₦airaland Forum

Yes, in Nigeria marriage can hinder someone's dream or even kill it, that is, if one get into it very early. From the comment i'v read i will try to analys it in two ways.

If someone finally settle down with a wrong patner, one God does not call yours
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In a situation like this the union will not be as rosy as one may have wished. Your spouse may not be in support of your ways, your ideas, your goals. Assuming u have little money before u married and this exactly is what your spouse sees in u not a true love and wen tins get hard sometime, the problem will start. U will not even have time for yourself, u will feel failed. I have seen many in this case that tins goes bad for them wen they get married. They move from rich to poor, business become sour, life changed negatively. The dream to do this or that gat hindered.
The logical idea is for one not to rush into marriage. And pray into it. It iz better for one to marry wen he/she is pleased than to marry early at 24 - 27 nd endup bad.

If someone finally settles down with the right one.
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In this case tins get rosy. one will feel successful n fufilled. But there many things u are expected of as a married person. Like being committed, focus with how to make a good family, cater for ur family, ur inlaws ur own family and many more. Achieving the dream of having 2-3 houses for urself, going to school more to improve ur standard nd so on
the logical idea here is that one should patiently hsave a secure job before marrying that right one becos any dream after that will be reduced and the only taught u will b left wt is how to get more money to keep ur family life.
Having a family life is a diff. part of life entirely.

Yoruba

[quote author=vivalavida]Hey folks,thanx for the lecture on yoruba traditions. It was quite enlightening. Yes she is a regent. But you all know that getting an oba in a yoruba land sometimes take time due to the in-fighting btw the royal family houses. She is born yoruba and married to an igbo man.In my place i.e igbo land,we believe a woman has no tribe,village,church etc till she gets married. Therefore Adetutu Adesida is now Mrs Dike,an Igbo woman.
The essence of what i am writing is for you yoruba folks to remember that @ a time,the igbo's through Mrs Dike presided over one of your kingdoms. Hahahahahaha. This same shit cant take place in Igbo land ooo. . I come from a royal family too. My grandad is an Eze[/quote

what are u saying, she is born of a Yoruba blood. She is an absolute Yoruba indigene. Her children can only be of the igbo blood. That she married an igbo man has not automatically transform her to an igbo blood except for her children.

A gut dat is lil Shy but very active on bed

+lil Shy but very active on bed

If its just for a day, am good. More than that is never done for me.

Faaaaaaabbbuuuuu ooooo

What is this old man problem. Did he think he is getting younger. OBJ u should know dat 'bi eyan ba dagba e y'ogun ja ni.'

Jumong (d only fantastic korean series)

God is answering my prayer........ arsenal are losing.
Rooney ur turn is second half.

[quote author=akpos4uall]Villas-Boas and Di Matteo were both sacked as Chelsea manager following defeats to West Brom. Mourinho is one lucky ba***d.
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Truly lucky.

The very hardest question i was ever asked.....
My ex girlfriend - a relationship i did not take serious, mother asked if i want/will marry her daughter in her presence. Its was like shock on me..... i never knew they took things so serious.

What is special in this gej. Not even inspiring to the reasoning of those u directed it to. I expected u to say"My fellow politician, Sisi had done her part in this world and gone...... now look at what she had, everything, money, cars, all. which of them did she take along with her. Let all remember dere is noting we will take when we are dead.... lets stop corruption.... et al." This i think u can never say. RIP Sisi

@OP..... you wrote; I quotes, "No one in their sane ....." And, I saw stars in a bright day atmosphere. Maybe u wouldn't had being like one of 'those' if u wrote it like... "No one in his or her sane..." Kudos, i love ur right up.

Let go there........ mou says relax

I dont see anything good in this. Africans are still parading themselves like slave. And morealso, chinese are not to be trust. The want to increase the power rate of their currency.

Like if u think most of the nigeria police need to go back to school and their parent to learn citizens rights and manner.

Now i dey enjoy this....

Na wash! From the pics..... a bag of rice does not look like an inflated object. The bag of rice in d pics is just an inflated sack. OR maybe a foam.

Na wash,,,,,, ahn ahn....... too much.

The words are bad. Improper.
Is there any difference really?
Am not sure there iz one, almost same countries are both
Most Nigerians are just people that wants to stay out of trouble. If they have a little they are okay with it.
If not so......hmmmmm.... things would have been_____

Hmm hmm!!!! it is not dis.december again cos dat wat the FG promised in January. Ten years to come Nigeria cannot have a constant/stable power supply........ it is not a curse.

Y should i go for all dis wen wen i gat d best food in Nigeria ¦¦¦¦¦¦¦¦¦ GARRI to kan

Mosquitoes n Spider

skelewu......oya fijo gbowo

i quote from the info
The president has approved within four years.
This has proof it to be lie.

Gobe nla

Money can change some people body shape n size.