there.

So, I figured that he must have gone to check once and didn't bother to check again. And he didn't bother to also tell his class teacher.

So, I was very mad this time and told him not to bring someone else's property home again, no matter what!

I think he would have told his teacher if he really valued his property because he told me something that made me really mad the next morning.

"Mummy, or will you buy me another lunch box since we can't find mine?" Luckily for me, he was brushing his teeth then and I was bathing for his sister. The resounding slap I gave him on his back brought back his senses.

I don't know why he always want something new. He spoilt the lunch box I bought for him and his sister o and he's using another one now. That is, he wants me to buy a third one while his sister is still using the first one? How na?

I don't even know what to think. Why would he want a new box when he's barely used the new one?

Then, he's always talking about how his classmates use to bring different kinds of food ( he wasn't like this before o).

I try as much as possible to make different foods for him too, and he's stopped complaining.

We recently changed his school and his new school has quite a lot of pupils. I Don't know if that's affecting him.

Honestly, I'm bothered about the changes and I don't know how best to address it.

I've made him understand countless times that he should always be content with whatever he has and he shouldn't compare himself with anyone.

I just finished with another round of lecture now and he has tears in his eyes saying:

"Mummy, stop shouting at me. It makes me sad"

I was heartbroken and felt guilty seeing him like this and I did everything possible to make him see why I had to shout or scold.

Please how can I scold a child without shouting? Am I spoiling him? Can someone help with tips?
Honestly, I'm tired!

First of,I want to believe you are a woman.Another thing is this, that boy is too young to open his mouth, telling you to stop shouting at him.That is disrespect! How old is he 7 years old and he is saying such?
I think you are a very soft hearted person but please, stop mixing discipline with emotions.You have over pampered that boy when he is younger that is why he is behaving that way.
I do tell people that, the best time to discipline a child is when you noticed he has known his left from right, when he knows where to put food (mouth) when he picks a spoon and when he starts talking (though it won't be clear).I the child does something wrong in this times learn to correct it by using two fingers to beat him/her.Tell them in the language they understood that what they do is not good.
But now the boy is 7 years old and beating and beating him might not change anything if he is the strong headed type.He might just hate you the more.
The best way to deal with this kids requires tactics just like a football game. You need to study them well to know how to deal with them
Well as for your boy, don't buy any water bottle for him again.Let him go look for that water bottle.
Anytime he tells you, you are shouting at him,beat him more then after few hours,call him to your self and let him know what he did wrong.Tell him you won't accept that from him again.

Also,let this kids know their boundaries.Dont discuss any adult issue or person flaws with those kids because they are still very young.The moment you do that, the respect they have for you keeps deteriorating

Educate them.Dont be too strict to them though but deal with them when they are wrong and call them later to let them know they are wrong

oke2018:
I no blame you guys , na the ladies I blame wey go open yansh like fowl.

You don't have common sense
What of those ladies that always want it raw even if you provide condom or the ones that you drugs to prevent pregnancy?
Well Sha,I no blame them,na the Mumu men I blame because you can't force me to go raw with you.The moment you do that,I will know you have a plan.So get Belle at your own peril

GooodHardDick:
Trash!! Hoes everywhere!

Nigeria girls are so useless, all of them. They're so broke and senseless for my liking. Na why dem dey always use dem for rituals

One just commot from my house this morning
I bleep hell commot for her body

MamiTer:
Hello good people of nairaland, I have a pressing issue and I really need your help.

A couple of years back I broke up with my boyfriend whom I really loved due to distance barriers. Getting over him was difficult for me so I had to go into a relationship with one of my toasters in order to get him off my mind.

I achieved my aim after a couple of months but the current guy was unwilling to let go, I didn't love him and couldn't get myself to love him despite trying to. I know I was selfish and opened up to him but he insisted that I would warm up to him with time and grow to love him.

The relationship was far from perfect, I was in it solely for what I benefited but we weren't compatible and it was from one issue to another. We were always at logger heads all the time. He insults me and my family at any given opportunity and talks down on me using secrets I shared with him as leverage each time we quarrel. He shredded my self-esteem.

He was insecure and attacked my male friends at any given opportunity including my lecturers, he would access my social media accounts and send derogatory message to any male contact he feels is making a pass at me.
All these attitudes made me fed up with him and I decided to breakup for good.

Early this year I met a guy online and somehow we vibed together quickly, we met physically for the first time and it felt like we've known for ages. Everything moved so quickly with this new guy that I started developing serious feelings for him. I was scared because I never knew I would feel something like that again after I broke up with my other ex.

This new guy makes me happy and treats me like a woman, anytime spent with him is always memorable and I don't feel like leaving. The chemistry that we share is super strong and everything seems so perfect.

Now to my issue, this new guy is a fresh graduate and not yet stable, I don't have issues with his financial status because he made me realize a Lady can actually be happy without money being thrown at her. But I'm still scared of going all full into the relationship he might go for service and never come back to me. I don't just want a repeat of my previous relationship that got shattered after my ex relocated.

On the other hand, the other guy is hell bent on getting me back, he's been pleading and sending people to beg me even though I told him I've moved on and has even had sex with the new guy but he still wants me back.

I'm confused and don't know what to do, my heart is with the new guy but the other guy is making things so difficult for me and almost driving me insane. Can I still grow to love him?? Though I've been unable to after almost a year.

Should move on with the new guy?? I've known him for barely two months but it seems I've known him for ages, my feelings are exploding and I can hardly control them which is making me scared.

I'm sorry for the long epistle but I had to let it all out.
Please advice me.

First of, what is with you and relationships?
Must you be in a relationship by all means? Can't you rest? You are a woman for that matter
Then again, I don't see any reason for you be in a long distance relationship in the first place.And for the guy you are not comfortable with, tell him loud and clear that you don't love him.Let him know and stop bitting around the bush.
As for the new guy,I don't see why you should break up with him since you both are good.He traveling doesn't mean anything so far you love each other.
I would advice you to stop all relationship for now,if you know it's not going to lead to marriage

Now let me tell the nature of people that commit sucide before carrying out the act.
You see, people that commit sucide are people that are very and we'll determined for greatness.They have this great desire to achieve a certain goal which they themselves can see from their perspective.They feel they deserve better than what they have now.
They hate failure.So when people Rob their failure on their face, they give up easily.They are very emotional.
So people should mind what they say to these kind of people because they take every word you say to them serious.

So

HappyGoodWealth:
That's Childish,






What a Hard Man,Why Making Her Go Necked,



The man sanity should be checked,


This is how the lady would have married a mad man.

You are the mad person here

nisah:
Are they having same names? Because if the account number and account name didn't match, system will reject it and the transaction will bounce back.

Sometimes I wonder how some human beings who claimed to the normal, with seat behind their phones, only to make up useless stories on Nairaland.
It can never be possible if truely, she is a bank staff

saphiere:
Why is it that no African leader is talking about this war?
Another reason men should give room for women to try it too.

See this fool