Hi
I speak Igbo but looking for someone to help me practice my broken/ pigeon English.
Prefer someone in the states for easier access but alL are welcome. Thanks

Just tell her to call you Aunty if it bothers you that much but the age difference is not by much .

is this wiz kahlifa?

Pweety4me:

Stereotypes are usually reflective of some truth, so while this might not describe all men’s feelings towards women, the following behaviors are known to cause discomfort among men. Were the tables turned, though, women would also have a difficult time dealing with these behaviors, especially if carried to an extreme.

1. Analyzing Them
2. Invading Their Space
3. Loss of Identity
4. Start Trying to Control Everything
So guys, cud dis be true?, Read on for more details.

1. Analyzing Them

Women seem to have a need to analyze situations and people, and no topic is more compelling to them than their newest beau. It has become a classic game in dating life: men struggling mightily to open up and express themselves, while the women spend countless hours analyzing their men and their relationship with their friends, family or coworkers. In fact, a woman might be analyzing every word her partner utters during what seems to him, an ordinary conversation. While she’s looking at this as constructive to the relationship, if he catches on he’s likely to feel as if he’s under a microscope. Men generally don’t like to be watched, judged, and pegged.

2. Invading Their Space

Most men cherish their freedom, even if they are currently involved with a woman. Moving in together and sharing a living space is a dramatic step forward in a relationship, and a man is reluctant to commit to this until he’s ready. Inviting yourself over whenever you feel like it and leaving your things here and there around his apartment is definitely inserting yourself into his space. He will see this for what it is, and if he is not ready for that next level of commitment, your pressuring him will only scare him off.

3. Loss of Identity

A significant element of a successful relationship involves compromise, but some women can take this concept too far. When a woman gives up her interests, beliefs, or personality traits in order to “fit better” with her beau, she has given too much. Not only does this harm her spirit, but it usually drives him away. Being an independent individual is one of the most attractive and sexy qualities a person can bring into any relationship.

4. Start Trying to Control Everything

As women tend to be more analytical than men, once they’ve reached a conclusion about something, they may feel they know best and then try to instill their newfound wisdom into everything they do. Given the typical male pride and need for independence, even if she knows best, a man may fight her simply on principle. If you begin to assert your control over every little thing you do together – as well as attempting to manipulate his behavior and choices regarding his own life – even if you’re right, he will probably resent you for the intrusion.

Judging from the list, it seems maybe women should simply leave men alone. Maybe that would suit them better.

^^^ Nope

Do you believe in mermaids?

WOW!!

^^^Yes I know,

However, I want to send thanks to the people who have been in contact with me thus far. I was told that originally some feared that I was a man or a scammer but to their pleasant surprise I am neither of those things.

I am enjoying getting to know everyone and thanks for the language lessons as well.


I will send out emails shortly. Also ladies please don't be shy, I am simply interested in developing friendships with other Nigerians.

Thx

Welcome to the club Nairaland folks will surely offer you plenty of good advice.

No more friends Very well lol

She should stop it straight away with her boss and if she is sure that there is no way of the husband finding out then she better not tell him at all

Kunbee:

Welcome to nl

Thank you. I am enjoying my stay here

^^^ please explain, why is that?

Hello all,
I am an Igbo native  living in the USA and really don't have any Nigerian friends to hang with or converse with. So I am reaching out to make both male and female friends at home or abroad. I can chat, text but would prefer friends that can be reached via phone/cellphone. Please be over 27 years of age.

Wow

If only everyone woman could experience such an intense love as the one displayed by TheCongo.

I know no one is perfect and thus people make mistakes and we should all bare forgiveness in our hearts especially for the ones we love. With all that considered, when does it really become over, not the break up, make up cycle? How many times will you forgive before you call it quits, final?

No, receiving anything from an ex while in another relationship is NEVER a good look

^^^^ understood, thanks

I remember these well well and miss it too

generally, women cheat because of their heart and men cheat because of their d1cks

buzugee (m)


this happens because the man is not where he wants to be in life. same with women. if you are still searching for yourself, if you are still searching for a career, if you are still trying to become comfortable with who you are as a person and what your purpose is in this world, if you are still trying to step into and own your personality, if you are still trying to search for yourself in terms of the economic stability that will give you peace of min, UNTIL ALL OF THE ABOVE HAPPENS you can never fully appreciate the complete beauty in others because your mind is chaotic. until all the above happens you will never appreciate another human being the way they need to be appreciated. this is why the marriages that work in life are the marriages where the couple get married in their late thirties or early forties. because only at this age range will you completely fully step into your personality as a person. only at this age will you be fully at peace with yourself and hence can appreciate what another person brings to the table. BED HOPPING IS A SYMPTOM OF A RESTLESS AND LOST SOUL. so in conclusion, most guys who let nice and caring and beautiful women like that go, get to regret it later in life after they are finally settled and have peace of mind. they call it 'the one that got away'

This is very well stated. Good post !!!

That it is only the woman that has the burden of holding the relationship together

break ups are never easy when one partner is still in love and the other is not.