₦airaland Forum

Amakavula:
Did you watch BBnaija when the girls were told to pick the guys the two finest boys were left behind ( Rico and Kbrule ) and they weren't wrong the fine boys turned out losers, never winning Head of house or any challenges at all, that should offer you a clue as to how ladies think.

There's more to us than just find boys. A lady seeks more in a man than a pretty face. A leader, courageous, strong , wealth and social influence.

netpro:
The insanity behind the postulation that President M. Buhari is dead and has been replaced with a clone or a double tagged Jibril from the Northeast African country of Sudan is the latest the hate-filled minds aimed at undermining Nigeria as a nation and corrupt the mindsets of its citizens for selfish interests.

Since this wild gossip started till now, below are the category of people that has been seen embracing it.

1. The Separatists
Those who are seeking the destruction of Nigeria as country, like Nnamdi Kalu and his IPOB group were some of the first proponents of the rumor. The are in support of anything that can undermine the nation.

2. Anger Of 2015 Election Lose
There are still those who are yet for forgive President Buhari for defeating Dr. Goodluck Jonathan in 2015. Some of them invested so much in hope to maintain their lootocratic channels open, while others in this category believed completely that Buhari will not win. The shock, pain and disappointment has accumulated to a deep seated pain that may never go away. For them, the rumour is yet another weapon to sow distrust and negative sentiments among Nigerians against the current administration. Even Fayose swore he had evidence of "dead" Buhari - but since the President returned alive, Fayose has gone silent on the matter.

3. Sycophants
Spent forces and and their supporters who have lost all relevance are propelling this falsehood in hope it will cause sufficient distrust and get back to their looting spree.

4. The Gullible
Lastly comes the category of persons that will believe just about anything as long as it is repeated long enough. They have no time to verify information and don't care. All their various inclinations will lead them to believe just about anything.

Aieboocaar:
Meanwhile, sarrki just got appointed as Lieutenant colonel, "Nairaland chief resident zombie" for his efforts in defending cluelessness.

IS GOD NOT A WONDERFUL GOD?!!
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ominilongest:
Better lshut up before anty kemi dig ur own matter ll\"


Who know if ur own pikin sef na omo ale,shior.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Ekez:
Oga wetin naw.
Who wan vote for u,
Well our votes don't count sometimes

joeokoriem:
Is it possible for a driver to be invisible on taxify? The driver is d only one at that area. We try to request him and its showing no driver available, letter, d next driver we saw is far. He was invisible both on taxify and lite. What could be d issue.

tunlapapa:
If e no be panadol, e no fit be like panadol

alstarmayo:
Lite is same as Uber, except Uber removes 1.1 boost all over Lagos

jayooh:
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Uber or taxify

jayooh:
BTW, I deh this your Sobo Arobiodu GRA. Make I see if request go show. Patiently waiting.

brogxy:
I need a driver for ughelli tomorrow to return on Monday. How much?

alstarmayo:
Uber works well there, it's a short cut with little or no traffic

generationz:
please stop telling anybody everything about yourself. its dangerous.



aren't we told to marry our Best friends?



I see this as a result of your immaturity (no offense dear) you are still in the university , by the time you graduate and date more guys you'll realize that not all that glitters is gold.


There's a difference between an Hollywood movie script/ mills and boons novels and reality

this. my dear is reality


when a person becomes too available and ' too there' for us they become undesirable

The guy made a mistake in the art of seduction 101


Right now because of the love he has shown you and his over availability there's nothing left to the imagination again instead of seeing him as Romeo you see him as the elder brother you never had.

if a man can know all your trash and nonsense, good and bad , and after four years still say girl I love you then that man truly loves you.



tell me dear


his he ugly, perhaps you are attracted to handsome guys

his he short? perhaps you are attracted to tall guys

his he poor ? perhaps you are attracted to rich guys

his he soft ? perhaps you are attracted to bad guys.


during those four years has he had a girlfriend? because I know we ladies love guys who many
girls want for one reason or the other. its not our fault but a thing of genetics and desirability.




I know your dilemma . He doesn't fulfil your desire in a man.

Seriously how couldn't you see a guy likes you withing four years of knowing him. if its me within a few days of knowing someone I'll know if he likes me,is a players or doesn't even like me.


its in the words, the extra care, the eyes ,the body language etc.



please don't date anyone out of pity


with the time you are taking to think about it , change your thinking pattern . Ask for more time off if its possible. Tell him the time off is for you to make a sound judgement devoid of emotions.



maybe it will even be all through his exams and his final year project so he can focus on that.


not seeing him can make you desire him more.

now reconfigure your brain. start seeing him as a man you can spend your life with . think of how good he has been to you and compare him to your exes in each aspect. see him as desirable too.


If you both were lost on an island and he was the only man there for you to procreate with will you do it? your first reaction to this (in your brain) will tell if there's even a slim chance of being with him.

love isn't a mushy feeling o


love is in action. The mushy feeling you have for someone you just met is infatuations.

eg we love our parents a lot and appreciate them. that doesn't mean every time we see them we have butterflies in our bellies.


so to help yourself you must reconfigure your brain.


it would be a shame if after rejecting him you realize after many years that you should have accepted him and it's too late. I've heard too many stories like this.


trust me attraction is secondary when it comes to choosing a life partner.

the important things include

His spiritual life ( if you are spiritual)

can he take care of you (not only materially ,but emotionally and maybe spiritually ,)

his genotype

his family background . this is very important because if at the end of it all both families don't approve then relationship don scatter be dat. you must know if his family is one you can be married into.


If he ticks all these buttons please hold on to him o finding someone that meets everything like this is rare.

jayooh:
abi oh.

kneo:
I had same issue.
I changed the ball joints and the problem was solved.

kneo:
I had same issue.
I changed the ball joints and the problem was solved.

GAZZUZZ:
It's more expensive, but replace all 4 bushings, most times the bushings are already brittle.

This is where toyota is a winner, their bushings last longer in comparison to kia/hyundai.

eherbal:
what I would check if I were you? worn brake pads,CV joints,worn tires,improper tire gauge, alignment,and lastly ,gazzuzz the Oracle