₦airaland Forum

nnenneigbo:
hmmmm you're so right. Osu[b] exits [/b] oooo. believe it or not

you are right. It EXITED a long time ago! LOL

Dvampire:
u don chop?

freaking funny! real african man!

~Sly~(*_*):
who? . . .

you no well!

my opinion? Edit the stories you tell him    or just shut the hell up! 

my confession is too heavy. . i'll just

if there's a persistent caller, i'll redial her number right back and ask her to quit calling my man. seriously!

@nwando
i was whisked away for a quick get away by my heartbeat!

lol @ 3 pants and tights jeans.

hello people.
I arrived in naija last week. Exciting!!!!!!!!!!!! Good to be back in the motherland.
Right now i am in Ghana. Accra to be precise. I'm loving it. nairalanders in Ghana, where art thou?! 

my being married doesnt mean you wont reveal your identity!

illusion2:

better start talking ni. i'm getting curiouser and curiouser!
you better not be boy alinco!

illusion2:
It'll be really cool to catch up with this very cool lady 'spoilt', however due to my coded I.D, I may have to kill you once you uncover the face behind 'illusion2'

I wish u a wonderful vacation.

Cheers,

who are you? sultan of brunei? Donald trump or are you the president of nigeria? Now i'm curious and want to meet you!  . Dont worry it'll be our little secret. wont tell anyone.

hitman2k:
Yeah spoilt. Would like to meet u. I live in Port Harcourt and will be in Lagos too for a week in December. but holla me at gurrano2@yahoo.com so we could arrange something.

will send you an e-mail later. 

Keen1:
Please don't get back at your husband. With prayers God can change things. I know how you feel but God will help you. You could reach me on bj654u@yahoo.com. God bless you.

prayer, prayer and then some more prayer!

davidylan:
Real women don't resort to violence. May my path be far from such marital wrecks.

God wont let you marry a woman with thighs like tree trunks. box you to death when you ask for breakfast!

souless:
Sometimes, it is imperative to adapt. If you work in a corporate world in a country whose accent is a long ways from yours then you gotta adapt. That's not to say you should overdo it, just change some key pronunciations/vowel enunciation and you're good to go.

When in Rome, do as the Romans.

you guys keep saying when in rome do as the romans. why do these oyibos not adapt our accent when they are in nigeria?  . they never feel the need to. even in nigeria people who have never stepped foot outside the country put on phony accents. i honestly could no longer listen to the radio in nigeria.Them voice jockeys sounding like they are gurgling petrol! 

Bros, na achievement to date white women now?     black people na wa.

@davidylan
apparently some people think so. and p.s shes  not white. she's "other" ! 

kembaby:
@outstrip: my irresposibility is only yr opinion, it is not my surname. we have only heard of one side of the story which is d womans side and we do not av the mans story. my advice to the poster was not to judge who is responsible or not or who started it but just to advice her to find a solution to the problem.

i am a woman and if i may be honest, we women run our mouth and it gets us into trouble.

@poster: i dnt know who you're neither do i know who your husband is, but what i am saying is that whatever happened has happened and it is time to find a solution to it and move on to the next chapter of your life. if there is a problem there is a solution to it no matter how terrible it is. what makes u think that leaving your husband would solve the problem. u av worked and laboured for 11 years and u just want to throw it in the bin just because things r not working well between u and your husband. he was not like this when u married him so u shld know that something is wrong somewhere.

men r all the same and they r babies, it is easy for someone else to tell u to leave your husband but i can bet that if they r in your shoes they wont. think of your children. many people who r victims of broken marriage would definitely tell u that they dnt like it.

your husband has wronged u and i am not rubbing his head for doing what he did, if u leave him and leave with unforgiveness, what good will it do to u. stay focused on your career, stay focus on your goals and aspirations, train your children in the way of the lord, remove your eyes from what he is doing, concentrate on being the best, ignore his actions, watever he says to u avoid fighting and confrontation, God has given u those two wonderful girls concentrate on their wellbeing and like i said keep praying for him, and don't stop talking positive things about what u want. God has given us imaginative powers above every other thing he created, imagine what u want and talk to God about it.

remember for as long as u stay in contact wit God he will never disappoint you. i am not on anybodies side, am just giving u an advice. if u ask many couples who have been married for years, u will find out that your case is not the worst and they have all come out stronger than u can imagine.

BE STRONG IN THE STRENGTH OF UR LORD.

Excuse me!  but did you not hear her say he put his hands on her? 
That right there is a deal breaker. If you are one of those who think women should stay in marriages where there is physical violence because of the kids then you should remember that you can only look after your kids if you are alive. 
Some women have been killed by abusive husbands. any attempt at communication may end in being beaten to a pulp.  there's only so much the human body can take. one day that woman may not survive a beating.
Enough said. no one just packs up and leaves just because they feel like filling up a suitcase ! They honestly believe that the marriage has gone beyond repair.
Children are not always scarred by divorce as people always assume. They are scarred by watching their fathers womanise and hit their mothers.It confuses the heck out of them. They wonder if thats love! children who grow up in abusive homes are more likely to become violent themselves. strange but true.
on a closing note. you can forgive someone who is repentant. its hard to come to a truce with someone who believes he has done no wrong and is ready to repeat his actions.It does take 2 to make a marriage work you know. people have been asking her to face her career. Give it all her energy, blah blah blah!  For years it has been the classical advise to unhappy women."at least you have your career and your children". A woman's own happiness should be sometimes considered too! 

truly his next victim. Goodluck to her!

Dorcasde:
Her husband re-married 8 months after her death.

He did what?

That's why a bad marriage to me is not something i would endure for years and years. its almost like imprisonment. with both parties miserably unhappy.after working at it and praying for a miracle and i come to the realization that it is irreparably bad then im off. i honestly would pack my things and leave. I swear i will. Life is too short for such torture.

noel76:
HMM SO MANY "BAD BELLES" IN THE HOUSE NA WA O.

@POSTER, CONGRAT ON UR ACHIEVEMENT,

achievement? hmmmmmmmmm.

debosky:
hehehehehe

my future wife is BANNED from wearing such. . .failure to comply will result in complete denial of 'abunna' for a week

cutting your nose to spite your face abi?
debo what is it with you and lingerie? you freaks are the ones making victoria secrets costly for us peasants!!

nwando:
My sister I must confess,I do wear FOTL (Fruit of the loom) sometimes for maximum coverage LOL.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Wrestling pant. Goliath pant.

nwando:
I have tried the lingerie thing@ debosky,it doesn't work when Kevin Garnet is jumping up and down on the TV screen

He chose Kevin Garnet (WHO THE HECK IS HE?) over you? What were you wearing? fruit of the loom?

ha! aloib no vex. I am planning a trip to asia soon.

true true na wetin WIFE  mean be that! 

real funny.

if you've been trying to have children all your life and that dream finally comes true at 45 you'll see things differently.

i just got back from shopping for the folks. na wa oh. This journey will bankrupt me.

where are the nairalanders in Ghana? I'll be in accra just before christmas. i need someone to cook kenke for me.

debosky:
@ nwando

just throw him a piece of lingerie, I'm sure he'll choose the sport he can 'participate' in

sleep tight spoilt

if he's smart he'll pick the indoor sports anytime. correct guy.
goodnight debosky.

dont try to understand men and sports. just have your own small tv for your own shows! I'm turning in now too. im working tomorrow. goodnight.

omoge:
make my mouth watery. me like eja shawa and shokoyokoto vegetable

Spoilt, no forget me o as you dey do the sister christmas o.

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