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Buhahaha.  

Thats our Nigeria.
Yet people insist home is best.
I guess if you are used to the commotion and filth its ok.

OMG! She's here!


Congrats Mr and Mrs Siena.

Mrs Siena is smiling 10 minutes later?

I have seen men walk around with obvious erections
It is an embarrassing sight
One man in my church choir was even singing with obvious erections for several Sundays until he quit the choir
Maybe the Pastor and elders asked him to stop since he wasn't ministering to anyone and his bulge was a distraction.
I pretended I didn't see it until my husband commented,in fact at first I was convinced that maybe I was just seeing things
but true true d broda was having full fledged erection and was trying to cover it with one hand and holding the mic with anoda
I don't know the sister that was making him that way since my church was a conservative one.

@ Osisi,

A well endowed man cant hide.

The spirit moving in your church must have excited him no end. If the pastors told him to quit, they were just jealous. That would definitely have helped the church service go by faster for me.

They better win something.

because their beer bellies and K legs are an impediment to being swift. They are as unathletic as ever.

notsure:
he's 28 now and we are 6 yrs apart. We plan on meeting in another country and he will pay for his ticket and I will pay for mine. He is working now and has been working for years. He stopped scamming years ago but then again I am not there so don't know 100% other then I can tell he doesn't have much money, he's surviving.
Their is ways I can tell, by what he can buy, what clothes he wears, jewelery he might wear, the car he drives.
None of these things are fancy. Definately is a complicated situation for me because I am dealing with being hurt, and dealing with the feelings I have for him. He's a wonderful guy and has been by my side offering support and being there for me no matter what. Scammers are human beings with emotions too. Not all of them are cold hearted. People make mistakes in life and will have to answer to god one day. I am not here to pass judgement.
FYO - I am a successful educated women who owns her own business and home.

Which you are fixing to lose. These women never learn.

kpolli:
the guy just lost his first born, he needed a place to grieve,
wats wrong wit u ppl, if he were to cry everytime in front of the girl, u ppl wud call him chicken
he went to cry alone, your now assuming things


UP 190's latest policy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UP MEN

Oh please for the love of Mike!
How heartbroken is he that he cant reach out to his woman whose body suffered the actual trauma?

Up men? Seriously?

nomoneydow:
get your wife to gently shave it off, or trim it

man tell her to be careful on the balls

Why does the wife have to do it?
Shave your own balls.

You got pregnant after two months?
Condoms and birth control pills are being handed out for free by the fistful by the govt and NGOs. What is wrong with you? You cant take a new casual relationship and force it to become happy ever after. He's feeding you a bunch of crap. Count your losses and move on with your life. You're better of without him.

Im sorry for your miscarriage though. Take care.

@OP

Do you know Leilah?
You can compare notes on taking abuse from men and doing nothing about it. .

I leave my husband to his own devices.
He knows what is at stake for the family that we've struggled to build. That I believe helps him make good decisions.

Do men still dangle marriage before women aand give ultimatums?

My dear take your cherry and run. He's an i.d.iot.

Im tired of talking about marriage. I'd rather conserve that energy and actually work on the marriage that i'm in. [s]All these younglings fantasizing about marriage sef. [/s]

I'd be lying if I said I understand what you're getting at.

Fhemmmy:
Order from Nigeria . . . . .
Team up with some friends or family and order from Nigeria, might be cheaper, when you order, i beg add some gala to it

When I was in Naija, I tried gala again. It tasted like sawdust. It was not the gala I remember.

Which of them is Chinwe?
I'm assuming the attached pic is relevant to your post.

She needs to stick to wigs with bangs.

Much ado about identity cards. People are hungry.

jani30:
Thanks everyone for all your advice, but for others i want you to know that it is not easy for someone to come online for
some advice. not any kind but about marriage, all in the name of wanting someone to talk her into having an affair, its not an easy thin to do
when i came into this thing called marriage. i heard my fears but becos of the love i felt i thot its just one of those cold feet stuff ,
little did i know that it will come to a day that all my fears will come crushing down on me. for those of you who thinks i should change my looks,
there is nothing wrong with my looks and i must say our sex life is very good but outside that we do not have any relationship, we dont talk abt anythin ,
we sit in different sitting rooms cos he likes cheaters while i love to read novels, i pray what ever reason that brought us together will keep us. but for
me i will still be there becos of my kids, one is 8yrs while the other will be 5yrs. again thanks to all of you.
cheers

Is he getting his tips? . I'm just kidding.

nosmas:
Just out of curiousity,
for those who met there wife a virgin or those who desire to, Do you hope to celeberate her virginity or do you celeberate it at all?
then for the virgin in the house, would you like your husband to celeberateit at all?
I celecerate my wife virginty on every of her birthday by buying her a symbolic white towel, i do this so as to also encourage my daughter in future.

How does she celebrate yours? Im assuming you arrived the marriage unspoiled. If not , brown towels for you every year.

akwaowoudo:
I'm in a forum called nairaland; i take it for a credible one. If it has to be demented glory; then certainly your brain is demented. That's the proof of the pudding diagnosed in the eating.

?
Easy now Mister. I dont know you.

Your girl is full of it. Isnt your best man supposed to be your best buddy?
Like play play you'll let her put her ex in a suit and make his stand beside you?