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@ 4play
i would. ive always been drawn to guys who are inexperienced. there's something about a guy who has been round the block and back that puts me off. nasty is the word!

@ topic
i dont understand why some guys act all righteous. A lot of you patronize prostitutes.Havent you heard the old saying that when you sleep with a prostitute, in that one encounter you have successfully slept with every single person she has been with? so if you've slept with a prostitute b4 then its no biggie marrying one!

@topic
he's a jerk! she should be thankful. she'll find someone who appreciates her for her.

@ sexxxxy
kpele love. i lost my older brother . just so you know, the pain never really goes away. time just makes it more bearable. life must go on.

@sil
by the way ,your profile says you are 23.my advice to you? stop fabricating stuff!

@ sil
thats a low-down-dirty -shame! how could you? solve your problem yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@topic
you think she wont wail if you tell her after the burial? such stupidity!

@ topic
he obviously isnt ready. its a man's choice to marry whenever he wants. its just unfortunate that they get into a commited relationship, keep hinting at marriage, tell everyone you are his wife only to get annoyed when after 7 years you start complaining because you still dont have a ring on your finger. the bad part is the longer you stay with him the more other guys interested in you are driven away! . they think you are already taken.

i think you should call it off. and when brotha man is done with schooling and all his blah blah blah then he can come back for you. (if you arent married with 3 children by then!)

@ blackmamba
na true you talk oh! heaven go fall!!!!!!!!!!

don't worry girlie, he prolly has something keeping him busy, but he ll turn around sooner or later, i have a cousin that left his high school sweet heart and came to the US, was here for 8 years, keeping in touch with his sweetheart, but there were times he would go for months without calling her, he dated other women in the US, i guess to preoccupy




@bluenubian. thats your post and i definitely dont agree with you oh! so are you saying she should wait here in naija even if he's seeing other people and no matter how long it takes for him to come around to marrying her? huh?
that's difficult considering the fact that the same rules dont apply to women and she probably wont be dating here freely while she waits for him. besides if he truly loves her no matter how long they are apart ,he should be celibate and if he cant be, then let everyone answer their father' s name and move on. no use having a farce for a relationship. people often think that as long as they end up getting married its all good. i dont agree.

teju-oso
dont let gifts blind you. he obviously has an anger problem. with guys that have explosive anger, its just a matter of time before they start hitting you. my dear escape with your life before they bury you with those expensive bracelets he's giving you. gifts have never equalled love. a word is enough for the wise!

@sweetypie

being in a long distance relationship is the hardest thing on earth. if there is even the smallest shred of doubt in your mind about his actions, then my dear its time to move on. its not that difficult for a man to pick up the phone and make a 2 minute call to see how you are doing( no matter how busy he claims he is) A lot of naija guys go abroad see white women, become fascinated and forget you back in naija. a man in naija is worth ten in obodo oyibo! dont waste your youth waiting for a man who's not forthcoming!

@omoge
you're funny. all tortoises are bald. have you ever seen any with hair?

@ nferyn

there is a God and the bible is his word to man.
No one has ever successfully refuted the Bible. Many mock the Bible but no one who has done in-depth research, honestly examining the evidence for the Bible's inspiration and truthfulness, has been able to disprove the Bible.

Who but God could produce such a book?

Hundreds of prophecies of future events were recorded in the Bible -- some of them centuries before fulfillment -- and not one detail of any of them has ever failed!

Could man -- especially dozens of men, writing in different countries and different times -- foretell the future so accurately? Never! Only God could do such a tremendous thing.

No one but God could reveal the future in such detail, often hundreds of years before the events occurred. Not only the future of cities, nations, and the world, but also concerning the future birth, ministry, death, and resurrection of Christ.

The chance that all these predictions could come true exactly as written is beyond most human's comprehension, giving to any honest enquirer undeniable proof that God inspired the writing of the prophecies in the Bible.

@topic

the list is so long. i dunno where to even begin. an african man wants

a woman that will bear sons. (without that, my dear no deal oh!)
a cook, (he likes to eat la cuisine always)
a washerwoman, (don't even dream of taking clothes to the drycleaners)
a tailor, (to patch the children's clothes so that they last forever and a day!)
an accountant ( to manage the crayfish money he gives her)
a sex machine, (na on demand oh)
a farmer (you must be strong enough to hoe the farm with your children)

the list is endless. i could type all day.
he wants it all. he expects everything from one woman.the same woman. and without complaints too. so goodluck in your search!

@nferyn
i believe in miracles, i have seen them happen. its okay if you dont believe. you're entiltled actually. but i know when something extra-ordinary happens to me and i cant ascribe it to man. and oh, as for baal, he was shamed a long time ago.need i repeat the story?

no wonder!

@dblock
hehehehehe. .
the fact that your 2 eyes snap open from sleep every morning is a miracle in itself. you dont have to see a corpse in the morgue resurrect in order to believe. its all around you in the little things.

@dblock
it does. i am spoilt. so do you believe in miracles too?

@dblock
i remember vaguely. i just dont remember which particular post that is. dont mind me jare. i say it as it is. so you stalked me here to annoy me abi?

@dblock
piss me off ke? wetin i do you? cool down oh!

@ igbowife
prepare your self.its amusing you are so eager to go. hope you feel the same way for your second trip because naija is very different from austria.
the intention is not to discourage or scare you but its a whole new world out there. i wish you luck.
and oh, there's no magic to finances. you just have to save money.

@seun
who was trying to bully you back into your faith? funny! when i'm low i watch sitcoms and that doesnt work? any other tips?? do you plan to raise your kids the same way? just curious.
you must liase with nferyn a great deal. he must be ur other inspiration aside from the great tai solarin.