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get your dane gun ready to guard aicha's honor. she's a knockout! or a sword to stave off hoardes of teenage boys will do.

can he afford one?

cute kids. big smiles! they must be happy and stable! wish you guys much happiness!

why the fuss about white girls? deal with your self esteem issues so you dont need a white girl specifically to make you feel like a man.

interesting. im going to try the butter thing. it had better work.my hair needs an s.o.s.

which room?

davidylan:
ok got your point on the long courtship thing.
Not really, just noticing a lot more of the girls here already have kids.

like who?

debosky:
pastor david, no be u dey claim babes a few posts back?

blowing hot and cold at the same time.

you forgot a big bag of garri!

Everbright:
I think they should both leave their churches and start attending another church
or better still a mosque

abi!

if my man touches my phone i'll throw a bitch fit! i dont mess with his phone so i dont want his paws on mine!

make sure he hasnt reached male menopause!

no. dont even try to go there!

davidylan:
Going by your analogy if you have a short courtship then you can expect to become room mates by 20 years of marriage?

I favour longer courtships, i can't propose to you without at least 1yr courtship under my belt and even beyond that i'd expect a good 6months to 1yr before we can talk of a wedding.
The longer the courtship (for me!) the better it gets.

Is it me or am i begining to sense there are a lot more married women on this forum lately? No single girls to chase again.

when i say long courtship i dont mean a year or 2 or 3. i mean like 6 to 10 years. haba! that is long.
and so what if more married women are on nairaland? did you come here looking for a wife?

@ omoge
ive stopped using glue on my hair. it sticks to the hair for days after taking off the weave and even after several washes. stick to sewing the weaves onto the tracks
yaki has different grades. the cheaper ones tend to tangle and cant withstand several uses like the more expensive ones. you can google pictures of rihanna. girlfriend uses some correct weaves. not cheap stuff like venus and serena williams. (im sorry but i had to just say it. they have annoyed me for so long with their badly done hair). if they cant maintain a weave let them stick to their natural hair.

im impressed too. i always knew we had good guys no matter what people say! thank you guys!

omoge:
@ spoilt

Can you give me name of a good (luscious) weaves and where I can get it?
do you go with glueing or have it sewn in?

thanks sister.

i don't use white girl weaves which are too fine and straight. i use yaki or weaves which look like natural hair. they must have kinks in them.(but they don't tangle ) you should be ready to cough up about $33.99 per pack and i use 2 packs.  its worth every brown cent.
the thing with weaves is that the cheap ones tend to get tangled and dry and they loose their glossy texture which aint good for your sexy! i don't stick to any one brand. i try them all. i buy from asian stores. isnt it funny how its asians that sell weave on for black women? 

grab the bank job with both hands and both feet. use it as a stepping stone. at least you get to eat well while looking for what you really love.

he wont even acknowledge you and you are still botherering with him?

Jaguar1:
Believing me is your choice. I am not trying to impress anybody here. My fiancee is not even on nairaland and I made it clear that am not searching for a babe. I already have one that I love and I am content with her knowing also that am entitled to only one woman. If u check my profile, u will see that am no kid, I just happen to have time on my hands now otherwise I did be too busy blabbing. That's afar as that can go but seriuosly I own my third leg not the way round. I tell it what to do and where to go, its all in our mind.
Talking about side attraction, if I give you the option of having $1m to jump of the balcony of a sky scrapper would you rather jump because the side attraction ($1m) is so tempting? I think that the issue is about setting your piorities right. Over the years I have learnt to look at every situation critically and consider the long term effect even if I had split seconds to decide. This is not the place for me to narrate my ordeals with women but standing up to the truth and doing the right thing will always put you ahead in life.
Finaaly, I don't know whom you are but don't let you third leg ruin you and just before you start getting other ideas, I like sex too . Yes I said it but it must be with the right person at the right time.

didnt i tell y'all that we still have good guys left!
Godbless jare!

lecturing will drive you to the brink. so will banking. pick your choice!

how am i supposed to know?

i am at a point in my career where im at my wits end.im tired of being stressed up and wired so tight. i am considering so many ideas and career changes. im not the best adviser for you.

im happy for you. i wish you many more good things ahead! good to know you found someone you love!

Sista:
@Spoilt


I see you reside in Los Angeles, I will be there in the month of August for about 4 days, If you want, I could come by your house and hook you up or you can come to me, which ever you may be comfortable with. I know how to manage nappy hair, I was the one who did my two little sisters hair when they were small and to this day, I am still doing their hair. They both had so called nappy hair and I had the so called ideal hair but I knew how to take care of their hair.

Let me know if you would like for me to do your hair, I won't charge you, I just want to show you that your hair is not as bad as you may feel it to be.

how sweet of you my sister.
my hair is permed but still stubborn. the way i deal with it is to wear a weave. long luscious weave.
it works for me. but thank you dear. how very gracious of you!  

i dont know what power outage is over here. we froze our wedding cake and ate it on our first anniversary. yep. we hav it that good. in naija that feat would not be possible.

no brainer. get your own place. its hard living with your own parents as an adult talk less of uncle! explain to your uncle that its nothing personal. besides bankers close late. very soon he'll start complaining.

ive been hearing what recharge cards are causing in nigeria.its as if they used recharge card to swear for some girls. na wa oh!

IBEXY:
I'd like to add that one of the most annoying things I have seen is a naija guy with a heavy local accent trying to speak in British cockney accent. Its worse in those ones who have spent donkey years here and all of a sudden discover they are talking to a JJC. My brother, its pathetic and terribly tormenting to the ear drums. Once you did not learn these accents growing up, the most you can do is a fake unconvincing mimic.

my brother you are right about it being tormenting to the ears! i detest people who fake an accent. it kills me. its awful. and they dont know how stupid they sound. they sound like they have hot yam in their mouths. its my per peeve!

oyinboaja:
YET

With the wrong attitude, it wont be long till the earth collapses

my friend, a marriage where a woman is older is no different from one where she is younger. other people will be drinking panadol for the couple's headache!