Politics › Re: FG Sacks Advertising Standard Panel Over ‘All Eyes On The Judiciary’ Billboard by sotall(m): 1:48pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
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Culture › Re: Take Isese Festival Elsewhere, Kwara Police Urges Worshippers by sotall(m): 10:30pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
 Nigeria is a joke i swear |
Business › Re: President Tinubu Orders CBN To Improve Forex Liquidity by sotall(m): 8:02pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Mr Bulaba asked you to improve forex liquidity like its something you just do by blinking your eyelid  |
Politics › Re: Bandits Kills 21 Military Personnel In Niger State by sotall(m): 7:14pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Fuel Hike: It Will Be An Indefinite Nationwide Strike Without Notice - Ajaero by sotall(m): 4:52pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Disturbing Signals: Your Govt Has Crashed Our Expectations - Lukman To Tinubu by sotall(m): 4:09pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
 Where are the 20k-a-month, APC keyboard warriors on nairaland? Oya comma do your job and defend the Bulaba economics that's about turning $1 to 1000 naira. |
Family › Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by sotall(m): 1:39pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Same story that made Frontpage the other day? |
Politics › Re: Akpabio, Speaker & 2 Others Padded Tinubu’s Palliative Budget - Sahara Reporters by sotall(m): 6:14pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
 APC and budget padding  |
Sports › Re: BREAKING: Joshua Gets First Knockout Win In Three Years by sotall(m): 9:53am On Aug 13, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Alleged ‘Coup’ Against Obaseki: My Story – Deputy Governor, Shaibu by sotall(m): 5:13am On Aug 13, 2023 |
 Its all politics. Watch this thread for agbado miscreants comments saying rubbish about Obaseki . Even their lord the drug dealer and ex-female student of chicago university had his deputy removed from office when he was governor of Lagos. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by sotall(m): 12:01pm On Aug 12, 2023 |
How true?
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Burkina Faso’s Junta Slams Indefinite Ban On Radio Station Over Niger by sotall(m): 7:02am On Aug 12, 2023 |
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Business › Re: Diversion Of Diaspora Remittances To Black Market Weakens Naira - CBN by sotall(m): 4:28pm On Aug 11, 2023 |
 You made the country unbearable for them to live and they left. You hoarded all the jobs and gave it to your family, tribe and religion. Now you want them to remit their hard earn foreign currency to your channel of corruption. Una never see shege. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu’s Full Speech At 2nd ECOWAS Extraordinary Summit On Niger Crisis by sotall(m): 7:14am On Aug 11, 2023 |
atobs4real: At your door step already Mumu keyboard warrior Keep hallucinating |
Politics › Re: Tinubu’s Full Speech At 2nd ECOWAS Extraordinary Summit On Niger Crisis by sotall(m): 4:40pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
ycat: See this imbecille! Your papa imbe.cile |
Politics › Re: Tinubu’s Full Speech At 2nd ECOWAS Extraordinary Summit On Niger Crisis by sotall(m): 4:19pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
atobs4real: I will report you to DSS and I mean it. If you dont, na thunder go fire your generation. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu’s Full Speech At 2nd ECOWAS Extraordinary Summit On Niger Crisis by sotall(m): 2:45pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
 Bulaba the illegitimate drug baron occupying Aso Rock should do well to vacate that seat before trying to remove another illegitimate government. He who wants equity must come with clean hands. |
Culture › Re: Oyo Assembly Approves ‘isese Day’ To Honour Traditional Worshippers by sotall(m): 1:48pm On Aug 10, 2023 |
 Yorubas in Ilorin should request for their own Isese day. Yorubas in Ilorin deserve to breathe. |
TV/Movies › Re: Venita And Uriel Fight Dirty Over Drama Roleplay by sotall(m): 7:46pm On Aug 09, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Proposes To His Pretty Oyinbo Girlfriend (Pic/Video) by sotall(m): 4:59pm On Aug 09, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: New Marriage About To Crash. by sotall(m): 1:44pm On Aug 09, 2023 |
Ehinjuola: My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.
My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.
It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.
After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.
My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.
When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.
We had little issue then but he later resolved it.
He brought everything they ask him for
During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.
That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.
I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.
His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.
I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.
He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?
I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.
He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.
After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.
I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.
Have I said something wrong?
I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.
I am tired, I don't know what to do. Seriously you are not a wife! Your husband just married a girlfriend for a wife. So you had this mentality of " if he cherishes you, he should go and find money even if to steal, and please your father" and he still went ahead to marry you. You knew his finances and yet didn't ask how he was able to do it? Your father just sold you to him and right now you aren't different from one of his properties like TV or Chairs he has at home. |
Family › Re: Daughter Fights Mum For Bringing Too Many Men To Their Home (pics/video) by sotall(m): 1:26pm On Aug 09, 2023 |
 Bad character exhibited by mum but then Daughter shouldn't question mum in that manner. She is dishonouring her mother. |
Food › Re: Photo Of Big Antelope Killed By A Hunter by sotall(m): 11:19am On Aug 09, 2023 |
 This will go well when fried and taken with fresh palm wine |
Crime › Re: Fisayo Soyombo Exposes Baby Factory In The South-East, 'Buys' Baby For ₦2M by sotall(m): 9:47am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Sold by Southeast to Southwest.
Oya make una dey throw blow |
Foreign Affairs › Re: We May Be Pushed To Invade Niger — US Tells Coup Plotters by sotall(m): 7:13am On Aug 09, 2023 |
You couldn't invade Russia but you want to invade Niger.... You see them  |
Politics › Re: Muslim Community Demands Review Of Lagos Commissioner-nominees by sotall(m): 4:27am On Aug 09, 2023 |
They said religion dont matter in Yoruba land but now this. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia President Putin Meets Burkina Faso Leader, Traore by sotall(m): 2:18pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Unemployment Rate In The World, Nigeria Tops (photos) by sotall(m): 4:47pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
We carry first... No thanks to Bulaba leadership  |
Travel › Re: Niger Air Space Closure Fall Out: British Airways Forced On 10-Hour ‘Flight by sotall(m): 1:41pm On Aug 07, 2023 |
MetaFiles230709: is there a way you can carry your family in a private plane and try it out so that we can see and check something. Exactly my thought. Let him gather his family and fly through Niger so we believe they dont have weapons |
Politics › Re: Niger Closes Air Space Citing ‘Threat Of Intervention’ by sotall(m): 7:16am On Aug 07, 2023 |
Look at the first page of this thread and analyze the first 10 comments.
You see most of it are coming from the same person. So much for paid propaganda.
Some people's job is to stay at home and create thread and comment on nairaland to push a particular narrative |
Politics › Re: Niger Closes Air Space Citing ‘Threat Of Intervention’ by sotall(m): 3:50am On Aug 07, 2023 |
Gehe ghen....action film |
Politics › Re: Full List Of 47 Ministerial Nominees And States Of Origin by sotall(m): 10:12am On Aug 06, 2023 |
See what the drug baron did to Edo, sidelining the major ethnic and religious group and going to the minority. |