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I WAS JUST THERE TWO WEEKS AGO WHILE IN NIGERIA. iTS A WELCOME CHANGE BUT THE PLACE WAS CROWDED AS HECK.

are there still mother inlaws that jostle for front seat?

ha!

commitment for 16 year olds? hehehe!

I admit i laughed too when i read the 360 degrees thing. Abeg make una no kill me.. Its funny the way he put it. she obviously wasnt laughing at the womans sickness but at the way the guy described it. My sister i feel your pain.Its unfortunate that your husband will think you would rejoice at his mom's tragedy! My sister Just pack your load kia kia and run to naija for that burial. God will touch your husband's heart and he will come around you hear?

seems he is in an emotional relationship which is just as bad and harmful. why confide in a random woman when your wife is right there ejo?

so there are men that allow their crayfish friends sit in front while madam sits quietly in the back like bingo? 
Those damn tag -along friends annoy the heck out of me. wanting to go everywhere with the couple. 

olydim:
I have the most beautiful calabar girl as girl friend

didnt know having calabar girl as girlfriend is now the measure of success! I havent laughed so hard in a long time. Wonders oh! 

[quote author=~Sly~(*_*) link=topic=7136.msg1829614#msg1829614 date=1199751272]those who knew what i meant have already grabbed the point! i wont use all of me mouth to say it. . . . ^{(no touchin for 10 years geddit )}[/quote]i understood you clearly. that's why i say i am puzzled by guys' points of view most times.

[quote author=~Sly~(*_*) link=topic=7136.msg1829444#msg1829444 date=1199746647]if that happens to me . . . . .ill just have to forgive her and she'll stay with me but!!




i will NOT!! touch her for da next 10 good solid years! ^{(with that she'll kno wuz up)} [/quote]guys baffle me.

why a 'taken' man will love to get validation from a bunch of crayfish girls is beyond me. I think its an ego thing for a man to think women still find him attractive,The thing is if you let your man knows it bothers you, he'll keep doing it to annoy you.Its a mind game. If he keeps a string of friends, keep a string of male friends too.

debosky:
Thats not the point spoilt - TRUST is. If someone can deceive you for 3 whole years, what else could she have hidden?

Once there is no trust, there really isn't any point remaining in the relationship. Constant suspicion and distrust would ruin anything else they had, just like odiaseo said.

I'd rather marry someone who has slept with 10 men and has the courage and strength of character to tell me, than marry someone who would lie to me about such a thing and possibly would do worse.

if she knew he would be ok if she told the truth do you think she would have lied? she 'gave' him what she knew he wanted to hear. Lots of guys will continue to be deceived.

blueband:
This happened to a friend of mine.Exactly the same situation and the marriage packed up for this sole reason.They had dated for 3 years and she insisted on giving her "virginity" to him on their wedding day.Well,he found out she wasn't a virgin and her reply-"my mother told me to tell you I was a virgin or else you won't marry me".She suceeded in getting married to the guy,but it didn't last.They divorced less than 3 months after the wedding.

Some people are just plain schemers and stupid.Why lie or hide something to get married,thinking that once you reveal it in marriage you will be forgiven?

he married her because he thought she had a hymen?

There's an embargo on employment till after their public offer. Reliable source told me when i was in nigeria. They can collect the resume but wont act on it till after the offer which will be ending soon anyway.

i understand your concerns and its important they like and accept you. that said of course he should support his child. but if he didnt marry that woman, then she isnt his wife!

shes one of those celebs with no occupation. you really dont know what they are famous for except all the celebs they have slept with. you know what i think is hot? a woman with drive and some real talent. to original poster, keep fantasizing hopefully you get to meet her one day and join her queue .

last time i checked having a child for a man doesnt make you his wife. Did they have a traditional marriage or anything significant? you guys live in the western world far from opinions of his villagers!

see lorraine bobbit for tips on destruction of male organs!

sometimes i'll pout and pout and refuse to talk to my husband just to get my way or when i think im right. It never lasts long because he's one big sweetheart. He just tickles me silly or does something to make me laugh like stripping off all his clothes and dancing for me. Its hard to keep malice with him. He doesnt do malice.

9star:
Men will alwas cheat.

that one is a lie!

Obirin0521:
Happy New Year Spoilt! Don't have your e-add. so will keep it spare:

Met Salsera in NYC, really nice lady.

Hope you had a wonderful trip.

so you guys hooked up without me? . had a good trip. now its back to the everyday grind of work.
i have a 'dummy' email on my profile.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=84283.msg1792690#msg1792690 date=1198506491]considering she's a MARRIED woman with a kid, i don't see why she would need to post her pics on her profile.

Besides she's just looking for Nairaland people to see while she's on vacation, not a date.[/quote]Thank you oh.
Was just trying to meet nairalanders. you guys are now like family .wasnt looking to get laid. sorry!
@salsera
are you in newyork yet? would love to meet you too.  was planning a trip to ny this january. send me an e-mail.

tommyex:
congrats,but not Shell nigeria right?because they dint employ in december,

you apparently have their employment schedule.

distace matters a lot.
If there's no trust, self control and love its doomed.

Meeting on the internet , talking on the phone and exchanging emails are one thing, meeting the person in flesh and blood at least once before taking the plunge is highly adviced.

Do people still have the energy to philander? Dem get power!

[quote author=~Sly~(*_*) link=topic=103622.msg1821622#msg1821622 date=1199487947]he be superman!. . . .


but accordin to the history. . . . oduduwa didnt fall from the sky o o . . . . he came with a long chain that was attached from the sky to the ground!. . ^{just like an elevator} oduduwa don dey enjoy elevator since the oldin days!. . . . [/quote]funny