₦airaland Forum

toshmann:
this is true o no matter what we may say, the average ghanaian will see it this way

so sad. [size=15pt]we are actually as guilty as S.A[/size]

Abi oooooooooooooooooooooh. Talk about the hypocrisy of Nigerians. When they were on the "giving" end, they were loving it. Now they are on the receiving end, they are crying "foul"! Like God sleeps. What you reap, you will definitely sow.

What goes around comes around. Imagine the way they treated the Ghananians? Now they are pointing fingers at South Africa.

SO NIGERIANS--------------------DEAL WITH IT!!!!

More please!

Once again only dunder-heads of Nigerians will miss the main point the original poster was making. The abililty to respond quickly to natural disasters in the eventuality it happens in Nigeria.

I think the Ikeja bomb blast still looks as terrible as it was when the incident occurred originally if not worse.

Big B1:
My man, I think you've missed the point.

This has nothing to do with the size of the buildings or the quality of the materials that are being used to build these buildings; it has to do with the quality of leadership, dedication and commitment of these folks to raise up their country back to normal as soon as possible.
I truly admire their strength and determination during this difficult period. (Mr. Bush and Nigerian leaders should be taking lesson from this new development).

For once, this one can type something PARTIALLY reasonable. Please don't compare Mr. Bush to your Yaradunce abeg! Bush might be a drunk, but Yaradunce is a bloody born dunce. George Bush alone does not rule the US. Blame anything on the congress in the US.

In Nigeria, decisions are made over your head without representation with pure dictatorship. If you compare George Bush to Yaradua, you must be smoking some weather-beaten cow dung!

This is good news.  At least the US will monitor the "Al-Qaeda" network in Nigeria there so that some Nigerians will have some peace and quiet for a change.

At least "psychologically"!

I will feel very good to visit Nigeria and know that the US has a military base in Nigeria to get the real news on Nigeria on ground than all the "stories" we keep seeing in the useless Nigerian News papers.

Nigerian girls will have a variety of men to choose from and several means of "accelerating" their immigration status by being impregnated by some of those handsome, well toned US soldiers.

I almost regret I left Nigeria.  Hmmmmmm! Well, all hope is not lost for some girls in Nigeria now.

Thank God for answering our prayers.

4 Play:
I thought this was the most interesting part of the survey.

Welcome back oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh!

toshmann:
just like african americans are less likely to be friendly to africans than white americans

Where Nigerians not more threatened by the Ghananians than the colonial masters living in Shell compounds in Nigeria?  Who will not fear the "black skin" even where the Nigerian skin was black too?

When anything "black" has been linked to lack of progress and retrogression, any sane person including "normal" black people will reject the idea of being invaded by neighbouring indolent "African" nations.

Simple logic.

londoner:
Until the South African government says Nigerians or anyone else  must leave, Nigerians do not have to go anywhere, simple.

The "Ghana must go" and "Nigeria must go" of yesteryear was government led, not civilian led.

If someone is legally within a country and is a law abiding citizen he or she has every right to be there. The native people don't have to like it.


RSA,  The ones paying for sex,(essentially driving the demand) are they Nigerian?

The ones buying the drugs for personal use, are they Nigerian?

Your own people are the ones keeping this alive, it may be a painful pill for you to swallow, but its the truth.

Keep dreaming. I say tell your illegal brothers and sisters to sit in South South till they came back to Nigeria in unidentifiable body bags like "the Unknown Soldiers"! Every where Nigerians go, they leave "shit marks" on the floor.

Is in not a shame that Nigerians are required to have a South African visa now to enter south Africa? This never used to be the case.  But for the atrocities been perpetrated in South South. Keep making excuses I say.

gbengaza:
i have a feeling the govt in SA somehow don't mind is going on ,i mean,up till now they are yet to take any decisive action but in the final analysis OUR OWN GOVT CARRY MOST OF THE BLAME ,if people find good jobs here and earn decent living why would they go to SA to do menial jobs and other jobs they can't do here.www.achieversideas.com

Now we are talking.  I can now enjoy this thread.  There were too many cognitively challenged people on this thread that I could only stay away for a while. 

Will keep monitoring.

funkybaby:
Lmao! I will do all four and even worse.

Seriously, he can't try it. Nah, i married a gentleman not a dog.

He calls me to say, ''Funke love, i wont be coming home this weekend, i am going clubbing''. Nah. He dare not. He can't try it. Nahhhh, he can't.

Thank your stars he is not the clubbing type.

Cos ain't nothing you can do about it.

Leilah:
Thats great! cool! thanks for the imput. Believe it or not its actually NOT about me its about someone form my husbands family and

yeah he goes missing for days.

Ok well that explains that.

He he he he he he he he he he he.

A missing in action husband?  Tell the wife to keep fasting and praying.  This is a for better for worse situation.  When she gets tired of his tricks, I am sure she will have a solution to the problem.  All she can do now is fast and pray. It looks like the man  has reached the "point of no return"! I thnk this lady is losing grounds fast!

Too bad!

_{Her pussy has gone stale! No cure for a soured toto in a marriage!!! Cannot be used even as a "spit cup" for snuff!}

he he he he he he he



Hmmmmmmmmmmmm!

Whose turn is it to serve?

texazzpete:
It doens't matter if any Nigerians were killed or not. nigerians were attacked, their properties and businesses were damaged.
When the BA matter came up, no one was killed or even physically injured. yet it caused sufficient furore to draw the attention of the president and the NBA.

Now we have a situation where Nigerians have been targeted for violence, where Nigerians are open loathed and hated. should we stand aside simply because no one was killed?
Or is our inaction stemming from the fact that the perpetrators of the violence were not white/caucasians?

All well and good.  Let us wait till some Nigerians are killed before any action is taken. 

The people of South Africa have spoken.  They do not want other indolent African nationals in their midst. A country of only some 49 million?  10 Nigerians are enough to destroy the whole place with their 419-499! You want it to become like the US where the Hispanics are holding the Americans to ransom? You have over 20 million hispanics in the US to give a conservative number. That is like more than the whole US army. No wonder the US cannot do anything about them. Trying to remove them is going to cause another "Great Depression", even greater than that caused by the invasion of Iraq. South Africa cannot afford that.

Kudos to South Africa!  Flush out the undesirables in your midst and preserve the intergrity of your country since Nigeria and some other African countries have no notion of "self preservation"!

What are the Nigerians there waiting for?

When Nigerians did the same to Ghananians did the Ghananians not get inside their "Ghana Must Go" bags and roll out of Nigeria?

Let the Nigerians stay there and be the next victims then.

NIGERIANS LEAVE SOUTH AFRICA, YOU ARE NOT WANTED THERE!!!!! LEAVE!

Infact let us take this a step further.

You are married and the man just wants to go clubbing without you and does not even come home to you for days.

[size=15pt]WHAT THE HELL WILL MOST OF YOU SINGLE AND STILL SEARCHING FREE TO JINGLE AND MINGLE LADIES DO?[/size]

Kill him?
Poison him?
Divorce him?
Castrate him?

You will soon find out that your powers are limited once you say "I DO"! Go and mark it down I say. Make una siddon for hia dey make noise.

I say you can't fit to do nothing but rant and rave and then have strokes and die off the face to the earth.

I say enter there first then come back and post your experiences on Nairaland. Till then all you can do is dream and boast or beat your chest.  You wan to tie a man at home, with that one pussy when don turn to stone abi na dry coconut without water inside? You better have some top notch blackmail and whitemail secrets to keep him chained to your ankle or make sure the "juju" never touches urine.

Is there any time a man's eyes will not rove at young girls?  Abi when you plan to get married, did it not start with several pairs of roving eyes? In Nigeria for that matter?

I dey laff!

When you get inside, then you will know who calls the shorts on certain matters and there is not a damn thing you can do about it but fast and pray!

he he he he he he.


I say I am the one that asks him most of the time, Errrrrrrrrrr honey where you wan go tonight.  He will say "you dey pursue me comot for house"? I go say nooooooooooooooooooooo. Not at all. How can? I just wan give you space. Na me dey beg am to comot for house because I no what the alternatives are and I am not ready for that kind of entertainment at all.

Jamco45:
I am married. I go out with my wife sometimes and I also go out with the boys most times. She also goes out with the girls when she wants to.

[size=15pt]There is nothing wrong with understanding each other and giving yourself space. You are with your partner most times at home sometimes you just need a little space.[/size]

I suppose most people here are single hence their view.

I have never been tempted while out. I am very free with my wife and confident enough to tell her where I am and leave my phone on.

Not that she doesn't care but she will not call to disturb me on a night out and I won't disturb her either, the only time she will call is if I am not home when I say I would be.

[size=15pt]If you do your job well as a man infact she will beg you to go out sometimes.[/size]

If you don't give you husband or boyfriend the freedom guess what will happen? Honey I am working late, honey I have a corporate meeting late at night, honey we have to close that deal with our clients how ever long it takes, honey I can't pick up your phone calls I will be in a meeting all day, honey I am going away for a day or two for a business conference.

If this happens what will you do? Will you get paranoid and accuse your husband of lying or will you be a nuisance to yourself and start checking up on him at work or will you simply divorce your husband.

[size=15pt]The trust my wife has in me is enough to keep me fired up and faithful and also I have the most beautiful woman in the world with a fantastic behaviour and for me I don't think I can jeopardise that or meet anyone better.[/size]

If you decide not to allow him and he still goes out, what will you do? Nag? Divorce (how many husband can you divorce) what will you do.

[size=15pt]The only time you need to get worried is if your husband stop doing his homely duties and go out a lot without telling you and generally starts disrespecting you.[/size]

So please you guys should CHILLAX and enjoy your union with your partner.

@Leilah

Are you there? Please read this if you find mine a lirrrrrrrrrrrrrle on the "crude" side!

Excellent! Now, these are words of experience.  You can never be tempted when you have security and fulfullment in your home.

Don't mind all these novices.  Notice that the single ones are making the most noise.  The ones that do not even have boyfriends not to talk of ask husband where im dey go.

Long hisssssssssssssssssss!  I say make una enter for inside thia first before una begin make mouth like "olobo-thank-you-ma"!

Most of you are going to remain single for a very long time.  Una no sabi play ball at all! I am sorry for most of you! Nothing wrong with being single so don't get me wrong.  Let me just say all you are going to have are a bunch of failed YIM romances as some of you have already demonstrated on Nairaland.  You disappear for a while and come back here when you have failed to seal the deal past between the sheets.

I am sorry I say!

Tufiakwa!

Blatant:
why you come dey yab me now?

I no dey yab you ooooooooooooooooooh! I was referring to the posters who just started castigating South Africa and came to the conclusion that Nigerians were being roasted in South Africa.

You be my paddy now. How I go yab you?

Next please!

chidichris:
basket mouth of a night of a thousand laughs

says if the slave traders come back to nigeria today, things will be easier for them now than before.

from history, we were mearnt to understand that the slave traders had to use different means to get slaves then including bribing the chiefs and forcing their victims into slavery.
today, i think many will surrender themselves to the the slave masters especially if they are coming or going to the usa. what do u think?

he he he he he he he.



I will be one of the first to get on that slave ship, massaging the thighs of all the slave masters for a safe passage out of Africa.

I would not mind "soliciting other kinds of favors" besides massaging their "thighs" and "third legs" if push comes to shove!

If I do not make it to the US, I will beg them to drop my corpse in Cuba or some other place than Nigeria.

No Nigerian was killed in the "attack" in South Africa.

So what is all the noise for now?  See how stupid Nigerians are?

They just start getting worked up for no reason without even verifying what the facts are.

Blatant:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/7422887.stm

[size=15pt]Nigerian Foreign Minister Ojo Maduekwe told AFP news agency that no Nigerian was killed in the attacks, but many have lost their properties and others have had their shops looted.[/size]



The unrest, targeting migrants from Zimbabwe and other African countries, began near Johannesburg earlier this month.

What a bunch of busy bodies!

he he he he he he he he he he.

This is the thread to monitor I swear!



Nothing like good yappies!

_{I just love it when men fight on Nairaland!}

Gongo asses really full for Nairaland.

Who is "we"?

Like "they" need help to find replacements in Nigerian politics. I am sure "everything" has been pre-arranged.

Wetin concern "agbero" with "overload"?

Please let them go and die let us hear word!

_{Viewing Doyin 13's profile as usual!  Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! No comments!}

Once a dunce, always a dunce! Even a "brain transplant" from Einstein will not help.

Nothing much. When most of the "names in high places" rose to power by mounting "road blocks"? Please, ask another question.

Armed robbery is here to stay.

I don't think most people know the meaning of a "secret"! If I write them here, they are no longer secrets.

Is this an "April Fool's" day topic or what?

slimaneux:
My parent like every other parents, i respect them for the wonderful role they played in my life, sending me to school and all that but they, like every other parent failed woefully in one fundamental aspect. and like it or not, when your kid come of age they would blame you for failing in this respect. What am i talking about here? Every child that has come into this world, came with great potential, enormous gift and talent with which life becomes easier, lighter and brighter if explore. Now its your responsibility as parent to help this child achieve his dream. its important to note that parents of gifted children were themselves gifted but for certain reasons they could not accept or understand their gift; if you don't understand yours how do you think you can help this kids

what are those things you know you could do, you feel it dip within you that you can do it even better than the person doing it, those things that make you say 'i wish' or 'if i had' thats what am talking about. the same thing is burning in the heart of your child now, why not pay attention, ask questions, look for things to help you out and don't compromise when it comes to your kids future.

When you live in places like Nigeria, you can't norture talent.  Without simple electricity and plumbing what kind of talent do your expect to develop? Let someone use their "God-given" talent to figure out how to make "pure water" sachets in Nigeria "biodegradeable" for a start. Those dann things defy all means of annihilation. You can't burn them, you can't sink them, you can't bury them, you can't shred them and you sure can't recycle them for they smell like "kerosine" already. Everywhere you go in Nigeria, you find them sticking half way out of the ground. Only the wind and erosion can transport those things from one location to another.

Hmmmm! Talk about talent.

If you want to build on whatever God-given talent you have as children, you will need to move those children to a more suitable environment.  Not one that experiences "E[/b]nviromental [b]G[/b]rowth [b]R[/b]etardation or [b]P[/b]erpetual [b]F[/b]ailure [b]T[/b]o [b]T[/b]hrive"! As you correctly identified, if the parent cannot indentify his or her talent, do not expect him or her to help norture those of the children. What we have is a case of "generational dullards"! The high rate of spiritual and material poverty cannot allow you to norture kids with talent in places like Nigeria. Especially when you have institutions called [b]"Bukiepoly" loocated in remote jungles in Nigeria and such. Enough to kill any talent I say.

The parents are the product of the environment they live in.  So that can only be handed down to the children.  All we have are mudkegs of mediocrity as talents with the propensity to think dubiously and negatively.

"EGR or PFTT"

jamah:
Great post spermdrops. There is no more and no less to that. But maaaaaan, easy on the abuses. lol!

Thanks!

If you notice, the posters who get abuses really need them!

Big B.:
Hi guys, wts kooking?
What advice will u give to a woman who caught her husband on bed with another girl that is:


1.   Beta than her
2.   She is beta than

Please lets treat this issue with a great degree of seriousness and urgent response won't b bad at all.

1. If she is better than the wife, no problem.  That does not last long as no one woman can ever satisfy a man.  He will be back.   From pussy to pussy as usual.  Just a fact of life.

2. If the wife is better than the "kpom", all the better. It just shows the dude is "idle" and has nothing better to do with his bloody time.  No need to even look in their direction.

In both cases, the wife should take good care of herself and look good always without any stress.  Concentrate on the kids and just leave the guy to stew in his own juices. If she makes it a big deal, it becomes a big deal.  I personally do not have time for that.  Too busy entertaining myself anyway.

NO WOMAN SHOULD LEAVE HER HOME FOR ANOTHER WOMAN. LET THE MAN MOVE OUT AND LIVE UNDER THE BRIDGE WITH HIS "SIDEKICKS" IF HE PLEASES. IF HE WANTS A DIVORCE, LET HIM GO AND GET ONE.

I would just sit back and have a good time watching the whole thing while a trounce around town in ma G-Strings and halter tops, convertoble! Just wait patiently for him to leave and get all the benefits or life insurance. Life goes on.

One man can never kill a woman and one woman can never kill a man, unless you want it that way!

Too strong for that kind of game!

Yes!  I did and no regrets. I was also poor.

His heart is goooooooooooooooooooood! We built together! Not rich, not poor.  Just plain silly and happy! Having a dannnnn good time ALWAYS!!! Money can't buy those feelings of satisfaction.

Not the materialistic kind anyway.

Children definitely! Can't trade them for anything in the world even with all their wahala. . . of which they are so many!

Not unless my "fake" parents were evil people who molested children.  I would definitely want a chance at a better life with baboons as parents if possible.  Same thing applies if my real parents were idiots.  I would definitely would want to live with a more caring set of forster parents.


Only and only if the parents were evil I say. Otherwise, my real parents and are would remain friends only.  I don't like that kind change in childhood. I love stability. It would just feel nice to have the ones I had in my infancy as my parents for ever.

Things happen for a reason and I think I could deal with the situation of letting my biological parents know that no hard feelings but I can't leave my "fake" parents. Especially if they have been so good to me.  We can remain friends.

Ndipe:
Lets say, your parents treated you well throughout your pre-teen life, and you led a normal, memorable life growing up with your siblings. Then the unexpected occurs with the shocking news from the family court, that an unfortunate circumstance led to you being switched at birth. And, now your biological parents want you back. What do you do? The child they had been raising, meanwhile was also switched and thus, belongs to the parents who raised you up. You have the opportunity of either being swapped with the other child back to your real parents, or you choose to[b] cut off ties with your biological parents.[/b] What are your choices?

Thanks for the clarification. 

I repeat, I ain't going no where!  I stay "friends" with the "biological" parents! It is just "biology" not a guarantee or insurance for happiness.  If it ain't broke, ain't norrrring to fix!

Family, friends and having fun.

The fact that I work in a place where people have all the money in the world but cannot by good health.

The fact that money cannot buy happiness.

The fact that heaven and earth, reward and punishment, and the likes exist in this world and not in the afterlife.

The fact that you WILL always reap what you sow.



Most importantly, the fact that I love my life and myself more than anything else in this world.  And that the almighty being or beings have favored me in giving me the means to supply ALL my needs.

And. . . . . . . . [size=15pt]NOT IN NIGERIA! THANK HEAVENS!!!!! [/size]
Life is beautiful.

Mom, why do you and dad always have tissue paper in the bed at night? Do you wet the bed at night.

_{Stupid things!}