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shapey:
my husband had to do an about turn when he heard of his sister's latest drama.he came back,we went to the house together and sorted out his sister's stuff.it's now in storage.

That's what i'm talking about! That's how to be a man. Whoever is not for you is against you. Dont matter if its a blood relative she has just got to go. Abeg make you go enjoy your husband. Ding-Dong the biaaaatch is gone!  

she's lucky she's not my sister inlaw!
i would have pulverized her in one micro second. She'll know that butter is not the food of a monkey!

debosky:
the evil younger sister was an agent of the devil in all this. Opening your mouth to call your own brother's wife a LovePeddler!

Oh no she didnt!
Didnt even see that part! . Gaddam! How does a guy sit back and not shield his wife when she's under attack abeg?

fire engine red?
I'LL BE HERE FRIDAY NITE WAITING FOR PICTURES SO YOU BETTER REPRESENT.

D-reloaded:
Um I agree that the mother is going overboard by trying to keep shapey from her husband at the moment but in a way do you really blame her?

no, cant blame her. she's not going overboard. dude has to get his priorities straight.

ARE THEY SAYING ATIKU GOT RICH BY HONEST WORK?

@shapey
ha! i read your most recent post and dearie i feel your pain. Marriage is a strange thing. You think you know that person so well. It only takes one incident like this and all we thought we knew flies out of the window.  You are right to want some space. everyone is touchy and sensitive right now. Besides you do have to worry for your safety.  
Let your husband have time to think and decide if his brood of vipers relatives are more important than his wife and the marriage he has with you.

I cant blame you for feeling betrayed. Every woman likes to think that when the chips are down her husband will even lay down his life to protect her. When your husband fights for you it brings him new respect in your eyes. I remember there have been situations where my husband has had to fight for me .I've seen him pissed beyond belief. He has told them off several times. Yes. Told them to mind their   business and leave his wife the   alone. He was mad as hell and told me that he  hated meddlesome relatives and any time and any day he would choose his wife over his family in a heartbeat. He has told me that several times. I know he means it. I would never want that occasion to arise where one is forced to pick. But i know my husband's security is my comfort. This must be a shocker for you to deal with.  

Having said that I thank God you have a mother. A real mother who will waste no time in plucking out her daughter from a marriage which is going so wrong so fast. (for that you should at least be thankful) because many parents would rather their daughters stayed in a bad marriage than bring 'shame' to the family by returning and that is the truth.

I believe in prayer. Have you tried it? Your husband still loves you but this is a test that may make or break this marriage. Dont cry yourself to death. Luckily when you both get back to london it will be just both of you. i'm assuming his gagool will be gone. you can iron things out.

is it free? cos i'll i be watching.

I dont blame her mother for whisking her away. My mother would do the same until my husband grows a spine.
Its funny how things have been blown out of proportion. I confess i laughed when i read the 360 degrees thing. It was funny! It see how this could easily have been my marriage in trouble. Except that my husband would forgive me if i begged and pleaded and said sorry. A real man does not sit by and nurse malice while wifey suffers in anguish. To what gain abeg? After all said and done the poisonous inlaws will take their leave to go spread their bile elsewhere. leaving you with what? a broken unhappy home.

Its very easy for an unemployed man to resign himself to fate and be discouraged.
When you are unemployed, your full time job should should be looking for a job. You should go out armed with resumes, pounding the streets looking for employment. You should also on the other hand be resourceful as to how to start a business or something. One year is too long not to make 10 kobo. children do need to be fed oh! .

I went to school with moji. She no dey fry puff puff at all!

dove22:
I dated him 4 over 4 years only for him to turn around and cheat on me with my best friend.Well he came back some months later to ask for forgiveness and i asked him 4 a hundred thousand naira with which to sort myself out in school, He readily gave me the money and 1 wk after,he came to visit me in school and i gave him the boot with my boyfriend around.

my dear you did well .but you should have asked for more!

red light special in bed last night!

Her sister inlaw has obviously poisoned some minds., I feel your pain dear poster. At least you went for the burial if nothing else. If your husband cannot protect you then it is finished. Shame on any man that allows his family to make his wife miserable while he folds his hands.

run for your life. no trust, then what's the point?

holusola:
Hello, house can someone please advice me?presently i have a lady friend who is thirty-four years old,banker ACA,ACIT,certified system auditor and writing CFA PRESENTLY, and wants marriage desperately.The truth is i like her because she's got brain but i don't want anything other than that.i'm 28yrs a banker and a chartered accountant.

I told her several times but she kept adamant. please what do i do?

she's not for you.

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Siena:
Anything's possible!

As if! anyway, I like to see people commited to their own cause! gives you reason to wake up and bound out of bed!

You have to be looking for marriage where it is likely to be found.
After ten years i dont think anyone can accuse you of not being patient. Besides even if he married you, you dont want to be stuck with a man who has no ambitions or goals. sweetie get astepping!

This project no be small thing!
siena i get one jalopy wey you fit turn to limo for me abeg.

A lot of people dont think its right but they are so cowardly that they cannot stand up to family.

No physical condition or disability will make me leave my husband. I will stay put in this marriage come what may. Not kidding here.