₦airaland Forum

SWORD419:
How time flies

midnighter:
Yes, I said that in my post.

He shouldnt have slapped her at all!! But

- He has already apologised. At the end he cannot take the slap back, all he can do is apologise some more. So why not accept the apology or refuse to accept it UNTIL he agrees not to stay out until 2AM again instead of throwing the baby out with the bathwater?

- Is she actually going to tell her mother and brother what transpired or will she just tell them that "we are arguing and he slapped me"? Because she too will be ashamed of herself if her family really gets to hear the story

- Your mother and brother will still eventually come to see your presence as an irritation and ask you when youre going back

The genesis of the problem is that he stayed out until 2AM and left her with the baby and NOT that he slapped her! At the point when he came back late, she was totally blameless and she should have kept it that way if she knew she was going to involve her family in their issue. I would have accepted it if she reported him to her family over that alone if it were a repeat occurrence.

The golden question is, who pursued who here ? Did he go and look for her to slap her or did she go looking for slap

And people saying that "she could have fallen, she could have died" etc yeah! And he could have developed hypertension from constant nagging and shouting. Thats why they should both apologise to each other and keep each other alive mbok

midnighter:
I dont think it can really be the way you painted it. How can it escalate to this point in less than a day Something was already wrong beforehand.

You shouldnt have slapped her!

AND She shouldnt have harassed you, followed you around the house and shouted at you. The point that you told her to leave you alone and she didnt was the point AT WHICH SHE OVERSTEPPED HER BOUNDARY.

Shouting at somebody and harassing them is STILL DOMESTIC ABUSE!

So the solution is to wait until everything calms down and calmly talk out your differences because she is the one who actually initiated it THOUGH YOU TOO DIDNT ACT WELL AND GAVE HER A WEAPON TO USE AGAINST YOU WITH HER FAMILY.

Be smarter next time o!

omoobaadeNGR:
In fact, every man is born a politician, for all men are political animals. Only gods or beasts are apolitical.

voltron14:
Ugep.

mumumugu:
have you noticed that ugly girls and low confident guys are virgins by lack of opportunity

massalati:
My brother that is not true, cultism in cross river take place only in calabar south(a sub-urban area) not in municipality.(main city) the rise of cultism activities in that region is due to two universities located there, so stop saying its a norm in cross river because other regions (L.G.A) dont tolerate cultism practice. PEACE

omoobaadeNGR:
In fact, every man is born a politician, for all men are political animals. Only gods or beasts are apolitical.

NiggasInParis:
Bro you are lucky, just stay pure and don't cross lane..you are good

That is how they gallivant around..from Crutech to Unical to CS and now infiltrating places that was cool in cali.. .most of them pack theirselfs come from their home town with this ODD orientation mix together with the breed already in Cali. Cali has now become a mess.....
The stunted man at the helm of affairs has not even done anything sensitive to curb the menace

Miss the 2000's

meetmeonline:
Have you heard of Binni? (ie Benin)

Isinweke:
I'm seeing the industries that una governor is building, you will see the importance in near future, he is trying to industrialize the state.

Isinweke:
All this idiot governor knows is how to pay salaries.

No mega projects like industries/factories.

He should learn from[b][/b] Ben Ayade[b][/b]

monkautos:
This one na fake story

Ekakamba:
Yes eyen. Actually it's etekamba.

Ekakamba:

mrksquare:
Being a Minister is more lucrative than a senator. As Minister, Akpabio controls the budget of his ministry. So his decision to opt out is a wise and prudent decision.

Atouke:
Lol

......"once revered former Governor, then-seemingly invincible Senate Minority Leader, recently defeated former Senator and now compensated and controversial Minister".......

Eteka1:
yes

Eteka1:
Parliamentary road extension.

kolafolabi:
Hahahaha.. This is technical and tactical knock out. It's a pure mathematics. He would have to resign as Niger Delta Minister and of course, you and I know the current Senator has higher chances of defeating him once again.