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royalfly:
So would not raise ur own kids with love and the same time being strict, given your experience? I was raised by a strict father with affectionate mother, who would explain my fathers actions and that gave me balance.

most important is love a d teach your children respect, values, discipline and less extravagance, I might be a terrible dad than my own dad but will try not to be strict at all... Though am vicious but no strict, I don't ground children

This OP na confirm Ode and I must either he doesn't have real personal problems of life or he is just starting up. Everything he wrote is utter nonsense trying to make sense... I wish I knew creating your own niche, time management and grace is the best way to success... All this epistle is jargabon

9jatriot:
This is a very important topic. We know no real formula for child upbringing but the question is which of these options has a better chance of raising kids that are morally upright?

there is which is proper connection and intitutive research right from the sensorimotor stage try and study their behavioral pattern and pray along for guidance to teach u how to raise the child properly, for me children also have brain don't beacuse u are parent not communicate with your child.

royalfly:
Every strict action must be backed up with love, if it's just being strict all the time, may be traumatic for the child. In all, being strict gives you the best kind of kids. No overly pampered child becomes a good person, check it.

there is no strict parent who show open affection. Thank God I was brought up by a strict parent but broke his rules... Me I have non chalant attitude b4 if everyone dey go right I will left..till now we still dey get issues..

They raise shiit children children who later become naive, face bigger challenges in life they can't cope they struggle to keep a relationship beacuse they were not brought up with open affection... But u see parents who aren't strict but disciplined nuture the best children but u see those our parents who believe by telling a child to sit down at home controlling the lifr of the child as if u created the child mold the useless set of children... My father is strict till now we still have verbal argument cuz he believes by being strict is a being a responsible parents...

This one even have sense at least this minister dey try small... People should be able to fill and upload basic information from comfort of there home then fix suitable date for them. Then at your convenient time move to their office for physical verification and verification of data uploaded. This will make there job easy instead of people queueing or lining up like you want beg for food.one thing I know Nigeria lacks organization and credibility recently got a teaching job which I obviously will leave once I clear my debt with loan sharks... The owner of the school is so disorganized. There is no specific time for everything. Their record keeping is bullshiit... They only care about students having As but basic things the school should have they lack... I weep for Nigeria. If my pikin go school make I bend.. If na girl she will go and learn fashion designing stylist or jewelry making, if na boy either sign him up to football academy abroad, he will go and learn skill... This country is full of unprogressive people...

MrsTwrite:
The earth has really tried.

when human beings are useless and dumb thinking they are wise due to their stupid advancement in technology, wait have they actually made the earth better or worse... I pity this igeneration... Shebi millenials and Gen Zs are complaining dey go see fire dem go see yawa when they grow up... Part of the reason I have nor brought my progeny to this life... Everything is bleeped up. From the lies to the pollution... Imagine talking about climate change and they keep flying jets that produces that x200 emissions a kabukabu truck emits... Plus the stupid waste they are releasing into the oceans... The stupid chloroform -carbon,and nonsense polymers released into the marine ecosystem. They are all stupid from Tinubu to Biden to whoever is in charge of Climate change... I am in my room I cannot breathe because of the useless smell coming from a useless comestic addict neigbour maybe na nail polish or izar she is using... Stupid people everywhere... I stopped using deodorants, and cream 5 years ago... Infact I use olive oil as my cream... Anything that contains those useless reagents from the Laboratory I ain't using... Better be wise... I am tired of these people... They are the main reason for rapid consumerism, ecocide and environmental disasters...

iammo:




Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize


Men without vices are very strict, boring and sometimes wicked


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lol small pikin dey worry u... Not all men are boring I know of someone who does none of the following and ain't boring... All those things above are for kids especially number 3 and number 2 drinking is still okay... Men who womanize gat no shame... Am not saying not having a side chick oo but humping from Toto to Toto is practical bullshiit and fastest way to contacting treponema pallidium

saphiere:
The day a woman is made to sit in Aso Rock, that day news like this would be strange in our ears.
Do you wonder why when people want to buy a Nigerian used car they prefer the one used by a woman?
Women are known to be better managers and coordinators.
This country will fair better in the hands of a woman.

over my dead body.. I have worked for women who were bosses and they almost killed never satisfied.

accordadoga29:
Na now I come dey believe say this Obasanjo share blood with those waking up their parents with sidekicks. No wonder he supported the mandate thief.

He is not an Omoluabi.

Even Tinubu the CURRENT president bowed to greet Oba of Benin

Obasanjo dey cap shiit na all those rural or egbele Obas e fit try that nonsense with, dem born Obasanjo well to tell Olu of warri or Oba of Benin to stand up greet even if he is on mrdowells e cannot reason that rubbish... Even ooni of ife cannot stand up to greet him... Baba samira, elegushi kerekere no go stand up and greet am sef... Radarada

complexstuffs:
Local IPOB cannibals who have never left his village.


You are telling a 2 term governor who has traveled all over the world in private jets how to dress when you are still looking for transport money to enter night buss to Lagos

stupid dressing canvass on blazer or suit very annoying.. Especially if they are short they look like oversized monkey in suit...

Dididrumz:
If you don't believe in other lifeforms then that's your business.

Aliens exist.

they don't Mr man don't let them fool you...

AImiron:
Their mumu fanbase go dey scream Guardiola use money dominate England and Europe, bunch of hypocrites they have the most expensive squad in the world, and they will never win any meaningful silverware this season, they will end up fighting for top4 as usual

shut up don't be an idiot he spent over 1bn at city to rebrand his squad whereas others met or spent below. The closest to pep right now is arteta followed by ten hag then klopp always use ur sense b4 u spew ur dirty trash... For Chelsea boehly has been buying players for the coaches... But only pep guardiola is the only person in the EPL that takes charge of transfer no one is close. Klopp will have to send like 3 players for the same position writing epistle why Liverpool need a player for that position before FSG will consider if they like the player or not the same applies to Man utd only ten hag is lucky to tell united chiefs I want this and that. Infcat they have tired for idiot if he cannot deliver league this season he is fool.

Iamzik:
I don't blame Obasanjo. The government lies too much. Buhari increased fuel price three times in 8 year in the name of subsidy removal, spent over 2 trillion on turnaround maintenance yet no single refinery worked. We have no business buying one litre of fuel above 200 if we have sensible leaders.

How far with the Dangote that you people said will start refining in july? They rushed to commission incompleted project just to spread short-lived propaganda.

People are tired of APC lies!!

the same thing tinubu and his cohorts are doing. Liars from pit of hell

Fafesot:
That'll stop soon..

We promise.

who go stop am mehmet stopal ni...

Thisis2raw:
Nothing sweet about death, rest on king.

human beings and their selfish desire do want to live forever. Though it pained me hate to see young and purposeful people die. Youthful exuberance AMD neglect led to his death this is common among gen z .

IconicR:
Hmm this is deep
She may be right because the world is deeper than you all see it.
I kukuma don't idolize any musician, infact I don't know many of them or their songs.

Truvelisback come let's analyze this later

she is foolish me as I dey I ready to sell my soul. This economy no reach to sell soul. If it is easy to sell soul why she never sell her own. And by the way who is gifty. Who sabi her Rema will buy her generation. She should just shut the fvck up

Albinoflash:
u self don try u dey pay something me no even dey give shishi like this ooo,if I eventually have there money I will only pay what I borrowed exactly then maybe add 1k for all there stress

exactly what I did.paid and calculated interest based on 7 days and returned their money and they want me to pay 15k interest on 27k who does that for seven days

<creditwise>Hi,your loan is 9 days overdue.Pls transfer: 19597.69 .You can pay by yourself or someone else. Lol.. This useless credit wise expect me to pay 17k interest on 28k I paid 30k after 3 days still requesting for 15k now they have increased it to 20k as late fee. Dem never see anything.

favor914:
Confused Hater, Person dey Flushing Meadows in person, you dey here they talk of Sky Sports?

Nonsensical Pauper, how many people for Ibadan know who John hamm, Matthew mcoughney, leonardo DiCaprio, charlize Theron, Sting be?

no be your fault, bitter person. Na Only Gen Zs no sabi these people, Ibadan people are still dull aha.. Backward people... Am from Ondo State and from a prestigious family... And my family name more popular than your useless Makinde... I won't say more than that. They apply sense before u talk anyhow.

Miracood2:
Until I watched the flash 2023, I never for once understood the hype behind Batman. Because dude has no super powers, neither does he have exceptional fighting skills.

But I kind of fell in love with the character after the Flash movie.

Someone should recommend a batman movie for me to watch.

Batman Begins the best batman if you want to laugh watch the star studded one very useless but funny batman and Robin gorge clooney and Jim carry.

Lol. I did not see him, sky sports did not even put camera to show his face. I saw John hamm, Matthew mcoughney, leonardo DiCaprio, charlize Theron, Sting and many more dem no sabi am. Lol. Who sabi governors of afonjas and adigunjale...

Set awon bestiality.

Great

toprealman:
If truly he is based in Atlanta and is into this lifestyle, forget him. Atlanta will give him daily dose of upgraded freebies….if you know you know.

all na for Forming OGs for his pals. Nothing a lot of guys control all these Bollywood actresses doing the same thing only that saheed is a big time fool. He purposely did it to cause trouble for Moyo. Anyways nothing dey sex tape. Na before we dey talk morality. Na woke world we dey. Moyo ride on. As for Saheed u are a disgrace to manhood. Na small pikin dey do this kind thing.

ISTP:
The internet never forgets.

10 years time, how will they feel when their kids watch the tape?

nothing dey there many americans dey do this kind thing. Abi Kim kardashian sex tape no leak. Her child knows. Nigeria and their self righteousness. Nothing dey life apart from to eat, have fun, knack, enjoy the rest na waste of time.

Slay queen. Tinubu side chick those years. She is fine though would not mind to gbench her.no be this woman talk dem go use GPS share palliative. Dumb mofos...

kaludestiny10:
I have a little girl of 7 years old that I tutor at home. This girl has the attributes and physic of an athlete. I even had to make a video of her while running because she loves to run. I always see Shan Carri Richardson in her but unfortunately, we don't have a sport center in Rivers State where such talents can be harnessed.

I thought nyesom wike like sports so no sports center in rivers. Sports is dead in Nigeria. Its a pity Nigeria is like this. If I were to be president I will use sports to fix the economy so many revenue u can generate from it.

Galaticos444:
This is d beauty of living in a country that makes your dream comes tru.if u live in a system that's working,u don't have to lie about Ur age cos everything is put in place to make u successful.it pains me when see kids with enormous talent that av potentials to b better than Ronaldo and Messi play football in my area and deep down me I know they have 1percent chance of making it professionally.to all parents reading this,if u know ur child is talented in anything,pls take he/she abroad to fulfill his/her dream and u will reap d benefit at d end

so funny and true, so many talents here wasted becos of useless Govt

Nonsense coco gauff anyways congrats to her she ain't winning it again. One season make me shine. She was highly rated 5 years ago rooted for her she was so good at 14 years thought she would be the new Williams not knowing na one wannabe.

Kingosytex:
All these and you mention Garrincha, the greatest of them all

knew I missed him. You are right

Wealthoptulent:
Brazilians are God of Soccer/football ⚽️.
Legacy remains on their so8l

yes oo Pele, Socrates, cerezo, Romario, R9, Carlos, Cafu, dinho, neymar,