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goodnite jare. im turning in now too. see y'all tomorrow? bye.

i once went out with a white guy. see daggers thrown my way all the time. black guys would actually yell out at us in anger. asking me if i was too good for them now. it was crazy. hypocrites. 

GNature:
@spoilt

lol.

Yes, there are lots of naija single ladies, just as you described around here. My friend's wife said when she was at howard university, they went without boyfriends (she & her friends) for so long because there weren't any naija guys available.

I really feel for you naija sisters here in the states. I heared the story is the same in the UK.

_{greetings to david and everyone}

dont feel sorry for me oh! im not looking!

not all alliances with white women is for sex. but right from when i was young growing up in naija, young boys as young as ten would say "when i grow up and go abroad im going to marry a white woman" as if she's a prize, trophy or aspiration. its sad. its sadder cos they actually grow up and do it!

its not stringing along anything. dont we deserve the right to get to know a guy anymore before we fall into his bed flat on our backs with legs wide open? i think we do. let him vex if he wants. its our body. not just any random soul should come and slobber all over us.
my mom once told me that a guy will always leave you when you hold off on sex and go where he'll get it easily.it has proven true.
they see it as playing hard to get. they really do expect sex at the first hello.

[quote author=cute-ass link=topic=49564.msg1054575#msg1054575 date=1177042481]exactly what i had in mind, since i started following the discussion.

in one word: INTIMIDATION

Infact, its all a triangle, or should i say rectangle

some black girls, want "their" strong black bothers, somewhite girls too want the black one because they know their own guys are nothing compared to our "black brothers"

but some of our "so called black brothers" want and need the white girls to "belong", to feel among, when they're walking on the street with a white girl, its as if they should be given a microphone so that no soul will fail to notice his "promotion"
sorry to say this ooh, but atimes when you look at the white girl that your black brother chose over the ro-die-for black sister, you can't help but cry at what "being black" has done to your brother.

and the some of the white guys, don't want the black girls, why? afterall their fellow blacks do not want them, why should the? and you come to see that when a white guy eventually dates a black girl, he takes the prttiest amongst all unlike our brothers

as far as the black brother is not dating a white girl just to be "one of them", then its ok,but if its the other way round then its a critical situation ooh!!![/quote]my sister. you nailed it. na real microphone. THANKS

@Gnature
nigerians. are you interested?
im kidding!

i guess these naija guys are so used to getting everything easily from white women who truly are less inhibited as per their culture (no pun intended) that they no longer know the meaning of playing hard to get. if you dont 'drop" on the first date they accuse you of playing hard to get.its silly.

anyway some naija guys still go home and marry so there's hope yet.  

davidylan:
Golden rule if you must date a white chic; she must not be fat!!
So many fat chics with black guys now its hilarious!

those are the only ones they can get. we never see them with the kind we see on tv. unless the nba stars sha!

i have so many friends here. well read, good jobs, well mannered no men. i mean they cud be invisible to black guys. white guys just think you are a booty call nothing more. they are so sad.

those are the ones they call "reserved for africans"
these girls dont have a snowball's chance in hell of snagging their fellow white man but trust naija guys they grab them and treat them like queens!  

if you use a razor, never use one twice. if a clipper sterilize before and after each use. and shave in the direction of hair growth. sometimes razor bumps are just due to sensitive skin, you really can't do anything. you may want to consider letting your side burns grow and keeping a small goatee

poor black women rejected by black and white men alike. pathetic. born black, born female.

yeah, i see some naija guys putting up with crap that they would never take from a nigerian woman from white girls and they become so meek like errand boys. its just wierd. they just want to be seen in public with these girls. its like an endorsement or validation of their arrival. its like "see me . im with a white girl" or "i can be with a white girl".

davidylan:
I would never insinuate that.

way to go girl!

na true oh! black women are so close minded. tell them to marry a white man and they'll go yuk! they want a "strong black brother" who has no eyes for them and who would pick a different kind of woman anyday. its real wierd. its a funny situation.

ha. i didnt know 2face has left them. hmmmm. they have to imprison sign on another hot artist to make money for them.

i think its time for black women to be more open and look outside our race to find love cos statistically there just arent enough eligible black guys to go round. and with the number of white girls marrying our men there's a pool of untapped hot fresh white guys out there waiting to be had.

did you know that 70% of all african american women are unmarried ? huh? did you know that? even for those who are educated to the hilt. the number one reason? "our men" marry from other races (not that there's anything technically wrong with that)
black women are more likely to want to settle with a black man.(poor them)
the oldest excuse of our men in the book? "at my level (ask me which level that is?) there arent many black women i can choose from".
that arguement is too tired!

they give you al the blah blah blah reasons why they have no choice but to marry akata or oyibo. na them sabi. hanging a white girl on their arms makes them feel better about themselves. i blame the slave trade for the way black guys are in awe of white women. (that's fodder for another thread!)

cinnamon:
I 've said it repeatedly,people should stop trusting these so-called pastors.They lead people astray a lot.As for the girl,if she's confused about an 8 year old relationship,then she needs to get her head examined.Anyway anyone seen this blog.lindaikeji..com.It's da'bomb.U guys need to check it out.

pastor used his position as trusted confidant to influence things. not good

n.b do you work for linda ikeji now? heard she did something reallyyyyyyyy bad.

davidylan:
my dear its not that easy o. I'm hunting for babyosisi's sister. I want to eat igbo soup.
Besides we havent made enough money. All these naija chics think about is hard cold cash.

igbo soup ke? you will have to earn babyosisi's sister. she wont pick an anyhow guy for her you know!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=49564.msg1054427#msg1054427 date=1177037889]Thinking about marriage now - If I stay here i'm screwed o! It won't even be funny at all.
I don't even think that there are any good naija guys in yankee anymore.

@ Topic - money, money, money[/quote]all the good naija guys want white women. story of our lives!

deodorants and anti-perspirants may not work. these days people who can afford them inject some stuff into their arm pits to stop the flow. its not cheap though. aside that you can only carry a change of shirt everywhere you go and have your roll ons on you all the time. nothing wrong with sweating but make sure every other hour you freshen up. women have a strong sense of smell.

@davidylan
you sef make you go marry make person cook for you when you return from work.

tell him naairalanders are greeting him. abi you dey chat on this forum secretly?

i wouldnt advice anyone to f#@k with neelsel. she carries a .22 in her bag.
but truly a waist winding session with akon will calm her frayed nerves.

i really dont see a lot of hausa people in the u.s sha. they dont have that desperation of travelling out.

50 students in hijab. would have been a sight. them for arrest you and your friend!  

i was just messing with you and debosky. who gives a rat's ass what nairalanders think?

@davidylan
you fit hold interview for uk sef. you dont need to go to naija to get a long line like the kind for embassy. london chicks will happily queue up for you.

forget that hijab oh. my friends served in the north and they say they had never seen so much P&$%Y thrown their way in their lives. they almost had to get a catchers mitt!  

the women don't want anyone to liberate them from wearing that hijab. they love it. it helps in their sexploits to keep them anonymous. afterall you fit pass your papa for road on your way to "nlaru" and he wont know!
anyway that said. i dint know hausa girls thought lagos was all that.