₦airaland Forum

The woman is not ready to leave.

He beats you but you born 5 children.

Mumu ...
You really deserve to be beaten

Anambra?
Their fathers have used them for money rituals

Free2Fly:
This is where you guys always get it wrong

Well,you can't blame me

I married a kind man.
My husband is very simple,soft spoken and humble man.
He may not rich but he is not poor.
We are just doing fine.

Even though,I still find it very difficult to be completely into him,for fear that he will start taking advantage of me and maltreating me.

She no die well.

Zero pity.

As usual,she had 4 children.
Women in abusive marriages are often very fertile.
The least number of children they have is 3

maxiuc:


Beat up my sister we go come your house give you serious flogging

If you are tired of the marriage send her home

Your sister will even join her husband to fight you
Or report you to elders that you want to kill her husband.

There is absolutely nothing you can do about it.
Women love their abusers.
Women love to remain married,no matter what . especially those who are churchy
Best thing is to advice her..Let her make her choice.

KingOfTheDamned:
Nigeria should be number one but most divorces happen out of courts with the husband and wife living in the same house like strangers

Or the man unofficially abandons the wife with the children and takes off with another woman

fullclub:
and i have 12 months to complete a programme. i have over 9000 pounds to pay as school fees.

the 3000 dollars i came with is almost exhausted. on expenses trying to settle in

school on my neck

i have a friend in Middlesbrough whose school wants to throw out this month end if he didn't pay some percentage of fees by month end

No need to complain and rant..Return to Nigeria ..the land with so many job opportunities

Unseen:
So you believed someone can have HIV for a whole year without severe symptoms

I don't want to go into the brainwashing WHO has been dishing out about this illness

Yes..As a matter of fact,many HIV positive people don't have symptoms and are diagnosed incidentally during routine medical checks,antenatal visits or attempts to donate blood.

At the initial stage,they may some flu like symptoms which in Nigeria is usually assumed to be malaria.
(This is the seroconversion stage)

Later on,they can be asymptomatic (dormancy stage) for years especially for people who do not have underlying conditions such as diabetes, malnutrition that can suppress their immunity.

Some may have intermittent on and off febrile illness ,feeling of unwellness,tiredness which they will keep taking antimalarials for.

When the virus continues to replicate and overwhelm the immune system,they start to develop subtle symptoms that are suspicious of immunosuppression..This can take many years.

And gradually,the person develops AIDS.

My knowledge and experience as a medical doctor.

honour7:
Let her go with the baby and marry a new wife, there is an 85 percent chance you have lost her

His problem is gone.
He should be happy.
Why marry a new wife when marriage doesn't benefit men?

macphilip:
HIV is overhyped and overrated.
Innocent people with cancer, will pray to switch diseases if possible.

Be a man!!!

HIV,itself,is a major risk factor for cancers.
Immunosuppression...Opens door for every other type of disease

drimzsmoke:
So ask yourself, if you should do it and it turned out positive, would she still marry you... Tell her you're not doing it and that's final!!!

With proper counselling and education,they can still get married if the Op is positive.
HIV is not a death sentence.
There are many scenarios where one partner is positive,the other is negative.
They are called Sero discordant partners.

Let him get tested.
Early diagnosis is always the key to managing chronic diseases.
Ignorance is not an excuse.
NOBODY should get married without HIV test.
Every pregnant woman at antenatal MUST be screened for HIV

Unseen:
Have you ever wonder about the possibility of having HIV for a whole year without symptoms but ordinary malaria will take you down in days...

I don't believe one can have hiv for a whole year without symptoms.

Op just relax... Nothing do you

Some malaria symptoms are seroconversion stage of HIV or sign of immunosuppression.m due to HIV.

Let him get tested

The woman is funny.

When you marry a man who has been married before,you should know that the ex-wife is never completely out of his mind,even if she was a "bad" woman.

If this man's first wife was alive,he would still be knacking her codedly.
She died,yet he can't let go completely.

As for me,men that I cancelled out of my life ..
Previously married and single father

I must be your first wife
My first child must be your first child
I can't deal with baggages from your previous relationships

KillIgbohoN0W:
Since when did it become illegal to have sex?

It's illegal to have sexual relations with your patients

Daystar7:
I don't really care about you or husband but what Iearnt from this ur statement is that men are nothing but problem bearers to you people, the same Man 'll be somewhere killing himself to make you happy and this is what he gets? So asides the whack fairly used tilapia smelling pussy you give him what else is his gain? Men make una shine una eyes ooo, na we dey make this idiots use us shine cos tell me what we really gain from this gender?

You are so pained.
The only option you have left is suicide.
You don't gain anything from women but you can't live without them.
Who is the idiot? Fool.ish boy

Jennyclay:
Rip to the departed soul

Over my dead body would I give my money to a man in the name of Love! God forbid it !! .

Take it or leave it, A man should do the spending. If he can’t spend on me let him go to hell for all I care.

Biko, the scammer should be caught and sentenced to life imprisonment or death ASAP!!

My sister..this is 5 years of marriage..I still find it very difficult to give my husband money.

But the man looks younger and fresher than her.

She looks 60+ and too skinny

MissSlimbody:
They don't give certificate of death, if the person wasn't on admission in the hospital up to 24hrs before the death.


I didn't know this until last year, when I lost my brother.

They will give a note to allow deposition of the body in the mortuary,even if the person was brought in dead and was never a patient in the hospital

Segzy19:
This is naija o.
All these grammar wey you dey type no dey follow o

It follows,that's the normal thing.
I certified many brought in dead cases while working in Nigeria..
It's not a big deal

iswallker:
Because he died in his house - not the hospital...

Even if someone dies outside the hospital,the body can be taken to the hospital, especially a govt facility.
It will be reported as a case of BID

Police report for what exactly?

When someone dies, the hospital where the person died or was taken to already dead ,issues a notification/certificate of death,for the body to be deposited in a mortuary.

What did Baba need police report for?

This particular ethnic group and criminality are 5&6

Imagine a 51 year old woman who is supposed to be a role model for young people.

Sometimes,I don't know if I should be happy that Obi didn't win the election.

Because I don't understand what would have become of Nigeria,having a President from the tribe that normalizes fraud

Newdawn30:
You guys have said it all.

2 years ago after me and my ex broke up, the cheat. I was still healing from heartbreak. I took up a lifestyle of drinking almost every evening at a particular hotel and bar. I slept with 4 of the ladies that worked there. Their rates were cheap too. I normally buy them drinks sha on a daily. I could have made it 5 just that, the last lady no fine at all. Even my highness still see say the girl no follow. I wasn't sexually attracted to her. it got to a point she told me to take a room for the night, that we will split the bill.Just for us to sleep together. The others told her they had slept with me so she wanted me to Mark her register

Thank God for my life. Man don play some rough play before o

Girls that work in such establishment are easily enticed to sleeping with customers, because the salary they pay this girls is nothing to write home about.

And you that slept with those ladies,are a saint..
Continue

99thEnemy:
No be this boy wey been hammer from sportybet?

No mind am.
A lot of so called punters wey dey hammer are closet yahoo boys and ritualists,using gambling to cover up.

Jennyclay:
Rip to the departed soul . Her only crime was to fall in love.

Biko, attach a picture of the murderer so that we can identify him when we see him.

All what Nigerian men knows how to do is to rape and murder. .

Bunch of animals everywhere!!

She was greedy.

Did she ever bother to find out how a young man of 26 years or even younger when they started dating,made so much money?

Of course NOT!

Bliss52:




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The Adrenaline rush is like taking cocaine

Bet responsibly

Never follow punters that work for betting sites awon Ekiti pikin

Confirm your games from international analyst


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Glad to know someone also thinks some punters esp that Ekitipikin work for betting sites.

Jeon:
First time seeing a Man worrying about pregnancy.

Wonders shall never cease.
Alpha male in the mud

densiks:
Why wasn't she rushed to another hospital if they experienced rejection on arrival.

I was once a victim of an attack on the road in 1998 and my father rushed me to a private hospital.

I can recall the doctor was making some demands before he could commence treatment while I was losing blood.

My father quickly rushed me to another facility and from there an emergency doctor was summoned and the hospital services were activated to attend to me.

I survived that experience because we did not allow the system to decide my fate.

I believe if she was immediately rushed to a private facility, she possibly could have survived.

May her soul rest in Peace, several people failed her.

The lady was already dead on arrival.
It was a case of BID- Brought in dead.
But the sympathisers insisted she was alive and refused to leave the hospital.

How can a taxi driver be the person to certify someone dead or alive?

sureboykris:
Na wa
There are many reason this could happen
Number one is that the hospital might not even have the capacity to take care of such emergency

There's also a possibility the lady is already dead . But hospital staff should learn to communicate properly.

As for police report, hospitals have been asked to treat while waiting for report. But fear of harassment from police won't let them

In all , Nigeria has a long way to go

I also think same.
I will find out from my colleague who works there.

It's possible she was BID...but the doctors didn't communicate properly

BoldBrainz:
Haba😂!

This one is too much na. Or has an Akwa Ibom man slept with you before?

Tufiakwa! How can I sleep with an animal?