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Education / Re: Akeem Babalola, UNILAG Lecturer, Accused Of Raping 20-year-old Undergraduate by sonofthunder: 7:13pm On Sep 06, 2023
Zionmdde:
It's a lie
No evidence
Where exactly did it happen, of the complainant cannot produce the geographical coordinates where the incident took place, then the accusation has no merits.


Women can actually be vengeful..... What issues did she have?

Not all lecturers are scum.


Some of these students offer themselves to the lecturers so they can get their desired grades.

But if she's saying the truth, I hope she has her evidence.

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Family / Re: Should Marital Advice Be Taken From An Unmarried(single) Person by sonofthunder: 11:47am On Sep 06, 2023
Adakintroy:


You are still talking in circles.

Do you go to tailors when you have critical health challenges or do you go to doctor when you want to sew your garment?

Answer me oo..



Keep playing dum..... You or a loved one hasn't been in dire situation before that's why.


Yes I can consult a tailor if my doctor fails and he/she's had similar experience they got solution to.


I can also meet a doctor on what styles of dress I should sew.


Stop burying your head in the sand and assuming what I'm not insinuating. You'd only make yourself look silly.
Romance / Re: Why Is It That Nigerian Men Don't Wash Their Boxers? by sonofthunder: 7:37pm On Sep 05, 2023
Samantha124:
I thought Nigerian ladies don't date SA guys... undecided undecided undecided

Lol..... She's capping

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Family / Re: Should Marital Advice Be Taken From An Unmarried(single) Person by sonofthunder: 6:21pm On Sep 05, 2023
Adakintroy:


You are talking circles.


No I'm not... You are talking in circles by stating unfounded assumptions as gospel.

I know several people who have saved the lives of their family/children/loved ones by listening to the counsel of a "tailor" against that of a "textbook" doctor who was going to kill them.


Doesn't mean that next time they are sick, they'll go and consult a "tailor".
Family / Re: Should Marital Advice Be Taken From An Unmarried(single) Person by sonofthunder: 5:19pm On Sep 05, 2023
Adakintroy:
If you like take medical advice from tailor. No you sabi.


Not the same analogy but yes, a tailor can give you better advice than a doctor but only a minority of the time.
Family / Re: Should Marital Advice Be Taken From An Unmarried(single) Person by sonofthunder: 5:17pm On Sep 05, 2023
Stevenbright:


Don't mind them. But they can take financial aid from those who are yet to marry.


grin grin cheesy grin grin grin
Family / Re: Should Marital Advice Be Taken From An Unmarried(single) Person by sonofthunder: 5:17pm On Sep 05, 2023
TimT:
I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason...
So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand".
He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything...
So I want to ask o, if na only married person fit give advice to who don marry...


That's the stereotype that's making many people suffer. I don't always stress myself for folks like this but whenever you have good advice for him please share.

It's actually just like chess, those outside are seeing all the moves you aren't taking but once they seat down for their turn or to replace you they fumble.

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Education / Re: Mmesomma Ejikeme Met With The Anambra State Commissioner For Education by sonofthunder: 3:24pm On Sep 04, 2023
westlius:

Bro her own was something else she scored 249 while chang it and say u score 369.
When jamb announced 360 as d winner, u went on air to say jamb lied that she scored 369.
Wat was her reason for going on air when she knows she was wrong.
Every1 is not a Saint, why fake and still go and announce the fake result. Don't she know they will verify her results



Instead of her to be disciplined to stand as a warning to others, them turn her to celebrity.


Maybe it's a case of birds of same feather..........
Family / Re: My Fiancee Doesn't Want To Court Marriage (registry) by sonofthunder: 3:19pm On Sep 04, 2023
pocohantas:
I love that girl.



I hope other ladies can read and learn. The reason some men claim they don't want marriage or they have more to lose is because women carry it for head. Always fighting tooth and nail for (registry) marriage. So they sit back and allow you do all the work while acting like they did you a favour marrying you. Have you ever considered the fact that you would be the one needing to escape from an evil man in record time? Breaking head over a man's property even at the expense of your life.

This OP claims it favours women more but he is restless because he met a woman who has mastered her emotions. He wishes she were chasing him upandan for a legal wedding and flying to catch ring. He is bothered because he doesn't hold all the ACES.

Isn't this the kinda arrangement they claim to want online? #TEAMBABYMAMA? Why is OP worried and why the responses from his fellow men above? grin grin

Men want this marriage as much as you do if not more. If they hated marriage so much, they wouldn't be open to polygamy or rushing to marry another wife after a divorce or death of the first wife. No man keeps two (polygamy), even four of what he doesn't benefit from. They benefit heavily from marriage. In fact, after tasting marriage, they find it hard to stay alone again. Unlike women who would rather enjoy companionship without commitment.

Stop fighting these men over registry. Tell him you don't want. Let him be the one to create thread and beg you to sign those lines. Stop begging them to see the usefulness in marriage. Stop answering stupid NL questions like "what can you offer a man?" He has the option of remaining single or marrying a fellow man or new yam.

You are the prize. grin grin
If he isn't giving you same energy, disembark.



Though I know many men are capping, even if you want to deceive yourself, don't deceive others.

Men marrying and philandering with multiple women mostly relates to lack of discipline, ego et all not fighting for what they don't like. Isn't it worse that the women still agree to be with such men who already have multiple women as wives/concubine's ?

If such women have values as your insinuate, they wouldn't settle for such men.


Asking a woman what she brings to the table is a valid question as it's a very simple and easy way to dismiss unserious women when seeking for a relationship. Women actually have values they bring into a man's life but ask the average woman this question and she would barely utter a reasonable answer.

Like I said earlier, you can choose to decieve yourself but don't pull others into your self imposed deceit.

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Gaming / Re: Football Manager 2024 PC Official Thread (Last of its kind) by sonofthunder: 9:40pm On Sep 03, 2023
So we are going to suffer at least 2 months ( maybe 3) before getting this game.

And as the mobile version remains sheety, it's just better to work towards getting the PC version
Romance / Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by sonofthunder: 8:28pm On Sep 01, 2023
spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

Personally, I wouldn't mind hitting it off with someone younger but if I'm 35, I doubt i will consider anyone below 21 at all for something serious......... And if she's well mannered, you will get this fulfilment of being adored and building someone up. This depends on the kind of person you are anyways.

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Career / Re: My Friend's Mother Suspended Her From Her Company For Fighting Her Staff by sonofthunder: 6:43pm On Aug 31, 2023
IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?


1. Did you seek your mum's approval before making changes to things in her company?


2. Do you think an intern should be instructing experienced professionals how to work? Or what's the nature of the said work?
Family / Re: I Made My Ex-girlfriend(who Is Now A Single Mother) A Deal, Would You Take It ? by sonofthunder: 6:19pm On Aug 29, 2023
beekind:

A man puts all his cards on the table and you call him a narcissist.

Its you who has been brainwashed and the irony is that you all are hypocrites.

The bible that you lot cling on to proove your rights state that you should be a virgin at marriage.

You spend your best years sleeping around and have the gut to tell a man not to state his own terms.

Atleast I am being honest in my request.



No sir, you are a shameless hypocrite and you have nobody to tell you.

You want to eat your cake and have it.

You have no cards on the table.

You will never accept any position contrary to yours so just step out the thread and let us be.

Merci.

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Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Do This? by sonofthunder: 2:34pm On Aug 27, 2023
Labdi69:
I have noticed this more than once. Whenever i take a lady out to a fancy restaurant, she always looks for a way to talk down on the food and make it seem she’s been to better places.

This has happened more than once and with different ladies its not a cooncidence. Mind you, these are pricy restaurants.

For someone like me, even if the food is not good, i wont even say anything especially when im not paying.




The average lady that's probably 5 - 10years younger than you is most likely more exposed than you are.

Even if it's just once, most of them have been to such restaurants despite being broke. They obviously didn't pay for it.

So don't take it to heart. Their lack of appreciation and contentment is a quick signal that they most likely aren't on your level or bringing anything substantial into your life.

Don't take it to heart

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Politics / Re: Tinubu Has 2 Chicago University Certificates Signed By Different People - Atiku by sonofthunder: 10:15pm On Aug 26, 2023
KanwuliaExtra:


EVIDENCE PLENTY O!

All CERTIFICATES FAKE!!!
SCHOOL FAKE!!!!
SIGNATORIES FAKE!!!!


Make you dey there dey cap... No evidence.


Which court wan admit the evidence


Evidence no dey again


😂 😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Politics / Re: Tinubu Has 2 Chicago University Certificates Signed By Different People - Atiku by sonofthunder: 8:37pm On Aug 26, 2023
Romance / Re: Issues With Choosing A Life Partner by sonofthunder: 8:34pm On Aug 26, 2023
obembet:
This thread is for me, am here to read comment...also maybe I wil meet my guy here today.

My dm is now open to serious guy


Your comments gives more reasons to be weary of you. You don't mind a nairalander now? Even a red piller?

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Politics / Re: Adelabu to Nigerians: Expect Improved Power Supply Between Six Months and a Year by sonofthunder: 4:21pm On Aug 26, 2023
happney65:


They know what to do but they don't want to lose out of it. They should unbundle the power sector like they did to telecommunications and see how it will experience a turn around but they don't want to do that yet.

See the current Discos,they are not even making money sef because of so many unmetered customers and for some of us that pay sef we don't even have the light. We are only paying for darkness

An Adelabu as minister of power won't do shit. We don't need any government intervention any where else,just fix power and we are good to go


What's the difference between the power sector and telecommunications?
Politics / Re: Wike Bans Street Trading And Hawking In Abuja by sonofthunder: 9:07am On Aug 23, 2023
Islie:

People Selling Corn, Others In Abuja Are Responsible For Insecurity In Nigeria's Capital —FCT Minister, Wike




https://saharareporters.com/2023/08/22/people-selling-corn-others-abuja-are-responsible-insecurity-nigerias-capital-fct





What is his reasonable alternative?
Family / Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by sonofthunder: 6:56pm On Aug 22, 2023
Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him


This problem did not start with your husband losing his job.

It's either you are hiding the main problem from us or you also don't know the problem.

In both cases it's almost impossible to get a solution here (or anywhere else)


What led to his depression? Or was he simply hiding his bad habits? Why will he doubt if the children are his? From your timeline you most likely had them before he lost the job.

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Politics / Re: Diezani Alison-Madueke Charged With Bribery By UK Police by sonofthunder: 6:17pm On Aug 22, 2023
Travel / Re: If You Had ₦6M, Would You Japa Or Open A Business In Nigeria? by sonofthunder: 1:15pm On Aug 22, 2023
Wickedfacts:
Na employees and those with unprofitable businesses dey japa.

If you have a growing business, you grow big, diversify, move your wife and kids abroad while you keep making money here.

6M is nothing if you get better business here.


Ignorant assertion
Politics / Re: Osun Commissioner, Bunmi Jenyo Donates Salary To 20 Aides by sonofthunder: 7:39pm On Aug 20, 2023
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Bros na WA oh
Politics / Re: Ned Nwoko Demands $5 Trillion Reparations, Apology From Colonial Masters by sonofthunder: 7:39am On Aug 19, 2023
IconicR:
It's small compared to our resources they stole


So how much do you want them to return?
Politics / Re: Nigerian Senator Vs Minister: Who Is Higher? by sonofthunder: 9:30pm On Aug 17, 2023
ckc:
I ask this innocent question cos I have been wondering why a serving senator like Dave Umahi would leave his senatorial seat and "demote" himself to ordinary Minister that needs to pass through the Senate before resuming. Political gurus educate me please.


We should stop thinking of who is higher and start holding all of them accountable when they err.


From councillor to LGA to Governor to State HOR Member.

It's unfortunate how we most times hide behind the cowardice of comparing faliures.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Shell 2023 Graduate Trainee Program by sonofthunder: 8:11pm On Aug 17, 2023
dogtails:
Oga rest!!! That one go only concern u if u be their staff for now lock up and pray for Grace..

I hate when people propagate negativity and tension..... When we should be focusing on how to make things good
Foreign Affairs / Re: Burkina Faso's 34-Year-Old Leader Traore Is Most Handsome President In The World by sonofthunder: 6:18pm On Aug 16, 2023
shortgun:
He's equally intelligent, the guy asks the right questions; like why is Africa with all the natural mineral resources be the poorest and undeveloped continent in the world?




This is a very stupid question to be asking in 2023.... You guys have been asking this same stupid question since before I was born.

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Family / Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by sonofthunder: 1:16pm On Aug 15, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:


That small konkolo TV? Hian!

Fo price it then repeat that sentence.... Lol
Family / Re: 'A Man Who Lives In This Kind Of Apartment Shouldn't Be Thinking Of Marriage' by sonofthunder: 12:58pm On Aug 15, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:


Highest 500k and he didn't acquire them all in one day.


Lol...... Go and price only that TV in the market.
Education / Re: I Made 4.38 CGPA And I'm So Happy... by sonofthunder: 12:56pm On Aug 15, 2023
yusman14:
CGPA actually matters in terms of scholarships and some other opportunities.


The person in your mention..... Let me not respond
Business / Re: FX Arbitrage Widens To ₦‎206/$1 Enabling Round-Tripping, CBN Vows Crack Down by sonofthunder: 12:46pm On Aug 15, 2023
ijustdey:

•I& E window: N744/$1; parallel market: N950/$1

•Shonubi says Tinubu “very concerned” about naira slide

•Reveals intervention measures ready in matter of days

•Report: Dollar supply remains major challenge in FX market




https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/08/15/fx-arbitrage-widens-to-n206-1-enabling-round-tripping-cbn-vows-crack-down




Nigerian banks are arguably the very worst in the world.

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