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Ishilove:
Buhahahahahahahahahahahaha!! You sense it too, right?

The negative vibes they give off is disturbing. Makes you wonder at their mental and psychological stability

Indeed!

Hey does this site have a chat option? Something like google chat where one can have conversations in real time?

lepasharon:
You called doctors here quacks and when ppl attacked you in return, you didn't like that and accused us of being bitter

Oh..I can see the UK in you very well



Weak

I accused people of being bitter and you were not even there when I did and now you add yourself to the lot by saying I accused "us". That shows that indeed you are bitter. Seek help!

Ishilove:
This is just a tip of the iceberg. A typical comment from HardMirror drips bile, venom and rage. The kid has serious issues

A lot of the people here or at least the ones who seem to have taken a negative interest in me probably are in need of some kind of psychological evaluation because all they type just isn't healthy for any human to continue in or meditate upon. It always leads and keeps such people in a very dark place.

lepasharon:
What answer did you give?

Says the girl who called doctors here quacks and demanding to know specialties. Now coming to play the victim when heat gets back to you. FOH shitbox

Did you just say heat? I wonder where from. I do not play the victim anywhere or before anyone. I simply am up front and specific with my responses and if you call that playing the victim then being in the UK definitely does not mean the UK is in you.

First you said "ass" instead of arse which is the correct spelling and now you say "shitbox". What perhaps about the arse fascinates you? Are you queer? Are you perhaps interested in Pygophilia or Coprophilia?

HardMirror:
welcome to nairaland. home of hypocrites. the Christians praising you are only doing so Cos you fit into their purpose. once you say something they don't agree with you will know how stvpid and unreasonable they arevtoo. Ishilove posted that you own nobody any proof, yet she was demanding proof for my own story. so you see? it's all a charade of dolts.

Kindly rewrite this with less venom.

lepasharon:
Sorry my bad. Honestly I don't care for 'proof' cos I know ur full of crap anyway. I just want to see what you will pull out ur ass this time.

Did I call you names that you didn't call anyone else? You start attacking others, then when it comes back to you, you can't handle it FOH

Like I didn't already know you were being deceptive. I knew and I still gave you an answer anyway so you could pass the message on to those who like you wanted to See me "pull" something out of my arse and not "ass" as you wrongly spelt.

You always seem so bitter. If you are having round the clock pms issues do get yourself looked at because so much bitterness especially in a female is detrimental to your health.

If indeed you are resident in London and close to the ExCel centre why not try visiting Farmopolis at Greenwich Peninsula for some relaxation so the knot of bitterness can melt away. Stop being toxic! It's disgusting and so are you.

Ishilove:
Just ignore the naysayers and heathens

That's so easy. I wonder how anyone would live with so much bitterness and lack of colour.

Ishilove:
She doesn't owe you anything. Grow up

This place went from mellow to crazy in a blink of an eye. I don't even know where to start.

lepasharon:
They want proof ur story is true

"They"? Are you excluding yourself from that number? Next time try not to be too conspicuous when being deceptive.

If you've observed, I choose my words and those I respond to. I suggest you do same. Calling me all sorts of names earlier and now trying to play the good advocate is a mismatch on you. It sticks out like a sore thumb.

You can tell your "They" that they should try and join me from the 11th of September at the ExCel centre so they can wallow in all the proof "They" need.

Thank you for speaking up for them though.

What is going on here? What's with all the name calling and bad blood?

To all who are still open to inspiration and do not feel intimidated by the achievements and joy others have found I say God watch over you and keep you.

I have to retire for the night. Have an awesome tomorrow.

I have repeatedly said here on this site that a lot of you have this false authoritative nature that everyone "must" give you what you demand for like you hold some manipulative switch or something.

Those who are demanding pictorial proof or whatever else should do themselves a favour. They should stop taking themselves too seriously.

Placing demands on strangers just to satisfy your ego shows a very bad trait. My life memoir was not written for all to believe but to inspire as many as are willing to be and not to be turned into a judge and jury session.

I am having a blast with my life at the moment and I am grateful for it. Stop being too uptight. My life isn't in competition with yours.

hahn:
You mean Christians like Evans and the pastors that rape children on the frontpage abi?

May your obsession for your god one day surpass your obsession with atheists. Maybe then you will start to make sense



Spectacular, I will still hold your persistence, dedication and hardwork as the sole reasons for your success because if we should all agree it is god then it will turn into the "which god" argument and we will also have to thank those gods for the allowing people like your dad, and my mom who also died under pathetic circumstances, lack access to quality healthcare and die leaving kids like us to grow and understand life on our own etc

I really do not see why we have to have a religious angle on this subject because then you would be proving this dude right when he says that your epistle is



which is one of the problems atheists find with such "testimonies"

Well, as a typical nairalander will say pictures or idonbeliveit

Well I am sorry if you got my message wrong and could only deduce all you wrote above albeit how limited it was.

Strange as it may sound but I am ever so glad my dad died when he did regardless of how he did. If he did not then I would not have come here when I did and I would not have gone through all I did and ended up here based on decisions triggered by some of my experiences.

I have no regrets regarding anything especially the number of people God has used me to save their lives. So the death of my father and the circumstances surrounding it indirectly saved all those lives. He was a part of the rudder that gave my ship direction.

I wrote what I did in order to inspire someone and not to spring a debate. My experiences and life "in the smallest nutshell" is what I have written and the only one deserving of my praise and thanks is almighty God and Jesus who took over my life and I can distinctly attest to the fact that it was when I yielded to Him that my life and purpose became clear, peaceful and well defined.

TLuzzie:
Great, touching, engrossing (yeah, yeah), and..... well, I'm inspired as well. Congratulations Spacetacular and more power to your elbow. It's great to see one who takes delight in altruism and selfless service to humanity. While others find it a BURDEN, you chose to make it the core of your being. And kudos to your hubby. Going by his words above, you guys are a perfect and matching couple. I believe your mum is joyous, probably just as much as you, or even more. You have my best wishes.

My mum wouldn't stop holding my hands today as I could see pride and joy in her eyes. She put all about herself into me and my husband is a whole other story. His life challenges me daily and for that I am grateful.

Love is an action and not a word. Learning to love and live for others gives the kind of joy and fulfilment words fail to describe.

KingEbukasBlog:
While atheists are planning to ruin the lives of people with their malevolence and purposeles lives , a Christian is excited to be part of a cause that will add value to the lives of others .

May God guide you as you enter this new chapter of life , Amen . I'm inspired already . Congrats spacetacular

Amen Mr king. I will always do my best as I serve my God given purpose.

Ishilove:
This is so beautiful. Thanks for sharing, spacetacular.

Thanks for reading. God bless you

bennyann:
Analice107 and Ishilove come and celebrate and bless God




Congrat Space. I celebrate with you. May the Lord keep you for those who need your help and keep on taking you higher.

Thank you so much. Just came in from my celebration dinner with my husband, mum and a few friends.

This is my first personal topic on this website and I hope you find it encouraging and inspiring.

Well for starters I have to say good afternoon and also ask how you are doing today. Hope life has not been too hard on you. Life itself sometimes can be like an orange. You only can get the sweetness out when you squeeze it and that squeeze can be painful or discomforting but it's all about the sweetness and not the process. If you focus on the process or "squeeze" you just might never get the sweetness.

I have so much joy in my heart today and I will tell you why but before I do allow me share a brief history about me with you.

I am a British / Nigerian (my dad was Nigerian while my mum is British). I was born in Abraka Delta State and lost my dad to Autosomal dominant polycystic kidney disease when I was 7 years old ( My mum waited till I was 16 to tell me the whole thing about my dads death.

2 years after my father died my mum and I left for the UK with all the memories of my father she could find. My mum refused to get married again despite being just 37 when my father died so I am her only child. Her birthday would be in less than 2 weeks and she is already well over 70 years old with no regrets.

My mum raised me a Christian but I was never keen about a lot of that religious stuff even though I would accompany her to her local church gatherings here in the UK and she added a lot of Nigerian (African) flavour to the place despite being white and British. I had to include African when I mentioned Nigerian because back then a lot of British people only knew Africa and thought Africa was a country and not a continent.

I pretended to love God all because of my mum but was secretly a member of an all female British gang which I joined when I was 14. 2yrs later at age 16 I witnessed one of us being raped by her boyfriends father and during investigations I got arrested and questioned and that was how my mum found out about my gang involvement.

She sat me down and gave me a long talk where she encouraged me to ask questions. So based on what I witnessed I had to ask her about my dad and for her to tell me all about him and by God she did! She told me about a man who was beyond any man she ever knew and made me proud to have had him as a father and I also now understood why she chose to remain single after he died. Her final words to me that day were, "your worth can only be found when you live for others". That was my turning point as I decided to become better (though still not loving God).

I decided to venture into medicine due to my desire to help people with medical challenges. Something my father never had proper access to and I worked hard to become a surgeon. It was at this time I met my husband who happens to be a gynaecologist and such a darling. After being licensed to practise and working for some years as a surgeon , my desire to be of greater help to others made me now consider becoming an emergency medical specialist as that would enable me to have first hand contact with trauma patients on the field and offer maximum first time help before hospital care because often times its the first help or first aid that could determine if one lives or dies.

I eventually was accepted and given an emergency team to head and it was during this period that my colleague shared the Gospel of Jesus with me and for the first time in my life I actually listened and surrendered my life that day and it has been an awesome experience.

Now it's on record that some persons Here on this website have found it unbelievable that I would choose to leave the comfort of the hospital as a surgeon and rather become a "super" paramedic with all the toughness and roughness of the field plus a lesser wage. Well I had my passion driving me and it was later I knew that it was God who created that passion in me in order to direct my path.

Now to the big news. If you think people are not being inspired by your selfless life even without your knowing it then you need to start paying attention. A year ago I joined an initiative known as the mobile intensive prayer unit and we have been building a prayer network for medics and helping them deal with traumatic situations and teaching them via the gospel. Now unknown to me, one of us on the network knew about another initiative known as citizenaid and being close to the originator, spoke fondly of me and recommended me as an ambassador for citizenaid.

Citizenaid is designed to train members of the public on how to help the injured during emergencies e.g terror attacks, accidents and so on. I just got a call from them offering me to join them as their ambassador though I am yet to put pen to paper with them (which would be next week as we formally meet)

They already hinted that I would be their VIP representative to the World Trauma innovation conference coming up here in London in September and also their VIP representative at the Royal College of emergency medicines annual scientific conference in October with a whole lot more lined up.

I am now more than glad that I followed my passion and followed my mums golden words, " Your worth can only be found when you live for others". All my initial ups and downs in life have led me to this point and learning to trust God cemented it. I am about entering into a new phase of selfless medicine and I know God is going to join me on this ride as He has always done.

My husband said something to me 2 months ago. He said "I see babies come into the world almost daily and these babies all need someone to help them come out and I have seen quite a few burials. All the dead also needed someone to help bury them. Makes me wonder why so many who were born and who will die still choose to be so selfish".

Be inspired and learn to live to add value to someone besides yourself. In the end I am here because you are there. I am who I am because of you and as long as you live and I live also, you will always give me reason to become more than I am today just for your sake.

God bless those who read to the end. Going out to celebrate now. Cheers!

jonbellion:
No for real guys atheism is too dismissive
I still think religion is bullshit but to rule out the possibility of a higher force or something that we have yet to understand is just total bull man
"I don't know but is certainly can't be a celestial being" is already contradictory. If you don't know how would you then know it's not a celestial being( note I'm not using religious representations of a diety cuz they are still shit as usual. I know some atheists don't think this way anyway but to the ones that read Lawrence Krauss book trying to explain how the universe came out of nothing or pseudo -philosopher Richard Dawkins( I have a lot of respect for the man btw but he sucks balls at philosophical arguments ) and start using them as your creed then you need to change that herd mentality cuz you aren't in any war better then the sheeple religious people you criticise. These constant daily arguments between athiests and thiests are pointless because in the end no one is changing sides. You can get along fine with religious people. I mean I know some can be judgemental and all but you still meet a lot of good honest religious people. And it is a useful tool imagine a world without religion. How would you tell the average Nigerian market woman who is a single mom working 9 to 5 shifts so her children can at least get an education in a shitty country like this that there is no God . I wouldn't see anything wrong with a lot of christians going on a murderous rampage to execute all the Sunni and shite Muslims in the country if they find out religion is a lie
In the end I think all I'm trying to say is live and let live. If this was the mantra of humanity the world would be a better place than it is now.

So you now choose to be an agnostic. In other words from being an atheist you now believe there is "some Kind of God" but nobody can really know His nature or kind of existence.

You are just one more step away from the truth. I was an atheist (of some sort) earlier in my life. Well I was not a God lover or even remotely interested in anything about him until He melted my heart and won me over the very first time I actually chose to listen to His word through my colleague.

Why not make a true and definitive move rather than still sitting on the fence. I did that and I am better for it.

Hello and good evening to you.

felixomor:
My sister,
You see why I said earlier that people like her are only good for sport.
Not for explanation, as you have done for her.

Her ignorance is intentional.

It's amazing really that logical truth would be right before her but for some unfounded reason she would always go blind when truth is in front of her. She is not even good for sport! To what end? Would she even understand that she is being used for sport? How I wish this website had a "block" button because i shouldn't be getting comments from obviously knackered crack heads. There should be a way I can choose who directs comments at me.

lepasharon:
Interesting. So you don't know about Nigerian specialties but you know about licenses? Hence you went ahead to analyse Catfish's?

When prodded you then admitted to not knowing about Nigerian licenses



Why then did you go ahead and make a fool of urself? It's not that deep

You're a hypocrite

You are an unashamed dunderhead. I suppose when I was pointing out differences in the licenses I did not do so by comparing it to another Nigerian medical licence from the same medical regulatory body right?

Your own mush face and cack actually is deep.

lepasharon:
So you remember that you studied in the UK now? But you couldn't inhibit urself from picking apart Catfish's Nigerian standardised certificate when he posted it a while back? But now you claim to know nothing?

What a clown you are. One can only just laugh at you.

All I can do is just pity you. You obviously are a mind reader to know what I meant by "standards" and what I was particular about. In my comments here was there anywhere we focused on licenses or did we focus on specialities? No matter ones level of ignorance one should be able to see and acknowledge the difference in the lettering between the words SPECIALTY and LICENSE.

you solely deserve pity.

CatfishBilly:
Me? Hurt? For what?
Your specialty has been all over the place, so, I'm trying to get a clear picture.
And for clarity sake. Plastic surgery is not a sub specialty of General surgery. It's a different residency program on its own as per RCS website, but I'm sure you'll bring BMA website.
A surgeon that prefers the news of another body to the one regulatory body she supposedly belongs to.

If you feel I'm doing it to ridicule you, I'm sorry.
I'll stop now.

Word of advice: UK isn't Nigeria. Study here first then speak with authority.

I have never spoken about Nigerian standards because I know nothing about it being that I studied here.

All you hecklers here do have illusions of being people who must be answered to.

lepasharon:
Do you still practice medicine?

Do you deserve an answer?

lepasharon:
Sorry I could help it . Trauma surgeon cum paramedic?

And didn't you realise you would be restricted to a ' hospital space' during the course of ur career. What do you think the foundation years are for?

Doctors who don't like hospital spaces usually become community doctors.

This is too ridiculous sorry.

Yep you seem to know more about my personal experiences and reasons behind my decisions in my chosen career than I do. How is this so?

I never said I did not like hospital spaces. Maybe you need a recap on all my comments and locate where I gave my reasons as I am not ready to help your self injected ignorance by repeating them here.

The funny part is that you never ask questions first. You shoot first then ask questions later and you think it's normal? Before you speak learn to have your wit, and facts about people and do not just "speak".

CatfishBilly:
Are you now claiming to be a military Surgeon? Should we add that to your list?

I don't know what training you got honey, but you're not a traumatologist, for you to be one, you'll either have to be a military Surgeon or an orthopedic.
Besides, what sort of trauma surgeon/General Surgeon is registered with BAAPS? the body for plastic surgeons in the u.k?

Why are you hurt that I am who I am out of sheer hard work and grit? Do I intimidate you? All you have been doing lately has been all over what I do.

Do you even realise that before any attempt is made to be a plastic surgeon one has to first be a general surgeon?

UK isn't Nigeria so you need to stick with your place. I worked hard to be who I am and all deliberately done to fit into my field of focus but alas in all it has never been as gratifying as what I am doing now and all for the sake of Jesus and my "mobile intensive prayer unit" team (we are already building a network).

Poke all you want but it wouldn't alter who I am and what I do.

lepasharon:
She's too comical What is this crap?

This is why I was advised to dump you in your ignorant bliss. A certain hopefullandlord ID has been down this road you are on and during that discussion I broke it down for him to understand my transition and why.

I also revealed why I preferred the field to the restrictions of a hospital space. Ignorance does indeed make people say words like "crap".

CatfishBilly:
Bma now takes precedence over Royal College of Surgeons in surgical matters? Interesting.

As for traumatology in the UK,

As you can see, traumatology and Orthopedics are together.

Your quote below

Training for trauma surgeons is sometimes difficult to obtain. In the United Kingdom, the Royal College of Surgeons of England is responsible for training consultants via the Definitive Surgical Trauma Skills course (DSTS) for Orthopaedics.It remains the only course of its kind in the United Kingdom

At the bold text, I got it and I am glad I did and am one. You said trauma and orthopaedics are together. Can you point out where I said they were not?

Be honest when you read and not just to oppose me. Under General surgery you hold the power to choose your sub. based on your field of focus.

https://www.rcseng.ac.uk/news-and-events/media-centre/media-background-briefings-and-statistics/general-surgery/

lepasharon:
And According to that site too, I was right about the 10 specialities

There are 9 core specialties. Vascular surgery is regarded as a sub specialty

https://www.bma.org.uk/advice/career/studying-medicine/insiders-guide-to-medical-specialties/nhs-career-choices/surgical-specialties

http://www.medschools.ac.uk/Students/careers/specialties/Pages/Surgery.aspx

lepasharon:
Why do you always copy and paste?

My issue was that you initially made it seem like traumatology was ur main specialty, but now you are saying it's ur sub- specialty. Is that clear now?

Even if you're sub- specialty is trauma surgery. You are still not a custodian on traumatology.

So now "I made it seem as if" and no longer "I definitely said" it's my sub specialty.

The copy and paste for you was same way I had to do it for another here who was a waste of my personal writings so "copy and paste" for them and now for you was apt.

Could you do yourself a favour and define traumatology and what it entails. Then you can do same for Traumatologist.

CatfishBilly:
According to Royal College of Surgeons,
Traumatology and Orthopedics are the same specialty. A general surgeon can't be a traumasurgeon i.e FRCS (Tr/Ortho) as seen in this link
https://www.rcseng.ac.uk/careers-in-surgery/trainees/foundation-and-core-trainees/surgical-specialties/
Y'all can go back to arguing.

You obviously read it without an iota of understanding and simply wish to counter me. I suggest you start learning to read with understanding and find out first what a person who handles trauma surgery is called.

Do I explain what you read and failed to grasp to you for free?