₦airaland Forum

Chabihel:
If he wasn't caught he will never be sorry. Imagine him apologizing and saying this is not who he wants to be.

In my opinion it is better to separate than caught pain to someone intentionally.

Nigerian man will NEVER apologize.
He will claim right.

3kay945:
Though, the way he left this earth it isn't something to be proud of, but hope you men here abusing him note that such death can occur while he is with his wife.

Meaning he had underlying health issues. Very High Blood pressure if I must say.

So make we learn from this and not only to throw innocenty words.

Such death won't occur while with his wife.
Because he won't take drugs or any drinks to impress his wife.

He died trying to get PEACE OF MIND,the type his wife couldn't give him.

Tflex01:
Obi is the Vice Chancellor of University of Calabar but Iniobong can't become Vice Chancellor in Owerri lol

Yorubas in Lagos are taking the right step in curbing these inconsistencies.

Calm down
The woman is from Cross Rivers State

Collect 2 more characters

Medical Doctor.

This profession is a complete joke in Nigeria

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SeriouslySense:
This is serious, i wonder why you choose to avoid church totally.

It's my choice.
There is nothing special about attending church.
People who attend church are not better off.
Not in character,morals,academics,health,finances,marriage and even fertility.

2019elections:
When I told someone I last went to church DEC 31st, 2016, he said how have I been surviving. Well, I have been surviving.

Last time attending church service was 3rd August 2014.

I avoided church wedding ,as well.

Had traditional and court wedding.

28 years with all these wrinkles despite all the money.
Hmmmm

merits:
People from that region always take their widows for granted I don't know why.

Not just widows..women,generally.
People from that region have zero regards for women.

Nothing concern village people.
They must chop.
They will say it's tradition.
Na who die lose, unfortunately

NiceLegs:
That one is Tinubu's business.

My own now to find way comot from this country.

Thank God someone wants to help me secure fully funded Scholarship to study 2-years MSC Social Work in UK.

Atleast I will be in UK and won't pay any school fees.

Once I graduate, I get a good job as a Social Worker in UK and be earning fat salary in pounds.

I don leave una for Tinubu.

Since una talk say una no want Peter Obi.

No problem.

Tinubu till 2030.

I pray it works out very well for you.
I left 6 years ago.
My happiness now is that if I send £500 to Naija ,it's a million naira ,at least.
If you get a job and you are hardworking,you will be comfortable in the UK.
Don't mind the negativity you sometimes read on social media
It's still better than Nigeria

Hahahaha.

Men and sex.

To the point of raping animals.

What lack of self control will do to men ehn.

What manner of shamelessness!

Lucky they didn't kill her.
Nigerian men would have justified her death by concluding that she went for hook up and was murdered.

Many Nigerians are walking around with severe uncontrolled hypertension.

Most likely he suffered a stroke.

82 year old grandpa dies..
So sad?

Seriously?
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Nothing but advice for a man who is considering choosing between 2 women he is dating.
That's a good one and there is nothing wrong with it

Let's keep up with this same energy when the table turns.

This one dey learn.

He thinks Nigerian men send you.

People that can abandon 4 children under 10 years and move on.

Dey play!

omooba969:
Ok cool. 🙂

Yeah..
Good that you Gerrit.

omooba969:
Excuse me Ma, you omitted your husband.

"Husband" is not constant.

Myself and my children are what I have.

Husband belongs to the streets.

horlique:
So you starved your Man since January..
Hmmmm People de this world hahahahahah
.. lol..

Is sex food? Water or oxygen?

Serves her right.
You don't have money but you have 5 children.
I have not allowed my husband touch me this year and the world has not ended

I have 3 children..and can afford to take care of myself and them.

You poor women be breeding like pigs with unreasonable men.
Tueh

wellmax:
No. It only happens in the SE. Children killing parents or their siblings over land.

You are free to dig the internet to look for one.

Even if you find it will be in ratio 1:10. You guys worship money and worship land.

The exact ratio I gave him in my reply.
I hadn't even seen this yet

DmonSlayer10:
Everyone on Nairaland was Expecting you#beerfraud# to say something like this;

You mean you haven't heard similar stories like this from Ogbomosho in Oyo state,from Ikare-Ekiti,from Sabo-gida Ora in Edo,from Kenkia in Katsina even from Zimbabwe or Kenya...

Why did you choose to narrow it down to "Dem Dem"?

Dem use these "Dem Dem" do you?

Self-respect is key to respect

For every 1 case of such occuring elsewhere,10 would have happened in "Dem Dem" land.

This disturbing incident of men maltreating their mothers is very common among developers.
Because men from there have total disrespect and disregard for women including their own mothers.

Any day my husband tries this ,I'm calling the cops on him.

Is sex food?
I'm done with childbirth,I can do without sex for the rest of my life

Not men

Everytime,they want to have sex.

Despite all the warnings on this platform,they are still spending their resources to marry.
And even getting scammed by their gender.
Tufiakwa!

LagosOrigin:
Na the wife dey front or the husband because I'm not understanding if the person is a man or woman

You know very well that the wife is in front but you just want to body shame the woman,in the usual way ,that young men like you disrespect women on social media platforms.

You have been noticed.
Continue.

jerrybabasam:
Nigeria men pls if you know that you don't treat your wife very very well in Nigeria, pls and pls don't take her along with you to abroad. Most of these women misbehaving overseas are doing so because of the manner and ways their husbands treated them while they were in Nigeria. A stitch in time saves ......

With all the bile they throw on social media,how many Nigerian men actually treat their wives very well in Nigeria?

Liazz:
Am I being unreasonable being mad at my wife?
We relocated abroad 3 years ago but she isn't helping to settle any of the bills.

We both are gainfully employed though I earn much than she does. Our monthly expenditure is about £2000 and she doesn't care to help in any way. I foot all bills making me struggle to save while she keeps all she earns to herself. We also had a loan of over 10 thousand pounds to settle when we relocated, she didn't help with a dime till I paid all bits by bits which took me almost 2 years.

Despite this, I still help with house chores like taking care of our kids, home cleaning and even washing dishes though she does all the cooking.
I've expressed my displeasure several times but she keeps insisting I can't force her to financially assist, it's my job as I'm the husband. She seems convinced she isn't doing any wrong and no sign of remorse whatsoever.

I financed our relocation 100% without her contributing a dime.

This is causing a strain in the marriage and I am thinking if I am unreasonable in my demand, am I?
Your comments are highly welcome.

You didn't add where she is denying you sex ?

This aspect is almost always part of your complaints.

How do I get 40 characters?
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